RE: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-29 Thread catatonya
It's hard to find a vet that's good with ferals, but when you find one he/she's a keeper! I could never handle my feral, but my vet could. They would put one of those nylon dog leashes around her neck and throw a towel over her. With the towel over her face they were able to give her shots, etc My new, even better vet was able to pill her, etc
tonyaHideyo Yamamoto [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
I do a similar thing, Wendy. I have lots of feral cats -so whenever theyget sick, it's a challenge to first of all catch him/her - and takehim/her to a vet so that they can be seen -One thing it worked good is to cover their face and the body part whichdoes not need to be examined with a towel completely - my Hannibal stayscalm as long as his face is covered (he can't see, therefore they can'tsee him mentality) - They also have used a zipper bag for my Simon and George - but I don'tknow how well it works for a very very feral kitty -Ask the vet to lower the voice as any loud voices will scare them... Ialways whisper when I take my feral. I will be praying for Cricket'squick recovery.Hideyo-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED][mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
 Behalf Of NinaSent: Monday, October 24, 2005 5:34 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragementHello Wendy,I'm sorry Cricket is so sick. You sound like a wonderful cat mom and Cricket is blessed to have you taking care of him. What a horrendous experience the two of you had during the first vet visit. I don't blameyou for wanting to avoid that kind of stress again. If I understand youcorrectly, this is a different vet, try not to expect the worst from this visit. It's possible that the new vet will be more experienced in dealing with reluctant patients like Cricket. I have a semi-feral that is really hard to treat too. I do use Rescue Remedy, (a drop on my finger applied to the inside tip of the ear), and spray the heck out of the bedding and crate with Feliway 20 minutes or so before you have to leave for the vet. Also, cover the crate with a towel or blanket.
 Whenyou get to the vet, tell the techs that you prefer only having him handled once and wait for the vet. Tell them he bites, if they try to give you an argument, that usually sends them scurrying from the room. What I do, is instead of taking the kitty from the crate, I remove the top of the crate and cover the cat with the towel that was covering the crate, (let him stayed buried under the towel as much as possible). Keep your hands on him and talk to him the whole time. I think an animal communicator is a good idea, but if you don't have time, or don'tbelieve in that sort of thing, you can talk to him yourself. Tell him this is not going to be the same as last time. Things are going to go smooth and easy. Tell him what you expect the vet will do, you know, he's going to touch your body, look in your mouth, etc. Tell him they are going to draw his blood to better understand what's going on in his body. Tell him the
 quieter he stays, the easier it will be to do. Plead with them to do everything in the exam room, or at least to allow you to come back with him when they draw his blood. It will be reassuring to him to hear your voice and have you present. Be as calm as you possibly can, he'll pick up on that and it will help him relax. Leave Cricket in the crate in the car when you get there. Tell them to come and get you in the parking lot when they are ready to bring you to the exam room. That way you can avoid the sounds and smells of the waiting room. From what you describe it sounds as if he's suffering from some sort ofanemia. There are different causes, and therefore different treatments. Blood transfusions have been known to stabilize kittys in dire straights and buy time for remedies to work. We just heard from a member that has had success using Immuno-Regulin subq, insead of IV, if you decide to go that route, I'm sure it
 would be easier on Cricket. This could have been brought on by the stress of your visitors, but there's no way to know. I detected a hint of guilt between the lines about possibly having brought on this bout of illness. I just want you to know, that's just not so. We can't keep them in a bubble, and even if we could, it doesn't mean they would remain safe and healthy. This disease sucks and sometimes no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, no matter how much you research, it still claims the lives of our sweet angels. It's a sad sad fact, but it's true. Please don't blame yourself for Cricket's condition. All we can do, is all we cando. Prayers for you and Cricket,Ninawendy walker wrote:Hi my name is Wendy. I live in Texas. I have a blackcat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and agreat cat. He absolutely hates the vet, so the lasttime I took him was about two years
 ago when he gotreally sick. They told me they couldn't tell hisactual temperature because it was all the way to theend of the 

Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread Terri Brown




I'm sorry it was necessary for you to find us, but I'm glad you did.

Starting the interferon or one of the other treatments is imperative. 
In the meantime, keep loving your baby.

I'm a bit pressed for time, so I am sorry I can't write more, but there are 
a lot of wonderful people on this list, and I know that one of them will be able 
to give you wonderful advice.

Hugs,

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  - Original Message - 
  From: wendy walker 
  To: Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 4:15 
  PM
  Subject: My baby Cricket is sick; I need 
  some encouragement
  Hi my name is Wendy. I live in Texas. I have a 
  blackcat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and agreat cat. 
  He absolutely hates the vet, so the lasttime I took him was about two 
  years ago when he gotreally sick. They told me they couldn't tell 
  hisactual temperature because it was all the way to theend of the 
  thermometer. It took virtually the wholestaff to give him an 
  injection of antibiotics and takehis blood, after they broke two needles 
  off in hisback. The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV. 
  When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him anyfluids 
  intraveneously for 18 hours after I had askedhim to (Cricket wasn't eating 
  or drinking on his own),I took him home and with the help of antibiotics 
  andsyringe-feeding and a lot of love, he made it back tolife. 
  The vet told me he'd never seen a cat that sickcome back. He's been 
  fine for two years. At the endof September, we had a houseful of 
  family duringHurricane Rita and shortly after that, I noticed 
  thatCricket wasn't quite making it when he jumped onto thecabinets to 
  drink water out of the sink. He startedeating kitty litter and 
  wasn't eating as much. Hebegan to walk slowly and when he came up to 
  me andmeowed (he never meows), I knew something was wrong. The (new) 
  vet prescribed Clavamox without seeingCricket because of his stressful 
  history when visitingthe vet. After two days on the medicine, he 
  seemed tobe doing better, but a couple of days later, I noticedhow 
  white his mouth was and started doing someresearch. Well, as many of 
  you already know becauseyou've done this drill, things are looking grim 
  forCricket. We have an appointment at the vet in acouple of 
  hours and it's all I can do to stay at work.I know whatever ends up 
  happening is going to happen,but I can't help but keep thinking and 
  worrying abouthim. I am normally pretty logical and 
  level-headed,but I cried all day yesterday after reading all 
  thenegative information about anemia and FeLV. I do havesome 
  hope however. I am hoping the vet will knowabout Immuno-Regulin or 
  even better, Virbagen Omega,which is a Feline Omega Interferon. Both 
  are supposedto help immensely with boosting the immune system. 
  Ireally don't know how the vet is going to be able totake Cricket's 
  blood to find out what the numbers areso we can treat him for the anemia; 
  Cricket gets socrazy. He may end up being his own worst enemy. 
  Ijust wanted to ask if anyone has had any success withtheir cats 
  taking these drugs? Also, if anyonereading this will pray for 
  Cricket and that the vetwill be a good one and that we can get Cricket 
  back tonormal for as long as we can. I promised that I wouldnot 
  allow Cricket to suffer for selfish reasons, but Idon't want to end his 
  life prematurely either. Prayfor wisdom for the vet and for 
  me. And thank you allso much. I was relieved to find this 
  site.__ Yahoo! FareChase: 
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RE: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
Dear Wendy
Welcome, though I'm so sorry for the reason you've had to find us. You
have come to the right place--you won't find a kinder, more
informed/supportive bunch of people anywhere--it's been a godsend to me.
I have not personally used IR or VO but I am sure you will hear from
those of us who have. 
I'm sending zillions of healing vibes for your Cricket, and praying your
vet visit goes well this afternoon. It's clear from everything you say
that Cricket couldn't wish for a more caring, loving mom.
hugs to you and your furball, Kerry


-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of wendy walker
Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 3:16 PM
To: Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement


Hi my name is Wendy.  I live in Texas.  I have a black
cat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and a
great cat.  He absolutely hates the vet, so the last
time I took him was about two years ago when he got
really sick.  They told me they couldn't tell his
actual temperature because it was all the way to the
end of the thermometer.  It took virtually the whole
staff to give him an injection of antibiotics and take
his blood, after they broke two needles off in his
back.  The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV. 
When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him any
fluids intraveneously for 18 hours after I had asked
him to (Cricket wasn't eating or drinking on his own),
I took him home and with the help of antibiotics and
syringe-feeding and a lot of love, he made it back to
life.  The vet told me he'd never seen a cat that sick
come back.  He's been fine for two years.  At the end
of September, we had a houseful of family during
Hurricane Rita and shortly after that, I noticed that
Cricket wasn't quite making it when he jumped onto the
cabinets to drink water out of the sink.  He started
eating kitty litter and wasn't eating as much.  He
began to walk slowly and when he came up to me and
meowed (he never meows), I knew something was wrong. 
The (new) vet prescribed Clavamox without seeing
Cricket because of his stressful history when visiting
the vet.  After two days on the medicine, he seemed to
be doing better, but a couple of days later, I noticed
how white his mouth was and started doing some
research.  Well, as many of you already know because
you've done this drill, things are looking grim for
Cricket.  We have an appointment at the vet in a
couple of hours and it's all I can do to stay at work.
 I know whatever ends up happening is going to happen,
but I can't help but keep thinking and worrying about
him.  I am normally pretty logical and level-headed,
but I cried all day yesterday after reading all the
negative information about anemia and FeLV.  I do have
some hope however.  I am hoping the vet will know
about Immuno-Regulin or even better, Virbagen Omega,
which is a Feline Omega Interferon.  Both are supposed
to help immensely with boosting the immune system.  I
really don't know how the vet is going to be able to
take Cricket's blood to find out what the numbers are
so we can treat him for the anemia; Cricket gets so
crazy.  He may end up being his own worst enemy.  I
just wanted to ask if anyone has had any success with
their cats taking these drugs?  Also, if anyone
reading this will pray for Cricket and that the vet
will be a good one and that we can get Cricket back to
normal for as long as we can.  I promised that I would
not allow Cricket to suffer for selfish reasons, but I
don't want to end his life prematurely either.  Pray
for wisdom for the vet and for me.  And thank you all
so much.  I was relieved to find this site.



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Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread Del Daniels



Wendy, 

Prayers for you and your Cricket. I have not 
used either of those drugs but many others will share their info and 
experiences. You probably know that when kitties are stressed their temp 
will rise so you might want to take it at home. Can you ask for a 
tranquilizer for Cricket to take before he goes to the vet to reduce his stress, 
or use Rescue Remedy? My kitties have not responded to Rescue Remedy but 
other folks have had good luck with it. It sounds like he might need 
something more potent than RR though. Just a thought. My Noah must 
be given some Iso for a blood draw and mouth exam and that works good for him 
because it's quick, they come right out of it. Good luck.

Del

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  wendy 
  walker 
  To: Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 3:15 
  PM
  Subject: My baby Cricket is sick; I need 
  some encouragement
  Hi my name is Wendy. I live in Texas. I have a 
  blackcat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and agreat cat. 
  He absolutely hates the vet, so the lasttime I took him was about two 
  years ago when he gotreally sick. They told me they couldn't tell 
  hisactual temperature because it was all the way to theend of the 
  thermometer. It took virtually the wholestaff to give him an 
  injection of antibiotics and takehis blood, after they broke two needles 
  off in hisback. The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV. 
  When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him anyfluids 
  intraveneously for 18 hours after I had askedhim to (Cricket wasn't eating 
  or drinking on his own),I took him home and with the help of antibiotics 
  andsyringe-feeding and a lot of love, he made it back tolife. 
  The vet told me he'd never seen a cat that sickcome back. He's been 
  fine for two years. At the endof September, we had a houseful of 
  family duringHurricane Rita and shortly after that, I noticed 
  thatCricket wasn't quite making it when he jumped onto thecabinets to 
  drink water out of the sink. He startedeating kitty litter and 
  wasn't eating as much. Hebegan to walk slowly and when he came up to 
  me andmeowed (he never meows), I knew something was wrong. The (new) 
  vet prescribed Clavamox without seeingCricket because of his stressful 
  history when visitingthe vet. After two days on the medicine, he 
  seemed tobe doing better, but a couple of days later, I noticedhow 
  white his mouth was and started doing someresearch. Well, as many of 
  you already know becauseyou've done this drill, things are looking grim 
  forCricket. We have an appointment at the vet in acouple of 
  hours and it's all I can do to stay at work.I know whatever ends up 
  happening is going to happen,but I can't help but keep thinking and 
  worrying abouthim. I am normally pretty logical and 
  level-headed,but I cried all day yesterday after reading all 
  thenegative information about anemia and FeLV. I do havesome 
  hope however. I am hoping the vet will knowabout Immuno-Regulin or 
  even better, Virbagen Omega,which is a Feline Omega Interferon. Both 
  are supposedto help immensely with boosting the immune system. 
  Ireally don't know how the vet is going to be able totake Cricket's 
  blood to find out what the numbers areso we can treat him for the anemia; 
  Cricket gets socrazy. He may end up being his own worst enemy. 
  Ijust wanted to ask if anyone has had any success withtheir cats 
  taking these drugs? Also, if anyonereading this will pray for 
  Cricket and that the vetwill be a good one and that we can get Cricket 
  back tonormal for as long as we can. I promised that I wouldnot 
  allow Cricket to suffer for selfish reasons, but Idon't want to end his 
  life prematurely either. Prayfor wisdom for the vet and for 
  me. And thank you allso much. I was relieved to find this 
  site.__ Yahoo! FareChase: 
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Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread maimaipg
Have you tried Feliway and Rescue Remedy when taking Cricket to the
vet's?  Both work wonders.  Black cats are very regal (read their way or
the highway) but they can be persuaded to cooperate.  I would suggest an
animal communicator talk to Cricket and explain what is happening.  Cricket
does not see the benefits, just the pain, especially since the last trip.
- Original Message - 
From: wendy walker [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 4:15 PM
Subject: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement


 Hi my name is Wendy.  I live in Texas.  I have a black
 cat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and a
 great cat.  He absolutely hates the vet, so the last
 time I took him was about two years ago when he got
 really sick.  They told me they couldn't tell his
 actual temperature because it was all the way to the
 end of the thermometer.  It took virtually the whole
 staff to give him an injection of antibiotics and take
 his blood, after they broke two needles off in his
 back.  The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV.
 When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him any
 fluids intraveneously for 18 hours after I had asked
 him to (Cricket wasn't eating or drinking on his own),
 I took him home and with the help of antibiotics and
 syringe-feeding and a lot of love, he made it back to
 life.  The vet told me he'd never seen a cat that sick
 come back.  He's been fine for two years.  At the end
 of September, we had a houseful of family during
 Hurricane Rita and shortly after that, I noticed that
 Cricket wasn't quite making it when he jumped onto the
 cabinets to drink water out of the sink.  He started
 eating kitty litter and wasn't eating as much.  He
 began to walk slowly and when he came up to me and
 meowed (he never meows), I knew something was wrong.
 The (new) vet prescribed Clavamox without seeing
 Cricket because of his stressful history when visiting
 the vet.  After two days on the medicine, he seemed to
 be doing better, but a couple of days later, I noticed
 how white his mouth was and started doing some
 research.  Well, as many of you already know because
 you've done this drill, things are looking grim for
 Cricket.  We have an appointment at the vet in a
 couple of hours and it's all I can do to stay at work.
  I know whatever ends up happening is going to happen,
 but I can't help but keep thinking and worrying about
 him.  I am normally pretty logical and level-headed,
 but I cried all day yesterday after reading all the
 negative information about anemia and FeLV.  I do have
 some hope however.  I am hoping the vet will know
 about Immuno-Regulin or even better, Virbagen Omega,
 which is a Feline Omega Interferon.  Both are supposed
 to help immensely with boosting the immune system.  I
 really don't know how the vet is going to be able to
 take Cricket's blood to find out what the numbers are
 so we can treat him for the anemia; Cricket gets so
 crazy.  He may end up being his own worst enemy.  I
 just wanted to ask if anyone has had any success with
 their cats taking these drugs?  Also, if anyone
 reading this will pray for Cricket and that the vet
 will be a good one and that we can get Cricket back to
 normal for as long as we can.  I promised that I would
 not allow Cricket to suffer for selfish reasons, but I
 don't want to end his life prematurely either.  Pray
 for wisdom for the vet and for me.  And thank you all
 so much.  I was relieved to find this site.



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Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread Nina

Hello Wendy,
I'm sorry Cricket is so sick.  You sound like a wonderful cat mom and 
Cricket is blessed to have you taking care of him.  What a horrendous 
experience the two of you had during the first vet visit.  I don't blame 
you for wanting to avoid that kind of stress again.  If I understand you 
correctly, this is a different vet, try not to expect the worst from 
this visit.  It's possible that the new vet will be more experienced in 
dealing with reluctant patients like Cricket.  I have a semi-feral that 
is really hard to treat too.  I do use Rescue Remedy, (a drop on my 
finger applied to the inside tip of the ear), and spray the heck out of 
the bedding and crate with Feliway 20 minutes or so before you have to 
leave for the vet.  Also, cover the crate with a towel or blanket.  When 
you get to the vet, tell the techs that you prefer only having him 
handled once and wait for the vet.  Tell them he bites, if they try to 
give you an argument, that usually sends them scurrying from the room.  
What I do, is instead of taking the kitty from the crate, I remove the 
top of the crate and cover the cat with the towel that was covering the 
crate, (let him stayed buried under the towel as much as possible).  
Keep your hands on him and talk to him the whole time.  I think an 
animal communicator is a good idea, but if you don't have time, or don't 
believe in that sort of thing, you can talk to him yourself.  Tell him 
this is not going to be the same as last time.  Things are going to go 
smooth and easy.  Tell him what you expect the vet will do, you know, 
he's going to touch your body, look in your mouth, etc. Tell him they 
are going to draw his blood to better understand what's going on in his 
body.  Tell him the quieter he stays, the easier it will be to do.  
Plead with them to do everything in the exam room, or at least to allow 
you to come back with him when they draw his blood.  It will be 
reassuring to him to hear your voice and have you present.  Be as calm 
as you possibly can, he'll pick up on that and it will help him relax.  
Leave Cricket in the crate in the car when you get there.  Tell them to 
come and get you in the parking lot when they are ready to bring you to 
the exam room.  That way you can avoid the sounds and smells of the 
waiting room. 

From what you describe it sounds as if he's suffering from some sort of 
anemia.  There are different causes, and therefore different 
treatments.  Blood transfusions have been known to stabilize kittys in 
dire straights and buy time for remedies to work.  We just heard from a 
member that has had success using Immuno-Regulin subq, insead of IV, if 
you decide to go that route, I'm sure it would be easier on Cricket. 

This could have been brought on by the stress of your visitors, but 
there's no way to know.  I detected a hint of guilt between the lines 
about possibly having brought on this bout of illness.  I just want you 
to know, that's just not so.  We can't keep them in a bubble, and even 
if we could, it doesn't mean they would remain safe and healthy.  This 
disease sucks and sometimes no matter what you do, no matter how hard 
you try, no matter how much you research, it still claims the lives of 
our sweet angels.  It's a sad sad fact, but it's true.  Please don't 
blame yourself for Cricket's condition.  All we can do, is all we can do. 


Prayers for you and Cricket,
Nina

wendy walker wrote:


Hi my name is Wendy.  I live in Texas.  I have a black
cat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and a
great cat.  He absolutely hates the vet, so the last
time I took him was about two years ago when he got
really sick.  They told me they couldn't tell his
actual temperature because it was all the way to the
end of the thermometer.  It took virtually the whole
staff to give him an injection of antibiotics and take
his blood, after they broke two needles off in his
back.  The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV. 
When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him any

fluids intraveneously for 18 hours after I had asked
him to (Cricket wasn't eating or drinking on his own),
I took him home and with the help of antibiotics and
syringe-feeding and a lot of love, he made it back to
life.  The vet told me he'd never seen a cat that sick
come back.  He's been fine for two years.  At the end
of September, we had a houseful of family during
Hurricane Rita and shortly after that, I noticed that
Cricket wasn't quite making it when he jumped onto the
cabinets to drink water out of the sink.  He started
eating kitty litter and wasn't eating as much.  He
began to walk slowly and when he came up to me and
meowed (he never meows), I knew something was wrong. 
The (new) vet prescribed Clavamox without seeing

Cricket because of his stressful history when visiting
the vet.  After two days on the medicine, he seemed to
be doing better, but a couple of days later, I noticed
how white his mouth was and started doing some
research.  Well, 

RE: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

2005-10-24 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
I do a similar thing, Wendy. I have lots of feral cats -so whenever they
get sick, it's a challenge to first of all catch him/her - and take
him/her to a vet so that they can be seen -

One thing it worked good is to cover their face and the body part which
does not need to be examined with a towel completely - my Hannibal stays
calm as long as his face is covered (he can't see, therefore they can't
see him mentality) - 

They also have used a zipper bag for my Simon and George - but I don't
know how well it works for a very very feral kitty -

Ask the vet to lower the voice as any loud voices will scare them... I
always whisper when I take my feral.  I will be praying for Cricket's
quick recovery.


Hideyo

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina
Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 5:34 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: My baby Cricket is sick; I need some encouragement

Hello Wendy,
I'm sorry Cricket is so sick.  You sound like a wonderful cat mom and 
Cricket is blessed to have you taking care of him.  What a horrendous 
experience the two of you had during the first vet visit.  I don't blame

you for wanting to avoid that kind of stress again.  If I understand you

correctly, this is a different vet, try not to expect the worst from 
this visit.  It's possible that the new vet will be more experienced in 
dealing with reluctant patients like Cricket.  I have a semi-feral that 
is really hard to treat too.  I do use Rescue Remedy, (a drop on my 
finger applied to the inside tip of the ear), and spray the heck out of 
the bedding and crate with Feliway 20 minutes or so before you have to 
leave for the vet.  Also, cover the crate with a towel or blanket.  When

you get to the vet, tell the techs that you prefer only having him 
handled once and wait for the vet.  Tell them he bites, if they try to 
give you an argument, that usually sends them scurrying from the room.  
What I do, is instead of taking the kitty from the crate, I remove the 
top of the crate and cover the cat with the towel that was covering the 
crate, (let him stayed buried under the towel as much as possible).  
Keep your hands on him and talk to him the whole time.  I think an 
animal communicator is a good idea, but if you don't have time, or don't

believe in that sort of thing, you can talk to him yourself.  Tell him 
this is not going to be the same as last time.  Things are going to go 
smooth and easy.  Tell him what you expect the vet will do, you know, 
he's going to touch your body, look in your mouth, etc. Tell him they 
are going to draw his blood to better understand what's going on in his 
body.  Tell him the quieter he stays, the easier it will be to do.  
Plead with them to do everything in the exam room, or at least to allow 
you to come back with him when they draw his blood.  It will be 
reassuring to him to hear your voice and have you present.  Be as calm 
as you possibly can, he'll pick up on that and it will help him relax.  
Leave Cricket in the crate in the car when you get there.  Tell them to 
come and get you in the parking lot when they are ready to bring you to 
the exam room.  That way you can avoid the sounds and smells of the 
waiting room. 

 From what you describe it sounds as if he's suffering from some sort of

anemia.  There are different causes, and therefore different 
treatments.  Blood transfusions have been known to stabilize kittys in 
dire straights and buy time for remedies to work.  We just heard from a 
member that has had success using Immuno-Regulin subq, insead of IV, if 
you decide to go that route, I'm sure it would be easier on Cricket. 

This could have been brought on by the stress of your visitors, but 
there's no way to know.  I detected a hint of guilt between the lines 
about possibly having brought on this bout of illness.  I just want you 
to know, that's just not so.  We can't keep them in a bubble, and even 
if we could, it doesn't mean they would remain safe and healthy.  This 
disease sucks and sometimes no matter what you do, no matter how hard 
you try, no matter how much you research, it still claims the lives of 
our sweet angels.  It's a sad sad fact, but it's true.  Please don't 
blame yourself for Cricket's condition.  All we can do, is all we can
do. 

Prayers for you and Cricket,
Nina

wendy walker wrote:

Hi my name is Wendy.  I live in Texas.  I have a black
cat named Cricket; he's 4 yrs., 5 mo's. old and a
great cat.  He absolutely hates the vet, so the last
time I took him was about two years ago when he got
really sick.  They told me they couldn't tell his
actual temperature because it was all the way to the
end of the thermometer.  It took virtually the whole
staff to give him an injection of antibiotics and take
his blood, after they broke two needles off in his
back.  The vet said that he tested positive for FeLV. 
When I figured out that the vet hadn't given him any
fluids intraveneously