Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL lets return to but35 posts per week

2013-08-29 Thread Bhairitu
Ariana Huffington is a computer illiterate probably still trying to 
figure out her Blackberry.  A lot of the late comers to computer seem to 
hate anonymity but it is as old as the hills.  And so are trolls.  You 
must not have read the letters to the editors in newspapers back in 
the day where they printed your real name.  Thing is, everyone new these 
curmudgeons who were always writing in to the paper and pushing their 
agendas to get attention.  They were the online era trolls.


Handles became popular because with 300 baud modems you didn't want to 
waste bits on your full name.  Nor did we want to waste bits on Dear, 
so the memo form was adopted for email and online posts.


And if you have to use your real name, have you ever checked to see how 
many people just in Iowa have the same name as you not to mention the 
US?  Last I checked there were 11 people in the Bay Area who had the 
same name I have.


The sky isn't falling because the posting limits went away and I would 
declare it a success.  Sure the first week there were a lot of posts but 
look at the trend, this week is more moderate.  We don't need any 
fucking posting limits!  Nor do we need any block chairmen to moderate 
our speech.  This isn't Cuba, Buck.



On 08/29/2013 03:05 AM, Buck wrote:


Seems Yahoo! By policy guidelines of moderation is not the only 
internet provider Ratcheting up troll-controls:


Huffingtonpost: I predict the same will happen here and anywhere else 
where troll-controls are ratcheting up. Instead of killing business, 
it will bring back those who've stayed away, unwilling to put up with 
online ugliness; in fact, several people I've heard from have made 
that exact point.


this action by /HuffPost/, as well as the moderation policies on 
Facebook and other sites, are good efforts towards raising the bar. 
Tweaks will surely be needed, but it's a start. Most meaningful online 
discourse /does not/require anonymity to be rich, candid and 
inspiring, but it does require a willingness to develop smart, 
respectful, effective communication skills. That used to be a societal 
norm; it ought to be again. I hope, like the cigarette ban, we get to 
the point where we can't even remember what it was like when trollers 
ran the show, just as it seems strange to remember when the table next 
to us could smoke-out our dinner without consideration.



It is timely, -Buck


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lorraine-devon-wilke/welcome-to-the-cult-of-an_b_3813766.html 







 Yup, the ad hominem is right up the with pornography on Yahoo 
groups. Yahoo is being ahead of the curve on this on the internet. 
Yahoo really is being quite good and spiritual with its new guidelines 
for groups. FFL should come into alignment.


 
  Friends, But the larger problem we have now is with the new Yahoo 
guidelines and our under-moderated ad hominem homid members 
threatening the life=blood of the whole group.

 
  
   People obviously have way too many posts to fire and burn here.
   
Recent case in point, quote: I thought it was mean spirited, 
actually. Same old invectives hurled at someone:

 Are you dumb, or dull, or nuts?
   
   

 
  Yahoo! Groups give Yahoo! users a place to meet, 
interact, and share ideas with each other. .. Yahoo! sets out the 
terms and conditions of your use ..  some of the key things to 
remember are:

  1. You may not harass, abuse, threaten, or advocate violence
 

 Yep, personal by its nature the use the ad hominem is abuse 
on all these levels.


  
   Friends;
   But we got a larger problem in want of a better decorum 
for FFL: Yes, by the virtue of the new Yahoo-groups guidelines being 
placed over us we should directly outlaw the ad hominem and 
name-calling forms of argument as lower than the lowest and directly 
banish those who use them here as the fundamental and great threat to 
our whole way of life here on a Yahoo-group that they are.

   Kindly,
   -Buck
  
   
Yep these people have taken toll the life spark of 
FairfieldLife here on Yahoo-groups with the Ad hominems. Time comes 
now to do with serious moderation or surely let the list die entirely. 
Seems a time has come for action one way or the other. Radical action. 
Resuscitation or it dies.

   



 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wleed3 wrote:
 
  I am leaving if the postings are not reduced much 
is vitriol

 
 

 Yep, the name-calling and the ad hominem certainly 
are the low forms of argument here and should certainly be outlawed in 
civil society and on all Yahoo groups as reprehensible abuse. Yes, by 
stark contrast certainly the best writing and exchange on FFL was in a 
time when the post count was limited to 35 per week. This list cries 
out for a limit to abuse and a strong hand of moderation. A strict 
speed limit of 35 posts per week.

 -Buck

 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL lets return to but35 posts per week

2013-08-28 Thread Share Long
turqish delight, why so uptight?
trees have a blight? world has a plight?
Delay of a flight and no yummies to bite?
No sleep in the night, dream fall from a height?
Hair such a sight, bed head quite?!

No buddies to fight or even feel fright,
No posts to write with pinchy of spite?
Left too unright, sunny too bright?
Blood cells too white, boobies too slight?
Pen without might, saber no light?

Too much Coke, not enough Sprite?
If words too trite and rhyming too shiteOne could go and yes, fly a kite!




 From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, August 28, 2013 11:04 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL lets 
return to but35 posts per week
 


  
 Stop talking *at* us and talk *with* us.

Whatever for?

If the function of Internet discussion groups 
is to provide 'food for thought,' then FFL has 
become McDonalds.


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL lets return to but35 posts per week

2013-08-27 Thread Bhairitu
I'm wondering if Buck is one the TM'ers who doesn't get calm from 
meditation but anxiety instead?  IOW, TM isn't for him and needs a 
different technique.


On 08/26/2013 07:46 PM, emptybill wrote:



Quit complaining. You sound like an
old woman with excess stomach acid.

Just start your own forum so you can
rule it as you choose.

Not willing? Then shut the fuck up.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:


 Friends;
 But we got a larger problem in want of a better decorum for FFL: Yes,
by the virtue of the new Yahoo-groups guidelines being placed over us we
should directly outlaw the ad hominem and name-calling forms of argument
as lower than the lowest and directly banish those who use them here as
the fundamental and great threat to our whole way of life here on a
Yahoo-group that they are.
 Kindly,
 -Buck

 
  Yep these people have taken toll the life spark of FairfieldLife
here on Yahoo-groups with the Ad hominems. Time comes now to do with
serious moderation or surely let the list die entirely. Seems a time
has come for action one way or the other. Radical action.
Resuscitation or it dies.
 
  
  
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, wleed3 wrote:

   
I am leaving if the postings are not reduced much is vitriol
   
   
  
   Yep, the name-calling and the ad hominem certainly are the low
forms of argument here and should certainly be outlawed in civil society
and on all Yahoo groups as reprehensible abuse. Yes, by stark contrast
certainly the best writing and exchange on FFL was in a time when the
post count was limited to 35 per week. This list cries out for a limit
to abuse and a strong hand of moderation. A strict speed limit of 35
posts per week.
   -Buck
  
   
In a message dated 08/23/13 16:55:50 Eastern Daylight Time,
dhamiltony2k5@ writes:
Dear Rick, the post-count experiment as a noble hope is clearly
failing. The lowest form of writing and argument evidently dominates
FFL with their diluting flood of the post-count of FFL. As an elder of
the FFL community here I implore you Rick, please save our FFL from the
lowest form of argument on FFL, the Ad hominem . These people's abuse
of the list and community here with the Ad hominem is too much.
Something radical, something different needs to be done to save FFL as a
spiritual and free place.
Sincerely,
-Buck
   
   
   

   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-24 Thread Share Long
Rick, I agree that there have been more substantive discussions on a wider 
range of topics that occurred with posting limits. I'm reminded of something 
insightful that seraphita said a few weeks ago about maybe people weren't 
responding to interesting posts but rather were saving their posts, and here I 
don't remember exactly what he said but it was something like that maybe people 
were saving their posts for when they felt they had to defend themselves. 


Hopefully those who haven't like unlimited posting in the past will at least 
lurk and see that there are some very good topics which are getting good air 
time.



 From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Friday, August 23, 2013 9:19 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

snip
 


  

there have also been many
more substantive discussions on a wider range of topics than
when the posting limit was in effect. It's just been a
pleasure to be able to expand into an interesting
conversation. Nobody has been attempting to drown out
anybody, but then that was always a silly myth.

This past week we had only about 2/3 the number of posts
as the previous week (922 vs. 1372). So my prediction that
things would slow down once we got used to the new freedom
seems to have been borne out.


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-23 Thread Bhairitu
Yup, I find a lot of the chatter here boring.  Like Rick, I have a 
filter that copies any message that addresses me to a sub folder on 
Thunderbird.


On 08/23/2013 08:29 AM, Susan wrote:


Agreed that a huge percentage of posts here are ad hominum, and 
usually made by the same people over and over and over. I think they 
enjoy that type of interaction, thrive on it even. Not my style, 
though. And not at all the way things used to be here, as you know. 
One solution is not to read them. At all. Works for me.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... 
wrote:


 Dear Rick, the post-count experiment as a noble hope is clearly 
failing. The lowest form of writing and argument evidently dominates 
FFL with their diluting flood of the post-count of FFL. As an elder of 
the FFL community here I implore you Rick, please save our FFL from 
the lowest form of argument on FFL, the Ad hominem . These people's 
abuse of the list and community here with the Ad hominem is too much. 
Something radical, something different needs to be done to save FFL as 
a spiritual and free place.

 Sincerely,
 -Buck







RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of salyavin808
Sent: Friday, August 23, 2013 10:53 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

 

  



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 Dear Rick, the post-count experiment as a noble hope is clearly failing.
The lowest form of writing and argument evidently dominates FFL with their
diluting flood of the post-count of FFL. As an elder of the FFL community
here I implore you Rick, please save our FFL from the lowest form of
argument on FFL, the Ad hominem . These people's abuse of the list and
community here with the Ad hominem is too much. Something radical, something
different needs to be done to save FFL as a spiritual and free place.
 Sincerely,
 -Buck

Let's go back to 50 a week and stop the endless dross.

If the general consensus is to do so, we'll do so after Alex has had his
month's reprieve. 



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Alex Stanley
Sent: Friday, August 23, 2013 11:50 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

 

  



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer rick@...
mailto:rick@...  wrote:

 If the general consensus is to do so, we'll do so after Alex has
 had his month's reprieve.

Perhaps, you missed it, Rick, but I made it clear in an earlier post that if
you restore the posting limits, you will need to appoint another moderator
to enforce it, i.e., keep track of overposters and shut off/restore posting
privileges. I will continue to host the post count script on the crusty old
Dell laptop, and I'll handle the usual subscriptions, spammers, files, etc.
But, if you don't appoint another moderator, I will simply ignore any
overposting.

As for who to appoint, IMO, the heavy users of the group should be the ones
to handle enforcement of the posting limits.

Isn't that a bit like appointing the foxes to guard the hen house?



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-23 Thread Bhairitu

On 08/23/2013 10:50 AM, Rick Archer wrote:


*From:*FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
[mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com] *On Behalf Of *Alex Stanley

*Sent:* Friday, August 23, 2013 11:50 AM
*To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
*Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count 
on FFL.




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@... 
mailto:rick@... wrote:


 If the general consensus is to do so, we'll do so after Alex has
 had his month's reprieve.

Perhaps, you missed it, Rick, but I made it clear in an earlier post 
that if you restore the posting limits, you will need to appoint 
another moderator to enforce it, i.e., keep track of overposters and 
shut off/restore posting privileges. I will continue to host the post 
count script on the crusty old Dell laptop, and I'll handle the usual 
subscriptions, spammers, files, etc. But, if you don't appoint another 
moderator, I will simply ignore any overposting.


As for who to appoint, IMO, the heavy users of the group should be the 
ones to handle enforcement of the posting limits.


Isn't that a bit like appointing the foxes to guard the hen house?



Correct.  The heavy users seem to be impulsive.  They post knee jerk 
reactions.  Not a sign at all of the calmness that is supposed to be the 
result of practicing a meditation technique.








Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count on FFL.

2013-08-23 Thread Bhairitu

It's Friday.  Go have a beer or two. :-D

On 08/23/2013 01:50 PM, doctordumb...@rocketmail.com wrote:


What-The-HELL-Is-That-Supposed-To-Mean

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:


 On 08/23/2013 10:50 AM, Rick Archer wrote:
 
  *From:*FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:%2AFairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com
  [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com] *On Behalf Of *Alex Stanley

  *Sent:* Friday, August 23, 2013 11:50 AM
  *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com

  *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: Eliminating the Ad hominem Post-count
  on FFL.
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com

  mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@
  mailto:rick@ wrote:
  
   If the general consensus is to do so, we'll do so after Alex has
   had his month's reprieve.
 
  Perhaps, you missed it, Rick, but I made it clear in an earlier post
  that if you restore the posting limits, you will need to appoint
  another moderator to enforce it, i.e., keep track of overposters and
  shut off/restore posting privileges. I will continue to host the post
  count script on the crusty old Dell laptop, and I'll handle the usual
  subscriptions, spammers, files, etc. But, if you don't appoint 
another

  moderator, I will simply ignore any overposting.
 
  As for who to appoint, IMO, the heavy users of the group should be 
the

  ones to handle enforcement of the posting limits.
 
  Isn't that a bit like appointing the foxes to guard the hen house?
 

 Correct. The heavy users seem to be impulsive. They post knee jerk
 reactions. Not a sign at all of the calmness that is supposed to be the
 result of practicing a meditation technique.