Re: Angel's Gate- My Felix
Title: Thank you Dear Kerry, Thank you for your kind words, I really need to hear I did the right thing. In my heart, I know I did, but I just miss him so, so much. Felix certainly is "plucky", quite a character. And he's very vocal too. I miss his "old man" serenades. I was looking at my photos this afternoon, I told Victor I'd send them a pic of Felix in his youthmiddle age really. Him and his brother, Oscar were about 10 when I brought them home from the shelter. Their names fit them so perfectly too. Oscar was a grouch, and a slob! He also had IBD, but he didn't care where he went, and he had no use for a litterbox! Felix, on the other hand was always a kind and gentle soul. And very fastidious about grooming himself. And if he couldn't make it to the nearest litterbox, he always found a substitute..the dog's large water bowl, my potted fig tree,the large basket in front of the fireplace, and at times he actually went in the fireplace! Even in his declining years he always tried to get to the litterbox, by this time I had a litterbox in every room in the house. He loves people, dogs, cats whatever. Often he would cuddle up w/ Lucy my neurotic dog. Lucy LOVES cats, especially kittenss, She enjoys being a surrogate mom. She did a great job trying to groom Felix everyday. And I know she really misses him, she's been extra mopey these last few days. He's such a gentle soul, you can't help but fall in love w/ him from the moment you first meet him. We are all missing him. I pray that he still has a number of good years to go. And, some great news! I did sell my house, before it was even listed in the papers. I was going nuts w/ all these strangers in my house. Last Friday, two contracts were signed. Both couples were very nice. But couple number 1 went w/ the listed price and I do not have to pay any of the closing fees or inspection fees. And the husband said his wife loved the house so much, he was afraid of what she'd do if she didn't get it! So that is why the contract is so generous on my behalf. And they were already pre-approved for mortgage. I'm delighted the house is going to people who will love it as much as I do! And our realtor told us that there are 3 couples who want to be notified if this contract doesn't go thru. So now it's my turn to find a place for me the furkids. I'm praying it won't be too hard since once the mortgage is paid, there is still a good sum coming my way! I'll stop my ramblimg now, but thanks again for your kind thoughts! Patti .
Re: Angel's Gate- My Felix
Title: AOL Email Dear Patti Your story of Felix moved me to tears. You are both of you such fantastically brave individuals. I hope your house sells soon and you get the chance to start anew too, just like youmade sure Felix did. He sounds such a plucky little kitty, and he was so very fortunate to have you in his life. How wonderful that fate put you in the path of his new guardians, allowing him to have the care he needs for the rest of his life. I know how much you must miss the little fellow, and I hope knowing he's in such great hands and is enjoying his new surroundings brings you comfort and always reminds you that you did the best and most loving thing for Felix. take care, love and hugs, Kerry - Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Friday, March 18, 2005 7:54 PM Subject: Angel's Gate- My Felix Sadly, Felix (non-positive) made the trip to the No. Shore on Long Island, NY. and Felix is now under the loving, and MUCH needed health care w/ Susan and Victor. Felix is 19 years old, I rescued him and his brother Oscar 10 years ago after their owner committed suicide. They were so depressed, and initially the stress of shelter life almost did kill Felix. And since they were siblings I did not want to split them up. I lost Oscar to cancer about 2 years ago. Felix has always had problems off and on w/ IBD, But in this last year. he has gotten much worse. My holistic vet started him on "Arsenicum Album", a tissue salt and Felix does exceptionally well while on it. He was diagnosed w/ CRF three years ago, For the past 2 1/2 years his condition has remained stable. He took a turn for the worse a month ago.. He needs special care 24/7 and needs to be monitored very closely. Originally Feliix weighed 11.4 lbs, yesterda he weighed only 4.5 lbs, ---no more tissue mass. Looks like a bag of bones w/ a gorgeous red tabby coat. Despite all of his medical problems, Felix is not ready to vacate his earhbound soul...HE STILL LOVES LIFE!! And so many little things, but eating is his favorite! He loves to be held cuddled, purrs like a raspy ole granpa! He loves his walks...I walk him thru the woods here on a leash and here loves watching birds, squirrels, whatever. I think at one time in his life w/ previous owner, he was probably quite the "hunter". His last blood panel was very bad. He declined so fast. But he srtll loves life, so I could not euthanize him. At this time, I am going thru many major, personal problems(tragedies) I must sell my home and I worry where will I go w/ the furbabies. Every day I have between 5-6 showings. I had Felix set up comfortably in the bath, but that was no life! And it wasn't "understood" by realtors why I would not show that bath,,,I just did not want to disturb the poor old man,Whenever he came out he headed straight to the deck doors so he could absorb what was going on in the "outside" world... I wrestled w/ the diff. options available. Euthanasia was NOT even an option, I knew he would do poorly again if returned to orig. shelter, hell, they'd probably euthanize him too!! I met Susan Marino, along w/ Dr. Marty Greenstein at a PAWS protest march against puppy mills in Harrisburg, Pa. (Wonderful , compassionate woman..and pet hospices were such a new, novel idea at the time...I think they still are.) After weeks and weeks, I finally got in touch w/ Susan. She agreed to take Felix, even tho' thry have a long waiting list. I think it's a kind of "professional courtesy" thing, since I've been involved in rescue practically my whole life. They do belief in the use of alternative medicine, which I also do, They also must use traditional vets when the need is warranted. Most of the residents are fed the "raw" diet. Victor asked me if Felix would go for it, and I said most definitely. I mean, he's the only cat I've ever met that loved the original canned KD! Thr place is immaculate, absolutely spotless, I don't kmow how the ymanage keeping uo w/ such a large household of critters!! And Victor and Susan have to be two of the best people I have ever met by far!! I highly reccommend them Angel's Gate. It was very hard leaving Felix, but he
RE: Angel's Gate- My Felix
Title: Message Patti, I just wanted you to know that I think you did the best and kindest thing to help Felix. What a lucky guy he is to have known you. Take care, Joan -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, March 18, 2005 8:54 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Angel's Gate- My Felix Sadly, Felix (non-positive) made the trip to the No. Shore on Long Island, NY. and Felix is now under the loving, and MUCH needed health care w/ Susan and Victor. Felix is 19 years old, I rescued him and his brother Oscar 10 years ago after their owner committed suicide. They were so depressed, and initially the stress of shelter life almost did kill Felix. And since they were siblings I did not want to split them up. I lost Oscar to cancer about 2 years ago. Felix has always had problems off and on w/ IBD, But in this last year. he has gotten much worse. My holistic vet started him on "Arsenicum Album", a tissue salt and Felix does exceptionally well while on it. He was diagnosed w/ CRF three years ago, For the past 2 1/2 years his condition has remained stable. He took a turn for the worse a month ago.. He needs special care 24/7 and needs to be monitored very closely. Originally Feliix weighed 11.4 lbs, yesterda he weighed only 4.5 lbs, ---no more tissue mass. Looks like a bag of bones w/ a gorgeous red tabby coat. Despite all of his medical problems, Felix is not ready to vacate his earhbound soul...HE STILL LOVES LIFE!! And so many little things, but eating is his favorite! He loves to be held cuddled, purrs like a raspy ole granpa! He loves his walks...I walk him thru the woods here on a leash and here loves watching birds, squirrels, whatever. I think at one time in his life w/ previous owner, he was probably quite the "hunter". His last blood panel was very bad. He declined so fast. But he srtll loves life, so I could not euthanize him. At this time, I am going thru many major, personal problems(tragedies) I must sell my home and I worry where will I go w/ the furbabies. Every day I have between 5-6 showings. I had Felix set up comfortably in the bath, but that was no life! And it wasn't "understood" by realtors why I would not show that bath,,,I just did not want to disturb the poor old man,Whenever he came out he headed straight to the deck doors so he could absorb what was going on in the "outside" world... I wrestled w/ the diff. options available. Euthanasia was NOT even an option, I knew he would do poorly again if returned to orig. shelter, hell, they'd probably euthanize him too!! I met Susan Marino, along w/ Dr. Marty Greenstein at a PAWS protest march against puppy mills in Harrisburg, Pa. (Wonderful , compassionate woman..and pet hospices were such a new, novel idea at the time...I think they still are.) After weeks and weeks, I finally got in touch w/ Susan. She agreed to take Felix, even tho' thry have a long waiting list. I think it's a kind of "professional courtesy" thing, since I've been involved in rescue practically my whole life. They do belief in the use of alternative medicine, which I also do, They also must use traditional vets when the need is warranted. Most of the residents are fed the "raw" diet. Victor asked me if Felix would go for it, and I said most definitely. I mean, he's the only cat I've ever met that loved the original canned KD! Thr place is immaculate, absolutely spotless, I don't kmow how the ymanage keeping uo w/ such a large household of critters!! And Victor and Susan have to be two of the best people I have ever met by far!! I highly reccommend them Angel's Gate. It was very hard leaving Felix, but he was already making new friendand exploring...jumping on chairs, windowsills and even Sue Vic's bed! Hell, he said most sleep with them every night, Felix genuinely looked very excited and happ.y Also, inquisitive. And I was so proud of him, he minded his manners, not so much as a swat or a hiss from him! Felix is definitely in the right place. And of course, I will get regular updates... Got to close, I am crying again. But by giving Felix a
Re: Angel's Gate- My Felix
I just wanted to thank everyone who replied to my post about Felix. I miss him so much.I find myself looking at the clock all the time still...I fed him smaller portions throughout the day, he had better luck keeping his food down that way. I just thank God that there are people like Susan Victor out there. They are truely angels! Patti
Re: Angel's Gate- My Felix
Title: AOL Email i am so sorry to hear of your problems causing you to sell your house. hoping all works out for you and your creatures. I hope angel's gate is able to help Felix and glad such a refuge exists. Your love for your little old man was heartening to read. please take care, barbara
