Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-20 Thread Shlomi Fish
Hi Daniel,

On Mon, 16 Jun 2014 21:45:19 -0400
"Daniel and Elizabeth Case"  wrote:
[SNIPPED]

sorry to hear about that. But you can try coping with it - gently and tactfully.

Please read:

* http://unarmed.shlomifish.org/909.html - also see the notes and the comments.

* https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingdom_of_Heaven_%28film%29 - about
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saladin whose deads speak better than his few
words, and whose English Wikipedia page loses the forest for the trees.

And you may derive a lot of inspiration from some more recent sources such as
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sesame_Street ,
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Muppet_Show , and
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Little_Pony:_Friendship_Is_Magic . 

Finally, see my own http://www.shlomifish.org/humour/Summerschool-at-the-NSA/
which shows a modern variation of Saladin’s approach to benevolent psychological
warfare, and is kind-of like a 2013
modernisation of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atlas_Shrugged . 

Regards,

Shlomi Fish

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also convince you that you're alive, which is much harder.
— http://www.shlomifish.org/humour/bits/facts/Summer-Glau/

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Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-17 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
>Eppstein was off-base, but you escalated it into the realm of the personal 
>attack.  That's both counterproductive and even somewhat >hypocritical.  In 
>particular, your blanket denigration of academics is amazingly offensive to 
>many more Wikipedians than just your >wayward reviewer.


I apologize to all those who were offended ... yes, I’m not entirely outside 
the circle of academia myself (among which that sort of criticism is not 
unheard of, actually). I probably might not have flown off the handle so much 
if Eppstein hadn’t ended his review with something that sounded so snippy and 
dismissive, and it wasn’t so late.



Daniel Case
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Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-17 Thread LtPowers
Eppstein was off-base, but you escalated it into the realm of the personal
attack.  That's both counterproductive and even somewhat hypocritical.  In
particular, your blanket denigration of academics is amazingly offensive to
many more Wikipedians than just your wayward reviewer.

 

 

Powers  &8^]

 

 

 

-Original Message-
From: Daniel and Elizabeth Case [mailto:danc...@frontiernet.net] 
Sent: 16 June 2014 21:45
To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects
Subject: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

 

It's one thing to read about the sort of harsh reactions women get while
editing that discourages them from continuing.

 

It's a second thing to experience it yourself.


 

Late last week I was browsing Slate when I read their reprint
(http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2014/06/11/lolly_wolly_doodle_brandi_te
mple_s_north_carolina_children_s_clothing_startup.html) of this month's Inc.
magazine cover story, about a company called Lolly Wolly Doodle, a
children's clothing company started by Brandi Temple a woman in North
Carolina with no real prior business experience, who had by her own
admission never wanted to be anything more than a trophy wife when she was
younger. She apparently figured out how to sell on Facebook, something major
retailers have failed to do, and she's now the CEO of a rapidly-growing
company that's gotten some serious venture-capital funding, doing over half
of its $10 million+ annual business on FB and by their own lights the
largest retailer on that site.

 

I checked to see if we had an article on this company. We didn't, so I
started one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle, complete with
an infobox with the company logo and a free image of one of its dresses I
found on Flickr. I reflected as I did so that the reason that this company
had gotten all the media coverage it had in the tech and business press yet
remained off our radar said entirely too much about our gender gap ... if we
had just a few more probably regular editors who also are avid Pinterest
users, I bet, we'd have had at least a stub a long time ago.

 

But, that was all water under the bridge. Or so I thought.

 

I nominated it for DYK on Friday. Late today, I get these responses:

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations
/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle
<https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nomination
s/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195333&oldid=612812989>
&diff=613195333&oldid=612812989

https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations
/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle
<https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nomination
s/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195754&oldid=613195333>
&diff=613195754&oldid=613195333

 

They were enough to ruin the good mood I was in following the USA's World
Cup win over Ghana and our neighbor coming over to invite my wife and I to
her daughter's graduation party. I have real trouble believing that Eppstein
even read it ("whole paragraphs" are sourced to the company's own history on
its webpage? Huh? That it's not neutral and too promotional? Everything it
is sourced and attributed. And that dismissive conclusion about
"story-telling mode about the struggles of the founders to find their way in
the world" Maybe it's just me, but I don't think a similarly-written story
about a business set up by men would get this level of criticism.

 

Sorry if anyone was bothered by this, but I had to vent. I will be going
into greater detail about why this review was so off base when I request
that someone else review it instead (something I have very rarely done with
all the DYKs I've nominated).

 

Daniel Case

 

 

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Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-16 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
>Welcome to our lives Daniel :)
>Good efforts all around. I stopped participating in DYK's (nominating my own 
>stuff) after drama llamas claimed >promotional language about long dead 
>subjects and more.

Yeah, well, I’ve been nominating DYKSs for almost as long as I’ve been editing, 
so I have come to expect some occasional obtuseness from reviewers who aren’t 
acquainted with my other work. But this time it felt like a forearm across the 
mouth. It is bad enough that, after having composed my reply/request for 
another reviewer, I still feel like taking a break from Wikipedia for a while 
and working on another project (or even TV Tropes) for the rest of the evening.

Daniel Case 
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Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-16 Thread Sarah Stierch
Welcome to our lives Daniel :)

Good efforts all around. I stopped participating in DYK's (nominating my
own stuff) after drama llamas claimed promotional language about long dead
subjects and more.

I always say : so fix it.

But, they never do :)

Good article, screw the system!!

Sarah
On Jun 16, 2014 6:45 PM, "Daniel and Elizabeth Case" <
danc...@frontiernet.net> wrote:

>   It’s one thing to read about the sort of harsh reactions women get
> while editing that discourages them from continuing.
>
> It’s a second thing to experience it yourself.
>
>
> Late last week I was browsing *Slate* when I read their reprint (
> http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2014/06/11/lolly_wolly_doodle_brandi_temple_s_north_carolina_children_s_clothing_startup.html)
> of this month’s *Inc.* magazine cover story, about a company called Lolly
> Wolly Doodle, a children’s clothing company started by Brandi Temple a
> woman in North Carolina with no real prior business experience, who had by
> her own admission never wanted to be anything more than a trophy wife when
> she was younger. She apparently figured out how to sell on Facebook,
> something major retailers have failed to do, and she’s now the CEO of a
> rapidly-growing company that’s gotten some serious venture-capital funding,
> doing over half of its $10 million+ annual business on FB and by their own
> lights the largest retailer on that site.
>
> I checked to see if we had an article on this company. We didn’t, so I
> started one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle, complete
> with an infobox with the company logo and a free image of one of its
> dresses I found on Flickr. I reflected as I did so that the reason that
> this company had gotten all the media coverage it had in the tech and
> business press yet remained off our radar said entirely too much about our
> gender gap ... if we had just a few more probably regular editors who also
> are avid Pinterest users, I bet, we’d have had at least a stub a long time
> ago.
>
> But, that was all water under the bridge. Or so I thought.
>
> I nominated it for DYK on Friday. Late today, I get these responses:
>
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195333&oldid=612812989
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195754&oldid=613195333
>
> They were enough to ruin the good mood I was in following the USA’s World
> Cup win over Ghana and our neighbor coming over to invite my wife and I to
> her daughter’s graduation party. I have real trouble believing that
> Eppstein even read it (“whole paragraphs” are sourced to the company’s own
> history on its webpage? Huh? That it’s not neutral and too promotional?
> Everything it is sourced and attributed. And that dismissive conclusion
> about “story-telling mode about the struggles of the founders to find
> their way in the world” Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t think a
> similarly-written story about a business set up by men would get this level
> of criticism.
>
> Sorry if anyone was bothered by this, but I had to vent. I will be going
> into greater detail about why this review was so off base when I request
> that someone else review it instead (something I have very rarely done with
> all the DYKs I’ve nominated).
>
> Daniel Case
>
>
>
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Re: [Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-16 Thread Ryan Kaldari
Awesome article. Sorry to hear about your troubles with the peanut gallery.

Ryan


On Mon, Jun 16, 2014 at 6:45 PM, Daniel and Elizabeth Case <
danc...@frontiernet.net> wrote:

>   It’s one thing to read about the sort of harsh reactions women get
> while editing that discourages them from continuing.
>
> It’s a second thing to experience it yourself.
>
>
> Late last week I was browsing *Slate* when I read their reprint (
> http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2014/06/11/lolly_wolly_doodle_brandi_temple_s_north_carolina_children_s_clothing_startup.html)
> of this month’s *Inc.* magazine cover story, about a company called Lolly
> Wolly Doodle, a children’s clothing company started by Brandi Temple a
> woman in North Carolina with no real prior business experience, who had by
> her own admission never wanted to be anything more than a trophy wife when
> she was younger. She apparently figured out how to sell on Facebook,
> something major retailers have failed to do, and she’s now the CEO of a
> rapidly-growing company that’s gotten some serious venture-capital funding,
> doing over half of its $10 million+ annual business on FB and by their own
> lights the largest retailer on that site.
>
> I checked to see if we had an article on this company. We didn’t, so I
> started one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle, complete
> with an infobox with the company logo and a free image of one of its
> dresses I found on Flickr. I reflected as I did so that the reason that
> this company had gotten all the media coverage it had in the tech and
> business press yet remained off our radar said entirely too much about our
> gender gap ... if we had just a few more probably regular editors who also
> are avid Pinterest users, I bet, we’d have had at least a stub a long time
> ago.
>
> But, that was all water under the bridge. Or so I thought.
>
> I nominated it for DYK on Friday. Late today, I get these responses:
>
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195333&oldid=612812989
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195754&oldid=613195333
>
> They were enough to ruin the good mood I was in following the USA’s World
> Cup win over Ghana and our neighbor coming over to invite my wife and I to
> her daughter’s graduation party. I have real trouble believing that
> Eppstein even read it (“whole paragraphs” are sourced to the company’s own
> history on its webpage? Huh? That it’s not neutral and too promotional?
> Everything it is sourced and attributed. And that dismissive conclusion
> about “story-telling mode about the struggles of the founders to find
> their way in the world” Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t think a
> similarly-written story about a business set up by men would get this level
> of criticism.
>
> Sorry if anyone was bothered by this, but I had to vent. I will be going
> into greater detail about why this review was so off base when I request
> that someone else review it instead (something I have very rarely done with
> all the DYKs I’ve nominated).
>
> Daniel Case
>
>
>
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[Gendergap] Oh man, I feel like a woman ...

2014-06-16 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case
It’s one thing to read about the sort of harsh reactions women get while 
editing that discourages them from continuing.

It’s a second thing to experience it yourself.

 
Late last week I was browsing Slate when I read their reprint 
(http://www.slate.com/blogs/moneybox/2014/06/11/lolly_wolly_doodle_brandi_temple_s_north_carolina_children_s_clothing_startup.html)
 of this month’s Inc. magazine cover story, about a company called Lolly Wolly 
Doodle, a children’s clothing company started by Brandi Temple a woman in North 
Carolina with no real prior business experience, who had by her own admission 
never wanted to be anything more than a trophy wife when she was younger. She 
apparently figured out how to sell on Facebook, something major retailers have 
failed to do, and she’s now the CEO of a rapidly-growing company that’s gotten 
some serious venture-capital funding, doing over half of its $10 million+ 
annual business on FB and by their own lights the largest retailer on that site.

I checked to see if we had an article on this company. We didn’t, so I started 
one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle, complete with an infobox 
with the company logo and a free image of one of its dresses I found on Flickr. 
I reflected as I did so that the reason that this company had gotten all the 
media coverage it had in the tech and business press yet remained off our radar 
said entirely too much about our gender gap ... if we had just a few more 
probably regular editors who also are avid Pinterest users, I bet, we’d have 
had at least a stub a long time ago.

But, that was all water under the bridge. Or so I thought.

I nominated it for DYK on Friday. Late today, I get these responses:

https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195333&oldid=612812989
https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Template:Did_you_know_nominations/Lolly_Wolly_Doodle&diff=613195754&oldid=613195333

They were enough to ruin the good mood I was in following the USA’s World Cup 
win over Ghana and our neighbor coming over to invite my wife and I to her 
daughter’s graduation party. I have real trouble believing that Eppstein even 
read it (“whole paragraphs” are sourced to the company’s own history on its 
webpage? Huh? That it’s not neutral and too promotional? Everything it is 
sourced and attributed. And that dismissive conclusion about “story-telling 
mode about the struggles of the founders to find their way in the world” Maybe 
it’s just me, but I don’t think a similarly-written story about a business set 
up by men would get this level of criticism.

Sorry if anyone was bothered by this, but I had to vent. I will be going into 
greater detail about why this review was so off base when I request that 
someone else review it instead (something I have very rarely done with all the 
DYKs I’ve nominated).

Daniel Case

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