Re: [Goanet] Are Goans Homophobe/response to Mario

2006-09-21 Thread Sunith Velho

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Hi Mario,

I think you could end this argument by simply clarifying what "stuffing it 
in your face" would involve.

Most people seem to have interpreted it as, you support homosexuality as 
long as you dont see homosexuals displaying affection in public. If that is 
true and you have the same position on heterosexuals displaying affection in 
public, then no one can accuse you of being a homophobe.

I for one interpreted it as, you have no problem with homosexuals as long as 
they don't hit on you... :)) Fair enough, I guess.

Regards
Sunith Velho

 


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Re: [Goanet] Are Goans Homophobe?/response to Mario

2006-09-20 Thread Bosco D'Mello

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On Wed Sep 20 10:08:40 PDT 2006, Carvalho wrote:

> Dear Darling Bosco,
>
> It could be that I jumped the gun on Dominic (no puns here) but in 
> all my years as a Goan, I've never heard this word used. If indeed 
> this is a Goan word to describe homosexuality, then how would one 
> describe heterosexuality? Potmarob? Because all you can see protruding 
> from Goan men, are their ample "pots". :))

Selma

RESPONSE: For starters shall we please follow Captain Morgan's filosawphee - 
What happens below the deck, STAYS below the deck!

You have more than jumped the gun on this one. Besides your gaffe in the 
earlier message, you have now acknowledged that you know all the Konkani words 
there are to know. Viva !! A slug of Captain Morgan's to that.

Secondly you are forcefully shoving Domnic into the company of your off-key 
but soloist brass player - who does the fingering and blowing without any 
help. Domnic's talent is writing, with sincerity I might add. He is no brass 
player.

Thirdly, I don't know which Goan men you were looking at when you saw 
those "pots". Captain Morgan and his crew have labored to carry around a 
chiselled 6-pack.

Let Konkani education - words, grammar, script run perennially.

Best - Bosco

PS. In all my years as a Goan, I never knew there was a place called Kamanwada 
in Goa
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Re: [Goanet] Are Goans Homophobe?/response to Mario

2006-09-20 Thread Carvalho

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Dear Darling Bosco,

It could be that I jumped the gun on Dominic (no puns
here) but in all my years as a Goan, I've never heard
this word used. If indeed this is a Goan word to
describe homosexuality, then how would one describe
heterosexuality? Potmarob? Because all you can see
protruding from Goan men, are their ample "pots". :))

Selma


--- Bosco D'Mello <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> 
> > Your post and that of Dominic Fernandes, to me
> reeks of homophobia.
> 
> RESPONSE: From Webster:
> 
> One entry found for homophobia.
> 
> Function: noun
> : irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination
> against homosexuality or 
> homosexuals
> 
> Kevin enquired if there was a Konkani word for
> Homosexual / Homosexuality. 
> Domnic Fernandes provided a word that he believes
> fits the terminology. Now 
> you state his post is homophobic ? What is your
> rationale ? Why condemn 
> Domnic's post ? It would have been appropriate if
> you had provided a 
> translated word(s) instead of thrusting an
> undesirable halo on Domnic's post.
> 


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Re: [Goanet] Are Goans Homophobe?/response to Mario

2006-09-20 Thread Bosco D'Mello

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On Tue Sep 19 21:01:23 PDT 2006, Carvalho carvalho_sel at yahoo.com wrote:

> Your post and that of Dominic Fernandes, to me reeks of homophobia.

RESPONSE: From Webster:

One entry found for homophobia.

Function: noun
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or 
homosexuals

Kevin enquired if there was a Konkani word for Homosexual / Homosexuality. 
Domnic Fernandes provided a word that he believes fits the terminology. Now 
you state his post is homophobic ? What is your rationale ? Why condemn 
Domnic's post ? It would have been appropriate if you had provided a 
translated word(s) instead of thrusting an undesirable halo on Domnic's post.

It is true that some societies have become gay-friendly (for want of a better 
word) and we have assimilated homosexuality as part of our ideology. Canada is 
at the forefront of gay rights as Kevin earlier explained to the angst of the 
Holy See.

- Bosco
Toronto, CA
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Re: [Goanet] Are Goans Homophobe?/response to Mario

2006-09-19 Thread Carvalho

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Dear Mario,

Why do I detect an undertone of sarcasm in your post?
If not, why else would "beacon of hope" be in inverted
commas in your message. Your post and that of Dominic
Fernandes, to me reeks of homophobia. 

I don't pretend to understand homosexuality but having
known so many homosexual men, some of whom I consider
very good friends, I don't sit in judgment of it. What
goes on between two consenting adults is their own
business.

Selma
-

--- Mario Goveia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Mario responds:
> >
> As with private religious beliefs I have no problems
> with what consenting adults of any gender or
> cdombination of genders do in private as long as
> they
> eschew stuffing it in my face.
> >
> I'm so glad that Kevin and Selma are ecstatic that
> Wendell has been a "beacon of hope" for gays in Goa.
> 
> I, too, am glad for all of them, as it must be
> difficult to be gay in straight-laced Goa.
> >



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