More delightful wrongology. :-) Maybe our next political initiative should be called The Wrong Party. We know we are wrong about some things, we just have to learn which!
Embracing Wrongness http://intotheexpectation.blogspot.com/2012/07/embracing-wrongness.html In this brief lecture, Kathryn Schulz, poses the question, “How does it feel to be wrong?” We all know the feeling. It is usually unpleasant – embarrassing, shameful, etc. It is a feeling we try to avoid. But, Schulz points out that that feeling is not the feeling of being wrong, but the feeling of realizing we are wrong. Before we realize we are wrong, being wrong feels just like being right. She goes on to point out that while we all acknowledge that we could be wrong in theory, we mostly avoid thinking about the possibility we ourselves might actually be wrong. It is unsettling to concede that right now there are things about which I am convinced I am correct but am in fact wrong about. Of course if I realize I am wrong, I hope I will adopt a more correct view. But, at the moment I cannot think of a single thing I know about which I know I am wrong. Can you? Schulz observes that we are, “Trapped in a little bubble of feeling very right about everything.” This is, of course, presumptuous. But, trusting too much in the feeling of being on the right side of anything is also dangerous. It is dangerous to our own spirits because it is an expression of the deadly sin of pride. And it is dangerous because attachment to our own rightness causes us to treat each other badly – a failure of charity which is also deadly to the spirit. Given our habitual assumption of our own rightness – morally, politically, religiously, professionally, scientifically, or whatever – we are faced with a problem – how do we explain all those people who don’t see it our way? Schulz suggests that we typically make three “unfortunate assumptions” about those who do not agree that we are right. We assume they are: 1. Ignorant – they don’t know the facts that we know 2. Idiots – if it becomes clear that they know the facts, but still resist our rightness, we assume they are not smart enough to draw the right conclusion from those facts. 3. Evil – if it is clear they know the facts and are actually quite smart, we resort to the assumption that they are deliberately misconstruing things for malevolent purposes. I would add two more unfortunate assumptions that seem pretty common: 4. Fearful – those who disagree with me are afraid of what it would mean for them if I am right. 5. Biased – informed, bright, and well-meaning though they might be, those who don’t see things my way must be blinded by biases that prevent them from coming to the proper conclusion. It is not hard to find examples of these unfortunate assumptions. They are pervasive in our political discourse. And each of them shows up regularly in church debates. The problem is it is always easy to see how those with whom we disagree make these assumptions. It is harder to see the same assumptions in those with whom we agree. And it is almost impossible to see them in ourselves. The truth is (unless I am wrong) some configuration of all of these assumptions is true of each of us all the time. If we want to resist pride and cultivate humility, we will accept the reality that we are wrong. We will look to our own ignorance, lack of intelligence, maliciousness, fear, and prejudice. And confess them. “There is no worse screen to block out the Spirit than confidence in our own intelligence. “ – John Calvin If we want to live in charity, we will resist the temptation to bear false witness against our neighbor. Rather than making the “unfortunate assumptions” about those with whom we disagree, we will begin by assuming the opposite of those assumptions. And we will embrace with sincerity the possibility that we are the ones who are wrong. I suggest that Christians are both bound to practice such humility and charity and freed to do so. We are bound by the commands of our Lord to do so. We are freed to do so by the fundamental reality of grace that frees us from the obsession with being right and the fear of being wrong. Perhaps this is what it means to speak the truth in love. (Ephesians 4:15). The truth - as best I understand it and sincerely confessing that I could very well be wrong In love – with gentleness and reverence toward those who I am trying to persuade (1 Peter 3:15). In love – which, by any Christian account, is more important than being right. (via Instapaper) Sent from my iPhone -- Centroids: The Center of the Radical Centrist Community <[email protected]> Google Group: http://groups.google.com/group/RadicalCentrism Radical Centrism website and blog: http://RadicalCentrism.org
