Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-03 Thread Jan Coffey

--- Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 On Fri, Aug 01, 2003 at 11:07:35AM -0500, Dan Minette wrote:
 
  I've been following the mislabled thread on spelling and dysxia with
  some interest.  My spelling is horrid,
 
 Apparently your reading comprehension isn't so good either, Dan.
 
  So, my unsolicited advise to you Jan is that, by Erik insulting you as
  he has,
 
 Your statement suggests that you totally misunderstand the thread you
 are discussing. Maybe you should try to pay attention to the meaning of
 the threads you are replying to, Dan, rather than only looking at things
 superficially (like you are accusing me of doing w.r.t. spelling).
 
 By the way, it is interesting to note my reply when I was corrected
 for using theory when hypothesis would be more precise, and Jan's
 reaction when a certain phrase he used against someone else was turned
 back on him.
 

I see what you mean Dan. 

O, and Erik, yes we did turn phrases around a couple of times. The point of
that was to express the need for tolerance, and to express that everyone is
wrong once and a while even about things that the usualy correct others on. I
never did thank you for helping me to make that point, or for correcting my
error in the process.

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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-03 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Aug 03, 2003 at 12:46:48AM -0700, Jan Coffey wrote:

 O, and Erik, yes we did turn phrases around a couple of times. The
 point of that was to express the need for tolerance, and to express
 that everyone is wrong once and a while even about things that the
 usualy correct others on. I never did thank you for helping me to make
 that point, or for correcting my error in the process.

That's not necessary. By the way, I think we have a different idea of
what is meant by tolerance. I didn't intend to make any point about
spelling when I started that thread (my point was obviously about that
other phrase which has a million uses :-) , but as it turned out I did
(and do) have a little something to say about spelling and tolerance.

I DO tolerate bad spelling. By that, I mean that I continue to read
posts by people regardless of whether their spelling is 99% or 75% or
whatever. If I couldn't tolerate it, then I would killfile people who
make a lot of spelling errors. I think that would be silly, it is just
spelling, not a big deal, I would rather think about concepts than worry
too much about spelling. However, I don't think tolerating something
means not mentioning it. I got the impression that you felt that I
should not bring up the topic. And we apparently do disagree about
how a computer can be used to aid in spelling (my test of a phonetic
spelling program found that it could guess the correct spelling with
high probability and it gave a list of words with brief definitions so
the correct spelling could be easily chosen).

Although I am certainly capable of figuring out what is meant in posts
with 25% misspellings, it does slow me down considerably to read such a
post. Likewise, Jan, I think you are capable of using a good computer
program to improve your spelling, but it would also slow you down (and
we apparently disagree on how much).  Anyway, I don't think it is
intolerant to discuss this. As you may have noticed, no topic is sacred
to me. If you are unable to tolerate this quality of mine, you COULD
always killfile me. :-)


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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-03 Thread Jan Coffey
--- Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 On Sun, Aug 03, 2003 at 12:46:48AM -0700, Jan Coffey wrote:
 
  O, and Erik, yes we did turn phrases around a couple of times. The
  point of that was to express the need for tolerance, and to express
  that everyone is wrong once and a while even about things that the
  usually correct others on. I never did thank you for helping me to make
  that point, or for correcting my error in the process.
 
 That's not necessary. By the way, I think we have a different idea of
 what is meant by tolerance. I didn't intend to make any point about
 spelling when I started that thread (my point was obviously about that
 other phrase which has a million uses :-) , but as it turned out I did
 (and do) have a little something to say about spelling and tolerance.
 
 I DO tolerate bad spelling. By that, I mean that I continue to read
 posts by people regardless of whether their spelling is 99% or 75% or
 whatever. If I couldn't tolerate it, then I would killfile people who
 make a lot of spelling errors. I think that would be silly, it is just
 spelling, not a big deal, I would rather think about concepts than worry
 too much about spelling. However, I don't think tolerating something
 means not mentioning it. I got the impression that you felt that I
 should not bring up the topic. And we apparently do disagree about
 how a computer can be used to aid in spelling (my test of a phonetic
 spelling program found that it could guess the correct spelling with
 high probability and it gave a list of words with brief definitions so
 the correct spelling could be easily chosen).
 
 Although I am certainly capable of figuring out what is meant in posts
 with 25% misspellings, it does slow me down considerably to read such a
 post. Likewise, Jan, I think you are capable of using a good computer
 program to improve your spelling, but it would also slow you down (and
 we apparently disagree on how much).  Anyway, I don't think it is
 intolerant to discuss this. As you may have noticed, no topic is sacred
 to me. If you are unable to tolerate this quality of mine, you COULD
 always killfile me. :-)
 

No Erik I am not going to do that. No matter howunpleasant...some may
find your ...nitpicking... you do not have a tendency to be incorrect. not
that you are not, but it isn't a majority of the time.

Anyway, we do disagree on quite a bit here on the spelling issue, but that
was not what I was talking about. I was referring to earlier posts. We seem
to be turning ones arguments back on each other quite a bit. However, you use
of the particular phrase we a bit redundant and ridiculous. You could have
mearly(sp?) stated the point you were trying to make and been done with it.

I could say that you were in fact being something quite similar to passive
aggressive, only not in much of a passive style. And that, more than any
spelling issue is what really annoyed me. It just took me longer to realize
that was what I was responding to.

btw. I spent about 10 minutes spell checking this. I still can not find a
spelling for mearly that the checker will accept and so I gave up. 



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Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread Dan Minette
I've been following the mislabled thread on spelling and dysxia with some
interest.  My spelling is horrid, I've been gigged for it ever since I've
been on the list.  However, I've not taken insult for it because I
generally consider the gigging to be good natured.  Obviously, Erik is an
exception to this, but since he seems to be able to find something wrong
with just about everyone who differs with him, I don't take his insults too
seriously.  If Gautam or Julia or Rob or Debbie, or many other folks were
to consider my thoughts to be way off base, I'd take it a lot more
seriously.

So, my unsolicited advise to you Jan is that, by Erik insulting you as he
has, he has initiated you in a club that contains some pretty decent
members.  Unfortunately, since it isn't very exclusive, it may not be
prestigeous.

Outside of that context, Ritu's statement would probably have been taken
for either a genuine question, or a gentle gig, far gentler, in fact, than
the type Ronn would give meand I think Ronn's gigging me is usually
pretty funny.

On bad spelling and trouble memorizing being signs of dyslexia, I'm not so
sure.  I definately remember ideas better than facts, and my bad spelling
is well documented.  But, I'm also a sped redder, with very high
comprehention.  Indeed, on the SATs I scored in the top % for reading
comprehension.  My GRE score was lower, ~93 percentile, but that's not all
that bad.

So, I'm not so sure about the expanded meaning of dyslexia.

Dan M.


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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Aug 01, 2003 at 11:07:35AM -0500, Dan Minette wrote:

 I've been following the mislabled thread on spelling and dysxia with
 some interest.  My spelling is horrid,

Apparently your reading comprehension isn't so good either, Dan.

 So, my unsolicited advise to you Jan is that, by Erik insulting you as
 he has,

Your statement suggests that you totally misunderstand the thread you
are discussing. Maybe you should try to pay attention to the meaning of
the threads you are replying to, Dan, rather than only looking at things
superficially (like you are accusing me of doing w.r.t. spelling).

By the way, it is interesting to note my reply when I was corrected
for using theory when hypothesis would be more precise, and Jan's
reaction when a certain phrase he used against someone else was turned
back on him.


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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread Dan Minette

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From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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Sent: Friday, August 01, 2003 11:14 AM
Subject: Re: Bad Spelars


 On Fri, Aug 01, 2003 at 11:07:35AM -0500, Dan Minette wrote:

  I've been following the mislabled thread on spelling and dysxia with
  some interest.  My spelling is horrid,

 Apparently your reading comprehension isn't so good either, Dan.

  So, my unsolicited advise to you Jan is that, by Erik insulting you as
  he has,

 Your statement suggests that you totally misunderstand the thread you
 are discussing. Maybe you should try to pay attention to the meaning of
 the threads you are replying to, Dan, rather than only looking at things
 superficially (like you are accusing me of doing w.r.t. spelling).

Let me put forth a hypothesis to you.  Differing with you doesn't mean that
people misunderstand.


Dan M.


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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Aug 01, 2003 at 11:31:08AM -0500, Dan Minette wrote:

 Let me put forth a hypothesis to you.  Differing with you doesn't mean
 that people misunderstand.

In that case, you were writing imprecisely. Your meaning would have
been clearer if you wrote unintended insult, since my posts were
intended as constructive criticism rather than an insult (in most cases,
insult implies intent). If you did in fact understand what I meant, but
disagreed with my methods, then you did not express yourself well.


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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 12:44 PM 8/1/2003 -0400 Erik Reuter wrote:
 since my posts were
intended as constructive criticism rather than an insult 

In which case, why not provide your constructive criticism OFF-LIST?

If you were at a party, and you gave someone constructive criticism in a
voice loud enough for the whole party to hear, how constructive do you
imagine it would be?Far more likely, it will just put the person on the
defensive.   By posting comments to the entire List, you did exactly that -
speaking in a loud enough voice for the entire party to hear - and not
surprisingly, rather than your criticism being constructive, it ended up
putting people on the defensive.

JDG
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Re: Bad Spelars

2003-08-01 Thread Erik Reuter
On Fri, Aug 01, 2003 at 10:18:39PM -0400, John D. Giorgis wrote:

 In which case, why not provide your constructive criticism OFF-LIST?

Because I reply to list messages on list.

 If you were at a party, and you gave someone constructive criticism

This isn't a party.

 party to hear - and not surprisingly, rather than your criticism being
 constructive, it ended up putting people on the defensive.

On the contrary, I think it did both, but not in exactly the way I
expected.


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