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Judy, we remember it differently. Several articles about faulty memories have been posted recently. I think they apply also. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: Share doubles down on her lie: RWC and I had our big upset on Sept 6 and then Dudy butted in on Sept 9. Before that we all got along. No, we did not all get along before that. Dudy even warned me once when I was new and almost posted out. You really just have to be amazed at her brazenness. No conscience. Yes, Quare, when you were new, before it was clear what a crappy human being you were, I did do you that favor. Complete non sequitur in this context, as you know. On Friday, November 22, 2013 5:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: Share lied: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. This is a deliberate falsehood. As Share very well knows (and as I've reminded her over the past few days), she had run afoul of me (and Ann and Emily) well before her big mess-up with Robin. Those occasions were marked by her standard tactics: obfuscation, disingenuity, and refusal to take responsibility for her behavior (as she does above).
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Actually Turq's is a fair summary of a longer history. I feel Rick as owner here in conjunction with Yahoo Groups unkindness guidelines has good grounds to act swiftly and summarily on this. Rick would not even need to explain himself doing it. Most all understand that FFL was derailed and taken over by unkindness. Rick, get this over with and save the FFL group before Yahoo groups management closes it. The grounds are certainly clear for this, -Buck ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: turq, I'll quote an old holy man from an old story: is that so? On Saturday, November 23, 2013 4:18 AM, TurquoiseB turquoiseb@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. Do not flatter yourself, Share. Judy's mission, whatever it is, started with her second post to FFL, back on May 18, 2005. That's when she admitted to having stalked one of her old enemies from alt.meditation.transcendental to FFL, taking some quotes from one of his posts here, and reposting them back on a.m.t. to further her vendetta against him there. She then commenced the same vendetta here on FFL, one that has not let up in any way in the years since. Along the way she did exactly the same thing with other posters she didn't like -- Curtis, Vaj, Sally Sunshine, Ruth, and many others. You might not recognize some of the names, because they grew so tired of 1) her unceasing harassment and 2) the fact that she had lowered this forum to such a low level of constant bickering and argumentation that they found nothing worth sticking around for. That probably was the goal of her mission in the first place, to drive away anyone who didn't bow to her pose as the authority in all things, She Who Must Not Be Contradicted, And Who Must Be Obeyed In All Things. :-) You're small potatoes, Share. She only focuses on you these days because you're one of the *only* people left on the forum who haven't caught on to her act, and as a result just ignore her as the vindictive, know-nothing ego-beast she is. Her whole pursuit of you is *not* (as you'd like to believe) because you're special. It's because you're SUCH A SUCKER. She knows that in you she's found someone with an ego as fragile and as sensitive as hers, and so whenever she or one of her minions attacks you or pokes fun at you, you'll feel that you have to reply. YOU HAVE NEVER 'GOTTEN' THAT SHE *WANTS* YOU TO REPLY. She *lives* for her enemies replying to her attacks and/or rebutting them. *No matter what happens and what is said*, she considers each and every one of the ensuing exchanges a victory. She claims to have won all of them. So the game IS really all about getting suckers to respond. In this sense, she is *exactly* like Richard. *His* goal is to try to poke and prod at people until they respond to him; then he's proved himself as a Class A Troll, and -- again, in *his* mind -- has won. Judy is *exactly* the same. The one thing that neither of them can cope with is someone figuring out this act and *not* responding. That drives them up the wall, and makes them feel as if they and what they say is of so little consequence that no one *needs* to pay attention to any of it, much less respond to it. In other words, it gives them a taste of reality. You *feed* her insanity by standing up for yourself, Share. And in a very real sense, YOU'RE JUST LIKE HER. Whenever the attacks on you die down, YOU find a way to restart them, so that you can say stuff and get people to respond to you, too. And -- just like Judy -- you are oblivious to the fact that these ongoing bitch-fests have lowered the entire consciousness of FFL, and driven a lot of people away. They *didn't* leave because of Neo; they left because YOU AND JUDY lobbied to have the posting limits removed, so you could spam this forum with your pettiness as much as you wanted to. Removing Ravi a second time was IMO a good decision on Rick's part. His vindictive bipolarism have caused at least one person to leave this forum when he was readmitted; maybe that person will come back and participate now that he's gone, hopefully for good this time. But if Rick *really* wanted to clean up the act of Fairfield Life, what he could do is remove the two people who most contribute to dragging it down into the gutter of petty, endless, ego-bickering. A few weeks without either YOU *or* JUDY, and her minions would dry up and blow away, and perhaps the forum could return to discussing things of actual interest again.
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---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote: Actually Turq's is a fair summary of a longer history. I feel Rick as owner here in conjunction with Yahoo Groups unkindness guidelines has good grounds to act swiftly and summarily on this. Rick would not even need to explain himself doing it. Most all understand that FFL was derailed and taken over by unkindness. Rick, get this over with and save the FFL group before Yahoo groups management closes it. The grounds are certainly clear for this, -Buck Buck, as much as you might be an upstanding and model citizen in the faraway land of make believe that is FF Iowa people like yourself are a menace to what I like to believe as the free world. Your misguided, albeit sincere, beliefs as well as your idea of what constitutes reasonable dialogue between human beings is faulty at best and downright draconian at worst. Your world would be a world of dictatorial mandates aimed at creating model citizens engaging in a homogenous ritual of daily practices and form of dress and mode of living that goes against everything I live and breath for. Your recent insistence that Ravi be banned from the forum is one such example of this closed minded and terrifying ethical stand and viewpoint that you hold so dear to your breast. The fact that it was implemented on this forum, that Ravi was de-listed as a member in good standing, is a farce. Your idea of what constitutes spirituality has so far missed the reality of things that I wonder what you really know about any of it. You are someone who gets the benefit of working in the soil, getting into the grit of what farm life and what being around animals can really do for one's soul and at the same time you have potential access to daily practices of meditation and are surrounded by others of like interests and yet you appear a man who has missed the proverbial boat - by a country mile. But the point of my letter is not to bring Buck up on the carpet, I don't believe you (Buck) are going to change in this lifetime. My point here is to bring forth my feelings on this matter of censorship of one human being named Ravi and to have focused, for just a moment, on the rather terrifying forces that could have caused this to happen thanks to the one, strident voice, who demanded it (Buck's). Of course, the censorship of Ravi's voice at FFL is preposterous and completely unfounded if one were to, for five minutes, take an overview of the average post and poster here. Everywhere you turn there are examples of the worst, and sometimes the best, of what human beings are capable of. There is virtually no one on this forum who has not lied, threatened the beliefs of others, pandered, manipulated, abused or otherwise exhibited the near infinite machinations humans can go through in a day. Currently there are those who I believe exhibit some of the more odious characteristics that a fellow member of the human race can embody and yet they are posting happily away to their heart's content - constantly. So it boggles my mind that one man, an outspoken and graphically explicit/strident man mind you, is singled out because Empty chooses to (allegedly) lie about Ravi's actions and Buck screams loud enough for censorship when Ravi, rightly so, strikes back at Empty and his accusations. Controlling the input at FFL like this is not what this place should be about. If that were the case there would be one man left standing and that would be the soft spoken and non confrontational contributor called John. As nice as he is, one man's voice a forum does not make. Perhaps my strongest argument to reinstate Ravi would be Emily's post yesterday. If Ravi and Empty had not engaged in the way they did we would not have had the opportunity to have witnessed this magnificent and revealing and human post of Emily's. That is what this place should be all about. I strongly encourage those who can make the decision to reinstate the potential for Ravi to continue to participate here. I doubt he will care one way or another but it is the principal, the fairness, the open mindedness which is vital here, not the outcome of whether Ravi would ever choose to use his voice here that is most important. LET PEOPLE SPEAK AND BE THEMSELVES; it is often the cause of the greatest and most meaningful spiritual/life revelations. Silence bred of censorship and fear is a silence reminiscent of the worst kind of death. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: turq, I'll quote an old holy man from an old story: is that so? On Saturday, November 23, 2013 4:18 AM, TurquoiseB turquoiseb@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. Do not flatter yourself, Share. Judy's mission, whatever it is, started with her second post to FFL, back on May
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No, it's not so. Barry packed as many lies as he possibly could into this post. And I mean lies--deliberate misstatements of fact. It would take me longer than it's worth to rebut all of them; I'll just give one example. He writes: That's when she admitted to having stalked one of her old enemies from alt.meditation.transcendental to FFL. I admitted no such thing, because--surprise!--it wasn't the case. In fact, Barry urged everyone on alt.m.t to come over to FFL, and several of us took him up on it. If anybody's interested in the extent of Barry's fabrications in this post, see the originals of the posts he lies about, here (from FFL--read from the bottom up): http://www.mail-archive.com/fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com/msg08231.html http://www.mail-archive.com/fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com/msg08231.html The reason I spoke up on FFL in the first place was that Barry and Vaj had both told lies about what went on on alt.m.t. And here (on alt.m.t, the paragraphs I copied from one of his FFL posts, plus a bunch of his alt.m.t posts, showing the contrast between his self-presentation there and his self-presentation here (i.e., to show what a hypocrite he was): https://groups.google.com/forum/?hl=en#!original/alt.meditation.transcendental/CXuwxGycoEU/zRsjlVlfQaEJ https://groups.google.com/forum/?hl=en#!original/alt.meditation.transcendental/CXuwxGycoEU/zRsjlVlfQaEJ Also, there is in his current post one whopping self-contradiction. Can you spot it? This usually happens when he writes one of his lie-crammed posts; there are too many lies for him to keep them all in mind and make sure they don't conflict with each other. Anyway, the rest of his post is no more honest than the lies I cited above. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: turq, I'll quote an old holy man from an old story: is that so? On Saturday, November 23, 2013 4:18 AM, TurquoiseB turquoiseb@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. Do not flatter yourself, Share. Judy's mission, whatever it is, started with her second post to FFL, back on May 18, 2005. That's when she admitted to having stalked one of her old enemies from alt.meditation.transcendental to FFL, taking some quotes from one of his posts here, and reposting them back on a.m.t. to further her vendetta against him there. She then commenced the same vendetta here on FFL, one that has not let up in any way in the years since. Along the way she did exactly the same thing with other posters she didn't like -- Curtis, Vaj, Sally Sunshine, Ruth, and many others. You might not recognize some of the names, because they grew so tired of 1) her unceasing harassment and 2) the fact that she had lowered this forum to such a low level of constant bickering and argumentation that they found nothing worth sticking around for. That probably was the goal of her mission in the first place, to drive away anyone who didn't bow to her pose as the authority in all things, She Who Must Not Be Contradicted, And Who Must Be Obeyed In All Things. :-) You're small potatoes, Share. She only focuses on you these days because you're one of the *only* people left on the forum who haven't caught on to her act, and as a result just ignore her as the vindictive, know-nothing ego-beast she is. Her whole pursuit of you is *not* (as you'd like to believe) because you're special. It's because you're SUCH A SUCKER. She knows that in you she's found someone with an ego as fragile and as sensitive as hers, and so whenever she or one of her minions attacks you or pokes fun at you, you'll feel that you have to reply. YOU HAVE NEVER 'GOTTEN' THAT SHE *WANTS* YOU TO REPLY. She *lives* for her enemies replying to her attacks and/or rebutting them. *No matter what happens and what is said*, she considers each and every one of the ensuing exchanges a victory. She claims to have won all of them. So the game IS really all about getting suckers to respond. In this sense, she is *exactly* like Richard. *His* goal is to try to poke and prod at people until they respond to him; then he's proved himself as a Class A Troll, and -- again, in *his* mind -- has won. Judy is *exactly* the same. The one thing that neither of them can cope with is someone figuring out this act and *not* responding. That drives them up the wall, and makes them feel as if they and what they say is of so little consequence that no one *needs* to pay attention to any of it, much less respond to it. In other words, it gives them a taste of reality. You *feed* her insanity by standing up for yourself, Share. And in a very real sense, YOU'RE JUST LIKE HER. Whenever the attacks on you die down, YOU find a way to restart them, so that you can say stuff and get people to respond to you, too. And -- just like Judy --
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We?? Yes, anyone who remembers it differently definitely needs to read those articles about false memories. Share continues to confabulate: Judy, we remember it differently. Several articles about faulty memories have been posted recently. I think they apply also. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: Share doubles down on her lie: RWC and I had our big upset on Sept 6 and then Dudy butted in on Sept 9. Before that we all got along. No, we did not all get along before that. Dudy even warned me once when I was new and almost posted out. You really just have to be amazed at her brazenness. No conscience. Yes, Quare, when you were new, before it was clear what a crappy human being you were, I did do you that favor. Complete non sequitur in this context, as you know. On Friday, November 22, 2013 5:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: Share lied: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. This is a deliberate falsehood. As Share very well knows (and as I've reminded her over the past few days), she had run afoul of me (and Ann and Emily) well before her big mess-up with Robin. Those occasions were marked by her standard tactics: obfuscation, disingenuity, and refusal to take responsibility for her behavior (as she does above).
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No, it's not a fair summary. It's actually a compendium of lies, one of Barry's specialties. See my post to Share with links to documentation of several of the biggest lies in his post. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, dhamiltony2k5@... wrote: Actually Turq's is a fair summary of a longer history. I feel Rick as owner here in conjunction with Yahoo Groups unkindness guidelines has good grounds to act swiftly and summarily on this. Rick would not even need to explain himself doing it. Most all understand that FFL was derailed and taken over by unkindness. Rick, get this over with and save the FFL group before Yahoo groups management closes it. The grounds are certainly clear for this, -Buck ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: turq, I'll quote an old holy man from an old story: is that so? On Saturday, November 23, 2013 4:18 AM, TurquoiseB turquoiseb@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. Do not flatter yourself, Share. Judy's mission, whatever it is, started with her second post to FFL, back on May 18, 2005. That's when she admitted to having stalked one of her old enemies from alt.meditation.transcendental to FFL, taking some quotes from one of his posts here, and reposting them back on a.m.t. to further her vendetta against him there. She then commenced the same vendetta here on FFL, one that has not let up in any way in the years since. Along the way she did exactly the same thing with other posters she didn't like -- Curtis, Vaj, Sally Sunshine, Ruth, and many others. You might not recognize some of the names, because they grew so tired of 1) her unceasing harassment and 2) the fact that she had lowered this forum to such a low level of constant bickering and argumentation that they found nothing worth sticking around for. That probably was the goal of her mission in the first place, to drive away anyone who didn't bow to her pose as the authority in all things, She Who Must Not Be Contradicted, And Who Must Be Obeyed In All Things. :-) You're small potatoes, Share. She only focuses on you these days because you're one of the *only* people left on the forum who haven't caught on to her act, and as a result just ignore her as the vindictive, know-nothing ego-beast she is. Her whole pursuit of you is *not* (as you'd like to believe) because you're special. It's because you're SUCH A SUCKER. She knows that in you she's found someone with an ego as fragile and as sensitive as hers, and so whenever she or one of her minions attacks you or pokes fun at you, you'll feel that you have to reply. YOU HAVE NEVER 'GOTTEN' THAT SHE *WANTS* YOU TO REPLY. She *lives* for her enemies replying to her attacks and/or rebutting them. *No matter what happens and what is said*, she considers each and every one of the ensuing exchanges a victory. She claims to have won all of them. So the game IS really all about getting suckers to respond. In this sense, she is *exactly* like Richard. *His* goal is to try to poke and prod at people until they respond to him; then he's proved himself as a Class A Troll, and -- again, in *his* mind -- has won. Judy is *exactly* the same. The one thing that neither of them can cope with is someone figuring out this act and *not* responding. That drives them up the wall, and makes them feel as if they and what they say is of so little consequence that no one *needs* to pay attention to any of it, much less respond to it. In other words, it gives them a taste of reality. You *feed* her insanity by standing up for yourself, Share. And in a very real sense, YOU'RE JUST LIKE HER. Whenever the attacks on you die down, YOU find a way to restart them, so that you can say stuff and get people to respond to you, too. And -- just like Judy -- you are oblivious to the fact that these ongoing bitch-fests have lowered the entire consciousness of FFL, and driven a lot of people away. They *didn't* leave because of Neo; they left because YOU AND JUDY lobbied to have the posting limits removed, so you could spam this forum with your pettiness as much as you wanted to. Removing Ravi a second time was IMO a good decision on Rick's part. His vindictive bipolarism have caused at least one person to leave this forum when he was readmitted; maybe that person will come back and participate now that he's gone, hopefully for good this time. But if Rick *really* wanted to clean up the act of Fairfield Life, what he could do is remove the two people who most contribute to dragging it down into the gutter of petty, endless, ego-bickering. A few weeks without either YOU *or* JUDY, and her minions would dry up and blow away, and perhaps the forum could return to discussing things of actual interest again.
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Uh, no, most definitely not true. Richard lied: Sounds about right to me. Dudy gets JELLOS sometimes when other people post to her online buddies
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Your so-called opinion is, of course, laughably off-base. (If anyone takes Richard seriously enough to want to know why I say that, just ask.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: It sounds about right to me, and in my opinion you are JELLOS when other people post to your buddies.
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Your so-called opinion is, of course, laughably off-base. (If anyone takes Richard seriously enough to want to know why I say that, just ask.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: So, why? Why exactly, are you so mean to people? You sound like you're under a lot of stress lately. Maybe you've got a heavy workload and deadlines to meet - I don't know. But, I don't think I've ever met anyone on the internet as cantankerous as you are. I've been following your conversations for over ten years and you just seem to be getting more and more obnoxious the older you get. You used to be at least informative, but lately you seem to be on a real mean streak. Why don't you just lay it all out so we can understand what you're getting at? You've gone way past personal and into a dark area where I don't think I want to go. But, I'm all ears if you want to tell me what's up with you. Otherwise, it will just remain a mystery I guess. I think many of us here are beginning to think you're really getting upset about this posting hobby. Is there anything I can do to make amends. I'm sorry if I ever posted anything that offends you. I don't know you or Barry or Ann from Adam, but if this goes on much longer I'm going to have to complain to Rick or Alex. This is getting very close to being just plain abusive behavior on your part. Are you JELLOS, or what? On 11/23/2013 4:13 PM, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: Your so-called opinion is, of course, laughably off-base. (If anyone takes Richard seriously enough to want to know why I say that, just ask.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... mailto:punditster@... wrote: It sounds about right to me, and in my opinion you are JELLOS when other people post to your buddies.
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Well, agreeing to disagree is a very civilized notion—one that I grew up with—and it doesn't often appear on FFL. I agree, on reflection, that there are many examples of you taking the nastiness component down but there are other examples of the opposite, especially with Share, where you crank up and perpetuate the hostility as a matter of course. I don't know why you do this. One day you will have to come to Fairfield and explain it to me -- perhaps over dinner and wine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: BTW, Feste, this exchange with you turned out to be an example of what I meant when I said I often take the nastiness quotient down a level in my responses. If you read over the whole thing, you'll see that's just what I've done. I didn't do it consciously; as I said, it's instinctive. I wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised
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Wow, Judy, vulgarity and violence in one post! Instinctive taking down of nastiness quotient?! Oh right, it's hard for you to not be nasty, etc. when dealing with someone like me. My bad! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: Oh, God, I love it. Share gets her tits caught in her very own wringer. She accuses me of being disloyal by not warning indiff he was messing up, then, thinking she's catching me in a lie, cites a post documenting that I did warn him he risked being thrown out, way back toward the beginning of his visit here. (And if she wanted to look further she'd find that my first couple of posts to him also warned him about not getting folks' backs up.) After I'd warned him, I stopped paying attention to his exchanges with empty and didn't post to him again until the one Share cites. Following that he made another couple of dozen posts before Rick threw him out, mostly back-and-forth with empty. I didn't pay any attention to those either. So Share, I await your apology. I'm sure you'll do the right thing. Good luck prying your tits loose. (guffaw) Share messes up badly: Judy claims she wasn't paying attention to indiff's exchange with emptybill. Yet see post #363507 excerpted below. So much for Judy's continuing claim to honesty. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: For the record, indiff, I didn't say you were So-and-so, I said you sounded like So-and-so. And then when you threatened to out emptybill, I mentioned that this guy So-and-so had been thrown off the forum for outing somebody. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Let me clarify this issue again since even Judy seems to have gotten confused here. I'm using an pseudonym for a reason, to clearly post anonymously. You may recognize my energy, my writing style but you are not supposed to reveal my first name or any other details. But this dumb retarded motherfucker emptybill seems to have lot of trouble understanding it. He spouts and spews scriptures but lacks the normal maturity and intelligence of an adult and I have always given him a free pass in the past since I understand his disability. He thinks he can indulge in dishonesty like referring me as a troll, telling me that one cannot discuss Amma here, that I have been kicked off other forums and some other retarded bullshit. On Thursday, November 21, 2013 9:08 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: I wasn't paying any attention to his exchange with emptybill..As you know, I've jumped on him other times when I thought he was out of line. As to my opinion of you, as you also know, that was formed well before you disgraced yourself with Robin. So you can take your dishonest, nasty, mean, hypocritical little thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) Feste wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing
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Yup, Share's bad. Share's hilariously bad. Couldn't have been more fun to watch. She thought she was gonna get me and got herself instead, but good. Karma, baby, karma. Instant karma. Auto-smackdown. Will she learn anything? Of course not. She won't admit--even to herself--that she fouled up. Share humiliates herself further: Wow, Judy, vulgarity and violence in one post! Instinctive taking down of nastiness quotient?! Oh right, it's hard for you to not be nasty, etc. when dealing with someone like me. My bad! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: Oh, God, I love it. Share gets her tits caught in her very own wringer. She accuses me of being disloyal by not warning indiff he was messing up, then, thinking she's catching me in a lie, cites a post documenting that I did warn him he risked being thrown out, way back toward the beginning of his visit here. (And if she wanted to look further she'd find that my first couple of posts to him also warned him about not getting folks' backs up.) After I'd warned him, I stopped paying attention to his exchanges with empty and didn't post to him again until the one Share cites. Following that he made another couple of dozen posts before Rick threw him out, mostly back-and-forth with empty. I didn't pay any attention to those either. So Share, I await your apology. I'm sure you'll do the right thing. Good luck prying your tits loose. (guffaw) Share messes up badly: Judy claims she wasn't paying attention to indiff's exchange with emptybill. Yet see post #363507 excerpted below. So much for Judy's continuing claim to honesty. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: For the record, indiff, I didn't say you were So-and-so, I said you sounded like So-and-so. And then when you threatened to out emptybill, I mentioned that this guy So-and-so had been thrown off the forum for outing somebody. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Let me clarify this issue again since even Judy seems to have gotten confused here. I'm using an pseudonym for a reason, to clearly post anonymously. You may recognize my energy, my writing style but you are not supposed to reveal my first name or any other details. But this dumb retarded motherfucker emptybill seems to have lot of trouble understanding it. He spouts and spews scriptures but lacks the normal maturity and intelligence of an adult and I have always given him a free pass in the past since I understand his disability. He thinks he can indulge in dishonesty like referring me as a troll, telling me that one cannot discuss Amma here, that I have been kicked off other forums and some other retarded bullshit. On Thursday, November 21, 2013 9:08 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: I wasn't paying any attention to his exchange with emptybill..As you know, I've jumped on him other times when I thought he was out of line. As to my opinion of you, as you also know, that was formed well before you disgraced yourself with Robin. So you can take your dishonest, nasty, mean, hypocritical little thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) Feste wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly
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Feste, if reading her posts doesn't make you want to throw up, there's no way I can explain it to you. (It isn't just me, either, you know, who has an acutely negative reaction to her FFL persona.) Appreciate the dinner invitation, but if it ever happens, let's talk about something pleasant, OK? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Well, agreeing to disagree is a very civilized notion—one that I grew up with—and it doesn't often appear on FFL. I agree, on reflection, that there are many examples of you taking the nastiness component down but there are other examples of the opposite, especially with Share, where you crank up and perpetuate the hostility as a matter of course. I don't know why you do this. One day you will have to come to Fairfield and explain it to me -- perhaps over dinner and wine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: BTW, Feste, this exchange with you turned out to be an example of what I meant when I said I often take the nastiness quotient down a level in my responses. If you read over the whole thing, you'll see that's just what I've done. I didn't do it consciously; as I said, it's instinctive. I wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after
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You committed the violence, honey bunch. I didn't force you to insert your tits in that wringer; you did that all on your own. As to my purported hypocrisy, one of these days you might want to take a reading comprehension course. Also look up the meanings of the words often and frequently. HINT: They don't mean always. BTW, it's hypocrisy-squared for a hypocrite--that would be you, sweethole--to wrongly accuse others of hypocrisy. Nor is it big, bad Share. It's little, mean Share. That's mean as in nasty and malicious, but also as in a bunch of other senses my dictionary lists: synonyms MEAN, IGNOBLE, ABJECT, SORDID mean being below the normal standards of human decency and dignity. MEAN suggests having such repellent characteristics as small-mindedness, ill temper, or cupidity...IGNOBLE suggests a loss or lack of some essential high quality of mind or spirit...ABJECT may imply degradation, debasement, or servility...SORDID is stronger than all of these in stressing physical or spiritual degradation and abjectness... Share demonstrates her meanness and hypocrisy: And btw, Richard, her *mammary gland* post was also violent! And posted right after her hypocritical post to feste about bringing down the nastiness quotient! Which included saying that it's hard for her not to be nasty when dealing with someone like Share. Poor Dudy, forced to be nasty and vulgar and violent by big, bad Share! Let's all send Dudy some nice ice cream (-: No, you keep it, Whare. Dip your tits in it once you've got them out of the wringer; it'll make them feel a little better.
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Dear Share, stop bothering Judy with your incoherent BS. Why don't you stop acting like a cowardly pansy and come after me? I have no respect for the way that you treated Ann. I am disgusted with your lack of ability to take responsibility for yourself in this matter and apologize for your mean-ass words. I do not understand how you can not feel what it would be like to be on the receiving end of the post that you posted to Ann. Come on, Share, you wanna fight? Fight with me and leave Judy alone. Why don't you start by personally attacking me and be advised that you better be able to back up what you say with examples that you are able to defend, coherently. Remember, when you squeeze and orange, you get orange juice. The orange juice coming out of you is sour these days. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You committed the violence, honey bunch. I didn't force you to insert your tits in that wringer; you did that all on your own. As to my purported hypocrisy, one of these days you might want to take a reading comprehension course. Also look up the meanings of the words often and frequently. HINT: They don't mean always. BTW, it's hypocrisy-squared for a hypocrite--that would be you, sweethole--to wrongly accuse others of hypocrisy. Nor is it big, bad Share. It's little, mean Share. That's mean as in nasty and malicious, but also as in a bunch of other senses my dictionary lists: synonyms MEAN, IGNOBLE, ABJECT, SORDID mean being below the normal standards of human decency and dignity. MEAN suggests having such repellent characteristics as small-mindedness, ill temper, or cupidity...IGNOBLE suggests a loss or lack of some essential high quality of mind or spirit...ABJECT may imply degradation, debasement, or servility...SORDID is stronger than all of these in stressing physical or spiritual degradation and abjectness... Share demonstrates her meanness and hypocrisy: And btw, Richard, her *mammary gland* post was also violent! And posted right after her hypocritical post to feste about bringing down the nastiness quotient! Which included saying that it's hard for her not to be nasty when dealing with someone like Share. Poor Dudy, forced to be nasty and vulgar and violent by big, bad Share! Let's all send Dudy some nice ice cream (-: No, you keep it, Whare. Dip your tits in it once you've got them out of the wringer; it'll make them feel a little better.
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Alert: Unprovoked Mean Girl Attack! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote: Dear Share, stop bothering Judy with your incoherent BS. Why don't you stop acting like a cowardly pansy and come after me? I have no respect for the way that you treated Ann. I am disgusted with your lack of ability to take responsibility for yourself in this matter and apologize for your mean-ass words. I do not understand how you can not feel what it would be like to be on the receiving end of the post that you posted to Ann. Come on, Share, you wanna fight? Fight with me and leave Judy alone. Why don't you start by personally attacking me and be advised that you better be able to back up what you say with examples that you are able to defend, coherently. Remember, when you squeeze and orange, you get orange juice. The orange juice coming out of you is sour these days. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You committed the violence, honey bunch. I didn't force you to insert your tits in that wringer; you did that all on your own. As to my purported hypocrisy, one of these days you might want to take a reading comprehension course. Also look up the meanings of the words often and frequently. HINT: They don't mean always. BTW, it's hypocrisy-squared for a hypocrite--that would be you, sweethole--to wrongly accuse others of hypocrisy. Nor is it big, bad Share. It's little, mean Share. That's mean as in nasty and malicious, but also as in a bunch of other senses my dictionary lists: synonyms MEAN, IGNOBLE, ABJECT, SORDID mean being below the normal standards of human decency and dignity. MEAN suggests having such repellent characteristics as small-mindedness, ill temper, or cupidity...IGNOBLE suggests a loss or lack of some essential high quality of mind or spirit...ABJECT may imply degradation, debasement, or servility...SORDID is stronger than all of these in stressing physical or spiritual degradation and abjectness... Share demonstrates her meanness and hypocrisy: And btw, Richard, her *mammary gland* post was also violent! And posted right after her hypocritical post to feste about bringing down the nastiness quotient! Which included saying that it's hard for her not to be nasty when dealing with someone like Share. Poor Dudy, forced to be nasty and vulgar and violent by big, bad Share! Let's all send Dudy some nice ice cream (-: No, you keep it, Whare. Dip your tits in it once you've got them out of the wringer; it'll make them feel a little better.
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We might want to call your slam on me on Share's behalf yesterday an Unprovoked Mean Boy Attack. Did you read any of Share's attacks on me that led up to Emily's post, by the way? Emily, I don't actually need a break, but if you want to take a turn at schooling Share, go right ahead. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Alert: Unprovoked Mean Girl Attack! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote: Dear Share, stop bothering Judy with your incoherent BS. Why don't you stop acting like a cowardly pansy and come after me? I have no respect for the way that you treated Ann. I am disgusted with your lack of ability to take responsibility for yourself in this matter and apologize for your mean-ass words. I do not understand how you can not feel what it would be like to be on the receiving end of the post that you posted to Ann. Come on, Share, you wanna fight? Fight with me and leave Judy alone. Why don't you start by personally attacking me and be advised that you better be able to back up what you say with examples that you are able to defend, coherently. Remember, when you squeeze and orange, you get orange juice. The orange juice coming out of you is sour these days. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You committed the violence, honey bunch. I didn't force you to insert your tits in that wringer; you did that all on your own. As to my purported hypocrisy, one of these days you might want to take a reading comprehension course. Also look up the meanings of the words often and frequently. HINT: They don't mean always. BTW, it's hypocrisy-squared for a hypocrite--that would be you, sweethole--to wrongly accuse others of hypocrisy. Nor is it big, bad Share. It's little, mean Share. That's mean as in nasty and malicious, but also as in a bunch of other senses my dictionary lists: synonyms MEAN, IGNOBLE, ABJECT, SORDID mean being below the normal standards of human decency and dignity. MEAN suggests having such repellent characteristics as small-mindedness, ill temper, or cupidity...IGNOBLE suggests a loss or lack of some essential high quality of mind or spirit...ABJECT may imply degradation, debasement, or servility...SORDID is stronger than all of these in stressing physical or spiritual degradation and abjectness... Share demonstrates her meanness and hypocrisy: And btw, Richard, her *mammary gland* post was also violent! And posted right after her hypocritical post to feste about bringing down the nastiness quotient! Which included saying that it's hard for her not to be nasty when dealing with someone like Share. Poor Dudy, forced to be nasty and vulgar and violent by big, bad Share! Let's all send Dudy some nice ice cream (-: No, you keep it, Whare. Dip your tits in it once you've got them out of the wringer; it'll make them feel a little better.
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Hey Judy, it DOES seem a bit like a merry-go-round, that no one can get off, at this point. In other words, any fresh insights are fully drowned out by the dynamic, whether it remains valid, or not - and that goes for all of those on the carousel. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: Feste, if reading her posts doesn't make you want to throw up, there's no way I can explain it to you. (It isn't just me, either, you know, who has an acutely negative reaction to her FFL persona.) Appreciate the dinner invitation, but if it ever happens, let's talk about something pleasant, OK? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Well, agreeing to disagree is a very civilized notion—one that I grew up with—and it doesn't often appear on FFL. I agree, on reflection, that there are many examples of you taking the nastiness component down but there are other examples of the opposite, especially with Share, where you crank up and perpetuate the hostility as a matter of course. I don't know why you do this. One day you will have to come to Fairfield and explain it to me -- perhaps over dinner and wine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: BTW, Feste, this exchange with you turned out to be an example of what I meant when I said I often take the nastiness quotient down a level in my responses. If you read over the whole thing, you'll see that's just what I've done. I didn't do it consciously; as I said, it's instinctive. I wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do,
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Just a challenge feste, on principle, of course and at a level that I thought she might understand. The reality is I am working against a deadline and don't have much time to waste on this. But, don't tell her that. I might change my mind and work to extend my deadline, however unlikely. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Alert: Unprovoked Mean Girl Attack! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote: Dear Share, stop bothering Judy with your incoherent BS. Why don't you stop acting like a cowardly pansy and come after me? I have no respect for the way that you treated Ann. I am disgusted with your lack of ability to take responsibility for yourself in this matter and apologize for your mean-ass words. I do not understand how you can not feel what it would be like to be on the receiving end of the post that you posted to Ann. Come on, Share, you wanna fight? Fight with me and leave Judy alone. Why don't you start by personally attacking me and be advised that you better be able to back up what you say with examples that you are able to defend, coherently. Remember, when you squeeze and orange, you get orange juice. The orange juice coming out of you is sour these days. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You committed the violence, honey bunch. I didn't force you to insert your tits in that wringer; you did that all on your own. As to my purported hypocrisy, one of these days you might want to take a reading comprehension course. Also look up the meanings of the words often and frequently. HINT: They don't mean always. BTW, it's hypocrisy-squared for a hypocrite--that would be you, sweethole--to wrongly accuse others of hypocrisy. Nor is it big, bad Share. It's little, mean Share. That's mean as in nasty and malicious, but also as in a bunch of other senses my dictionary lists: synonyms MEAN, IGNOBLE, ABJECT, SORDID mean being below the normal standards of human decency and dignity. MEAN suggests having such repellent characteristics as small-mindedness, ill temper, or cupidity...IGNOBLE suggests a loss or lack of some essential high quality of mind or spirit...ABJECT may imply degradation, debasement, or servility...SORDID is stronger than all of these in stressing physical or spiritual degradation and abjectness... Share demonstrates her meanness and hypocrisy: And btw, Richard, her *mammary gland* post was also violent! And posted right after her hypocritical post to feste about bringing down the nastiness quotient! Which included saying that it's hard for her not to be nasty when dealing with someone like Share. Poor Dudy, forced to be nasty and vulgar and violent by big, bad Share! Let's all send Dudy some nice ice cream (-: No, you keep it, Whare. Dip your tits in it once you've got them out of the wringer; it'll make them feel a little better.
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Share lied: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. This is a deliberate falsehood. As Share very well knows (and as I've reminded her over the past few days), she had run afoul of me (and Ann and Emily) well before her big mess-up with Robin. Those occasions were marked by her standard tactics: obfuscation, disingenuity, and refusal to take responsibility for her behavior (as she does above).
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RWC and I had our big upset on Sept 6 and then Dudy butted in on Sept 9. Before that we all got along. Dudy even warned me once when I was new and almost posted out. On Friday, November 22, 2013 5:15 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: Share lied: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. This is a deliberate falsehood. As Share very well knows (and as I've reminded her over the past few days), she had run afoul of me (and Ann and Emily) well before her big mess-up with Robin. Those occasions were marked by her standard tactics: obfuscation, disingenuity, and refusal to take responsibility for her behavior (as she does above).
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Share doubles down on her lie: RWC and I had our big upset on Sept 6 and then Dudy butted in on Sept 9. Before that we all got along. No, we did not all get along before that. Dudy even warned me once when I was new and almost posted out. You really just have to be amazed at her brazenness. No conscience. Yes, Quare, when you were new, before it was clear what a crappy human being you were, I did do you that favor. Complete non sequitur in this context, as you know. On Friday, November 22, 2013 5:15 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: Share lied: September 9, 2012, Richard, that's when Judy started her mission, whatever it is. This is a deliberate falsehood. As Share very well knows (and as I've reminded her over the past few days), she had run afoul of me (and Ann and Emily) well before her big mess-up with Robin. Those occasions were marked by her standard tactics: obfuscation, disingenuity, and refusal to take responsibility for her behavior (as she does above).
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With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, rick@... wrote: From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of dhamiltony2k5@... Sent: Thursday, November 21, 2013 12:28 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life. Rick, Keep a close watch out on the mean-girls club too. They could take us all down in unkindness. -Buck I don’t have time to keep a close watch out on anything on FFL, but if someone gets too outrageous and someone brings it to my attention, I usually say to wait and see if they simmer down, and if they don’t, I do something about it.
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Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, rick@... wrote: From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of dhamiltony2k5@... Sent: Thursday, November 21, 2013 12:28 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life. Rick, Keep a close watch out on the mean-girls club too. They could take us all down in unkindness. -Buck I don’t have time to keep a close watch out on anything on FFL, but if someone gets too outrageous and someone brings it to my attention, I usually say to wait and see if they simmer down, and if they don’t, I do something about it.
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Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, rick@... wrote: From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of dhamiltony2k5@... Sent: Thursday, November 21, 2013 12:28 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life. Rick, Keep a close watch out on the mean-girls club too. They could take us all down in unkindness. -Buck I don’t have time to keep a close watch out on anything on FFL, but if someone gets too outrageous and someone brings it to my attention, I usually say to wait and see if they simmer down, and if they don’t, I do something about it.
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You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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Thanks, feste, hope you're well and happy. BTW, this year I'm going east to celebrate both Thanksgiving and my Mom's birthday with my family. May you have wonderful holidays... On Thursday, November 21, 2013 1:21 PM, feste37 no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, rick@... wrote: From:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of dhamiltony2k5@... Sent: Thursday, November 21, 2013 12:28 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: The Vivid and Present Threat of Hooliganism on Fairfield Life. Rick, Keep a close watch out on the mean-girls club too. They could take us all down in unkindness. -Buck I don’t have time to keep a close watch out on anything on FFL, but if someone gets too outrageous and someone brings it to my attention, I usually say to wait and see if they simmer down, and if they don’t, I do something about it.
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This is all trolling, stuff Richard made up. If anyone here takes Richard seriously enough to want a detailed refutation, let me know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: Guilty as charged: a very, very mean, nasty and vicious girl caught lying again and again; picking on a nice girl and posting from her home office trying to drum up some editing business! Is there anyone on the forum who will defend the vicious Judy? Barry? LoL! On 11/21/2013 4:41 PM, feste37 wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or
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We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that
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---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: Willytex drawled: What is the world coming to when you can't even make fun of someone's face or boots or where they were born? Emily seems like a nice girl, she's just running with the wrong pack. Go figure. How many does it take to make a pack? And don't let that Emily fool ya', she's the baddest of the lot. She just knows how to make it look like she's a nice guy. She's actually the ringleader and she's gonna be wearing those boots very, very soon. On 11/21/2013 6:05 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, I must admit, I've been quite impressed by Judy's one word accurate descriptions of the tone of Share's posts. Judy has the maturity to take responsibility for her language; Share doesn't. Simple. Can you imagine how poor Share would have behaved if someone went after her appearance and particularly if it was Judy, Ann or me? It's a cowardly thing to do and she can spin it any way she wants; she's a bullshit artist. And, that's all from me today. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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Ann, did I tell you I love you today? And, as it goes, boots are made for walkin'. As of tomorrow in my house, it is officially holiday season with the older daughter coming home. She has 4 movies she wants to see: Gravity; Much Ado About Nothing; The Butler; and Catching Fire. Sounds like a good plan to me. To prepare for the fun family get-togethers on the horizon, it's almost time to start playing Opera. Being the sensitive person I am, I am recovering from yesterday's marathon explaining the basic rules of engagement to Share with this 6-hour Mozart compilation. Best regards to FFL, as always, Em http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2LM3ZlcDnk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2LM3ZlcDnk ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: Willytex drawled: What is the world coming to when you can't even make fun of someone's face or boots or where they were born? Emily seems like a nice girl, she's just running with the wrong pack. Go figure. How many does it take to make a pack? And don't let that Emily fool ya', she's the baddest of the lot. She just knows how to make it look like she's a nice guy. She's actually the ringleader and she's gonna be wearing those boots very, very soon. On 11/21/2013 6:05 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, I must admit, I've been quite impressed by Judy's one word accurate descriptions of the tone of Share's posts. Judy has the maturity to take responsibility for her language; Share doesn't. Simple. Can you imagine how poor Share would have behaved if someone went after her appearance and particularly if it was Judy, Ann or me? It's a cowardly thing to do and she can spin it any way she wants; she's a bullshit artist. And, that's all from me today. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I
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Well, I must admit, I've been quite impressed by Judy's one word accurate descriptions of the tone of Share's posts. Judy has the maturity to take responsibility for her language; Share doesn't. Simple. Can you imagine how poor Share would have behaved if someone went after her appearance and particularly if it was Judy, Ann or me? It's a cowardly thing to do and she can spin it any way she wants; she's a bullshit artist. And, that's all from me today. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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I wasn't paying any attention to his exchange with emptybill..As you know, I've jumped on him other times when I thought he was out of line. As to my opinion of you, as you also know, that was formed well before you disgraced yourself with Robin. So you can take your dishonest, nasty, mean, hypocritical little thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@...
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You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: With all this recent talk about vicious and nasty posts, if one were to take a year's worth of FFL posts and list by poster all the posts that might reasonably be considered either vicious or nasty, there would be two posters at the top of the list, way ahead of any others. These would of course be authfriend and turquoise b. Share would be well down on the list.
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Judy claims she wasn't paying attention to indiff's exchange with emptybill. Yet see post #363507 excerpted below. So much for Judy's continuing claim to honesty. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: For the record, indiff, I didn't say you were So-and-so, I said you sounded like So-and-so. And then when you threatened to out emptybill, I mentioned that this guy So-and-so had been thrown off the forum for outing somebody. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Let me clarify this issue again since even Judy seems to have gotten confused here. I'm using an pseudonym for a reason, to clearly post anonymously. You may recognize my energy, my writing style but you are not supposed to reveal my first name or any other details. But this dumb retarded motherfucker emptybill seems to have lot of trouble understanding it. He spouts and spews scriptures but lacks the normal maturity and intelligence of an adult and I have always given him a free pass in the past since I understand his disability. He thinks he can indulge in dishonesty like referring me as a troll, telling me that one cannot discuss Amma here, that I have been kicked off other forums and some other retarded bullshit. On Thursday, November 21, 2013 9:08 PM, authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: I wasn't paying any attention to his exchange with emptybill..As you know, I've jumped on him other times when I thought he was out of line. As to my opinion of you, as you also know, that was formed well before you disgraced yourself with Robin. So you can take your dishonest, nasty, mean, hypocritical little thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to
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Oh, God, I love it. Share gets her tits caught in her very own wringer. She accuses me of being disloyal by not warning indiff he was messing up, then, thinking she's catching me in a lie, cites a post documenting that I did warn him he risked being thrown out, way back toward the beginning of his visit here. (And if she wanted to look further she'd find that my first couple of posts to him also warned him about not getting folks' backs up.) After I'd warned him, I stopped paying attention to his exchanges with empty and didn't post to him again until the one Share cites. Following that he made another couple of dozen posts before Rick threw him out, mostly back-and-forth with empty. I didn't pay any attention to those either. So Share, I await your apology. I'm sure you'll do the right thing. Good luck prying your tits loose. (guffaw) Share messes up badly: Judy claims she wasn't paying attention to indiff's exchange with emptybill. Yet see post #363507 excerpted below. So much for Judy's continuing claim to honesty. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: For the record, indiff, I didn't say you were So-and-so, I said you sounded like So-and-so. And then when you threatened to out emptybill, I mentioned that this guy So-and-so had been thrown off the forum for outing somebody. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Let me clarify this issue again since even Judy seems to have gotten confused here. I'm using an pseudonym for a reason, to clearly post anonymously. You may recognize my energy, my writing style but you are not supposed to reveal my first name or any other details. But this dumb retarded motherfucker emptybill seems to have lot of trouble understanding it. He spouts and spews scriptures but lacks the normal maturity and intelligence of an adult and I have always given him a free pass in the past since I understand his disability. He thinks he can indulge in dishonesty like referring me as a troll, telling me that one cannot discuss Amma here, that I have been kicked off other forums and some other retarded bullshit. On Thursday, November 21, 2013 9:08 PM, authfriend@... authfriend@... wrote: I wasn't paying any attention to his exchange with emptybill..As you know, I've jumped on him other times when I thought he was out of line. As to my opinion of you, as you also know, that was formed well before you disgraced yourself with Robin. So you can take your dishonest, nasty, mean, hypocritical little thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sharelong60@... wrote: So Judy, were you being disloyal recently when you didn't let indiff know that he was messing up badly? Or you didn't think he was messing up badly? IMO the disparity between how you treated him and how you treated me clearly indicates that you are prejudiced against me and not the upholder of truth and reality that you continually present yourself as. My guess is you are still against me because of the situation between me and RWC that began Sept 2012. That's your choice. But when I think you are being prejudicial, I will say so. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) Feste wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter.
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Yes, it was an interesting delving into the human condition yesterday and what a whirlwind of activity. One person is caught with their underpants down, one person is banned, another decides Paris is no longer in the cards, still another and another dig deep and unearth a couple of gems. And the Doc is waiting for his platinum MGC card. Of course, it is a fictitious scam - there is no club but it makes some feel better about it all if they can somehow put a label on something in order to make sense of it. And to think, some here don't see this as spiritual. I guess they still haven't figured out humanity and all of their to-ings and fro-ings can not be categorized under something so limited and unimaginative as spiritual. This is as spiritual as it gets folks. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, emilymaenot@... wrote: Ann, did I tell you I love you today? And, as it goes, boots are made for walkin'. As of tomorrow in my house, it is officially holiday season with the older daughter coming home. She has 4 movies she wants to see: Gravity; Much Ado About Nothing; The Butler; and Catching Fire. Sounds like a good plan to me. To prepare for the fun family get-togethers on the horizon, it's almost time to start playing Opera. Being the sensitive person I am, I am recovering from yesterday's marathon explaining the basic rules of engagement to Share with this 6-hour Mozart compilation. Best regards to FFL, as always, Em http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2LM3ZlcDnk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2LM3ZlcDnk ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater@... wrote: ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, punditster@... wrote: Willytex drawled: What is the world coming to when you can't even make fun of someone's face or boots or where they were born? Emily seems like a nice girl, she's just running with the wrong pack. Go figure. How many does it take to make a pack? And don't let that Emily fool ya', she's the baddest of the lot. She just knows how to make it look like she's a nice guy. She's actually the ringleader and she's gonna be wearing those boots very, very soon. On 11/21/2013 6:05 PM, emilymaenot@... mailto:emilymaenot@... wrote: Well, I must admit, I've been quite impressed by Judy's one word accurate descriptions of the tone of Share's posts. Judy has the maturity to take responsibility for her language; Share doesn't. Simple. Can you imagine how poor Share would have behaved if someone went after her appearance and particularly if it was Judy, Ann or me? It's a cowardly thing to do and she can spin it any way she wants; she's a bullshit artist. And, that's all from me today. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com mailto:no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Of course you think that, because you seem unaware of how you come across on this forum. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... mailto:authfriend@... wrote: I think you'd have a real hard time backing that up in my case, feste. But a no-brainer that Barry would be at the top of the list. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
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BTW, Feste, this exchange with you turned out to be an example of what I meant when I said I often take the nastiness quotient down a level in my responses. If you read over the whole thing, you'll see that's just what I've done. I didn't do it consciously; as I said, it's instinctive. I wrote: We'll probably have to agree to disagree, but it seems to me disloyal to not let a friend know when you feel they've messed up badly. (I'm not suggesting constant niggling criticism about little stuff, idiosyncrasies and so on.) ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Loyalty toward friends seems to me a better approach than criticizing them. It's got nothing to do with fear. You are probably right about the recent banning of that poster. You are not abusive in the way that he was. You do it in your own style. I actually like you, authfriend, but your vendetta against Share leaves a bad taste in the mouth and I think you should tone it down. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You don't criticize your friends? Even if they deserve it? Interesting. Why not? Are you afraid if you do, they'll no longer be your friends? Because I'd say it's not much of a friendship that can't survive honest criticism. I'm not going to go into a long defense, but your description below of both my and Share's behavior is significantly inaccurate. (If I were to take Share's line, I'd point out that as a friend of Share, you're biased, and therefore I don't consider anything you have to say about this to be worthwhile.) Also, the banning of indifferent_netizen is not a precedent for banning me. In the first place, we don't know why he was banned; Rick didn't tell us. I'm guessing it was for threatening to out emptybill, something I have never done to anyone. In the second place, I have never spoken to anyone on this forum anything like the way indiff spoke to emptybill--or the way emptybilll spoke to indiff, for that matter. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: To be honest, I didn't care for that post of Share's, but Share is my friend and I do not criticize my friends. You have been pursuing a vendetta against Share for more than a year now, I would guess. She has dealt with you mostly in a civil fashion and has even tried to engage you in friendly conversation. But your hostility and abuse has been relentless. Were I the moderator of this forum, I would issue you with a warning to stop the repeated abuse of one member or face expulsion. Then if you did not comply I would remove you from this forum. There is already a precedent for that with the poster who was recently banned. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: You know, I don't choose my words at random. I never said my description applied to all my posts; I never said none of my posts were nasty or vicious. I stand by what I did say, however. I've never pretended to be saintly, but I do not, in fact, love to be mean, nasty, and vicious. I do find it very hard not to be when dealing with an individual like Share. Just out of curiosity, what do you think about Share's attack on Ann, comparing her to a Nazi and disparaging her appearance because Ann wrote a funny parody of one of Share's posts? Let's see how honest you are. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote: Yep, here's authfriend taking the nasty/vicious quotient of [her] opponent's posts down a level: Share snarled: Share pleaded: Share babbled: Share spewed: Share blubbered: Share bleated: All from recent posts. Why can't you be honest about what you do, authfriend? You are always babbling/spewing/blubbering/snarling about how honest you are and how dishonest your opponents are, but why can't you just admit that you love to be mean, nasty, and vicious? You get pleasure out of it, which is why you do it on this forum day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. It satisfies something inside you, although what that might be, only you know. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend@... wrote: I think in the heat of battle, as it were, the other guy--and/or his or her supporters--often experiences my posts to be much more nasty and vicious than they actually are. I'm frequently surprised when I reread my own posts from some epic argument to realize how restrained they were and how I instinctively took the nasty/vicious quotient of my opponent's posts down a level with each response rather than escalating it. I think the perception of nasty and vicious is directly proportional to how accurate my criticisms are. I'm sure you won't agree, but that's why I say you'd have a hard time backing up your accusation. You're remembering your emotional response rather than the tone of my posts themselves. ---In
