RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Cafe Nostalgia

2013-10-02 Thread authfriend













Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Cafe Nostalgia

2013-10-02 Thread Share Long
Continued offenses?! Ok, Judge Dudy, now that makes me smile!





 From: authfri...@yahoo.com authfri...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 2, 2013 10:43 AM
Subject: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Cafe Nostalgia
 


  
Actually, grudge-holding is one of Barry's little fantasies designed to 
dismiss legitimate criticism while blaming the critic (otherwise known as 
shooting the messenger). As I've pointed out before, to criticize continued 
offenses is not an indication of grudge-holding (against either Barry or 
yourself).


---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com wrote:


turq, ah readability, ok that's penetrating my noggin just as Xeno's post did. 
Anyway, the thing about your mighty blasts in my direction, I've never felt 
that you were holding a grudge against me. For whatever reason, that's the 
difference that makes a huge difference for me.





 From: turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, October 2, 2013 7:09 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Cafe Nostalgia
 


  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 turq, so I guess the learning for me is how to balance 
 that being transparent with what noozguru was calling 
 having reserve. I'd call character the result of living 
 our soul more and more. I'd say that's what both Emmylou 
 and Willie do to a great extent. Thanks again for 
 posting that.

I think the point that you -- and the other poster
consistently at the top of the Post Count list --
still don't get, and still aren't willing to take
any responsibility for, is that living your soul
causes you to make *twice as many posts* as anyone
else on the forum. 

You both seem to react as if this is your right,
and has no impact on anyone else, or on the overall
readability of the group as a whole. 

THIS is what I was getting at in my STFU post. That
and the constant need (on both sides) to defend
yourselves against perceived affronts, and turn 
them into multi-post threads *that no one is inter-
ested in except yourselves*. Just sayin'...