Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : jack via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Moderation.I am closing this thread since it is starting to get on edge and make its way into potential flame-war territory. Let's not do this again.Allow me to emphasize a point. Just because Brad was banned for 90 days does not mean we are giving everyone else open season to argue and throw personal attacks. If we continue to see them we will of course act accordingly. Many people bring up good points regarding the fact that the community really does have to take a good hard look at itself.ironcross32 wrote:@48 I'm sorry that you can't seem to wrap your head around doing much else besides putting your head out the window, fluttering your hands and going, "Bwh, why can't people just be nice to one another" like an old lady. That's all you seem to do anymore. This community is what it is; if you don't like it, you're free to leave.Sorry, but it doesn't work that way. You can't gaslight the fact that people, you included, have most certainly not done their part to make this community welcoming and safe for the people that do actually want it to be respectful. You want rivalry, well too bad, this isn't 4chan. But we will not have any part of that.Thread locked.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : jack via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Moderation.I am closing this thread since it is starting to get on edge and make its way into potential flame-war territory. Let's not do this again.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Jayde via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Moderation:Ironcross, post 55 is on that thin line which stands between genuinely calling someone out and pot-stirring for its own sake. I'm issuing a caution for this; you know the drill. The hell of it is, you're perfectly capable of calling someone out legitimately, so I'm not quite sure why you needle folks this way.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Zarvox via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

both sides of this argument are dumb. People shouldn't comment, but this thread shouldn't exist. But when one is true, both are true, so you can't separate them. Simple, and true.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Accman via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Well written, grryfindore. I agree with your post entirely.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : grryfindore via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Hi, Thank you, @Nocturnus for taking the time to respond. The thing is this, which I had a huge problem with and which actually made me write a reply which as ironcross32 as has become a trend like I stated before so disgustingly pointed out, that is not post, just read and stay away, mostly. Unless I have a strong reaction to something and write anyway, even though the result isn't gonna be worth the few seconds of me putting in the time to write it in the first place. Brad has had the history of doing this before, yes. Many others, alongside him have had the same history, and yes, it does add a bit to the pile of negativity this forum has become, but it's more to do with people like ironcross32 and others who insult, demean and generally be a bunch of rude fill in the blank of your choice here, anyone and everyone left and right given a chance. They aren't usually wrong, as you and the rest aren't in this topic, but just because the entire internet or take what you will isn't a nice place to be, doesn't mean this forum has to go down the same root, it is up to us in the end what we make of it, after all. So instead of punishing brad, for something as small as posting a topic saying I am leaving because this is draining, the others ought to have been dealt with in whichever way the mods see best, instead. Again, not stating that brad was the one blameless or a saint here, no, of course he wasn't, but I don't think he is the type to post things, just to sit back with popcorn's and see the wagon go down burning. The Atention part of his post I see him as trying to defend himself from the usual comment of atention seaker that tend to be posted here, how ever ironic that was. So by banning brad under the community failure claws, That brad has done this 3 times knowingly that it creates drama, what the forum says is, anything that tends to get our users a bit insulting/ trolling and or heated/ causes drama, will lead to you getting banned not the people doing the heckling instead. Example, Screenreader topics, android topics, Iphone/ IOS topics etc etc, as these tend to get people fired up, and in the environment of this forum as it now exists leading people to make harsh/ insulting comments towards you or one another or generally heats up defending the product of their choice. I see this as a bit heavy handed and think if you want to make the community better, improve it's users by not allowing them to run free being nasty to everyone and anyone.@Ironcross32, just as charming as always, I thank you for your advice, and would like to state yet again, I am perfectly aware of what I am free to do and not do, and if I don't like people like you insulting people, I believe I am free to speak up, too which I have now done. so please keep your advice to yourself, such is not appreciated. If you have a problem wrapping your head around this, I would be happy to state it in the language more suited to your understanding, as well.Good day,Grryf

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : grryfindore via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Hi, Thank you, @Nocturnus for taking the time to respond. The thing is this, which I had a huge problem with and which actually made me write a reply which as ironcross32 as has become a trend like I stated before so disgustingly pointed out, that is not post, just read and stay away, mostly. Unless I have a strong reaction to something and write anyway, even though the result isn't gonna be worth the few seconds of me putting in the time to write it in the first place. Brad has had the history of doing this before, yes. Many others, alongside him have had the same history, and yes, it does add a bit to the pile of negativity this forum has become, but it's more to do with people like ironcross32 and others who insult, demean and generally be a bunch of rude fill in the blank of your choice here, anyone and everyone left and right given a chance. They aren't usually wrong, as you and the rest aren't in this topic, but just because the entire internet or take what you will isn't a nice place to be, doesn't mean this forum has to go down the same root, it is up to us in the end what we make of it, after all. So instead of punishing brad, for something as small as posting a topic saying I am leaving because this is draining, the others ought to have been dealt with in whichever way the mods see best, instead. Again, not stating that brad was the one blameless or a saint here, no, of course he wasn't, but I don't think he is the type to post things, just to sit back with popcorn's and see the wagon go down burning. The Atention part of his post I see him as trying to defend himself from the usual comment of atention seaker that tend to be posted here, how ever ironic that was. So by banning brad under the community failure claws, That brad has done this 3 times knowingly that it creates drama, what the forum says is, anything that tends to get our users a bit insulting/ trolling and or heated/ causes drama, will lead to you getting banned not the people doing the heckling instead. Example, Screenreader topics, android topics, Iphone/ IOS topics etc etc, as these tend to get people fired up, and in the environment of this forum as it now exists leading people to make harsh/ insulting comments towards you or one another or generally heats up defending the product of their choice. I see this as a bit heavy handed and think if you want to make the community better, improve it's users by not allowing them to run free being nasty to everyone and anyone.@Ironcross32, just as charming as always, I thank you for your advice, and would like to state yet again, I am perfectly aware of what I am free to do and not do, and if I don't like people like you insulting people, I believe I am free to speak up, too which I have now done. so please keep your advice to yourself, such is not appreciated. If you have a problem wrapping your head around this, I would be happy to state it in the language more suited to your understanding.Good day,Grryf

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Accman via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

If one desires to leave the forum, then there need not be a thread devoted to saying so. It serves no purpose other then to draw attention to oneself. However, I also understand that this is what some folks want, attention. If you really want to leave, then, as others have said here, just do it. Bringing up the drama that made you decide to do so is not going to help because the ones causing it will continue to do so whether you're still here or not. The only other course of action is to just ignore threads where you know you're likely to find the sort of drama you dislike. Believe me, it's very easy to do, and I've grown quite accustomed to doing so as of late. It is because of drama, and I'm not saying that these kinds of things are always the cause of it, that if I created a similar forum there would be no threads concerning politics, KOVID-19, or any of that. It would be devoted to games, and other tech-related stuff. Some off-topic things would, of course, be permitted, but things that could easily cause trouble such as those I just mentioned would be strictly forbidden just to avoid the drama that would come with it. If I knew how to start a forum like that, I would gladly do it. However, I have no idea how to go about it. Likely, someone would still find some way to cause unnecessary drama even without the topics I mentioned being allowed, so you can't really totally escape this.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ironcross32 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Yeah I get the sentiment but really, if you pop out to say only that... what's the point.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : sethgamer via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@post 50 nice reference

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@Aarush I managed to escape the bullying for the most part.  I think it helps when you do a lot more observing than talking, but obviously not everyone wants to be an observer.  There were times when I threw out that ol cliche question myself... I did it on chatrooms, on message boards, on twitter... Can't we all just, get along?  I knew the answer, but I just couldn't help myself.My belief is that the rise of the internet has given us all, regardless of who we are or where we are in life, more desire to be heard and be heard by greater numbers of people.  More importantly, because we crave to be heard, we also crave to be perceived as right.  To admit being wrong is to admit defeat and appear weak, so people will doggedly hold on to oppinions even when they know they have nothing to stand on.For my part, I do my best to go the other way, which is to say that when I'm wrong I have to admit it in order to learn how to be right.  I try not to be wrong, obviously, but that doesn't mean I can't be.  Remembering that can be hard in the heat of a discussion though.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Aarush via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

same here really but its highly unlikely. I've seen enough of the internet to know that now, i remember when I was first introduced to the online world i had so many aspirations, hopes whatnot and was such an innocent little kid. Got  bullied a lot and stuff for that, ah well at least it made me a stronger human being, overall.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@ironcross32, for the record, I'm kind of one of those people who wishes people would just get along.  I won't deny it.  I know it won't happen though.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ironcross32 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@48 I'm sorry that you can't seem to wrap your head around doing much else besides putting your head out the window, fluttering your hands and going, "Bwh, why can't people just be nice to one another" like an old lady. That's all you seem to do anymore. This community is what it is; if you don't like it, you're free to leave.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Aarush via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@op well good for you then that you dont care, because all those things you actually did say you didn't care about in your post actually came true. People think you want attention that you are full of crap, etc etc.I honestly kind of believe you though although it is hard to by many(and i dont blaim them) since you're one of the few meture people on this community but try to  understand this. You did this thing twice before, and came back each time. What else do you expect people to think other than "he's lying, he's just having a temper tantrum and will be back soon"It just makes sence doesn't it? Besides if you recall,  not all posts in your previous topics were people shitting on your posts and calling you out for causing drama, a few of them also calmly explained why not making topics about these things and simplly "leaving" is a better idea, and you said that you agreed and understood their points if memory serves. So why this again?If you're reading this brad, or whenever you read this rather since you're banned, please know that at least I dont think you're a bad person at all, your'e a resourceful, good-hearted individual who made a big mistake. Yes, most of the community thinks you're seaking attention. Yes, you got yourself banned by causing drama and that is, by all means your fault. But we can all change, and we can show others that we did change. I, for one, do believe in second chances especially for someone like you who I wouldn't even expect to do such a thing, but hell. Life's full of surprises . Anyway, adeos. I hope you come back as a better improved human being and actually understood just why you got banned and are being trashed by the forum members. Not all of it is usual useless 'i'll insult everyone and jump on the bandwaggon' mentality garbage this time, you know.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Rich_Beardsley via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Sorry for double post, but @jayde or any of the other mods or admins, since we have new mods, you may want to go in and update the FAQ topic with the new information

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Rich_Beardsley via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@48 Do you read? Look at Jayde's post. It clearly says he's being banned as part of the Community failure clause, not because he's leaving

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Socheat via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I apologize If my post was hilarious. But I couldn't help it.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@grryfindore, fair enough.  As I said in 19 I expected at least one person to disagree with my view.  What you're failing to address is the other side of the coin, which is that Brad has already done this three times, and every single time it's everyone else's fault.  When you couple it with the kinds of topics Brad posts out here which have a lot of pretend advice in the form of do as I say and not as I do stuff, it paints another picture of him.  As Jayde stated earlier, it's not like he's being banned for wanting to leave.  It's not like he's even being banned for posting that he's leaving.  Were this a one time offense everyone would probably have felt some semblance of sadness.  A second time offense would have drawn some negative attention but most everyone would have looked away.  This time, he poasted and drew in the crowd.  ON purpose.  And I quote, "there'll be those who say, you're just wanting attention and that's not true, I gain nothing from that and have much better things to do than seak validation from a forum."  Translation?  I know precisely what's going to happen after I hit post, but I'm gonna do it anyway.  It's a lot like a cat going and puking or pooping in a dog's food bowl because the cat's aware the strong smell is going to attract the dog, then the dog going and eating it and then spewing it back out because it's toxic.1.  If all he was doing was making this topic for a bunch of people who like his HP stuff and the stuff is going to stay up, why was there a need to let everyone know that would be the case?  If the stuff vanished someone would have contacted him to ask where it was.  Believe me, people still ask me about various things I've created over the years, when whoever I give them to suddenly quits hosting them for whatever reason.2.  If there's so much more to do that is better than wasting your time posting about how there's so much better to do and all this site is doing is draining you, then why on earth is it not being done?  I mean, it's not like someone was looking over Brad's shoulder and breathing down his neck waiting to make sure he created this topic.3.  Want to know what set Brad off this time?  Here ya go.  In short, he took out his anger on a whole community by posting a needless topic about how everyone on here's a drama starter, because one guy reported another guy for creating an illegal topic, and that guy already knew he shouldn't have created it.  Now, we can argue back and forth about whether soren was being a jerkwad or not... I find it hard to fathom most of what soren does anyway.  What we cannot say is that soren represents a whole community and so lets post a topic about how a whole site of jerkwads is draining me so have fun being a bunch of hard headed pigs with nothing better to do than to incite chaos.Also, may I remind you that the mod panel is watching the trolls in this topic.  for my part, I'm going to apologize for doing/not doing two things, one I shouldn't have done, and one I should have.1.  I shouldn't have come out here and posted post 10.  It was just as pointless as this topic.  It may not have been as bad as some of the others, but it was not really all that much better, either.2.  I should have reported the topic and aproached the mods about this privately.  The reason I didn't is because I try never to report posts/topics given I'm aware that any post/topic which has generated a lot of controversy is probably already being reported a ton by other users.  Obviously, based on what I read in post 27 by Jayde, that was not the case and the mods only found out about this topic because they were mercifully watching it.  Also, I made post 19 in an atempt to see what, if anything, everyone else might think about it.  I didn't want the mods to come across as absolute dictators by silencing free speech or anything of the sort.  IN truth, I'm well aware that this in and of itself is a much harder stance than I myself ever have taken or would have dared to take as a past mod and said as much by pointing out that even I had my misgivings about it.So yes, I willingly admit I made post 10 without really thining about it.  I did think through post 19.  Post 10 I made impulsively; no I honestly hadn't read anything else that had been posted priar to making it.  Post 19 had a fair amount of thought behind it and I willingly opened it to scrutiny.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : mazen via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@47 we are already repeating are self’s. The vote, is irrelevant.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : connor142 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Lol @op states he doesn't want to give any attention to the fact they're leaving by... creating a very attention grabbing thread? And I thought Trump was bad when it comes to contradictions.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : grryfindore via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

all I will say is just wow Not at brad, but at the rest who have posted in this topic so far, besides dark. I personally have been seeing this ugly trend of attacking people for anything and everything all you need is 1, and the rest follow like sheep. I apologize for the word sheep if that offends any of you here( although it doesn't take much these days), but I couldn't think of a better one to express what I meant. I was most disappointed by Nocturnus (post 19), to be honest, but I hadn't read the entire thread, of course. so a new high/ low (depending on your point of view) people being ban for saying that this place can be draining, and that they want to leave. I don't see anything wrong with this, if drama is being generated, it's by others who have posted in this topic, based on which I'd actually suggest a ban of 1 week for people who say that x and y should be ban publicly  Instead of drama, I suppose I'd use the word heckling (thank you dark), which most of the users who have posted participated in.and brad being ban for such even though he was going or not going to leave, is just...  I would suggest that the other admins and moderators revisit this issue, and do not go and do things in a frenzy just because the mob says so.holy crap, people.Grryf

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-09 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : grryfindore via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

all I will say is just wow Not at brad, but at the rest who have posted in this topic so far, besides dark. I personally have been seeing this ugly trend of attacking people for anything and everything all you need is 1, and the rest follow like sheep. I apologize for the word sheep if that offends any of you here( although it doesn't take much these days), but I couldn't think of a better one to express what I meant. I was most disappointed by Nocturnus (post 19), to be honest, but I hadn't read the entire thread, of course. so a new high/ low (depending on your point of view) people being ban for saying that this place can be draining, and that they want to leave. I don't see anything wrong with this, if drama is being generated, it's by others and brad being ban for such even though he was going or not going to leave, is just...  I would suggest that the other admins and moderators revisit this issue, and do not go and do things in a frenzy just because the mob says so.holy crap, people.Grryf

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Socheat via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@45 yeah. Someone needs to stop them before the final vote is coming. Lol

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : NevEd via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Someone needs to find other things to occupy their life when they get sick of this place.I was going to just ignore this post but I'm an opinionated prick, and my opinion is, you're kind of making an ass of yourself, even more than last time.Edit: And I just saw Jayde's post. In complete agreement with him here.I still stand by my original post but I did click on it out of curiosity and post a response not looking at the rest of the posts in this thread.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : NevEd via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Someone needs to find other things to occupy their life here when they get sick of this place.I was going to just ignore this post but I'm an opinionated prick, and my opinion is, you're kind of making an ass of yourself, even more than last time.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Rich_Beardsley via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@44 LOL! I get the reference

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Socheat via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Oh I'm leaving because of the time loop! The mods of this forum has activated a time loop for their experiments. So I've chosen to leave.Um, sorry guys. Couldn't help it.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Socheat via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Oh I'm leaving because of the time loop! The mods of this forum has activated a time loop for their experiments. So I've chosen to leave.Um, sorry guys. Can't help it.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Rich_Beardsley via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

If you want to leave, why post it? Just stop posting and go on with your life

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Ty via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Please, do what you did with Rory. Ban him if he really wants to leave. If not, see ya back in 2 days, buddy.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : supremekiller via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Well, @1  all you did in this topic was drained your reputation.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : bryant via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@jack, that makes sense. Thanks for the clarification. Like I said, i'm not questioning your decision, I just wanted to understand this whole thing.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : supremekiller via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Well, all you did in this topic was drained your reputation.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ironcross32 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@33 Better still, put a speed limit of 5mph globally.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : azure via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

sigh

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : JayJay via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I'd also like to point oout that he deleted the 1st post, as if to remove his past. You can delete stuff from the foruums, but you can't remove it from our brains.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : JayJay via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I mean, in 2 out of 3 times he said some nasty things about the staff, and in all 3 of them he called out the entire forum, so I can see why they'd ban him. And totally agree with meatbag and Camlorn. Give him some help

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Andy93 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I insist, what's not needed is all that bunch of irony, and childish jokes about he coming back on a few weeks. If Brad has done stuff like this in the past, I'm not going to justify him; but none of all this drama was necessary at all. Is he leaving? well, that's it; but I see absolutely no reason for a bunch of kiddos, and forgive me but  that's the truth, to come with all this nonsence.This is my last say on the matter, but its kind of hard to bite your tongue and not say anything at times

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : jack via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@Bryant: THe answer to your question isround 1,A few weeks laterround 2,and now this topic. It was getting out of hand due to the drama it inevitably caused, making us think he was going to turn tail and run, then coming right back as if it all didn't matter.If someone legitimately wants to leave, then that is fine. What isn't fine is bating us multiple times. And someone said it really well, if he isn't allowed to post for 90 days, then if he needs time away it works out anyway. Just because he did this in excess doesn't necessarily make him a bad member by any means, only that the move was truly good for satisfying both sides of the issue.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : jack via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@Bryant: THe answer to your question isround 1,A few weeks laterround 2,and now this topic. It was getting out of hand due to the drama it inevitably caused, making us think he was going to turn tail and run, then coming right back as if it all didn't matter.If someone legitimately wants to leave, then that is fine. What isn't fine is bating us multiple times.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Meatbag via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I mean if Brad is really leaving then the ban won't affect him anyways

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : bryant via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

so I have an honest question here, and i'm not trying to start anything, as I don't know about all the "I'm leaving topics that Brad has created, with the exception of this one and like 1 other one.Are the people that started the drama in the first place being punished? It is my view that if you see a topic from someone that says i'm leaving, you don't have to post on it. But these people are choosing to, thus causing or contributing to drama. Brad just created this topic to say that he was leaving, and I have seen posts on this topic that contribute nothing but to cause drama. If you don't like the topic, don't post on it. But why did Brad need to get banned from this? I didn't really see anything in his first post that caused drama. SO what? He's created numerous topics that say he's leaving. But why can't we just ignore them? If people post in them with the purpose of creating drama, then it's there fault, and not the original poster's fault.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Jayde via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

If someone did this to the extent that they got banned for community failure, then came back and did it again, then yeah, we'd re-invoke that clause and respond with greater severity.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : JaceK via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@Jade:Quick question. What would happen if anyone pulled this, got banned, then came back and did it again causing more drama, would it be a longer/permanent ban? I'm genuinely curious on that one, I assume it'd be a longer and longer ban.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Simter via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@28 are ya techgirl? I am not simtornetwork, haha.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : arjan via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Agreed with post 19 here, and I'm glad the mods seem to do likewise.And ugh, can it with the Deathstar/Simter references? I've seen so many of them lately. Isn't that getting old by now?

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Zarvox via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

discord saves the day again! The mods are able to act much quickly now then they were before. Too bad we don't have simtor or deathstar to argue that it's actually only because jayde doesn't want to be lazy today, or that he is getting too trigger happy .@mods nice work.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Jayde via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Moderation:After a quick discussion, we have decided to invoke the community failure clause, which will in Brad's case take the form of a 90-day ban.We recognize that Brad has at times been an upstanding member of the community, and has every right in the world to stay or go as he pleases. However, this is Brad's third topic in the last several months about how he's leaving, and each of these threads has created drama (as evidence, this thread alone reached twenty-odd posts in just over two hours). Any plausible deniability that Brad may have possessed about the impact of his actions is long gone, and this sort of drama is simply not good for the community at large.For clarity, Brad is not being punished because he's leaving, and he is not being punished because he chose to tell us, not by itself. He's being punished because this is his third such topic, and past a certain point it's no longer about just informing us that he's leaving, and is more about causing drama, whatever Brad claims his intentions are.If other users wish to leave, they are free to mention as such if they feel there is some greater reason to do so. However, multiple "I'm leaving" style threads from the same user will eventually result in the same action taken against them. This is a community failure infraction based on excess.I do want to point out, however, that the sheer size of this thread in a short time means that many of you were complicit to a fairly large extent in the sort of problem these topics create in the first place. We have reports on three other topics during that time, but none about this one. As such, I'll put it bluntly. A bunch of you - the ones who posted nothing but the same old criticisms, jokes and carps - are hypocrites, pure and simple. You claim that this thread is here to cause drama, then throw a few sticks on the fire by so doing. If this behaviour continues, it, too, may be grounds for punishment. Seriously, folks; if you see a thread like this and it's worth reporting because you think it might be worth invoking the community failure clause, report it instead of just making the bonfire swell. I don't see what's so difficult about that.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Boo15mario via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@1 no one cares if you leave and I agree with @4

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Precisely why I made post 19.  As I said, if you deal with this type of behavior, particularly as it pertains to repeat offenders, you get rid of both sides of the debate and stand with both feet right on the middle ground.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ironcross32 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I'm getting tired of the attitude that goes, "I'm depressed, so I should get to do whatever I want, and act any way I like." I will tend to be able to overlook something of it's not all that uncommon. Like so and so is fine normally, but they had a bad week and snapped. What I don't like is when the pattern repeats itself and that's where we are now. If he faces no repercussions, what's to stop this behavior?

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : soren via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

is he already back?

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : derekedit via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I won't pile on with my opinion of what, if anything, should happen to this guy, but these kinds of threads really should be against the rules. They serve absolutely no purpose from what I can tell. Seriously, this "I'm leaving" thread looks like all the others; pointless and boring. It could be worse I suppose. This is only like the third such thread he's created so I guess there's that.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : simba via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Hi.You know, i could take this seriously if your last "I'm leaving" and the "For those who care, I'm back" topics weren't under the first dozen when you visit your profile.So yeah, agree with others, see ya in a week or so.Greetings Moritz.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : mazen via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

*2 weaks later*

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Well, so here's my take on it.  I think the mods should act on this one and do it quickly, particularly as it pertains to repeat offenders, because this kind of behavior really does need squashed, as it really serves no productive purpose.  I see an "I'm leaving" topic at least once every two months if not more often, and more often than not the people who claim they're leaving don't actually leave.  IN all reality, it's almost like they think they can get away with threatening/bribing everyone to conform to their ways or else I'm leaving bla bla bla.  Since there's no consequence, it's like they litterally give the whole comunity a finger.  Har har har, I got you all stirred up for nothing.  Putting a break on this here and now will serve at least three important purposes, which I will carefully outline below.1.  If the person is honest about leaving, it will ensure they do so in an honest fashion, especially if they have a repeat history in this particular area.2.  If they're not honest about leaving and are just posting "I'm leaving" topics because they're getting mad and doing what a lot of mudders refer to as "ragequitting" because they saw some post that thoroughly infuriated them then they regreted their making the topic later and came back, this will show them exactly what it is they're leaving.  By banning them for at least two or three months you force them to evaluate their own shortcomings rather than just saying "You guys and your drama are to fault, not me."  In short, we've all heard the old saying that you don't realize what you have until it's gone; this is more or less the same thing.  Even if they choose not to accept their own shortcomings and embark upon a journey of self-denial, they, and we, will all know flat out when they return after their two/three month ban what their true colors really are.3.  Here's the big one though; you're not feeding the trolls.  Thankfully, this particular topic, though it could obviously get worse, still hasn't gotten into the kind of maddness it otherwise could be.  I've seen topicvs where people are split into two camps; the one claims we should leave such people alone because depression and you don't know what it's like and he/she can't help his or herself, and maybe that's true.  ON the other hand, you have people who just flat out don't care.  Taking care of this issue preemptively tackles both sides of the discussion.  If you don't give them the right to repeatedly posts "I'm leaving" topics they can't get themselves trolled.  I know that sounds super psychotically dictatorial and like free speech sensoring, so I'll take the jab when it comes because even to my own self it sounds that way, but I do believe there are times when you have to act for the good of the community, in an atempt to preserve its integrity.  If you do it this way, you can honestly say this is truly the middle ground.Remember that above I mentioned repeat offenders.  There are some.  Let it stop here.  This kind of topic really serves no purpose other than to antagonize and fuel flames and overall negative discourse.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : soren via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Dark it is just because it is his 3 time .the first time we where sad.th second time we just egnored it.and now we do just what we do.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Andy93 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

this time I'm disagreeing with everyone here. I see no reason por you guys to say stuff like, we don't give a... big S word, or anything like that.If he's quite recurring on saying stuff like "I'm leaving" and then comes back, I understand this can fed up some people; but I still don't see a reason for using fowl language or irony in order to treat these situations, I mean... there are always better ways of treating things. I'm not taking sides on this, however I feel you guys are kind of treating things the wrong way

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ironcross32 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Ban him and have done with it. It seems like he likes the attention.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Dark via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@Brad, leave or stay, good luck to you, however it seems a little strange to leave because of Drama and then not consider the fact that much drama is caused by people doing this very thing, as witness the replies in this thread Might I If you're indeed still reading this Brad, I would suggest perhaps more a "I'm stepping back for a bit" approach might be a little more believable, healthy and logical. To everyone else, why on earth is there so much song and dance about someone leaving or not or whether or not they'll be back? Again, I thought the point here was that people are here for fun, and part of that is the freedom to go or stay or return at will with or without so much heckling.Personally this is my last word on the subject, really the drama about people leaving because of drama is making me want to leave this topic! .

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Aron Leppik via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

yeah yeah. You'll be back in a cupple minutes or days or weeks.PLz just ban him if he wants to leave.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Aron Leppik via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

yeah yeah. You'll be back in a cupple minutes or days or weeks.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : soren via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

brad why are you ruining your gut reputation?

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : camlorn via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

@102 months? Nah. 2 days to 2 weeks. 2 hours if we follow the previous patterns of not just leaving and coming back to participate in our "I'm leaving" thread.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : ashleygrobler04 via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

what exactly is the point of people saying "i am leaving this forum..."?Please, in the future if you plan on leaving this forum, don't make a whole topic because we don't give an actual shit about what you want and what you don't want to do in your lives. if you want to leave the forum, then just do it. No one on here can control your choises in life for you, only you. Sorry i am not trying to be to harsh, just getting fedup to see so many topics stating that people want to leave the forum. But good luck with the brake, we will see you next week. if not, next month. if not then, we will see you next year then.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Nocturnus via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

You'll be back in two months.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Sovs via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Is this the third time? Come on dude. It is the same reason as the other times. And you always come back anyway. Lol these topics annoy the hell out of me for some reason.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : soren via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

i partialy agree @ 4

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : nolan via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

What the actual fuck? I'm with @4 at this point. Ban him.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : marro via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

I don't thinkk you have to post everytime you leave or something, just do it, or don't.in my opinion posting about it is just craving for attention

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : camlorn via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

See you next week.I again propose the "If you make a thread about how you're leaving, the mods should help you do that by banning you" idea.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : JayJay via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

See you next tuesday.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : soren via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

sorry bud here we go again.

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Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

2020-09-08 Thread AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Meatbag via Audiogames-reflector


  


Re: This site is draining me so I'm leaving.

Welcome back later in the future

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