Where do you live? Are you in Delhi? Because if you are, or if you canmake it, I wish to invite you for the forth coming Fusion meet at the India International Center on 3rd August and join me in shareing your valuable experience on this very important subject? Please do let me know. Warmly Preeti
Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -----Original Message----- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of habeeb. c Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 5:15 PM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in marryingblind partners Dear friends, instead of delliberating too much on this topic, why can't we share our own experiences of marriage, since it can help the youngsters in search of a partner. regards On 7/1/14, Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> wrote: > Interestingly there is no argument as to weather a blind person must marry > a blind person or a non blind person! The idea is to marry successfully, be > happy and cherish the relationship for good! You are not buying vegitables > or furniture; you therefore need to understand > That every human is different and there are no fixed kind of matches one > can > prescribe for marrying one or the other! But, yes, as said by many wise > people, "there is nothing more happy and blissful than a good marriage, and > there can be nothing worse and hellish than a bad marriage, > incompatibility can lead to living life in hell"! > The fact that you can see or not is only a small part of the whole thing! > Preeti > Preeti Monga > Director > > > > Mobile: +91 9871701646 > Landline: 011 22781446 > E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in > Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org > Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training > -Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting - Corporate > ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying > workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and > Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. > > We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete > customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of bhawani shankar verma > Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 3:49 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in > marryingblind > partners > > majority of married blind persons have a blind partners, so, we can't say > that blind partner would not be a good choice. regarding education and > science, my elder brother and his wife both are blind and their daughter is > > studying biology and further preparing for micro biology. hence, this > purpose also defeated. my experience is if the couple is blind and both are > > educated, their children becomes brilliant and more disciplined children > then the sighted parents. very low percentage of blind persons have a blind > > partners and having successful married life. majority of blind persons who > are having sighted partner are facing difficulties in their married life. > 10-12 emails in accessindia group can not represent the entire blind > cummunity. > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Amar Jain > Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 1:02 PM > To: accessindia > Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeople interested in > marryingblind > > partners > > Let me share my thoughts as a growing adult on the issue of sighted vs. > blind. > > Choosing a blind partner: Many of us do have these doubts as to > whether a blind partner would be better than a sighted partner or not. > > To my mind, the difference is in the fact that having a blind partner > would make things easy to the extent of your understanding of the > issues concerning the blindness. So, in case of a sighted person you > may need to work with them for example to not to change the place of > the things frequently as that may cause a little discomfort in your > daily work. And the disability related issues will need to be > explained to him. Which are not required to be done in case of a blind > partner at that basic level. > > But that does not mean that you will have a better compatebility. That > has got nothing to do with disability per se. > > It also depends how well you can play your role in that other > partner's life. I have seen many blind people arguing for a sighted > partner just because they think that their challenges of life will be > over. That type of dependence to my mind is not good for a married > life. Remember, he is your companion not a servant or assistant. > > Choosing a Sighted: Many sighted do not give a deep thought on the > issues concerning marrying a blind partner of course when that initial > resistance of others is over once they decide that they themselves > have no mental blocks in getting a blind partner. Its only at the > later stage when people realize that its a lifetime battle as regards > the answering the society, or anything else for that matter. > > At that stage both need to act sensibally. For example, I would never > like to listen if my wife happens to be sighted at a later stage in > life that she made a mistake by choosing a blind partner. That can > only happen if I continue to play my active role, and I am not over > dependent on her. > > The only consequence of having a blind partner which to my mind is > that how can you as a male partner ensure her safety and security. And > I am not saying that all blind females who have blind husbands are > unsafe or unsecured. Its just offering that comfort. And of course > some additional challenges like teaching your kids subjects like > Science where you yourself have the weak background, which may need to > be tackled appropriately. > > Now as far as convincing a sighted partner is concerned: First and > foremost, I am of the opinion that do not try everyone and anyone. > Spend proper time, and then understand really is it what you are > looking for? Forget be it blind or sighted. > > Second, I quite agree with Rajesh sir and Shadab bhaiya's views of > being yourself and having your other qualities at its best which can > then open a window for detailed and deep discussion. Disability > related challenges need to be discussed not only between the > individuals but also at the family level to avoid complications if > any. > > If you have a decent earning prospects and a decent life wherein you > are capable of upbringing your family well, then it is not as big > problem as we see getting a sighted partner also. Again to emphasise, > the only important aspect is to discuss the disability related > challenges at the beginning itself to avoid issues in future. > > Nikita diii is just one exceptional example. maintaining yourself as a > girl of that kind despite blindness also is a big thing to happen! But > of course city, education, family and all plays a big role in that > personality with which one comes out as an individual. > > Regards, > -- > Amar Jain. > Website: www.amarjain.com > > > > Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of > mobile phones / Tabs on: > http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind > ia.org.in > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please > > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of > the > > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. 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AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > -- Habeeb C. Vice President Kerala Federation of the Blind. Assistant Professor of English Centre for advanced studies and research in English Language and Literature Farook College. Calicut. Phone. 09946265483. Email. habee...@gmail.com Skype Id. habeebc3 Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind ia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. 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