Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Dear Barry Baby

You opined* -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his
Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first
clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further,
suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and
intellectual intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does. *

Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I underestimate
your skills.

Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent,
compelling mavericks.

Love,
Ravi


On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 **


 My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
 asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
 episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
 seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
 illustrated by Lauren Child.

 I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
 7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
 person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
 is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
 they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
 This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
 success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

 Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
 to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
 girls and boys, took a disliking to her on the playground and decided to
 gang up on her and diss her. As you might expect, if you have ever had
 any experience with cliques, most of the dialog was spoken by the
 clique. One of them -- the girl who ran the clique -- would diss Lola,
 and then the others would pile on, one by one. As they did, the clique
 leader would praise them, so then they'd all do it again.

 Lola mainly didn't reply, and instead wandered off to another part of
 the playground, where she ran into her brother Charlie. She explained
 the situation to him, and he -- wise beyond his years -- asked her to
 turn and look at the clique members, who were across the playground
 *still* dissing her, even though they knew they couldn't be heard by
 anyone outside the clique.

 Look at them, Lola, said Charlie. Do they look happy? Would you ever
 really want *any* of them as your friend? Lola looked, shook her head
 No, and smiled. Just then her best friend Lotta came up and they went
 off to play together, laughing, the clique and their taunts forgotten,
 washed away like...like...like a line drawn through water.

 Maya seemed to like it, even though she's been fortunate enough to have
 been spared exposure to cliques so far. Looking at her I thought, When
 you are, I suspect you'll be self-sufficient enough to not let them get
 to you.

 And *that* thought, interestingly enough, was the genesis of this
 particular cafe rap, and the answer to the koan posed in its Subject
 line.

 I think that the answer to that koan is: People form cliques because
 they're not self-sufficient.

 Either that, or Mu. Your call. :-)

 People who tend to form into cliques do so in my opinion because they're
 not comfortable with themselves. Or their selves. Whatever. So they
 clump together with others who are just as uncomfortable with their
 selves, and they stroke each other so that they won't feel so
 uncomfortable.

 Sometimes that stroking off takes the form of:
 Wow. Did you see the latest Lady Gaga video? Isn't she cool?
 Yeah, she sure is cool.
 Very cool.
 And aren't we cool to be able to see her coolness?
 Sure am glad WE'RE so cool!

 Other times it takes the form of:
 Wow. Isn't that skank Missy such a...such a skank?
 Yeah, she sure is a skank.
 Major skank.
 And a bad dresser, too.
 Yeah, a major skank bad dresser.
 Sure am glad WE'RE not like Missy!

 My theory of why people form into cliques may be simplistic, but
 hey!...we're talking about people who form into cliques. You can't get
 much deeper than simplistic when discussing them. :-)

 But I think I'm onto something with it.

 The people in cliques don't identify with Self. Because they're so
 uncomfortable with their selves, they don't even identify with *them*,
 either. They can only feel comfortable when they're surrounded by a
 bunch of people who are stroking them off. Sounds kinda kinky to me --
 kinda like a ménage à many -- but if that's what gets them off, so
 be it.

 But one of the things I don't understand is WHY, having formed the
 clique to stroke each other off when they agree on things or people they
 like, as in the first bit of dialogue above, they stroke each other off
 by ganging up on the things or people they *don't* like? If they're
 getting everything they need from the mutual masturbation society of the
 clique and its members, WHY do clique-ists so often feel the need to
 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Emily Reyn
Don't even know that I'd agree with the coterie thingy, although I love your 
use of descriptive words.  You have a better command of the English language 
than many English speakers, no?  You are a smarty pants.  I'm just a cool 
cat, ya dig?  



 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:07 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 

  
Dear Barry Baby

You opined -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his 
Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first 
clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further, 
suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and intellectual 
intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does. 

Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I underestimate 
your skills.

Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent, 
compelling mavericks.

Love,
Ravi



On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 
  
My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
illustrated by Lauren Child.

I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
girls and boys, took a disliking to her on the playground and decided to
gang up on her and diss her. As you might expect, if you have ever had
any experience with cliques, most of the dialog was spoken by the
clique. One of them -- the girl who ran the clique -- would diss Lola,
and then the others would pile on, one by one. As they did, the clique
leader would praise them, so then they'd all do it again.

Lola mainly didn't reply, and instead wandered off to another part of
the playground, where she ran into her brother Charlie. She explained
the situation to him, and he -- wise beyond his years -- asked her to
turn and look at the clique members, who were across the playground
*still* dissing her, even though they knew they couldn't be heard by
anyone outside the clique.

Look at them, Lola, said Charlie. Do they look happy? Would you ever
really want *any* of them as your friend? Lola looked, shook her head
No, and smiled. Just then her best friend Lotta came up and they went
off to play together, laughing, the clique and their taunts forgotten,
washed away like...like...like a line drawn through water.

Maya seemed to like it, even though she's been fortunate enough to have
been spared exposure to cliques so far. Looking at her I thought, When
you are, I suspect you'll be self-sufficient enough to not let them get
to you.

And *that* thought, interestingly enough, was the genesis of this
particular cafe rap, and the answer to the koan posed in its Subject
line.

I think that the answer to that koan is: People form cliques because
they're not self-sufficient.

Either that, or Mu. Your call. :-)

People who tend to form into cliques do so in my opinion because they're
not comfortable with themselves. Or their selves. Whatever. So they
clump together with others who are just as uncomfortable with their
selves, and they stroke each other so that they won't feel so
uncomfortable.

Sometimes that stroking off takes the form of:
Wow. Did you see the latest Lady Gaga video? Isn't she cool?
Yeah, she sure is cool.
Very cool.
And aren't we cool to be able to see her coolness?
Sure am glad WE'RE so cool!

Other times it takes the form of:
Wow. Isn't that skank Missy such a...such a skank?
Yeah, she sure is a skank.
Major skank.
And a bad dresser, too.
Yeah, a major skank bad dresser.
Sure am glad WE'RE not like Missy!

My theory of why people form into cliques may be simplistic, but
hey!...we're talking about people who form into cliques. You can't get
much deeper than simplistic when discussing them. :-)

But I think I'm onto something with it.

The people in cliques don't identify with Self. Because they're so
uncomfortable with their selves, they don't even identify with *them*,
either. They can only feel comfortable when they're surrounded by a
bunch of people who are stroking them off. Sounds kinda kinky to me --
kinda like a ménage à many -- but if that's what gets them off, so
be it.

But one of the things I

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Dear Em,

I'm glad you noticed that, I myself hesitated using that word - but just
went along with it anyway :-), you can consider it more as a writer's
liberty or flourish. Wasn't trying to exclude anyone - FFL in itself is a
coterie would be a better way to put it. The only cliques I have seen are
formed by Barry, you weren't around when I first came here in May 2010,
Barry thought I was someone who he could bully around, the arrogance and
stupidity of that man..LOL..he and his clique took such a hard beating that
he has never ever recovered from that :-)


Yes - I have been blessed with an ability to learn languages, accents very
quickly. I speak Hindi, Telugu and English - conversational at least with
barely detectable accent, as in, in an accent which is well accepted in all
these 3 languages. However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a
corporate world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my
English vocabulary. However things changed since 2010 - FFL has greatly
helped, not to mention all the various books I read when I was young. I
spend a lot of time on Merriam Webster m-w.com, practicing
pronunciation,words, subtle differences between each of the adjectives -
pronunciation is an area which I'm a little weak in - more as in the
American pronunciations for the words which I don't use on a day to day
basis. My memory really helps, all my forefathers chanting Vedas by memory
have done the dirty work for me, I repeat something a few times and I
retain it - I think I have at least 1000 songs memorized.

My English practice went up way high these past 7 months - practicing,
articulating, vocalizing all my ideas. So there's an element of hard work
as well driven by my love for adjectives in the English language and the
need to express my ideas.

So thank you.

Love,
Ravi



On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 6:36 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


 Don't even know that I'd agree with the coterie thingy, although I love
 your use of descriptive words.  You have a better command of the English
 language than many English speakers, no?  You are a smarty pants.  I'm just
 a cool cat, ya dig?

   --
 *From:* Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:07 PM
 *Subject:* Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?


 Dear Barry Baby

 You opined* -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his
 Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first
 clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further,
 suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and
 intellectual intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does.
  *

 Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I
 underestimate your skills.

 Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent,
 compelling mavericks.

 Love,
 Ravi


 On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.comwrote:

 **

  My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
 asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
 episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
 seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
 illustrated by Lauren Child.

 I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
 7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
 person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
 is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
 they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
 This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
 success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

 Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
 to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
 girls and boys, took a disliking to her on the playground and decided to
 gang up on her and diss her. As you might expect, if you have ever had
 any experience with cliques, most of the dialog was spoken by the
 clique. One of them -- the girl who ran the clique -- would diss Lola,
 and then the others would pile on, one by one. As they did, the clique
 leader would praise them, so then they'd all do it again.

 Lola mainly didn't reply, and instead wandered off to another part of
 the playground, where she ran into her brother Charlie. She explained
 the situation to him, and he -- wise beyond his years -- asked her to
 turn and look at the clique members, who were across the playground
 *still* dissing her, even though they knew they couldn't be heard by
 anyone outside the clique.

 Look at them, Lola, said Charlie. Do they look happy? Would you ever
 really want *any* of them as your friend? Lola looked, shook her head
 No, and smiled. Just then her best friend Lotta came up and they went
 off to play

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Emily Reyn
snip However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a corporate world I 
don't have two many chances to display and improve my English vocabulary.

That is an uproariously, side-splittingly, humorous lineah ha ha ha.  

I have bookmarked Maryam - could use a little help myself.  Your aptitude for 
languages is a benefit for us.  



 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 9:30 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 

  
Dear Em,

I'm glad you noticed that, I myself hesitated using that word - but just went 
along with it anyway :-), you can consider it more as a writer's liberty or 
flourish. Wasn't trying to exclude anyone - FFL in itself is a coterie would be 
a better way to put it. The only cliques I have seen are formed by Barry, you 
weren't around when I first came here in May 2010, Barry thought I was someone 
who he could bully around, the arrogance and stupidity of that man..LOL..he and 
his clique took such a hard beating that he has never ever recovered from that 
:-)


Yes - I have been blessed with an ability to learn languages, accents very 
quickly. I speak Hindi, Telugu and English - conversational at least with 
barely detectable accent, as in, in an accent which is well accepted in all 
these 3 languages. However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a 
corporate world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my English 
vocabulary. However things changed since 2010 - FFL has greatly helped, not to 
mention all the various books I read when I was young. I spend a lot of time on 
Merriam Webster m-w.com, practicing pronunciation,words, subtle differences 
between each of the adjectives - pronunciation is an area which I'm a little 
weak in - more as in the American pronunciations for the words which I don't 
use on a day to day basis. My memory really helps, all my forefathers chanting 
Vedas by memory have done the dirty work for me, I repeat something a few times 
and I retain it - I think I have at
 least 1000 songs memorized.

My English practice went up way high these past 7 months - practicing, 
articulating, vocalizing all my ideas. So there's an element of hard work as 
well driven by my love for adjectives in the English language and the need to 
express my ideas.

So thank you.

Love,
Ravi




On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 6:36 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

 
  
Don't even know that I'd agree with the coterie thingy, although I love your 
use of descriptive words.  You have a better command of the English language 
than many English speakers, no?  You are a smarty pants.  I'm just a cool 
cat, ya dig?  




 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:07 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 


  
Dear Barry Baby


You opined -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his 
Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first 
clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further, 
suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and intellectual 
intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does. 


Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I underestimate 
your skills.


Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent, 
compelling mavericks.


Love,
Ravi



On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 
  
My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
illustrated by Lauren Child.

I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
girls and boys, took a disliking to her on the playground and decided to
gang up on her and diss her. As you might expect, if you have ever had
any experience with cliques, most of the dialog was spoken by the
clique. One of them -- the girl who ran the clique -- would diss Lola,
and then the others would pile on, one by one. As they did, the clique
leader would praise them, so then they'd all do it again.

Lola mainly didn't reply, and instead wandered off

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Emily Reyn
P.S.  Dear Ravi, I didn't realize you misspelled two until after I hit send.  
Sorry, but this line struck me as sooo funny and now it's even funnier.  But, I 
am not making fun of you.  Love ya, Emily



 From: Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 9:49 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 

  
snip However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a corporate world I 
don't have two many chances to display and improve my English vocabulary.

That is an uproariously, side-splittingly, humorous lineah ha ha ha.  

I have bookmarked Maryam - could use a little help myself.  Your aptitude for 
languages is a benefit for us.  



 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 9:30 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 

  
Dear Em,

I'm glad you noticed that, I myself hesitated using that word - but just went 
along with it anyway :-), you can consider it more as a writer's liberty or 
flourish. Wasn't trying to exclude anyone - FFL in itself is a coterie would be 
a better way to put it. The only cliques I have seen are formed by Barry, you 
weren't around when I first came here in May 2010, Barry thought I was someone 
who he could bully around, the arrogance and stupidity of that man..LOL..he and 
his clique took such a hard beating that he has never ever recovered from that 
:-)


Yes - I have been blessed with an ability to learn languages, accents very 
quickly. I speak Hindi, Telugu and English - conversational at least with 
barely detectable accent, as in, in an accent which is well accepted in all 
these 3 languages. However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a 
corporate world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my English 
vocabulary. However things changed since 2010 - FFL has greatly helped, not to 
mention all the various books I read when I was young. I spend a lot of time on 
Merriam Webster m-w.com, practicing pronunciation,words, subtle differences 
between each of the adjectives - pronunciation is an area which I'm a little 
weak in - more as in the American pronunciations for the words which I don't 
use on a day to day basis. My memory really helps, all my forefathers chanting 
Vedas by memory have done the dirty work for me, I repeat something a few times 
and I retain it - I think I have at
 least 1000 songs memorized.

My English practice went up way high these past 7 months - practicing, 
articulating, vocalizing all my ideas. So there's an element of hard work as 
well driven by my love for adjectives in the English language and the need to 
express my ideas.

So thank you.

Love,
Ravi




On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 6:36 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

 
  
Don't even know that I'd agree with the coterie thingy, although I love your 
use of descriptive words.  You have a better command of the English language 
than many English speakers, no?  You are a smarty pants.  I'm just a cool 
cat, ya dig?  




 From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:07 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?
 


  
Dear Barry Baby


You opined -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his 
Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first 
clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further, 
suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and intellectual 
intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does. 


Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I underestimate 
your skills.


Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent, 
compelling mavericks.


Love,
Ravi



On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:

 
  
My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
illustrated by Lauren Child.

I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
girls and boys, took

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Thanks Dear Em, I'm glad you liked that :-)

XOXO

On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 9:49 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


 snip However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a corporate
 world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my English
 vocabulary.

 That is an uproariously, side-splittingly, humorous lineah ha ha ha.

 I have bookmarked Maryam - could use a little help myself.  Your
 aptitude for languages is a benefit for us.

   --
 *From:* Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Sunday, September 2, 2012 9:30 PM

 *Subject:* Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?


 Dear Em,

 I'm glad you noticed that, I myself hesitated using that word - but just
 went along with it anyway :-), you can consider it more as a writer's
 liberty or flourish. Wasn't trying to exclude anyone - FFL in itself is a
 coterie would be a better way to put it. The only cliques I have seen are
 formed by Barry, you weren't around when I first came here in May 2010,
 Barry thought I was someone who he could bully around, the arrogance and
 stupidity of that man..LOL..he and his clique took such a hard beating that
 he has never ever recovered from that :-)


 Yes - I have been blessed with an ability to learn languages, accents very
 quickly. I speak Hindi, Telugu and English - conversational at least with
 barely detectable accent, as in, in an accent which is well accepted in all
 these 3 languages. However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a
 corporate world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my
 English vocabulary. However things changed since 2010 - FFL has greatly
 helped, not to mention all the various books I read when I was young. I
 spend a lot of time on Merriam Webster m-w.com, practicing
 pronunciation,words, subtle differences between each of the adjectives -
 pronunciation is an area which I'm a little weak in - more as in the
 American pronunciations for the words which I don't use on a day to day
 basis. My memory really helps, all my forefathers chanting Vedas by memory
 have done the dirty work for me, I repeat something a few times and I
 retain it - I think I have at least 1000 songs memorized.

 My English practice went up way high these past 7 months - practicing,
 articulating, vocalizing all my ideas. So there's an element of hard work
 as well driven by my love for adjectives in the English language and the
 need to express my ideas.

 So thank you.

 Love,
 Ravi



 On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 6:36 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.comwrote:

 **

  Don't even know that I'd agree with the coterie thingy, although I
 love your use of descriptive words.  You have a better command of the
 English language than many English speakers, no?  You are a smarty pants.
  I'm just a cool cat, ya dig?

   --
 *From:* Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com
 *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Sunday, September 2, 2012 3:07 PM
 *Subject:* Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?


 Dear Barry Baby

 You opined* -  Immediately after after the minor clique-ist proposed his
 Enemies List, the clique leader responded, not only stroking the first
 clique-ist for dissing these eight people, but dissing them even further,
 suggesting that they lacked the spiritual, moral, emotional, and
 intellectual intelligence to...wait for it...see things the way she does.
  *

 Seriously you got all that Yahoo's message view - sometimes I
 underestimate your skills.

 Anyway it's not cliques - it's a coterie, a coterie of cogent, coherent,
 compelling mavericks.

 Love,
 Ravi


 On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 2:48 AM, turquoiseb no_re...@yahoogroups.comwrote:

 **

  My day started with young Maya doing her Sunday morning routine, and
 asking me to show her moovees on my competer. We chose a couple of
 episodes of a British kids' show Charlie and Lola. It's pretty good,
 seemingly based on a series of very popular books written and
 illustrated by Lauren Child.

 I can see why they're popular. They are aimed at an audience aged 3 to
 7, and they speak to this audience about real-life situations that a
 person of that age might encounter. Lola is an inquisitive girl, Charlie
 is her protective older brother, and their parents are never seen, so
 they have to figure out how to handle these situations *on their own*.
 This is what I consider the secret of these books' and this series'
 success -- it teaches *self-sufficiency*.

 Synchronistically, the second episode we watched was about Lola having
 to deal with her first experience with cliques. A group of kids, both
 girls and boys, took a disliking to her on the playground and decided to
 gang up on her and diss her. As you might expect, if you have ever had
 any experience with cliques, most of the dialog was spoken by the
 clique. One of them -- the girl who ran the clique -- would diss Lola

Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?

2012-09-02 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Yes..I noticed that two as well and your MaryamLOL

P.S you can make fun of me - Ravi is a totally mockable,lovable character -
I myself laugh at my stupidities, eccentricities, habits and such.


On Sun, Sep 2, 2012 at 10:00 PM, Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com wrote:

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 P.S.  Dear Ravi, I didn't realize you misspelled two until after I hit
 send.  Sorry, but this line struck me as sooo funny and now it's even
 funnier.  But, I am not making fun of you.  Love ya, Emily

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 *From:* Emily Reyn emilymae.r...@yahoo.com
 *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Sunday, September 2, 2012 9:49 PM

 *Subject:* Re: [FairfieldLife] Why do people form cliques?


 snip However lacking an arts degree and being stuck in a corporate
 world I don't have two many chances to display and improve my English
 vocabulary.

 That is an uproariously, side-splittingly, humorous lineah ha ha ha.

 I have bookmarked Maryam - could use a little help myself.  Your
 aptitude for languages is a benefit for us.

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