H-Net* Tips

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik gremmie


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[10 Tips] How to be a Successful Husband
Prepared by Muhammad Alshareef
 
 
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas?  Just like the 
husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up 
for her too.  Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always 
start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
 
2. Use the cutest names for your wife
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that 
they loved.  Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names 
that hurt their feelings.
 
3. Don’t treat her like a fly
We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us.  Similarly, a wife 
will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does 
something to ‘bug’ him.  Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she 
does and focus on that.
 
4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!
This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would 
see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu ‘anhunn.  It’s a technique 
that few Muslim men have mastered.
 
5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah.  Imagine life 
with her constantly seeing you smiling.  Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah 
- sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if 
he was fasting.
 
6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!
Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a 
dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is 
that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!
 
7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then 
go and do them again.
It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure.  You don’t have to play a 
guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
 
8. Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her.
Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives.  Rasul Allah - sal 
Allahu alayhi wa sallam - set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi 
Allahu ‘anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel.  He 
wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
 
9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife
Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - 
radi Allahu ‘anha - in the desert.  When was the last time we did something like that?
 
10. Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: “The 
best of you are those who treat their families the best.  And I am the best amongst 
you to my family.”
Try to be the best!
 
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall - to make your 
marriage successful.
 
 
And Allah ta’ala knows best
 
 
[10 Tips] How to be a Successful Wife
Prepared by Muhammad Alshareef
 
 
10. Use your ‘Fitnah’ to win the heart of your husband
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with.  Use the beauty Allah - 
Azza wa Jal - has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.
 
9. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a 
dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what 
would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.
 
8. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them
The Qur’an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics.  Such 
as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc.  
Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing 
to your husband.
 
7. Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.
>From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and 
>bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an.  As a wife, continue 
>to use the jewelry that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.
 
6. Joke and play games with your husband.
A mans secret: they seek women who are lighthearted and have a sense of humor. As 
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told J

Re: H-Net* Re: AL-GHAZALI VS THE WAHHABIS

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik Abdul Rahman


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Ini semua cakap2 orang yang "high".


> Aslkm,
>
> Ini Wahabee Rahman kuetiau tak habis habis lagi buat fitnah ingat dah mati
> dah..dah buat surat Wasiat ke belum???.. Dulu kamu Rahman kata atas nama
> Syirik maqam Nabi Mohammad SAW patut di hapuskan..maqam kamu pun patut juga
> di hapuskan juga. Sesat macam tok guru kamu tempah neraka jahanam! nak
> musnahkan maqam Nabi yang di kasihi berjuta umat Islam.
>
> Bapak Wahabee Kamu Syeikh Abdul Qadir Madelee "anak durhaka" sibuk jual taik
> minyak di Malaysia di biayai Saudi Arabia. Berita baru dari Saudi Al-Faad
> Al-Saud sponsor Al-Wahabee dengar kata perempuan gundik yang dia zina
> rupa-rupa anak dia sendiri dari Isteri entah yang mana. Lalu jatuh sakit nak
> mampus!! asyik zikir America!! America..!!. Dia kata dia Islam tapi baik
> sangat dengan yahudi America, para mubaligh Wahabee di bayar dengan duit
> yang lumayan. En.  Rahman dapat duit dari Saud Ke??  Wahabee Riyadh lagi
> best.. nanti cerita lain sebab ada dapat berita baru dari Riyadh.
>
> So Rahman salafiyah wahabiah dah buat surat wasiat ke belum,ini bukan
> maudhu' ini sohih lagi sohih, bukan dhaee atau pun dhaif', Tembelang Wahabee
> dah di ketahui oleh dunia..nak cerita panjang-panjang pun buang masa. Kita
> kata A dia kata B, dia kan cari jalan nak B juga. Modal dia maudhu', dhaee,
> dhaif, Ulama ni tak betul ada hadis madhu' bila ada bukti ohhh dia kata tak
> sahih ... dia baca kitab AL-Ghazali ohh ada hadis madhu' sebab ada Ulama dia
> kata maudhu', di bicarakan secara terbuka dia takut!!  Begitulah di Mekatul
> Mukaramah setiap hari, satu tiang Wahabee sambil sembahyang goyang badan
> garu telur!,
> satu tiang Ulama Ahlil Bait, keturunan Rasullah Ben Alawi di halau ke
> pinggiran Mekah, bila Saud and Co. Iblis terdesak di panggil Alawi balik.
>
> Kesimpulannya WAHABEE DAN YAHUDI sama perangai. Tidak salah kalau di kata
> WAHABEE di biayai oleh YAHUDI Laknattullah sebab dari sejarah buktinya ada
> SAH semasa pemerintahan British!
>
> Haii Rahman Wahabiah dah buat Surat Wasiat ke belum??? Ziarah maqam kamu
> SYIRIK (kita pakai hadith sohih dia) mana tahu esok atau lusa kamu di
> hampiri Ma'alaikatul maut??
>
> salam..
>
> >From: Abdul Rahman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >To: Sidi Shariff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >CC: minyak 7 sirih <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, [EMAIL PROTECTED],
> >[EMAIL PROTECTED],[EMAIL PROTECTED],
> >[EMAIL PROTECTED],[EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >Subject: H-Net* Re: AL-GHAZALI VS THE WAHHABIS
> >Date: Wed, 18 Jul 2001 21:48:49 +0800
> >
> >
> >
> >Sidi Shariff wrote:
> >
> > > --- Abdul Rahman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > >
> > > > Hakikatnya, ulama2 seluruh dunia telah mula menerima MANHAJ
> > > > SALAFIYAH
> > > > sebagai
> > > > pegangan utama kerana KEKUATAN HUJJAH mereka.
> > >
> > > Maka Wahhabi pun merasa kononnya telah mengikuti para Salafu Salih,
> > > namun pada asasnya mereka tidak menepati methodology tokoh2 salaf itu
> > > sendiri. Sebelum Ibn taymiyyah dan ibn Qayyim tidak ada perkataan
> > > Salafiyah, cuma yang ada madzhab Salaf asSalihin. Kekuatan hujah yang
> > > mereka laungkan adalah berasaskan tafsiran sesat ibn Taymiyah yang
> > > pernah dikafirkan oleh para ulama' sunni. So much ado over nothing!
> > >
> >
> >Iye ke? Bagaimana dengan perkataan2 Sufyan At Tsauri, Sufyan Al Uyanah
> >dan BANYAK LAGI kata ulama2 yang besar2 sebelum Ibnu Taimiyyah dan Ibnu
> >Qayyim.
> >
> >Ini semua hanyalah KATA2 kosong yang cuba dipromosikan oleh AS SAQQAF dan
> >kuncu2nya.
> >Untuk pengethauan saudara, di jordan As Saqqaf ini ditolak denganRAMAINYA
> >oleh orang2 Islam
> >di Jordan dan Syam.  Sekarang dia cuba jual minyak di Malaysia pula.
> >
> >Anyways kalau kita lihat pegangan Syeikh Ahmad As Sirhindi dengan Ibnu
> >Taimiyyah atas dasar Tasauf, kedua2nya
> >agak sama.  Sedangkan As Sirhindi ini adalah PEMIMPIN TARIQAT AHMADIYYAH.
> >
> > >
> > > > Manakala Wahabi pula, walaupun ditentang tetapi seluruh Malaysia
> > > > orang
> > > > masih menghantar
> > > > anak2 mereka belajar di Mekkah dan Madinah.
> > >
> > > Sebahagian besar orang Melayu masih tidak nampak akan bahaya yang
> > > menanti anak-anak mereka di Haramain (Wahhabi stronghold). Modus
> > > operandi Wahhabi berjalan bagaikan semut hitam pada malam hari. Kalau
> > > mereka tahu hakikat tentang penyingkiran semua ulama' Sunni
> > > (madzhab4)oleh the Wahhabis, sudah tentu hati2 ibu bapa akan tawar
> > > untuk menghantar anak-anak mereka berlajar di sana. Kalau mereka
> > > dapat bersua dengan Prof. Muhammad Alawi al-Maliki al-Hasani yang
> > > pernah dipukul oleh Wahhabi

H-Net* BLACK METAL TAK SAMPAI KELANTAN (Harian Metro)

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik Hassan, Haslim



BLACK METAL TAK SAMPAI KELANTAN
Oleh Torek Sulong
23 July 2001 
 
PASIR PUTEH: Majlis Guru Besar (MGB) Kelantan 
mengesahkan murid sekolah rendah di negeri ini bebas daripada pengaruh kumpulan 
muzik Black Metal.Yang Dipertua MGB, Awang Mohamad, berkata perkembangan 
seumpama itu berjaya dikawal berikutan kurangnya pengedaran kaset dan cakera 
padat kumpulan muzik itu di pasaran.Bagaimanapun, katanya, pihaknya sedia 
bekerjasama dengan polis untuk bertindak menangani pengaruh aliran muzik itu di 
kalangan murid sekolah di negeri ini sebagai langkah berwaspada.Katanya, MGB 
tidak menafikan terdapat segelintir murid yang meminati aliran muzik ini sekadar 
untuk berhibur dan ia juga perlu dibendung di peringkat awal.“Murid sekolah 
rendah di negeri ini bebas daripada pengaruh aliran muzik Barat ini, tetapi 
masih memerlukan tindakan drastik semua guru besar, guru disiplin dan kaunseling 
sekolah melaksanakan pelan tindakan.“Ibu bapa perlu memikul tanggungjawab 
sepenuhnya termasuk memastikan minat dan pergaulan anak di luar kawasan 
sekolah,” katanya ketika ditemui di majlis Mesyuarat Agung MGB Pasir Puteh, di 
sini, semalam.Katanya, ibu bapa juga mesti bekerjasama dengan guru dalam 
membentuk sahsiah murid dan tidak menafikan laporan sekolah sekiranya anak 
mereka disenaraikan sebagai murid bermasalah.Awang berkata, guru disiplin 
juga mesti mengemas kini rekod salah laku dan maklumat murid baru yang masuk ke 
sekolah masing-masing bagi mengesan pengaruh itu tidak dianuti.Beliau 
berkata, kerjasama polis perlu untuk menangani salah laku murid termasuk 
membantu meningkatkan penguatkuasaan dan pencegahan ponteng sekolah, lepak di 
pasar raya, merokok dan sebagainya.Katanya, perkembangan negatif membabitkan 
Black Metal berpunca daripada pengaruh rakan sebaya yang pada awalnya hanya 
untuk berhibur.Beliau berkata, sikap fanatik menyebabkan aliran muzik dan 
kumpulan yang diagung-agungkan itu menjadi anutan yang bercanggah dengan budaya, 
adat resam serta agama.“Adalah lebih baik anak-anak diberi pendedahan secara 
positif termasuk memandu mereka meminati aliran muzik yang bersopan, berbudaya 
dan mencintai identiti sendiri dengan kekuatan jati diri bangsa Melayu yang 
kukuh,” katanya.
 
http://www.emedia.com.my/z/Current_News/HM/Monday/National/20010723012507


Re: H-Net* Re: AL-GHAZALI VS THE WAHHABIS

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik minyak 7 sirih


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Aslkm,

Ini Wahabee Rahman kuetiau tak habis habis lagi buat fitnah ingat dah mati 
dah..dah buat surat Wasiat ke belum???.. Dulu kamu Rahman kata atas nama 
Syirik maqam Nabi Mohammad SAW patut di hapuskan..maqam kamu pun patut juga 
di hapuskan juga. Sesat macam tok guru kamu tempah neraka jahanam! nak 
musnahkan maqam Nabi yang di kasihi berjuta umat Islam.

Bapak Wahabee Kamu Syeikh Abdul Qadir Madelee "anak durhaka" sibuk jual taik 
minyak di Malaysia di biayai Saudi Arabia. Berita baru dari Saudi Al-Faad 
Al-Saud sponsor Al-Wahabee dengar kata perempuan gundik yang dia zina 
rupa-rupa anak dia sendiri dari Isteri entah yang mana. Lalu jatuh sakit nak 
mampus!! asyik zikir America!! America..!!. Dia kata dia Islam tapi baik 
sangat dengan yahudi America, para mubaligh Wahabee di bayar dengan duit 
yang lumayan. En.  Rahman dapat duit dari Saud Ke??  Wahabee Riyadh lagi 
best.. nanti cerita lain sebab ada dapat berita baru dari Riyadh.

So Rahman salafiyah wahabiah dah buat surat wasiat ke belum,ini bukan 
maudhu' ini sohih lagi sohih, bukan dhaee atau pun dhaif', Tembelang Wahabee 
dah di ketahui oleh dunia..nak cerita panjang-panjang pun buang masa. Kita 
kata A dia kata B, dia kan cari jalan nak B juga. Modal dia maudhu', dhaee, 
dhaif, Ulama ni tak betul ada hadis madhu' bila ada bukti ohhh dia kata tak 
sahih ... dia baca kitab AL-Ghazali ohh ada hadis madhu' sebab ada Ulama dia 
kata maudhu', di bicarakan secara terbuka dia takut!!  Begitulah di Mekatul 
Mukaramah setiap hari, satu tiang Wahabee sambil sembahyang goyang badan 
garu telur!,
satu tiang Ulama Ahlil Bait, keturunan Rasullah Ben Alawi di halau ke 
pinggiran Mekah, bila Saud and Co. Iblis terdesak di panggil Alawi balik.

Kesimpulannya WAHABEE DAN YAHUDI sama perangai. Tidak salah kalau di kata 
WAHABEE di biayai oleh YAHUDI Laknattullah sebab dari sejarah buktinya ada 
SAH semasa pemerintahan British!

Haii Rahman Wahabiah dah buat Surat Wasiat ke belum??? Ziarah maqam kamu 
SYIRIK (kita pakai hadith sohih dia) mana tahu esok atau lusa kamu di 
hampiri Ma'alaikatul maut??

salam..




>From: Abdul Rahman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>To: Sidi Shariff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>CC: minyak 7 sirih <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, [EMAIL PROTECTED], 
>[EMAIL PROTECTED],[EMAIL PROTECTED], 
>[EMAIL PROTECTED],[EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>Subject: H-Net* Re: AL-GHAZALI VS THE WAHHABIS
>Date: Wed, 18 Jul 2001 21:48:49 +0800
>
>
>
>Sidi Shariff wrote:
>
> > --- Abdul Rahman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> >
> > > Hakikatnya, ulama2 seluruh dunia telah mula menerima MANHAJ
> > > SALAFIYAH
> > > sebagai
> > > pegangan utama kerana KEKUATAN HUJJAH mereka.
> >
> > Maka Wahhabi pun merasa kononnya telah mengikuti para Salafu Salih,
> > namun pada asasnya mereka tidak menepati methodology tokoh2 salaf itu
> > sendiri. Sebelum Ibn taymiyyah dan ibn Qayyim tidak ada perkataan
> > Salafiyah, cuma yang ada madzhab Salaf asSalihin. Kekuatan hujah yang
> > mereka laungkan adalah berasaskan tafsiran sesat ibn Taymiyah yang
> > pernah dikafirkan oleh para ulama' sunni. So much ado over nothing!
> >
>
>Iye ke? Bagaimana dengan perkataan2 Sufyan At Tsauri, Sufyan Al Uyanah
>dan BANYAK LAGI kata ulama2 yang besar2 sebelum Ibnu Taimiyyah dan Ibnu
>Qayyim.
>
>Ini semua hanyalah KATA2 kosong yang cuba dipromosikan oleh AS SAQQAF dan
>kuncu2nya.
>Untuk pengethauan saudara, di jordan As Saqqaf ini ditolak denganRAMAINYA
>oleh orang2 Islam
>di Jordan dan Syam.  Sekarang dia cuba jual minyak di Malaysia pula.
>
>Anyways kalau kita lihat pegangan Syeikh Ahmad As Sirhindi dengan Ibnu
>Taimiyyah atas dasar Tasauf, kedua2nya
>agak sama.  Sedangkan As Sirhindi ini adalah PEMIMPIN TARIQAT AHMADIYYAH.
>
> >
> > > Manakala Wahabi pula, walaupun ditentang tetapi seluruh Malaysia
> > > orang
> > > masih menghantar
> > > anak2 mereka belajar di Mekkah dan Madinah.
> >
> > Sebahagian besar orang Melayu masih tidak nampak akan bahaya yang
> > menanti anak-anak mereka di Haramain (Wahhabi stronghold). Modus
> > operandi Wahhabi berjalan bagaikan semut hitam pada malam hari. Kalau
> > mereka tahu hakikat tentang penyingkiran semua ulama' Sunni
> > (madzhab4)oleh the Wahhabis, sudah tentu hati2 ibu bapa akan tawar
> > untuk menghantar anak-anak mereka berlajar di sana. Kalau mereka
> > dapat bersua dengan Prof. Muhammad Alawi al-Maliki al-Hasani yang
> > pernah dipukul oleh Wahhabi semata-mata kerana mengajar, maka lebih2
> > lah mereka membenci Wahhabi.
>
>Kalau mereka tahu sebab apa PRof itu dipukul, nescaya mereka tidak marah.
>
>Anyways, yang menghantar anak2 ke M

Re: H-Net* Fwd: Fw: No h/p at petrol station

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik kauli


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> Subject: Fwd: Fw: No h/p at petrol station
> Date: Sun, 22 Jul 2001 18:36:21 -0700 (PDT)
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> Subject: Fwd: Fw: No h/p at petrol station
> Date: Sat, 21 Jul 2001 21:32:41 +0800
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> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> >From: Nirmala Ramamoorthy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >To: "'yin yin'" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, neeta nair <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >Subject: Fw: No h/p at petrol station
> >Date: Fri, 20 Jul 2001 12:05:00 +0800
> >
> >
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Even if you're NOT USING it keep it in the car.
> > >> > > >There have been 3 cases so far:-
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Case 1 (verified) - 2 months ago at a Shell
> > >> > > >petrol station in Bandar Sri Damansara. The car
> > >> > > >owner put his handphone on the boot and started pumping.
> > >> > > >The phone rang and the car caught fire from the fumes
> > >> > > >coming out of the tank.
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Case 2 - A man got his face burnt while talking
> > >> > > >on the phone as he was pumping petrol.
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Case 3 - A man burnt his crotch area because the
> > >> > > >phone was in his pants pocket and rang while
> > >> > > >pumping petrol.
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Using a hands-free WILL NOT reduce the risk.
> > >> > > >KEEP IT IN THE CAR. Almost all phones will
> > >> > > >indicate "Missed Calls" & the number. So why take the risk?
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >Apparently it is the key pad or ringer that
> > >> > > >produces a small amount of electricity spark,
> > >> > > >enough to ignite the petrol fumes. Please take note and
> > >> > > >forward this to your friends. It ain't no joke!
> > >> > > >
> > >> > > >#Pls fwd to all ur friends!!!
> > >> > > >
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H-Net* SIfat 20

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik hayati . b . hussien


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Assalmualaikum,

I was reading a book on Sifat 20 at home last night and I'm interested 
to share the knowledge with my English spoken friend. Can anybody in 
this newsgroup please forward me a english version of it.

Thank you for your helps,
Hayati 


 
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2001-07-22 Terurut Topik nik nik


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>From: Nirmala Ramamoorthy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>To: "'yin yin'" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, neeta nair <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>Subject: Fw: No h/p at petrol station
>Date: Fri, 20 Jul 2001 12:05:00 +0800
>
>
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Even if you're NOT USING it keep it in the car.
> >> > > >There have been 3 cases so far:-
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Case 1 (verified) - 2 months ago at a Shell
> >> > > >petrol station in Bandar Sri Damansara. The car
> >> > > >owner put his handphone on the boot and started pumping.
> >> > > >The phone rang and the car caught fire from the fumes
> >> > > >coming out of the tank.
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Case 2 - A man got his face burnt while talking
> >> > > >on the phone as he was pumping petrol.
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Case 3 - A man burnt his crotch area because the
> >> > > >phone was in his pants pocket and rang while
> >> > > >pumping petrol.
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Using a hands-free WILL NOT reduce the risk.
> >> > > >KEEP IT IN THE CAR. Almost all phones will
> >> > > >indicate "Missed Calls" & the number. So why take the risk?
> >> > > >
> >> > > >Apparently it is the key pad or ringer that
> >> > > >produces a small amount of electricity spark,
> >> > > >enough to ignite the petrol fumes. Please take note and
> >> > > >forward this to your friends. It ain't no joke!
> >> > > >
> >> > > >#Pls fwd to all ur friends!!!
> >> > > >
> >> > > >PN HASNAH OSMAN
> >> > > >PUSAT PENGAJIAN SAINS KIMIA
> >> > > >UNIVERSITI SAINS MALAYSIA
> >> > > >11800 USM.PULAU PINANG
> >> > > >Tel:04-6577888  ext: 3558
> >>
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Re: H-Net* dapatkan pengalaman dan pandangan

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik fikir


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Bagi saya le.. kadang-kadang proses ni jadi berat sebelah kerana salah
siisteri sendiri. Kalau dah didera, pegilah buat medical check-up dan buat
laporan kat balai polis. Jadi isteri ni ada bukti kalau nak mintak fasakh..
Catitkan juga dalam diari/buku catatan semua nama-nama saksi yang melihat
kejadian dera ni (kalau ada lah..), tarikh, pukul berapa... Sekarang ni
kalau masuk mahkamah semua nak kene bukti... bukan kita boleh main cakap
mulut je...

Lagi satu, kadang-kadang perempuan ni kasik muka sangat kat suaminya
(mungkin kerana tidak mempunyai sumber pendapatan dan fikirkan tentang
anak-anak)... kalaupun dia janji tak buat lagi, laporkan jugak pada polis..
janji mulut tak semua boleh percaya... Ini sebagai langkah2 keselamatan
kalau2 dia buat lagik lain kali, jadi kes ni akan berat ke isteri.

Kalau nak ambik lawyer tak de duit, pegi Biro Bantuan Guaman.

Wanita kene tahu hak dia dan prosedur undang-undang yang terlibat dengan
perkahwinan sebelum melangkah ke alam perkahwinan lagi...

wallahu'alam.


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H-Net* Murid-murid Malaysia tempat keempat terbaik pertandingan matematik

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik Hassan, Haslim



>>
``Murid-murid itu ialah Tan Ju Shua dari Sekolah 
Rendah Jenis Kebangsaan Cina (SRJKC) Kwang Hwa, Pulau Pinang, Lim Chern Wei dari 
SRJKC Lick Hung, Selangor dan Chuah Wei Jian dari SRJKC Keat Hwa, Kedah,'' 
katanya.
>
 
Cuba 
perhatikan, kesemua 
murid-murid terbaik dari Malaysia adalah 
dari SRJK Cina. Saya pernah diberitahu oleh kenalan berbangsa Cina 
iaitu tahap matematik Tahun 1 di sekolah SRJK Cina sama dengan tahap matematik 
Tahun 3 disekolah kebangsaan.
 
Bagaimana 
anak-anak murid melayu nak maju sedangkan tahap pendidikan disekolah kebangsaan 
(yang mana kebanyakan pelajarnya adalah melayu) jauh ketinggalan berbanding 
dengan tahap pendidikan di SRJK Cina?
Ketinggalan 
anak-anak melayu tidakkah akan mencerminkan nasib mereka akan 
datang?
 
Dan kenapa 
pemimpin-pemimpin kita asyik menyalahkan masyarakat melayu sedangkan mereka 
(pemimpin yang juga melayu) tidak meletakkan keutamaan kepada sistem pendidikan 
kita???
(Sila lihat e-mail 
bertajuk: RE: H-Net* Mahader hina melayu lagi bertarikh 
20-Julai-2001).

Murid-murid Malaysia tempat keempat terbaik 
pertandingan matematik
SEPANG 22 Julai - Pasukan Murid-Murid Malaysia 
menduduki tempat keempat terbaik di dunia dalam Pertandingan Matematik 
Antarabangsa Sekolah Rendah Po Leung Kuk 2001, Hong Kong, baru-baru 
ini.
Juara dimenangi oleh pasukan Sofia dari Bulgaria, 
kedua daripada pasukan Texas, Amerika Syarikat dan ketiga oleh pasukan Bulgaria 
B.
Jurulatih pasukan negara, Yusri Bappu, berkata, tiga 
daripada lapan peserta negara berjaya menduduki tempat Ketiga Kepujian peringkat 
Persembahan Individu dalam pertandingan yang bermula 15 Julai lalu.
``Murid-murid itu ialah Tan Ju Shua dari Sekolah 
Rendah Jenis Kebangsaan Cina (SRJKC) Kwang Hwa, Pulau Pinang, Lim Chern Wei dari 
SRJKC Lick Hung, Selangor dan Chuah Wei Jian dari SRJKC Keat Hwa, Kedah,'' 
katanya.
Beliau berkata demikian kepada Utusan sewaktu 
ditemui sejurus selepas tiba di Lapangan Terbang Antarabangsa Kuala Lumpur 
(KLIA), di sini, malam tadi.
Pertandingan tahunan ini, katanya disertai oleh 29 
pasukan daripada 16 buah negara sementara Malaysia menghantar dua pasukan iaitu 
Malaysia A dan B dengan masing-masing dianggotai oleh empat peserta.
Kesemua peserta negara, katanya, merupakan murid 
tahun enam daripada lapan buah sekolah rendah seluruh negara yang dipilih 
selepas melalui tiga peringkat saringan bermula dengan 70 orang pada Mei tahun 
lalu.
Selepas itu, fasa kedua menyaksikan hanya 50 orang 
peserta berjaya dan pada fasa ketiga hanya 36 orang sebelum Kementerian 
Pendidikan menyenarai pendek lapan orang sahaja yang terbaik bagi mewakili 
negara ke pertandingan itu.
Kebiasaannya, Kementerian Pendidikan akan memilih 
para peserta untuk tahun akan datang bermula Mei tahun sebelumnya memandangkan 
pertandingan berprestij itu berlangsung sekitar bulan Julai setiap 
tahun.
``Lebih menarik buat kali pertama, selain tujuh orang 
peserta keturunan Cina, seorang peserta Melayu turut terpilih mewakili negara 
iaitu Haider Hashamuddin dari Sekolah Kebangsaan Seafield di Subang, Selangor,'' 
katanya.
Menurutnya, semangat kerjasama berpasukan yang cukup 
tinggi pada setiap peserta negara membolehkan pasukan negara menduduki tempat 
keempat terbaik di dunia selain merupakan pasukan terbaik di rantau Asia 
Tenggara.
Turut mengiringi mereka ialah panel hakim, Heng Kow 
Keah dari Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan (SMK) Sungai Petani, Kedah; Tan Goon Sim 
dari SMK Tanjung Sepat, Selangor dan jurulatih Mohd. Zainol Ahmad dari Jabatan 
Pendidikan Selangor.
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H-Net* Data recover

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik amri


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Assalamaulaikum,

Minta tolong saudara/i yang ada software untuk recover data dari hard disk
yang kena virus,
tak boleh boot dan baca kecuali dengan fdisk dan format, jadikan slave cmos
boleh detect tapi tak leh nak acces/read.

any idea plez

jzkk


 
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H-Net* forum pengguna kereta proton

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik Harun Aminurrashid


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H-Net* FW: FW: [stfoga] PLEASE DO NOT DELETE WITHOUT READING TILL THE EN D

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik norhadi


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> -Original Message-
> From: Shamsinar bt Shafie
> Sent: Friday, July 13, 2001 8:58 AM
> To:   Abdul Hayar @ Abdul Khair; Abdul Latiff Abd. Aziz; Abdul
Samad
> Bahari; Ahmad Jaffri Ali @ Ramli; Amran bin Abdul Hamid; Asmail bin
> Othman; Aspahani Mat Isa; Che Puteh Daud; Chew See Jan; Dalilah Yusoff;
> Derani bin Baharum; Fadzaillah bin Supar; Fahimah Abu Bakar; Goh Choon
> Aik; Jauriyah Shamsuddin; Ku Zaleha bt Ku Iskandar; Lydia Kamis; Mazlifah
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> Subject:   FW: FW: [stfoga] PLEASE DO NOT DELETE WITHOUT READING
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>
> -Original Message-
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> >To: [EMAIL PROTECTED], [EMAIL PROTECTED],
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> >> >>Please forward to anybody else, you might save someone's life.
> >> >>
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H-Net* Tanda2 Penagihan Dadah Remaja

2001-07-22 Terurut Topik salamsejahtera


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Assalamu'alaikum,

Dewasa ini, proses membesarkan anak-anak menjadi semakin mencabar. Satu daripada 
cabaran yang paling besar ialah penyalahgunaan dadah di kalangan anak-anak remaja. 
Justeru, mencegahnya daripada terjadi lebih baik daripada memulihkan ketagihan. Apakah 
tanda-tandanya anak-anak yang ketagihan dadah?

Terdapat satu guidelines yang saya temui di laman http://www.teenswithproblems.com

Saya pastekannya disini untuk kebaikan bersama terutama bagi anda yang ada anak 
remaja. Juga boleh dibaca di:

http://www.teenswithproblems.com/drugabuse.html

Wassalam.
Nota kaki: Keujudan laman ini menunjukkan prihatin dan inisiatif yang tangga di 
kalangan masyarakat barat dalam usaha menolong masyarakat mereka. Elok juga jika ada 
laman sebegini dalam Bahasa Melayu untuk kebaikan rakyat Malaysia.

<><><><><><><><><>
INTRODUCTION -  
What Is This Page About? 
Every day, our kids have to make choices that we, as parents, never even dreamed about 
when we were kids. Peer pressure is a powerful thing, and many times, our kids will 
reluctantly go along with the crowd and do things that they are not comfortable with 
and know are harmful in order to gain acceptance. However, if this behavior repeats 
itself, over time it will manifest itself in addiction. This can lead to serious 
behavioral, emotional and health problems, with the symptoms of drug abuse mimicking 
attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), bipolar illness or major depression, 
which may be misdiagnosed if the care provider does not know of an existing substance 
abuse problem. 

As parents, how can we tell if our children are abusing substances? This is a question 
many parents ask themselves when their child is having difficulties. Unfortunately, 
too many parents really don't want to know the answer, because this is one subject 
that can be too scary, frustrating and guilt-laden to deal with. They may ask the 
right questions and will even do a little digging around to come up with answers, but 
then will conclude that there is not a problem and will ignore all the signs and 
symptoms of addiction that their child actually manifests. 

When my child was having multiple problems, I discovered to my dismay that he was 
obtaining many of the substances he was abusing right in our own house and that these 
household products can cause very serious brain damage. I have detailed information in 
the paragraphs below on some of the things our kids are up to that we might never 
suspect. 

Who am I? I am not a doctor, social worker, therapist, etc. I am a parent who works in 
the medical field, who happens to have a large family in which addiction has played a 
huge role. I have dealt with substance abuse issues with five of my own children, 
nieces and nephews, friends of my kids, and I, myself, am a recovered alcoholic. So I 
am speaking to you from experience and from the heart, to try to let you know about 
the some of the things that I didn't know about until it was too late. Hopefully what 
I have to say will give you some of the knowledge you need to make the best decisions 
for your own child. 

DISCLAIMER: The things of which I speak below have been witnessed by me and have also 
been confirmed by talking with teens outside of my family. I assume no responsibility 
for any untoward event that may occur as a result of any parent using this 
information. This site is not meant to take the place of a doctor, psychiatrist, or 
counselor. If your child is having serious problems, you should consult with a 
professional. The sole purpose of the information below is to inform parents about 
some of the little known substances our teens are sometimes abusing. 

What are some of the signs to look for?

CHANGE IN PERSONALITY -  
Your loving child turns mean. 
This can happen with the onset of puberty, but it is much worse when there is 
substance abuse going on. Do you feel like no matter what you say or do, you just 
can't win? Are you afraid or reluctant to confront your child due to violent outbursts 
or reactions from them when you attempt to inquire about any part of their lives? Just 
remember, when a kid is backed into a corner, he may have discovered that the best 
defense is an offense, and many teens, particularly boys, find that by coming back 
with loud yelling, they can be very intimidating to their mothers. Suspect drug use if 
your child has lately become very irritable, unpleasant to or bullying of other family 
members, very easy to provoke, starts to use a lot of profanity, seems tired and worn 
out a lot of