dit-dot-dit

2005-03-18 Thread kerri miller
So I've been a quiet little primate around here recently, and as I was
fuddling about with an old mail archive, I found some of my first postings
to Brin-L from back in '97 or '98 (!) I cringe reading over the
adolescent crap I've written over the years;  I guess in some ways until
I chose to move on with certain parts of my life I was always going to be
stuck as an angry teenager, who, regardless of how smart they were, was
doomed to always be the frothing anger-ball. I was looking back for old
eJournal entries (from my blog, back before someone was hip enough to coin
a term for them), doing a bit of self-examination.  I've been struggling
with a couple issues the past 2-3 months, both of which have really forced
me to pull back from communities I once felt a part of, both real life and
virtual.

One of them I guess I can talk about, and even ask a little philisophical
irregulars Life Advice on.  Early last month, I parted ways with
Amazon.com.. ok, well, I was fired, by a boss I'd been having difficulty
with for some months.  Starting 2 weeks after I came out to him with my
*ahem* situation, I started getting a series of negative reviews, work
loads increasing, deadlines shortening, resources dwindling... in short,
before I even realized what he was doing, he'd managed me out of the group
and out of the company.

Blah!  So I've been dealing with that, this complex set of feelings about
the entire affair -- aren't I more than my job?  When did I begin to define
my success based on my paycheck and not on my intrinsic value as a very
smart, capable, talented human?  For the first time in 9 1/2 years I don't
have a job or any job prospects, and quite frankly, I don't really feel
much like working at the moment.

See, I got a couple months salary as severence, cashed out the last of
those dotCom stocks, and Unemployment Insurance, which I've been paying
into for 15-16 years is pretty generous to me.  I figure I've got about a
year to sit and ponder, if I chose to do so.  

I've been doing all the things that we're supposed to do in order to
fulfill that bumper sticker quote live each day as if it were your last
-- I learned to knit, I play poker 4-5 nights a week at the local casinos,
I've travelled up and down the west coast, I went to Vegas, I went to a
meeting of a group of people who make their own absinthe, I've designed a
series of sculptures, I wrote poetry, I wrote the first draft of a puppet
show using marionettes of famous villians from sci-fi and built the first
few test marionettes of Cylons and Darleks (the Jophur are driving me
crazy, mechanistically speaking!)  I've reapplied for and been reaccepted
at art school.

At what cost does one follow a dream?  How do you detirmine when a dream is
a directive, a demand, rather than an idle fantasy of what-ifs?

-kerri, a little scattered, but thoughtful this evening-



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Re: the purge

2005-03-18 Thread Trent Shipley
On Thursday 2005-03-17 20:25, d.brin wrote:
 Today. In person. One of the most conservative men I know and former
 special forces.  One of dozens who have told me - when I asked about
 the purge - David, it is worse than you can imagine.

 This is not just the fault of the Straussian fanatics, or even their
 masters.  After all, it was our job to prevent this.  The left bears
 much of the blame.

 Extreme liberals are incapable of realizing that our freedom's
 bulwark has always been the Officer Corps.  Frekazoid super-lefties
 have fetishistically gone out of their way to alienate the military
 and the churches and everything white or middle class they could
 spot, effectively handing any election over to the neocons and
 kleptos.

   These lefty jerks put us in today's position, where moderate
 liberals and the Officer Corps cannot even perceive the need to help
 each other in the context of an attempted putsch that is starting to
 look eerily and horrifically familiar.  The commies did the same
 thing in the run-up to 1933.

Or possibly in the Soviet Union in the 1930's.

 Our officers need help.  They need it now.  But the liberals cannot
 hear their muffled cries.

Unfortunately, none of our officers, active or retired, has publically asked 
for help.

Until somebody goes on the record and a major news organization reports a 
purge there are no victims needing help and no problem needing a solution.

You are the son of a journalist, and everyday you move closer to being a 
non-fiction essayist than a writer of fictional novels.  You know that this 
is WHY we have a free press.  If you cannot produce specifics  

Look, if you are 10% right this is a huge problem.  But you cannot document 
it.  Find a journalist to take the story and introduce her to some of your 
sources.  And if it's true then SEVERAL good officers will have to give up 
break ordinary professional ethics and sacrifice careers by making a 
political complaint to the press.

I CANNOT do anything about it.  All I have is hearsay.  Since you have direct 
reports, you could take your concerns to members of your state's 
congressional delegation.  Of course, they will also probably want proof and 
some leads to start an investigation.
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Re: the purge

2005-03-18 Thread Erik Reuter
* Trent Shipley ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:

 [message without BRIN: in the subject]

Unless you Bcc'd him or otherwise directly emailed him, it is unlikely
Brin will read what you wrote.

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Social Security Deserves Better Than Another Partisan Brawl

2005-03-18 Thread Erik Reuter
http://online.wsj.com/article_print/0,,SB02071090881840,00.html

CAPITAL
By DAVID WESSEL 

Social Security Deserves Better Than Another Partisan Brawl
March 17, 2005; Page A2

President Bush's campaign to create private Social Security accounts
and to stabilize the popular retirement system is foundering. Democrats
are gleeful that their united opposition has shut down the storied Bush
offense.

Score this as a baseball game, and early innings go to Democrats. But
this is not a baseball game. The stakes are bigger.

No one should embrace a fiscally irresponsible plan to change Social
Security or one that exposes Americans to destitution in old age.
Weakening Social Security would be a bad outcome. But so would a
tough, partisan fight that ends without a compromise for fixing Social
Security.

President Bush, who displayed no visible concern with U.S. budget
deficits in his first term, is making a long-term fix to Social Security
a top priority. His argument for action is sound: Huge numbers of baby
boomers, like me, will be retiring soon, and we are living longer and
our benefits are rising, Mr. Bush said in his Saturday radio address.
At the same time, fewer workers will be paying into the system to
support a growing number of retirees. Therefore, the government is
making promises it cannot keep. That's not a partisan point. It's a
fact.

Democrats' response so far is to do to Mr. Bush what Republicans did to
the 1994 Clinton health-care plan: Kill it and damage the standing of
the president. That may be smart politics. It may be a natural reaction
to partisan rancor of recent years. But the collapse of the Clinton
health plan set back efforts to cope with rising health costs for a
decade. All of us are paying for that inaction today.

If bickering between Democrats and Republicans blocks a Social Security
compromise this year, will it be another 10 years before any politician
tries again? That would be an unwelcome result. There are good reasons
to act now.

Baby boomers are about to reach retirement age. The oldest turn 59
this year. Most Social Security proposals exempt current retirees
and workers older than 55 from the necessary belt-tightening. That's
prudent:  Workers deserve time to prepare for retirement-age changes
or shrunken pensions. Delay means more baby boomers are exempt, which
means younger workers will get squeezed more. There's the real danger
of grandfathering the baby boom, which literally means we've missed
solving the big problem, says Douglas Holtz-Eakin, director of the
Congressional Budget Office.

If the baby boom isn't grandfathered, the politics get even more
treacherous. If politicians have trouble telling 40-year-olds that they
won't get promised benefits, imagine telling 65-year-olds. What's more,
delay enlarges the tax increase or reductions in benefits needed to
make Social Security sound. Fixing Social Security through 2078 without
squeezing benefits would take a 15% increase in payroll taxes today,
a 21% increase if delayed until 2018 and a 43% increase if delayed
till 2042. (So why do Democrats want to put this off until they regain
control?)

Social Security seems hard. But it's easy compared to health care, a
bigger U.S. fiscal problem. Social Security is only money. Medicare
and Medicaid is money plus ever-improving technology plus Americans'
insatiable appetite for health care plus life-and-death ethics. If
politicians can't do Social Security, will they ever do Medicare and
Medicaid? Social Security is spring training, says U.S. Federal
Reserve governor Edward Gramlich. Medicare is the real season.

With a second-term president shouting about the urgency of repairing
Social Security, how did the system get stuck?

Partisanship is only part of the answer. Mr. Bush loudly declares Social
Security broken and then advocates private accounts into which workers
could divert payroll taxes to invest for retirement.

Private accounts -- whatever the merits of Mr. Bush's ownership
society -- do nothing to fix the Social Security problem that Mr. Bush
has identified. Democrats have exploited this fact. And, if you listen
closely, Mr. Bush acknowledges it. Personal accounts do not solve
the issue, he said yesterday. Personal accounts will make sure that
individual workers get a better deal with whatever emerges as a Social
Security solution. Perhaps he figured the accounts would prove popular
enough to propel the whole effort. If so, he figured wrong.

Mr. Bush's fellow Republicans, meanwhile, are choking on the borrowing
Mr. Bush proposes to pay current retirees when workers divert payroll
taxes to private accounts. Bush-friendly economists explain that this
merely replaces promises that aren't on the books with bonds that are,
but the argument isn't convincing deficit-wary Republicans on Capitol
Hill.

The president's men, stymied, may soon seek compromise. Democrats then
will decide whether the president is moving for tactical advantage or
moving toward a 

Re: Tits (a wo^H^HMan's perspective)

2005-03-18 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 01:53 AM Friday 3/18/2005, kerri miller wrote:
 But I think it's *appalling* that teenagers are given
 breast implants as 'graduation presents' -- and SHAME
 on those doctors!!!  _Any_ surgery involving general
 anesthesia carries a small but definite risk of death.
  How pathetic to risk one's life to be
 well-endowed...
I'd have to agree, having just gt back from a trip to Las Vegas/Los Angeles
a few weeks ago, surrounded by silicone-sculpted bodies everywhere we went!

Perhaps someone ought to do a poll of the male population to find out 
whether more actually prefer the silicone-sculpted D-cup look or the 
natural (B-cup?) look?

I'll vote natural.
--Ronn! :)
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RE: Attack of the Metal-Eating Plants

2005-03-18 Thread Travis Edmunds

From: Gary Nunn [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion brin-l@mccmedia.com
To: 'Killer Bs Discussion' brin-l@mccmedia.com
Subject: RE: Attack of the Metal-Eating Plants  Date: Sun, 13 Feb 2005 
11:38:22 -0500

Rob wrote...
 Genetically modified plants may be the green solution for
 cleaning up contaminated soils.
This reminds me of one of my favorite stories (the title escapes me at the
moment - it's been a while since I read it) where a company created an
enzyme or bacteria or something that would only eat waste products from
paper mills and logging operations.
Reminds me of Startide. A little.
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Re: dit-dot-dit

2005-03-18 Thread kerri miller

 Like most everyone else, when you got out on your own and found out just 
 how expensive it is to live, and realized that if you don't earn it, no
 one  else is going to support you any more?  :P

That's one of those life lessons I got early, around 14 or 15. When I was a
kid, I felt a little like 8 year old Bill Murrary in Scrooged.

Kid: I want a  for christmas!

Dad: Then get a job!

Mom: Harold, he's only 8!

Dad: All day long I hear excuses why people can't find a job - my back
hurts, I'm tired, I'm only 8! Well I'm sick of it!!

 I went to a
 meeting of a group of people who make their own absinthe,
 
 A non-poisonous version, one would hope.

I tried only a tiny sip -- hey, who wants to go blind drinking
hullucinagenic moonshine, right?  It was a really interesting, eclectic
group of people, really striking me as the bootleg equivelent of Trekkies.

 IOW, about like the rest of us . . .

Yeah, more or less :) 

-k-

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Re: Tits (a perspective)

2005-03-18 Thread kerri miller

--- Ronn!Blankenship [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 At 01:53 AM Friday 3/18/2005, kerri miller wrote:
 
 
 I'd have to agree, having just gt back from a trip to Las Vegas/Los
 Angeles
 a few weeks ago, surrounded by silicone-sculpted bodies everywhere we
 went!
 
 
 
 Perhaps someone ought to do a poll of the male population to find out 
 whether more actually prefer the silicone-sculpted D-cup look or the 
 natural (B-cup?) look?
 
 I'll vote natural.

Given the rise of the vien of pornography featuring amatuer housewive
hotties I'd say there's probably something to that.  

Still, its difficult to guage how ingrained the meme of bigger is better
is in our social programming.

-k-




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Re: quantum darwin?

2005-03-18 Thread Dan Minette
The next step I want to consider is the work from the mid thirties to about
the mid 60s.  During this time, there were two developments that were
important to our discussion of the foundation of QM.  The first was the
development of quantum field theory, or reletivistic quantum mechanics.
The second is the development of Bohm's hidden variable theory of QM.

Fortunately for us all, we don't need an expansive review of QED to obtain
the points relevant to this discussion.  QED is a relativistic quantum
theory, consistent with special reletivity.  Thus, it must be able to
explictly handle the SR requirement that there are no faster than light
signals.

This might seem very difficult, since we've established that, in QM, the
wave function can collapse over spacelike intervals.  The answer lies in
what is a signal.

For example, we can make a spot on the moon travel faster than the speed of
light.  Shoot a laser at the moon and change it's angle.  One can make the
bright spot travel from one side of the moon to the other in a
microsecondwhich is many times faster than the speed of light.  But, no
signal travels from one side of the moon to the other.  No information can
be sent on this moving point of light.

That is the key definition of a signal that we need to consider.  Can
information be sent from one spot to another.  With quantum superpositons,
can I make a measurement of one of the particles and know whether or not my
contemporary at the other end already made a measurement.

The reason this is critical is that, for spacelike events, A, and B; A is
before B in some reference frames, A and B are simulaneous in at least one
reference frame, and B is before A in some reference frames.  So,. there is
no way one should be able to measure B and tell whether A has been
measured...if A and B are spacelike.

In reletivistic quantum mechanics, this is stated as Spacelike operators
must commute.  So, going back to our example of two spin 1/2 particles in
a spin zero state, if we have call the operator for measuring the spin of
particle 1: A and the operator for measuring the spin of particle 2: B, we
find that if we perform A then B on the wavefunction  BA(|+- +
|-+)/sqrt(2) one gets |+- half of the time and |-+ half of the time.
(the operator closest to the ket (which is what |s are called)  operates
first.   If we perform B then A, we obtain exactly the same results.  There
is no difference in the results if you perform A then B or B then A.  So,
the operators do commute.

If one could pass information, one would have a real working ansible.
Fortunately, SF writers are able to modify the rules of QM, or we would
have missed out on some pretty good novels.  But, such things, like db's
Uplift series are good fiction and bad science. :-)

This theoretical development was a real step forward in the completeness of
modern physics. Two theories of physics (SR and QM) are unified.  A
significant question about the completeness of QM has been answered.

Still, there were a number of aestetic reasons why people wanted a more
real theory.  One of them who had a hunch that there were hidden
variables that underlaid QM was David Bohm.  In the '50s he developed a
hidden variable theory of QM.

It was considered fairly problematic at the time.  There are several
reasons for this. First of all, a physicist is suspicious of any hidden
variable.  Quarks were considered to be a mathematical convenience until
jets were observed.  These high transverse momentum events showed structure
within protons and neutrons (the way the high angle scatters showed
pointlike electrons in the Rutherford scattering experiment.)

Now, quarks were very useful, even if they turned out to be a mathematical
convenience. One can see the deucouplet in terms of the combination of
three quarks:

uuu uud udd udd
  uus  uds  dds
uss dss
  sss


Where u is the up quark,
  d is the down quark
and   s is the strange quark

But, the order didn't need to come from structure within these hadrons; it
could have been just a property of the system. But, two things happened,
then.  First, a fourth quark was predicted, and evidence for that fourth
quark was found.  Second, as mentioned above, jets were found.  At this
point, quarks became well established.

It may seem funny for physicists to worry about something that sounds
ontological; especially shut up and calculate physicists.  Part of it, is
a question of permanence. Mathematical conveniences can be dropped in a
split second, when something slightly better comes along.  Physicists do
not want to say something exists and then say it doesn't, and then say it
does, etc.

Second, physicists are suspicious of really there, but you can't see it.
The reason for this is that it's quite straightforward to develop a
mechanism, such as the asymptotic freedom of quarks, to explain why these
real things can never bee observed independently.  If one allows the
unconstrained existence of real but unobserved 

Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Deborah Harrell
 Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]

  But I think it's *appalling* that teenagers are
 given
  breast implants as 'graduation presents' snip

 I think I know of an exception.  My daughter's
 friend is highly asymmetric
 because of birth defects.  Among other things, she
 was born without an
 esophagus.  The problem in question is that one
 breast developed normally,
 and one not at all.  Her mother paid for one implant
 when she graduated. snip
 
As Julia wrote, that is an exception (to my mind) as a
birth defect was involved (similar to my friend whose
medical condition did not allow her to develop at all
in that regard).

Julia also wrote: I think that it's a good idea to
put off any sort of body-altering surgery until at
least a few years after high school, if it's purely
for cosmetic reasons.

I agree.

Debbi
who dislikes that word intensely  :P



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Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Deborah Harrell
 Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]

  _Any_ surgery involving general
  anesthesia carries a small but definite risk of
 death.  How pathetic to risk one's life to be
  well-endowed...
 
 Something hit me about this saying.  Is the
 following statement true or false?
 
 Any horseback ride carries a small but definite risk
 of death.

snort
Not doin' it for cosmetic reasons, though!

And of course, we risk death every time we get into a
car, or go to the bank, or fly in an airplane.  My
point is not to eliminate the risk of death, but to
reduce risking death *foolishly.*  And -- what Julia
said!  grin

Debbi
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Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Deborah Harrell
 kerri miller [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip 

 Still, its something I may undertake at some point
 in the future.. and
 besides, who am I to judge the internal conflicts
 between someones
 self-perception and their external realities?

Weeel, you certainly have the right to have an opinion
on such conflicts, better than me!  And I'd put your
may undertake in the medical reason camp.

Debbi
Wind, Womb, Woobs And Wee Maru ;}



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Re: Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Dan Minette

- Original Message - 
From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Killer Bs Discussion brin-l@mccmedia.com
Sent: Friday, March 18, 2005 4:51 PM
Subject: Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))


  Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]

   _Any_ surgery involving general
   anesthesia carries a small but definite risk of
  death.  How pathetic to risk one's life to be
   well-endowed...
 
  Something hit me about this saying.  Is the
  following statement true or false?
 
  Any horseback ride carries a small but definite risk
  of death.

 snort
 Not doin' it for cosmetic reasons, though!

I agree.  But, I think that choosing horseback riding is inherently a
matter of personal pleasure.  I don't think it is unreasonable to take the
risks inherent in horseback riding because one enjoys it.  I've taken Girl
Scouts horseback riding without worrying about the small but real chance of
death.

 And of course, we risk death every time we get into a
 car, or go to the bank, or fly in an airplane.

Sure, no arguement there.

My point is not to eliminate the risk of death, but to
 reduce risking death *foolishly.*

My point is that the risk of death is not what makes it foolish, it's the
social pressure that makes a young woman feel she needs to be physically
altered to feel good about herself (with exceptions like those we agreed
upon here).  I couldn't figure out why my friends would agree to this for
their daughter, until my daughter told me why.

So, we certainly agree it's a foolish action.  What nudged me was the is
this worth risking even a small chance of death for?  arguement.  Stated
that way, personal enjoyment sounds like it's not worth risking one's life
for.  But, if the risks are small enough, a reasonable person could and
should risk their life to, say, have an enjoyable evening. I might risk my
life driving to the bookstore tonight. :-)

 If we didn't risk our lives like this,  we'd live in a cocoon of fear.

Dan M.


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Re: dit-dot-dit

2005-03-18 Thread Deborah Harrell
 kerri miller [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snippage throughout

 So I've been a quiet little primate around here
 recently, and as I was
 fuddling about with an old mail archive, I found
 some of my first postings
 to Brin-L from back in '97 or '98 (!) I cringe
 reading over the
 adolescent crap I've written over the years;  

*I* only have to go back a year or 2 for 'the
cringies!'  lop-sided grin

 One of them I guess I can talk about, and even ask a
 little philisophical
 irregulars Life Advice on.  Early last month, I
 parted ways with
 Amazon.com.. ok, well, I was fired, by a boss I'd
 been having difficulty
 with for some months.  Starting 2 weeks after I came
 out to him with my
 *ahem* situation, I started getting a series of
 negative reviews, work
 loads increasing, deadlines shortening, resources
 dwindling... 

Uhrrr, I suppose you don't want to get into a legal
wrangle over this (although you might have grounds for
it) -- that's rotten.
 
 Blah!  So I've been dealing with that, this complex
 set of feelings about
 the entire affair -- aren't I more than my job? 
snip...quite frankly, I don't really feel
 much like working at the moment.

 I've been doing all the things that we're supposed
 to do in order to
 fulfill that bumper sticker quote live each day as
 if it were your last

Sounds like you've done some good 'what's out there
that I'd like to try?' work - As a group, it seems to
me that Ronn's right, and an awful lot of us have been
in (or still are) in a similar quandry.
 
 At what cost does one follow a dream?  How do you
 detirmine when a dream is
 a directive, a demand, rather than an idle fantasy
 of what-ifs?

Heck if I know...but I have to say that working with
horses is the right thing for me right now; it's *so*
not lucrative, but I'm happier than I was for a long
time.  shrug  So I'd say, if it's _truly_ a dreamof
yours -- go for it.

Debbi
Oprah Says Follow Your Bliss Maru




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Deathrisk (was: Woobs )

2005-03-18 Thread Deborah Harrell
 Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  I wrote:
   Dan wrote:

snippage throughout
   Is the following statement true or false?
  
   Any horseback ride carries a small but definite
   risk of death.

  snort
  Not doin' it for cosmetic reasons, though!
 
 I agree. I don't think it is
 unreasonable to take the
 risks inherent in horseback riding because one
 enjoys it.  I've taken Girl
 Scouts horseback riding without worrying about the
 small but real chance of death.

But as a riding instructor, I *am* aware of it, every
single time I take a student out, or even when I just
ride for my own pleasure.  I don't _worry_ about it in
the sense of being anxious or afraid that something
awful might happen, but I am constantly vigilant for
problems that might arise.  (Frex earlier today I
decided to take a lead rope with me 'in case Baron
(the student's horse) gets too spooky' -- well, some
kids on those damn motorized scooters tried to chase
us, and if I hadn't put him on the line when I first
heard the noise, he'd likely have bolted across 4
lanes of traffic.)

 My point is not to eliminate the risk of death, but
  to reduce risking death *foolishly.*
 
 My point is that the risk of death is not what makes
 it foolish, it's the
 social pressure that makes a young woman feel she
 needs to be physically
 altered to feel good about herself (with exceptions
 like those we agreed
 upon here).

nods head in agreement

 So, we certainly agree it's a foolish action.  What
 nudged me was the is
 this worth risking even a small chance of death
 for?  arguement.  Stated
 that way, personal enjoyment sounds like it's not
 worth risking one's life
 for.  But, if the risks are small enough, a
 reasonable person could and
 should risk their life to, say, have an enjoyable
 evening. I might risk my
 life driving to the bookstore tonight. :-)

AUUUGH!  Entering a 1+ ton pile of metal with
combustible matter strapped underneath, then
_entrusting_your_life_ to some other crazy out there
driving the same!  Don't do it, Dan!  Save yourself!
 
  If we didn't risk our lives like this,  we'd live
 in a cocoon of fear.
 
I *am* a bit more cautious now than when I was 20 or
so - OTOH, one student laughs that she'd rather face
an angry dog than 'the wrath of me'!  ;)

Debbi
I Pity The Fool Maru  ;}






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Tits

2005-03-18 Thread Jon Mann
I vote for natural, too, except in cases where there is a deformity.
Size doesn't matter for women as much as for men.  I have no problem
with plastic surgery, as long as there is no needless risk and the
doctor is competent.  Surgery techniques are improving (except for some
doctors who should have their licenses revoked).  My wife had breast
reduction surgery and the scars are rather pronounced.

I would recommend saline and to wait until after having her children
when she needs the implants for support.  I find a good shape more
attractive than basketballs or watermelons.

There are so many blondes with big tits it is no longer that much of a
novelty.  I am more interested in a woman I can have a conversation
with, who is fit and trim.  


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Re: Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 04:45 PM Friday 3/18/2005, Deborah Harrell wrote:
 Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  But I think it's *appalling* that teenagers are
 given
  breast implants as 'graduation presents' snip
 I think I know of an exception.  My daughter's
 friend is highly asymmetric
 because of birth defects.  Among other things, she
 was born without an
 esophagus.  The problem in question is that one
 breast developed normally,
 and one not at all.  Her mother paid for one implant
 when she graduated. snip
As Julia wrote, that is an exception (to my mind) as a
birth defect was involved (similar to my friend whose
medical condition did not allow her to develop at all
in that regard).
Julia also wrote: I think that it's a good idea to
put off any sort of body-altering surgery until at
least a few years after high school, if it's purely
for cosmetic reasons.
I agree.
Debbi
who dislikes that word intensely  :P

Which word?
Probably Missing Something Obvious Maru
--Ronn! :)
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Re: Woobs (was: Tits (a womans perspective))

2005-03-18 Thread Julia Thompson
Ronn!Blankenship wrote:
At 04:45 PM Friday 3/18/2005, Deborah Harrell wrote:
As Julia wrote, that is an exception (to my mind) as a
birth defect was involved (similar to my friend whose
medical condition did not allow her to develop at all
in that regard).
Julia also wrote: I think that it's a good idea to
put off any sort of body-altering surgery until at
least a few years after high school, if it's purely
for cosmetic reasons.
I agree.
Debbi
who dislikes that word intensely  :P


Which word?
Probably Missing Something Obvious Maru
--Ronn! :)
I was wondering that as well.  My guess is cosmetic.
I don't mind the word so much as part of its meaning  Especially the 
part that implies extra scents added to stuff so you end up smelling 
something you might be allergic to after one or another of your 
husband's female relatives gives you a hug.  (Or, worse yet, hugs one of 
your young offspring, and you can't snuggle with that one until there's 
been a bath or change of clothes.)

Julia
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Re: Woobs

2005-03-18 Thread Julia Thompson
Deborah Harrell wrote:
Dan Minette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
From: Deborah Harrell [EMAIL PROTECTED]

_Any_ surgery involving general
anesthesia carries a small but definite risk of
death.  How pathetic to risk one's life to be
well-endowed...
Something hit me about this saying.  Is the
following statement true or false?
Any horseback ride carries a small but definite risk
of death.

snort
Not doin' it for cosmetic reasons, though!
And of course, we risk death every time we get into a
car, or go to the bank, or fly in an airplane.  My
point is not to eliminate the risk of death, but to
reduce risking death *foolishly.*  And -- what Julia
said!  grin
Debbi
Strappped Down For The Ride Maru  ;D
Heck, if you're a woman, sex carries a small but definite risk of death 
-- women die from complications of pregnancy or childbirth, not as often 
as they used to, but still occasionally, even in the countries with the 
best medicine

Julia
most acutely aware lately of the risk to the child that comes from being 
born too early -- 1 death, 2 babies in NICU I know of personally  :(
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