Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

2011-11-19 Thread Linda Walton
Thank you, Elizabeth W. and Sharon C. - I never realised that wearing a 
hat could have so many implications!  I wonder if the idea is modern of 
doing honour to the occasion by wearing a hat, which seems to be 
coming back into custom and not just fashion.


When I wore a hat as part of my school uniform, ( yes, a very long time 
ago), I would have been grateful for ribbons.  In Summer terms, I must 
have covered many miles with one hand holding it on my head; Autumn and 
Spring terms were not so bad, since our school Winter coats had an 
especially wide hood to cover the hat, and that tied with a gathering 
string.  Thinking back, we must have looked very sweet . . .


There were certainly rules about never being seen out of doors without 
your hat - nor your gloves, (brown leather for Winter, white cotton for 
Summer).  Was there some ettiquette behind glove-wearing too?


Linda



On 19/11/2011 01:25, Elizabeth W wrote:

I actually recall reading a mid 19th century ettiquette manual which
specifically states that when paying a formal call you don't take your
bonnet off unless sincerely pressed to do so by your host/ess as it's
essentially a sign that you are planning on staying for a while (and
formal calls were supposed to be no more than 15-20 minutes). I've
used the analogy of taking your shoes off in a modern context which
would be interpreted as 'making yourself at home'. A bonnet is not
something you whip on and off every time you move from inside to
outside.

Elizabeth

On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 9:36 AM, Sharon Colliersha...@collierfam.com  wrote:

Interesting. I wear a bonnet at the Dickens Christmas Fair and I often do
not tie my bonnet under the chin, but rather lower down. I do this purely
for practical reasons---it makes the bonnet so much easier to get on and
off. We have to be going from inside to outside, depending on where we
are at the fair and just being able to pop it on without struggling with the
ribbons is so much easier. I will add that mine is balanced so that I do not
need the ribbons or a hatpin to keep it on.
Sharon C.


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Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

2011-11-19 Thread Sharon Collier
Re: gloves: a kickback to the Victorian thing of never being tanned; it
meant you worked! Same reasoning behind always wearing a hat. A LADY did not
get tanned from working in the sun. Some women took arsenic in tiny doses to
give them that really pale look. The ideal was to be really pale with your
blue veins showing through your skin.
Sharon C.

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Behalf Of Linda Walton
Sent: Saturday, November 19, 2011 9:40 AM
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Subject: Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

Thank you, Elizabeth W. and Sharon C. - I never realised that wearing a hat
could have so many implications!  I wonder if the idea is modern of doing
honour to the occasion by wearing a hat, which seems to be coming back into
custom and not just fashion.

When I wore a hat as part of my school uniform, ( yes, a very long time
ago), I would have been grateful for ribbons.  In Summer terms, I must have
covered many miles with one hand holding it on my head; Autumn and Spring
terms were not so bad, since our school Winter coats had an especially wide
hood to cover the hat, and that tied with a gathering string.  Thinking
back, we must have looked very sweet . . .

There were certainly rules about never being seen out of doors without your
hat - nor your gloves, (brown leather for Winter, white cotton for Summer).
Was there some ettiquette behind glove-wearing too?

Linda



On 19/11/2011 01:25, Elizabeth W wrote:
 I actually recall reading a mid 19th century ettiquette manual which 
 specifically states that when paying a formal call you don't take your 
 bonnet off unless sincerely pressed to do so by your host/ess as it's 
 essentially a sign that you are planning on staying for a while (and 
 formal calls were supposed to be no more than 15-20 minutes). I've 
 used the analogy of taking your shoes off in a modern context which 
 would be interpreted as 'making yourself at home'. A bonnet is not 
 something you whip on and off every time you move from inside to 
 outside.

 Elizabeth

 On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 9:36 AM, Sharon Colliersha...@collierfam.com
wrote:
 Interesting. I wear a bonnet at the Dickens Christmas Fair and I 
 often do not tie my bonnet under the chin, but rather lower down. I 
 do this purely for practical reasons---it makes the bonnet so much 
 easier to get on and off. We have to be going from inside to 
 outside, depending on where we are at the fair and just being able 
 to pop it on without struggling with the ribbons is so much easier. I 
 will add that mine is balanced so that I do not need the ribbons or a
hatpin to keep it on.
 Sharon C.

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Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

2011-11-19 Thread Sharon Collier
Actually, at Fezziwigs, one removes one's bonnet because it is difficult to
see while one is dancing. While on a short visit to the Adventurer's Club or
Tavistock House, one leaves one's bonnet on; if one is staying to have tea
or dine, one removes it. 
Sharon

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Sent: Saturday, November 19, 2011 9:52 AM
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Subject: Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?


If I may presume - at the Dicken's Fair, going from inside to outside,
they may be portraying the residents of the house and not 19thC visitors to
the house. It sounds like they are making concessions to the theatrical
nature of the fair.

-Carol


On Nov 18, 2011, at 8:25 PM, Elizabeth W wrote:
 I actually recall reading a mid 19th century ettiquette manual which 
 specifically states that when paying a formal call you don't take your 
 bonnet off unless sincerely pressed to do so by your host/ ess as it's 
 essentially a sign that you are planning on staying for a while (and 
 formal calls were supposed to be no more than 15-20 minutes). I've 
 used the analogy of taking your shoes off in a modern context which 
 would be interpreted as 'making yourself at home'. A bonnet is not 
 something you whip on and off every time you move from inside to 
 outside.

 Elizabeth


 On Sat, Nov 19, 2011 at 9:36 AM, Sharon Collier 
 sha...@collierfam.com wrote:
 Interesting. I wear a bonnet at the Dickens Christmas Fair and I 
 often do not tie my bonnet under the chin, but rather lower down.
 I do this purely for practical reasons---it makes the bonnet so much 
 easier to get on and off. We have to be going from inside
 to outside, depending on where we are at the fair and just being 
 able to pop it on without struggling with the ribbons is so much 
 easier. I will add that mine is balanced so that I do not need
 the ribbons or a hatpin to keep it on.
 Sharon C.


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Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

2011-11-19 Thread albertcat





Most 19th century bonnets I've seen, real and costume, will stay on as well as 
any hat and the strings don't really keep it on, except maybe in windy 
weather or in an open coach. I'm willing to bet that many times the tying of 
one's bonnet string, and how they are to be tied is dictated by fads and 
fashion.
There are also those periods where linen caps are worn in the house and under 
bonnets, and they do seem to have practical strings and in the 18th century are 
sometimes clearly meant to be tied under the chin for the look. Just how many 
things are you to tie under your chin?
Then there those 1870-80's bonnets that tie behind


As to gloves, you just know there's a myriad of Victorian rules coverning those 
in society. I know the length has to do with when one wears a certain length. 
This seems practical as an evening dress might have no sleeves(so long gloves) 
and a day dress only requires shorter gloves. But wearing them all the time is 
part of that I don't have to do anything for myself... I have servants, 
y'know thing.


I love those Victorian dinner scenes (like in Age of Innocence) where the 
ladies at the table have their hands out of the gloves with the glove fingers 
tucked into the wrist opening.
 
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Re: [h-cost] Not tying your bonnet strings ?

2011-11-19 Thread Lavolta Press



On 11/19/2011 1:57 PM, albert...@aol.com wrote:





Most 19th century bonnets I've seen, real and costume, will stay on as well as any hat 
and the strings don't really keep it on, except maybe in windy weather or in 
an open coach.


snip

There are various 19th-century paintings of women dancing outdoors in 
the daytime at dance-hall-type venues, and they are all wearing day 
dress and bonnets or hats.


Fran
Lavolta Press
www.lavoltapress.com
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