[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-31 Thread dhamiltony2k5
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Yes, that's told very special.  Thanks, is a great story.  I showed 
 it around my household and everyone was blown away in turn.
 
 What life does bring.  What a great story of courage. That was only 
 60 years ago all that happened.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0HVg1kCpxU
 

I `ve, always liked good real stories.  Good real moral character 
type stories.  Stories where stands gets made on moral grounds of 
virtue.  Stories that show a virtuous presence of mind that has 
resolute a nature in life.  In human life often we are not called on 
to make hard or extraordinary choices and often the good stories of 
life are those where people stand out or stand in front of something 
by moral force.  By something of moral human character inside.

Good stories often turn on a presence of mind that has someone stand 
resolved.  Well told stories do tell what someone was thinking or 
doing `walking in those shoes' and sometimes a good story just helps 
you stand where someone stood for a moment.

I liked the story about your parents as it is told.  It is a good 
story.  

Different than just animal fight or flight, people can have their 
character of a soul to account for.  How that gets accounted for 
often makes story.  Your parents story is a great modern one.  

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/162641

Jai,
-Doug in FF


Marek Reavis [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister that 
 our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they have, 
and 
 that they're still available to resource despite their age.  It's 
 impossible to imagine the hardships and violence that so many 
people 
 in the 20th C. endured; I can't, at least.
 
 The folks you mention below, and my folks, are incredibly resistant 
 individuals, people of true character.  We've been lucky to know 
 them.
 
 Marek




 
Doug writing: 
 I remember an obituary last year published in the FF Ledger for 
 Harriet Berman's mother here.
 It was written in a common way, that she was fun and a great game 
 player and active in her later life and such.  The un-expanded part 
 of the obituary was that she grew up Jewish, in 1930's occupied 
 Poland.  I wondered then if the family had her story as she saw 
it.  
 Her MSAE grandson from FF then has now become a professional 
 journalist elsewhere, I wondered then if he had collected it or if 
it 
 had come to be too late.  There seemed to be an untold character 
 story in the obituary.  Certainly some veterans of those times only 
 wish to go on in life putting it behind them in their privacy.  
 
 That generation is passing fast now.
 My wife's dad was with the first army medical unit to arrive at 
 Dachau as US troops arrived and found it.  He has a scrap book with 
 photos and articles about it from then.  But now his own memory is 
 rickety and about all gone.
 
 At Revelations used bookstore here a while back I bought a used 
book 
 about all the concentration and work camps of Nazi Germany, in real 
 nice shape that had clippings from the war carefully folded in to 
the 
 book.  Evidently from someone's (from around here?) estate or 
 collection who seems to have been there.
 
 In town here we have a kind old guy who as a skilled handy-man 
takes 
 care of appliances.  As a boy he was displaced with his mother and 
 brother from East Prussian farming districts that were emptied of 
all 
 civilians as the Russian army came in that way against the Germans 
 during the war.  They traveled about as displaced civilians trying 
to 
 connect with their family's father who had been conscripted in to 
the 
 German army and sent down to Austria.  As the war narrowed down, 
like 
 with this other story they were separated by the lines of 
occupation 
 and it was quick heads-up thinking in hand-changing destinations on 
 travel documents that got them from the Russian occupied side over 
to 
 the American occupied side where the dad was later in the war.
 I am telling his story to you in writing this but even in doing 
that 
 I have left out a lot of viseral texture to the way he told it to 
me 
 directly.
 
 My dad had his stories from then too.  He is gone now and the 
 liveliness of those stories with him.  I remember some of them but 
 not the way he told them.
 
 -Doug in FF  
 
 
 
 
 
  Marek Reavis reavismarek@ wrote:
 
  Yeah, Curtis, my folks; the back stories are equally 
interesting.  
  And as you can see, the red wine (and the vodka) apparently 
haven't 
  diminished their capacities too much.  It's just a life and every 
  life is a story that each one of us has the opportunity to enrich 
  every day.  I always appreciate the stories shared on this forum 
 with 
  a community I feel so lucky to be a member of.
  
  Marek
  
  **
  
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  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-31 Thread tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
Doug Hamilton writes snipped:
Good stories often turn on a presence of mind that has someone stand 
resolved.  Well told stories do tell what someone was thinking or 
doing `walking in those shoes' and sometimes a good story just helps 
you stand where someone stood for a moment.

TomT:
Susan Herzberger (a TMer in FF who has been awake since 85) explained
it as story has the ability to by pass all the alarms of the modern
and sophisticated mind and get directly to the reptilian mind where
the message is taken in whole hog. Seems great teachers use them to
change minds without the permission of those listening to the story. Tom




[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-31 Thread Duveyoung

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Doug Hamilton writes snipped:
 Good stories often turn on a presence of mind that has someone stand
 resolved.  Well told stories do tell what someone was thinking or
 doing `walking in those shoes' and sometimes a good story just helps
 you stand where someone stood for a moment.

Edg: Cute quip I came across:  Before you criticize someone, you should
walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a
mile away and you have their shoes.

 TomT:
 Susan Herzberger (a TMer in FF who has been awake since 85) explained
 it as story has the ability to by pass all the alarms of the modern
 and sophisticated mind and get directly to the reptilian mind where
 the message is taken in whole hog. Seems great teachers use them to
 change minds without the permission of those listening to the story.
Tom

Edg:  Whew!  That's a new concept for me!  Shudder!  Talk about
controlling the masses.  All we need is a spiritually sensitive George
Bush to control the world!  That said, I hope that Susan's insomnia will
someday be cured!



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-30 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Jan 29, 2008, at 9:55 PM, Marek Reavis wrote:


Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister that
our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they have, and
that they're still available to resource despite their age.  It's
impossible to imagine the hardships and violence that so many people
in the 20th C. endured; I can't, at least.

The folks you mention below, and my folks, are incredibly resistant
individuals, people of true character.  We've been lucky to know
them.


OK, Marek, so which one of those beautiful kids at the end was you?

Sal




[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-30 Thread Marek Reavis
Sal, I never even made it to the cutting room floor.  Don't know who 
those kids were.  

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--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 On Jan 29, 2008, at 9:55 PM, Marek Reavis wrote:
 
  Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister 
that
  our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they have, 
and
  that they're still available to resource despite their age.  It's
  impossible to imagine the hardships and violence that so many 
people
  in the 20th C. endured; I can't, at least.
 
  The folks you mention below, and my folks, are incredibly 
resistant
  individuals, people of true character.  We've been lucky to know
  them.
 
 OK, Marek, so which one of those beautiful kids at the end was you?
 
 Sal





[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-30 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Marek Reavis [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister
 that our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they
 have, and that they're still available to resource despite their
 age.

Have you considered getting your parents to relate
their experiences in detail into a tape recorder,
to do an oral history project with them?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-30 Thread Marek Reavis
Judy, my brother has hours of interviews with them and a book in 
progress for many years now.  Whether it ever comes together or not as 
a published piece, it's chocked full of amazing stories and unlikely 
coincidences.  One memory I have was the visit of an old guy by the 
name of John de Rosen to our home sometime in the early 60s.  

He was a Polish mosaic artist and he was in Saint Louis at the time to 
work on a large mural he was commissioned to do for the Saint Louis 
Cathedral, a gorgeous (and massive) Romanesque church that was in 
construction for most of the 20th Century.  He also did the huge mosaic 
of the Christ above the altar in the National Cathedral in D.C. and 
stuff at the Pope's Castle Gandolfo.

Anyway, there had been a story about his Saint Louis project in the 
papers at the time and my mother read about it and wrote to him because 
she remembered him from times he had come to her father's Castle Lesko 
where he had designed the stained glass work for the chapel. 

He came and visited for the day and brought with him a small painting 
as a gift for my mother; it was one of the original designs he had 
prepared for her father before the final approval, construction and 
installation of the windows.  He wrote a sweet dedication to her at the 
bottom and it's been hanging in the foyer ever since.

Very cool stuff, for sure.

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--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Marek Reavis reavismarek@ 
 wrote:
 
  Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister
  that our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they
  have, and that they're still available to resource despite their
  age.
 
 Have you considered getting your parents to relate
 their experiences in detail into a tape recorder,
 to do an oral history project with them?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-29 Thread feste37
The Goethe poem is a favorite of mine; Schubert set it to music and
made it even more moving.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Here's a Buchenwald story for you.  When the Allies liberated
Buchenwald, it became part of the Russian gulag, and the Russian
occupation army filled it back up with prisoners under pretty much the
same horrible conditions that had tortured and killed so many Jews
there.  But this time the prisoners were not Jews, they were Germans,
and my aunt Maria did time there for nine years.  
 
 The name, Buchenwald means beech forest, and it had indeed been
a beech forest once upon a time when the great 19th century German
poet, Goethe, liked to take walks there.  The forest is mostly gone
now, but one centuries-old beech tree had survived, standing in the
middle of the courtyard at Buchenwald the prison, and it had a plaque
with one of Goethe's most famous poems engraved on it:
  
 Wanderer's Nachtlied
 
 Ueber allen Gipfeln 
 Ist Ruh,
 In allen Wipfeln
 Spuerest du
 Kaum einen Hauch;
 Die Voegelein schweigen im Walde.
 Warte nur! Balde
 Ruhest du auch.
 
 The Wanderer's Night Song
 
 Above all mountain tops
 is peace,
 In all the tree tops
 you feel
 hardly a breath;
 birds are silent in their nests,
 But wait!  Soon
 you, too, shall rest. 
 
 My aunt told me that this tree and its poem were of immeasurable
comfort to her and to the other prisoners at Buchenwald, but when the
prison guards learned of this, they cut it down.
 
 
  
 - Original Message 
 From: dhamiltony2k5 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Sent: Tuesday, January 29, 2008 7:34:52 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Veterans of Life
 
 Yes, that's told very special. Thanks, is a great story. I showed 
 it around my household and everyone was blown away in turn.
 
 What life does bring. What a great story of courage. That was only 
 60 years ago all that happened.
 
 http://www.youtube. com/watch? v=w0HVg1kCpxU
 
 I remember an obituary last year published in the FF Ledger for 
 Harriet Berman's mother here.
 It was written in a common way, that she was fun and a great game 
 player and active in her later life and such. The un-expanded part 
 of the obituary was that she grew up Jewish, in 1930's occupied 
 Poland. I wondered then if the family had her story as she saw it. 
 Her MSAE grandson from FF then has now become a professional 
 journalist elsewhere, I wondered then if he had collected it or if it 
 had come to be too late. There seemed to be an untold character 
 story in the obituary. Certainly some veterans of those times only 
 wish to go on in life putting it behind them in their privacy. 
 
 That generation is passing fast now.
 My wife's dad was with the first army medical unit to arrive at 
 Dachau as US troops arrived and found it. He has a scrap book with 
 photos and articles about it from then. But now his own memory is 
 rickety and about all gone.
 
 At Revelations used bookstore here a while back I bought a used book 
 about all the concentration and work camps of Nazi Germany, in real 
 nice shape that had clippings from the war carefully folded in to the 
 book. Evidently from someone's (from around here?) estate or 
 collection who seems to have been there.
 
 In town here we have a kind old guy who as a skilled handy-man takes 
 care of appliances. As a boy he was displaced with his mother and 
 brother from East Prussian farming districts that were emptied of all 
 civilians as the Russian army came in that way against the Germans 
 during the war. They traveled about as displaced civilians trying to 
 connect with their family's father who had been conscripted in to the 
 German army and sent down to Austria. As the war narrowed down, like 
 with this other story they were separated by the lines of occupation 
 and it was quick heads-up thinking in hand-changing destinations on 
 travel documents that got them from the Russian occupied side over to 
 the American occupied side where the dad was later in the war.
 I am telling his story to you in writing this but even in doing that 
 I have left out a lot of viseral texture to the way he told it to me 
 directly.
 
 My dad had his stories from then too. He is gone now and the 
 liveliness of those stories with him. I remember some of them but 
 not the way he told them.
 
 -Doug in FF 
 
  Marek Reavis reavismarek@ ... wrote:
 
  Yeah, Curtis, my folks; the back stories are equally interesting. 
  And as you can see, the red wine (and the vodka) apparently haven't 
  diminished their capacities too much. It's just a life and every 
  life is a story that each one of us has the opportunity to enrich 
  every day. I always appreciate the stories shared on this forum 
 with 
  a community I feel so lucky to be a member of.
  
  Marek
  
  **
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@ yahoogroups. com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@  wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@ yahoogroups. com, 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Veterans of Life

2008-01-29 Thread Marek Reavis
Thanks, Doug, it's been lucky for me and my brother and sister that 
our folks have shared their memories as thoroughly as they have, and 
that they're still available to resource despite their age.  It's 
impossible to imagine the hardships and violence that so many people 
in the 20th C. endured; I can't, at least.

The folks you mention below, and my folks, are incredibly resistant 
individuals, people of true character.  We've been lucky to know 
them.

Marek

**

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Yes, that's told very special.  Thanks, is a great story.  I 
showed 
 it around my household and everyone was blown away in turn.
 
 What life does bring.  What a great story of courage. That was 
only 
 60 years ago all that happened.
 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0HVg1kCpxU
 
 
 
 I remember an obituary last year published in the FF Ledger for 
 Harriet Berman's mother here.
 It was written in a common way, that she was fun and a great game 
 player and active in her later life and such.  The un-expanded 
part 
 of the obituary was that she grew up Jewish, in 1930's occupied 
 Poland.  I wondered then if the family had her story as she saw 
it.  
 Her MSAE grandson from FF then has now become a professional 
 journalist elsewhere, I wondered then if he had collected it or if 
it 
 had come to be too late.  There seemed to be an untold character 
 story in the obituary.  Certainly some veterans of those times 
only 
 wish to go on in life putting it behind them in their privacy.  
 
 That generation is passing fast now.
 My wife's dad was with the first army medical unit to arrive at 
 Dachau as US troops arrived and found it.  He has a scrap book 
with 
 photos and articles about it from then.  But now his own memory is 
 rickety and about all gone.
 
 At Revelations used bookstore here a while back I bought a used 
book 
 about all the concentration and work camps of Nazi Germany, in 
real 
 nice shape that had clippings from the war carefully folded in to 
the 
 book.  Evidently from someone's (from around here?) estate or 
 collection who seems to have been there.
 
 In town here we have a kind old guy who as a skilled handy-man 
takes 
 care of appliances.  As a boy he was displaced with his mother and 
 brother from East Prussian farming districts that were emptied of 
all 
 civilians as the Russian army came in that way against the Germans 
 during the war.  They traveled about as displaced civilians trying 
to 
 connect with their family's father who had been conscripted in to 
the 
 German army and sent down to Austria.  As the war narrowed down, 
like 
 with this other story they were separated by the lines of 
occupation 
 and it was quick heads-up thinking in hand-changing destinations 
on 
 travel documents that got them from the Russian occupied side over 
to 
 the American occupied side where the dad was later in the war.
 I am telling his story to you in writing this but even in doing 
that 
 I have left out a lot of viseral texture to the way he told it to 
me 
 directly.
 
 My dad had his stories from then too.  He is gone now and the 
 liveliness of those stories with him.  I remember some of them but 
 not the way he told them.
 
 -Doug in FF  
 
 
 
 
 
  Marek Reavis reavismarek@ wrote:
 
  Yeah, Curtis, my folks; the back stories are equally 
interesting.  
  And as you can see, the red wine (and the vodka) apparently 
haven't 
  diminished their capacities too much.  It's just a life and 
every 
  life is a story that each one of us has the opportunity to 
enrich 
  every day.  I always appreciate the stories shared on this forum 
 with 
  a community I feel so lucky to be a member of.
  
  Marek
  
  **
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Marek Reavis 
 reavismarek@
   wrote:
   
Curtis, here's another story I think you might enjoy told 
last 
  year 
to a local Saint Louis PBS station in Saint Louis, 
accompanied 
  with 
some inexpensive red wine.
   
   Totally blown away!  Thanks for sending this Marek.  Your 
folks?  
  What
   a fascinating couple.  What a life!  I live for stories like 
this!
   
   
   
   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0HVg1kCpxU

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