Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-02 Thread ishita kapoor
dear kanchan madam,
osama bin laden  didn't have blind parents.
You have generalized simple coincidence

On 7/2/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote:
 same is applicable on sighted parents.

 -Original Message-
 From: Amar Jain
 Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 10:30 AM
 To: accessindia
 Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind

 partners

 My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind
 their children would become criminal.

 I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal
 with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of
 blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a
 point of time.

 And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able
 to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is
 not to say that all do the same.

 So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional
 reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame
 anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities.

 Regards,
 --
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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread bhawani shankar verma
majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say 
that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and 
science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is 
studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this 
purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are 
educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children 
then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind 
partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who 
are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 
10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind 
cummunity.



-Original Message- 
From: Amar Jain

Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind 
partners


Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. 
blind.


Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to
whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not.

To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner
would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the
issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you
may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of
the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your
daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be
explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind
partner at that basic level.

But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That
has got nothing to do with disability per se.

It also depends how well you can play your role in that other
partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted
partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be
over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married
life. Remember, he is your  companion not a servant or assistant.

Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the
issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial
resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves
have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the
later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards
the answering the society, or anything else for that matter.

At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never
like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in
life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can
only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over
dependent on her.

The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is
that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And
I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are
unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course
some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like
Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to
be tackled appropriately.

Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and
foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone.
Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are
looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted.

Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of
being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can
then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability
related challenges need to be discussed not only between the
individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if
any.

If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you
are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big
problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise,
the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related
challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues in future.

Nikita diii is just one exceptional example. maintaining yourself as a
girl of that kind despite blindness also is a big thing to happen! But
of course city, education, family and all plays a big role in that
personality with which one comes out as an individual.

Regards,
--
Amar Jain.
Website: www.amarjain.com



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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread Preeti Monga
Interestingly there is no argument as to  weather a blind person must marry
a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be
happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables
or furniture; you therefore need to understand 
That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one can
prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise
people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and
there can be nothing  worse and hellish than a bad  marriage,
incompatibility can lead to living life  in hell!
The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing!
Preeti
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-Original Message-
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
Of bhawani shankar verma
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
partners

majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say 
that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and 
science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is 
studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this 
purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are 
educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children 
then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind 
partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who 
are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. 
10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind 
cummunity.


-Original Message- 
From: Amar Jain
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind

partners

Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. 
blind.

Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to
whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not.

To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner
would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the
issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you
may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of
the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your
daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be
explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind
partner at that basic level.

But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That
has got nothing to do with disability per se.

It also depends how well you can play your role in that other
partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted
partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be
over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married
life. Remember, he is your  companion not a servant or assistant.

Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the
issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial
resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves
have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the
later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards
the answering the society, or anything else for that matter.

At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never
like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in
life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can
only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over
dependent on her.

The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is
that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And
I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are
unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course
some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like
Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to
be tackled appropriately.

Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and
foremost, I am

Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread habeeb. c
Dear friends,
instead of delliberating too much on this topic, why can't we share
our own experiences of marriage, since it can help the youngsters in
search of a partner.
regards

On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote:
 Interestingly there is no argument as to  weather a blind person must marry
 a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be
 happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables
 or furniture; you therefore need to understand
 That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one
 can
 prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise
 people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and
 there can be nothing  worse and hellish than a bad  marriage,
 incompatibility can lead to living life  in hell!
 The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing!
 Preeti
 Preeti Monga
 Director



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 -Original Message-
 From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
 Of bhawani shankar verma
 Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM
 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning
 the disabled.
 Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in
 marryingblind
 partners

 majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say
 that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and
 science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is

 studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this
 purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are

 educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children
 then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind

 partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who
 are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life.
 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind
 cummunity.


 -Original Message-
 From: Amar Jain
 Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM
 To: accessindia
 Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in
 marryingblind

 partners

 Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs.
 blind.

 Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to
 whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not.

 To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner
 would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the
 issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you
 may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of
 the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your
 daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be
 explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind
 partner at that basic level.

 But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That
 has got nothing to do with disability per se.

 It also depends how well you can play your role in that other
 partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted
 partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be
 over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married
 life. Remember, he is your  companion not a servant or assistant.

 Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the
 issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial
 resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves
 have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the
 later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards
 the answering the society, or anything else for that matter.

 At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never
 like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in
 life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can
 only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over
 dependent on her.

 The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is
 that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And
 I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands

Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread Preeti Monga
Where do you live? Are you in Delhi? Because if you are, or  if you canmake
it, I wish to invite you for the forth coming Fusion meet at the India
International Center on 3rd August and join me in shareing your valuable
experience on this very important subject?
Please do let me know.
Warmly
Preeti

Preeti Monga
Director
 

 
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-Original Message-
From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
Of habeeb. c
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 5:15 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
partners

Dear friends,
instead of delliberating too much on this topic, why can't we share
our own experiences of marriage, since it can help the youngsters in
search of a partner.
regards

On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote:
 Interestingly there is no argument as to  weather a blind person must
marry
 a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully,
be
 happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables
 or furniture; you therefore need to understand
 That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one
 can
 prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise
 people, there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage,
and
 there can be nothing  worse and hellish than a bad  marriage,
 incompatibility can lead to living life  in hell!
 The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing!
 Preeti
 Preeti Monga
 Director



 Mobile: +91 9871701646
 Landline: 011 22781446
 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in
 Website: www.silver-linings.co.in  ;  www.silver-linings.org
 Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training
 -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting -
Corporate
 ; Promotional;  Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying
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 Marketing Data Mining / Refining..

 We  assure  high quality service marked with excellence and complete
 customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along.



 -Original Message-
 From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
Behalf
 Of bhawani shankar verma
 Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM
 To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning
 the disabled.
 Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in
 marryingblind
 partners

 majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say
 that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and
 science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter
is

 studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this
 purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both
are

 educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children
 then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a
blind

 partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who
 are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life.
 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind
 cummunity.


 -Original Message-
 From: Amar Jain
 Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM
 To: accessindia
 Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in
 marryingblind

 partners

 Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs.
 blind.

 Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to
 whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not.

 To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner
 would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the
 issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you
 may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of
 the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your
 daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be
 explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind
 partner at that basic level.

 But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That
 has got nothing to do with disability per se

Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread bhawani shankar verma

he can explain it better.
however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or 
criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents.


-Original Message- 
From: Amar Jain

Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind 
partners


Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part?

I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind
people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these
are just my concerns.

Regards,
--
Amar Jain.
Website: www.amarjain.com



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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread KanchanPamnani
Bhiwani,  I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind
parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and
in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because  parents
wont complain to the Authorities  but many seek my advice when it is too
late.
Of course this can happen in so called sighted society. 
Kanchan
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Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29
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Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
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he can explain it better.
however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or 
criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents.

-Original Message- 
From: Amar Jain
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind

partners

Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part?

I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind
people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these
are just my concerns.

Regards,
-- 
Amar Jain.
Website: www.amarjain.com



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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread Preeti Monga
I have 2 sighted children, and when  I divorced my first husband after 11
years of an abusive marriage, everyone warned me that my  children, a
daughter and a son, will go  on the wrong track and become spoilt and
develop all bad habits! I was most concerned but I only kept my belief in
the saying, lead by example. And I am blessed and delighted to let you
know that both my children have turned out into wonderful adults,
responsible, ethical, sensitive and great citizens! I thank God and everyone
who are responsible for this. They both are now married, independent and my
daughter is a great mother to her 2 children. So, maybe, it is not blindness
that is what is important, but the values that we practice ourselves that
makes our children what they become!
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Of KanchanPamnani
Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 8:46 AM
To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
the disabled.'
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
partners

Bhiwani,  I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind
parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and
in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because  parents
wont complain to the Authorities  but many seek my advice when it is too
late.
Of course this can happen in so called sighted society. 
Kanchan
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From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
Of bhawani shankar verma
Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
partners

he can explain it better.
however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or 
criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents.

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From: Amar Jain
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind

partners

Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part?

I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind
people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these
are just my concerns.

Regards,
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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread Asudani, Rajesh
I would like to know how blindness contributes to becoming headstrong or 
criminal.
Specifically how does lack of sight  help foster such tendencies, if at all?


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From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of 
KanchanPamnani
Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 8:46 AM
To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the 
disabled.'
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind 
partners

Bhiwani,  I have found in afew cases that sighted children who have blind
parents or even one blind parent, sometimes becomes headstrong, spoilt and
in rare cases acriminal. I know that you wont hear of these because  parents
wont complain to the Authorities  but many seek my advice when it is too
late.
Of course this can happen in so called sighted society.
Kanchan
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From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
Of bhawani shankar verma
Sent: 01 July 2014 17:29
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind
partners

he can explain it better.
however, I have never found any child has become illiterate, uneducated or
criminal due to the blindness of his or her parents.

-Original Message-
From: Amar Jain
Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 4:35 PM
To: accessindia
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind

partners

Great example Bhawani sir. How did your brother handle the education part?

I think socialization is also an important factor. Not many blind
people socialize also beyond their community of course. Anyways these
are just my concerns.

Regards,
--
Amar Jain.
Website: www.amarjain.com



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Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners

2014-07-01 Thread bhawani shankar verma

same is applicable on sighted parents.

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From: Amar Jain

Sent: Wednesday, July 02, 2014 10:30 AM
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My idea of asking was never to convey that all parents who are blind
their children would become criminal.

I just wanted to understand as too how do parents with blindness deal
with such challenges. I have also seen cases where because of
blindness one parent is considered less important in house after a
point of time.

And I have also seen cases where both blind parents have not been able
to give adequate education to their children. But of course, that is
not to say that all do the same.

So if you and others can come out of their instant emotional
reactions, then I can get a proper answer. The idea is not to defame
anyone. Its just to understand the technicalities.

Regards,
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