Re: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real Fairfield Life Post]

2013-08-27 Thread Share Long
Ann, as long as I've been on FFL, I've found turq clear about his likes and 
dislikes, decided in his opinions. Actually in this latter regard, I think you 
and Judy and turq are quite similar. You're more PC about it than they are. 


BTW, since this exchange is about posts to me, then it is really up to me to 
say which posts I found the worst. And definitely it was not that post from 
turq. I have found other posts to be much worse. And it could be that my skin 
has gotten thicker.


Also I do not find it demeaning to myself to see both what I like and what I 
don't like in people and to express both. But I get that for some people this 
seems like not a good quality.



 From: Ann awoelfleba...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 4:47 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
Fairfield Life Post]
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Ann, you're just being silly here.

That's me, Ann Silly Woelfle Bater.

What would you suggest? That I call the police on turq?!

I have stopped seriously suggesting things to you a while ago Share. But as a 
last ditch attempt I would conjecture that you are choosing to ignore the worst 
post that anyone has directed your way, and frankly, I can understand why as 
whatever you could say to Barry won't make a bit of difference to him although 
it might make a difference for you and you are the more important 
consideration, not BW. 

A lot worse IMO has been delivered to me on FFL.

No there hasn't.

Different people are bothered by different forms and content of attacks. I 
think I'm less bothered by turq because his attacks are straight forward. 
Whereas I'm very triggered by what I call snide and sly attacks.

Interesting. However, attacks aside, the other odious part of his post to you 
was the fact that it made it so clear how he had felt about you all along and 
this type of clarity in a moment when he let it all hang out there for everyone 
to see in black and white was horrendous because the lie that was his 
'relationship' with you was exposed. And even now you attempt to engage him in 
banter as if nothing ever happened. That, to me, is demeaning to yourself and I 
don't like to see it.
 
 
 
 
  From: Ann awoelflebater@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 10:35 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
 Fairfield Life Post]
 
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  Dr D, what is going on here? Barry is not responsible for Freddie's 
  behavior. Get a grip.
 
 No Susan, Barry is not responsible for Fred's behaviour but Barry's behaviour 
 is bad enough and he doesn't take responsibility for that either. You appear 
 to be willing to take that on for him, however. I don't know what 's worse - 
 Share putting up with his abuse of her or you supporting him.
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:

 We were all born in Kali Yuga, which means none of us 
 had what it took to get enlightened for the three 
 previous yugas. 

 Yep, toads.  All of us.
 
 Seriously, is it any wonder that we ended up HOPPING 
 as our spiritual practice?

OK, I get that all of this is a joke, but it is
important IMO to remember that Kali Yuga does
not exist. It's a made-up human term for a made-
up division of time that does not and has never
existed. 

That said, and to continue with your joke, I 
noticed that no one ever really dealt with the
actual *issue* I brought up about whether the
Rish actually had any sexual charisma or even
attractiveness to explain how he managed to get
a few women to have sex with him. People avoided 
that issue like the plague, playing shoot the 
messenger instead, like always. 

So I'll piggyback (or frogback) off Edg's joke
to pass along the words of at least three TM
women who, even though still part of the TMO,
*weren't* afraid to deal with the issue. All
three described the idea of having sex with
Maharishi using the exact same same words:

Have sex with that squat little toad? E.

Appropriate somehow that the spiritual practice
he brought to the world was hopping like a frog. :-)

As for the issue of his attractiveness or non-,
any women here who had sexual fantasies about
Maharishi (requited or unrequited) are invited
to share them with us to provide a counterpoint.
   
  
 



 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real Fairfield Life Post]

2013-08-27 Thread Share Long
Ann, the reality upon which you need to get a grip is that turq and I have the 
merest of online relationships. Why are you flapping on about abusive 
boyfriends, etc? It's simply that he and his style triggers you and neither 
triggers me anymore. End of story.





 From: Ann awoelfleba...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Tuesday, August 27, 2013 9:01 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
Fairfield Life Post]
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Ann, as long as I've been on FFL, I've found turq clear about his likes and 
 dislikes, decided in his opinions. Actually in this latter regard, I think 
 you and Judy and turq are quite similar. You're more PC about it than they 
 are. 
 
 
 BTW, since this exchange is about posts to me, then it is really up to me to 
 say which posts I found the worst. And definitely it was not that post from 
 turq. I have found other posts to be much worse. And it could be that my skin 
 has gotten thicker.
 
 
 Also I do not find it demeaning to myself to see both what I like and what I 
 don't like in people and to express both. But I get that for some people this 
 seems like not a good quality.

I wrote what I wrote in my post below as an attempt (silly me) to open your 
eyes to something. You refuse or are unable to see it. That is fine. Barry is 
never going to change but I had these naive ideas that perhaps I could offer 
you something in the way of observation. You are like the girlfriend who keeps 
returning to the guy who beats her and makes excuses for him. That is your 
business and your prerogative. I foolishly re-opened this subject with you but 
you can't 'go there' and face certain aspects of what happened and that's fine 
because it is you and not me. Choose to surround yourself with abusers Share 
because I guess that is something you feel you deserve, or maybe you're a 
masochist. EIther way, you're well on the road to making your dreams come true.
 
 
 
  From: Ann awoelflebater@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 4:47 PM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
 Fairfield Life Post]
 
 
 
   
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote:
 
  Ann, you're just being silly here.
 
 That's me, Ann Silly Woelfle Bater.
 
 What would you suggest? That I call the police on turq?!
 
 I have stopped seriously suggesting things to you a while ago Share. But as a 
 last ditch attempt I would conjecture that you are choosing to ignore the 
 worst post that anyone has directed your way, and frankly, I can understand 
 why as whatever you could say to Barry won't make a bit of difference to him 
 although it might make a difference for you and you are the more important 
 consideration, not BW. 
 
 A lot worse IMO has been delivered to me on FFL.
 
 No there hasn't.
 
 Different people are bothered by different forms and content of attacks. I 
 think I'm less bothered by turq because his attacks are straight forward. 
 Whereas I'm very triggered by what I call snide and sly attacks.
 
 Interesting. However, attacks aside, the other odious part of his post to 
 you was the fact that it made it so clear how he had felt about you all along 
 and this type of clarity in a moment when he let it all hang out there for 
 everyone to see in black and white was horrendous because the lie that was 
 his 'relationship' with you was exposed. And even now you attempt to engage 
 him in banter as if nothing ever happened. That, to me, is demeaning to 
 yourself and I don't like to see it.
  
  
  
  
   From: Ann awoelflebater@
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
  Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 10:35 AM
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A 
  Real Fairfield Life Post]
  
  
  
    
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@ wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   
   Dr D, what is going on here? Barry is not responsible for Freddie's 
   behavior. Get a grip.
  
  No Susan, Barry is not responsible for Fred's behaviour but Barry's 
  behaviour is bad enough and he doesn't take responsibility for that either. 
  You appear to be willing to take that on for him, however. I don't know 
  what 's worse - Share putting up with his abuse of her or you supporting 
  him.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
 
  We were all born in Kali Yuga, which means none of us 
  had what it took to get enlightened for the three 
  previous yugas. 
 
  Yep, toads.  All of us.
  
  Seriously, is it any wonder that we ended up HOPPING 
  

Re: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real Fairfield Life Post]

2013-08-26 Thread Share Long
Ann, you're just being silly here. What would you suggest? That I call the 
police on turq?! A lot worse IMO has been delivered to me on FFL. Different 
people are bothered by different forms and content of attacks. I think I'm less 
bothered by turq because his attacks are straight forward. Whereas I'm very 
triggered by what I call snide and sly attacks.




 From: Ann awoelfleba...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 10:35 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
Fairfield Life Post]
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:

 
 Dr D, what is going on here? Barry is not responsible for Freddie's behavior. 
 Get a grip.

No Susan, Barry is not responsible for Fred's behaviour but Barry's behaviour 
is bad enough and he doesn't take responsibility for that either. You appear to 
be willing to take that on for him, however. I don't know what 's worse - Share 
putting up with his abuse of her or you supporting him.
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
   
We were all born in Kali Yuga, which means none of us 
had what it took to get enlightened for the three 
previous yugas. 
   
Yep, toads.  All of us.

Seriously, is it any wonder that we ended up HOPPING 
as our spiritual practice?
   
   OK, I get that all of this is a joke, but it is
   important IMO to remember that Kali Yuga does
   not exist. It's a made-up human term for a made-
   up division of time that does not and has never
   existed. 
   
   That said, and to continue with your joke, I 
   noticed that no one ever really dealt with the
   actual *issue* I brought up about whether the
   Rish actually had any sexual charisma or even
   attractiveness to explain how he managed to get
   a few women to have sex with him. People avoided 
   that issue like the plague, playing shoot the 
   messenger instead, like always. 
   
   So I'll piggyback (or frogback) off Edg's joke
   to pass along the words of at least three TM
   women who, even though still part of the TMO,
   *weren't* afraid to deal with the issue. All
   three described the idea of having sex with
   Maharishi using the exact same same words:
   
   Have sex with that squat little toad? E.
   
   Appropriate somehow that the spiritual practice
   he brought to the world was hopping like a frog. :-)
   
   As for the issue of his attractiveness or non-,
   any women here who had sexual fantasies about
   Maharishi (requited or unrequited) are invited
   to share them with us to provide a counterpoint.
  
 



 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real Fairfield Life Post]

2013-08-26 Thread Share Long
Ann, if someone is obsessing on someone else, or constantly being triggered by 
someone else, then I'd say that person is demonizing that someone else, 
projecting all their own negativity onto that someone else. Otherwise, the 
person would simply address the issue as it happens and or ignore that someone 
else. But obsession IMO is a sure sign that projection is happening.





 From: Ann awoelfleba...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Monday, August 26, 2013 10:35 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Was Voldemort a rapist like Freddy? [was Re: A Real 
Fairfield Life Post]
 


  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Yeah, too bad Maharishi only had sex with those whom he loved. He probably 
  should have just raped the women at gunpoint, like Freddy Lenz, your Guru, 
  did. Great suggestion, Voldemort! 
  
  Yes, if a woman won't have sex with me, I'll play with a gun to convince 
  her.
  
  If only you could have shared this priceless wisdom with Maharishi before 
  he passed away. Do you ever follow Freddy's example with women, now? Just 
  curious as you hung around with him quite a bit, even sitting in the 
  coveted front seat of his car, whether or not you have also raped women 
  like he did? No worries, I am not expecting an honest response, least of 
  all from you.
 
 Dr D, what is going on here? Barry is not responsible for Freddie's behavior. 
 Get a grip.

No Susan, Barry is not responsible for Fred's behaviour but Barry's behaviour 
is bad enough and he doesn't take responsibility for that either. You appear to 
be willing to take that on for him, however. I don't know what 's worse - Share 
putting up with his abuse of her or you supporting him.
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
   
We were all born in Kali Yuga, which means none of us 
had what it took to get enlightened for the three 
previous yugas. 
   
Yep, toads.  All of us.

Seriously, is it any wonder that we ended up HOPPING 
as our spiritual practice?
   
   OK, I get that all of this is a joke, but it is
   important IMO to remember that Kali Yuga does
   not exist. It's a made-up human term for a made-
   up division of time that does not and has never
   existed. 
   
   That said, and to continue with your joke, I 
   noticed that no one ever really dealt with the
   actual *issue* I brought up about whether the
   Rish actually had any sexual charisma or even
   attractiveness to explain how he managed to get
   a few women to have sex with him. People avoided 
   that issue like the plague, playing shoot the 
   messenger instead, like always. 
   
   So I'll piggyback (or frogback) off Edg's joke
   to pass along the words of at least three TM
   women who, even though still part of the TMO,
   *weren't* afraid to deal with the issue. All
   three described the idea of having sex with
   Maharishi using the exact same same words:
   
   Have sex with that squat little toad? E.
   
   Appropriate somehow that the spiritual practice
   he brought to the world was hopping like a frog. :-)
   
   As for the issue of his attractiveness or non-,
   any women here who had sexual fantasies about
   Maharishi (requited or unrequited) are invited
   to share them with us to provide a counterpoint.