[ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth story

2005-10-23 Thread Lindsay Yvette



Hi all,
Some of you may remember me going on about 
trying to plan a vaginal twins birth. Babies are 8 weeks old now  
here's the full birth story.
http://bellybelly.com.au/forums/viewtopic.php?t=15647

Kind Regards,
Yvette
Mum of 5
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/twingirlslb/


Re: [ozmidwifery] Obs first visits

2005-10-23 Thread Judy Chapman
In Mareeba the women are booked under the Midwife's name. I
guess it takes a long time to change. We are not rocking the
boat right now as what we are doing is very different to what
most of the rest of Qld does and we are just too happy to still
be alive. Working with the OB's in Cairns is one of the
conditions of our survival. 
Cheers
Judy

--- wump fish [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 It is very depressing to hear that even when women have
 midwifery-led care 
 they either have to see a dr or have their notes reviewed by a
 dr. As 
 midwives we are the experts in normal and competent at
 identifying when 
 things are high risk or becoming abnormal. Why the hell do the
 drs waste 
 their time 'checking' notes incase we have missed something?
 Is it because 
 the women are booked under their name, therefore they think
 they are 
 responsible for a stuff-up? In the UK low risk women were
 booked under their 
 mw's name unless there were problems. We would get into
 serious trouble if 
 we had missed something and it resulted in a poor outcome
 (very very rarely 
 happened). Responsibility goes hand in hand with autonomy.
 
 Rachel
 

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth story

2005-10-23 Thread Judy Chapman
Fantastic Yvette.
I have been wondering a lot lately how you went. I wish you all
the best for the future. 
Cheers
Judy

--- Lindsay  Yvette [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Hi all,
 Some of you may remember me going on about trying to plan a
 vaginal twins birth.  Babies are 8 weeks old now  here's the
 full birth story.
 http://bellybelly.com.au/forums/viewtopic.php?t=15647
 
 Kind Regards,
 Yvette
 Mum of 5
 http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/twingirlslb/




 
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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth story

2005-10-23 Thread Justine Caines
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth story



Dear Yvette

Your little ones look beautiful. Oh to have 2 girls!

I am sorry you had all that intervention. I truly hope to avoid all of that in the next few weeks.

I may need to chat to you for post-natal coping skills!!


Kind regards

Justine

34 weeks (twins no idea what, but I bet theres one boy!!)





Re: [ozmidwifery] looking for a midwife

2005-10-23 Thread Sally-Anne Brown



Jan
will email you off line

SA

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Jan 
  Ireland 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005 11:34 
  AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] looking for a 
  midwife
  
  HI Sally-ann brown or those who know 

  what is your e.mail address jan ireland 
  
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Sally-Anne Brown 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Thursday, October 20, 2005 8:31 
AM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] looking for 
a midwife

Dear Jan

If you would like to email me off the list I 
have a number of midwives details I am happy to provide you 
with.

Kind Regards

Sally-Anne (Brown)

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Jan 
  Ireland 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Thursday, October 20, 2005 8:13 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] looking for a 
  midwife
  
  dearest midwives
  i have a client who is now living in anglesea 
  4th baby other 3 born at home are there any mws doing homebirths please 
  repl asap is 15 wks into preg now cheers jan 
  
  

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth story

2005-10-23 Thread Sally-Anne Brown



Congrats Yvette to you and your family

kind regards

Sally-Anne

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lindsay 
   Yvette 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2005 4:59 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Re: twins birth 
  story
  
  Hi all,
  Some of you may remember me going on about 
  trying to plan a vaginal twins birth. Babies are 8 weeks old now  
  here's the full birth story.
  http://bellybelly.com.au/forums/viewtopic.php?t=15647
  
  Kind Regards,
  Yvette
  Mum of 5
  http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/twingirlslb/
  
  

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[ozmidwifery] 1st visits

2005-10-23 Thread Sonja Barry



Thankyou everyone who replied to my request on info 
for first visits. All of it was great an I hope the powers that be are 
intelligent enough to look further than our own area health service. 
Thanks again
Sonja


Re: [ozmidwifery] Mackay

2005-10-23 Thread diane



Thanks Michelle, will only be in Mackay on Fri and 
Sat (11-12 Nov) so will have to try my luck on the Friday. 
Thanks
Di

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Michelle Windsor
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Saturday, October 22, 2005 8:04 
  AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Mackay
  
  Hi Di,
  
  I'm sure it will be fine for you to come and have a look through. 
  The Birth Centre number is: 49 686404. Our appointment days are 
  Tues-Thurs, but on Mon  Fri we may or may not be there (doing home visits 
  etc). Hope to catch up with you.
  
  Cheers
  Michellediane [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  



Hi to the Mackay Midwives, 

I am going to be in Mackay for a few days next 
month and wondering if I can come and see your Birth Centre. Any suggestions 
on who to contact to arrange this. I am interested in how different 
midwifery models arrange their work as we are trying to get a caseload model 
up and running at Wyong (near Gosford). My husband would love to move there 
too but Im not sure I could handle the humidity!
Cheers,
Di.
  
  
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[ozmidwifery] Fw: Student Nurse Midwife

2005-10-23 Thread Andrea Bilcliff

Please reply to Michelle [EMAIL PROTECTED] if you are able to help.

- Original Message - 


Hi.
My name is Michelle Munro and I am currently a registered nurse and student 
nurse midwife in the United States at the University of Michigan. I am 
writing regarding a possible student midwifery experience in Australia. 
During our final semester of midwifery school we complete an 
apprenticeship of sort where we work with a midwife about 40 hours a week 
based on her schedule. In the past, students have done a portion of this 
clinical work in other countries in order to gain a broader understanding of 
midwifery. The apprenticeship is for 3-4 months and I was hoping to 
complete a portion of this in Australia (maybe a month)in either February, 
March, or April. I was hoping that you could possibly help with my placement 
among the midwifery community.  I would appreciate any assistance and/or 
guidance in this endeavor that you could provide. Thank you.



Sincerely,
Michelle Munro
[EMAIL PROTECTED]



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[ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' gender

2005-10-23 Thread Andrea Bilcliff



Sorry for cross posting...
I have aclient who is due to give birth 
soonand shereally wants a baby of a particular genderbut the 
ultrasound has shown the baby to be the opposite.This ismuchmore than being a little disappointed and it 
doesnot appear to have eased over the course of the pregnancy. 


She has expressed concerns about how this may 
potentially affect her labour. She alsoexpresses enormous guilt over 
having these feelings when she already has healthy children, including one of 
this gender. She is also concerned about the effects her feelings/thoughts are 
having and will have on her baby's development.

Assuming the ultrasound is correct, has anyone had 
experience of this either as a mother or care provider? Any words of 
wisdom?

Thanks,
Andrea Bilcliff


RE: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' gender

2005-10-23 Thread Kylie Carberry
Andrea, 
I recall reading quite a good story on this topic - being disappointed with the sex of the baby - in Practical Parenting earlier this year. The editor wrote about it also in the editorial saying that what spawned the interest in taking on the subject was a lady who contacted her who was feeling awful because she found out she was having a girl when she wanted a boy. I had a search in my copies of the mag but couldn't find it. Perhaps you could contact the magazine and ask what issue it was in. It may help the woman you talk about to read about others with the same feelings and that it is not all that unusual to feel this way.
cheers
Kylie Carberry Freelance Journalist p: +61 2 42970115 m: +61 2 418220638 f: +61 2 42970747


From: "Andrea Bilcliff" [EMAIL PROTECTED]Reply-To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auTo: "Ozmidwifery" ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auCC: "Maternity Coalition Midwives" [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' genderDate: Mon, 24 Oct 2005 11:08:55 +1000



Sorry for cross posting...
I have aclient who is due to give birth soonand shereally wants a baby of a particular genderbut the ultrasound has shown the baby to be the opposite.This ismuchmore than being a little disappointed and it doesnot appear to have eased over the course of the pregnancy. 

She has expressed concerns about how this may potentially affect her labour. She alsoexpresses enormous guilt over having these feelings when she already has healthy children, including one of this gender. She is also concerned about the effects her feelings/thoughts are having and will have on her baby's development.

Assuming the ultrasound is correct, has anyone had experience of this either as a mother or care provider? Any words of wisdom?

Thanks,
Andrea Bilcliff

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Re: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' gender

2005-10-23 Thread Honey Acharya



There have also been some threads (discussions) on 
this in the birth.com.au forums in the last 3 months, you can search and find 
them.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Kylie Carberry 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 11:22 
  AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' 
  gender
  
  
  Andrea, 
  I recall reading quite a good story on this topic - being disappointed with 
  the sex of the baby - in Practical Parenting earlier this year. The 
  editor wrote about it also in the editorial saying that what spawned the 
  interest in taking on the subject was a lady who contacted her who was feeling 
  awful because she found out she was having a girl when she wanted a boy. 
  I had a search in my copies of the mag but couldn't find it. Perhaps you 
  could contact the magazine and ask what issue it was in. It may help the 
  woman you talk about to read about others with the same feelings and that it 
  is not all that unusual to feel this way.
  cheers
  Kylie Carberry Freelance 
  Journalist p: +61 2 42970115 m: +61 2 418220638 f: +61 2 
  42970747
  

From: "Andrea Bilcliff" [EMAIL PROTECTED]Reply-To: 
ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auTo: "Ozmidwifery" 
ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auCC: "Maternity Coalition 
Midwives" 
[EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: 
[ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' genderDate: Mon, 24 Oct 2005 
11:08:55 +1000



Sorry for cross posting...
I have aclient who is due to give birth 
soonand shereally wants a baby of a particular genderbut 
the ultrasound has shown the baby to be the opposite.This ismuchmore than being a little 
disappointed and it doesnot appear to have eased over the course of 
the pregnancy. 

She has expressed concerns about how this may 
potentially affect her labour. She alsoexpresses enormous guilt over 
having these feelings when she already has healthy children, including one 
of this gender. She is also concerned about the effects her 
feelings/thoughts are having and will have on her baby's 
development.

Assuming the ultrasound is correct, has anyone 
had experience of this either as a mother or care provider? Any words of 
wisdom?

Thanks,
Andrea 
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[ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

2005-10-23 Thread Jenny Cameron




Hi all

Does anyone have information on the effect on human lactation of assisted 
reproductive technology? I am noticing a lot of poor lactation among women who 
have had a baby by ART. A lot of women seem to be on Domperidone these days at 
the best of times?? Anyone else experiencing these phenomena? It does make sense 
that if the woman's hormonal milieau is such that reproduction needs hormonal 
assistance then lactation is likely to also??? Cheers

Jenny

Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717





RE: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' gender

2005-10-23 Thread Kelly @ BellyBelly








Andrea,



I have written an article on this which
may be of help. I have found people linking the article on Specific Gender
forums around Australia
 many of them find it very helpful. Perhaps you can pass it onto her? http://bellybelly.com.au/articles/pregnancy/gender-disappointment



Best Regards,

Kelly Zantey
Director, www.bellybelly.com.au  www.toys4tikes.com.au
Gentle Solutions For Conception, Pregnancy, Birth
 Baby
Australian Little Tikes Specialists 











From: owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au [mailto:owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au] On Behalf Of Andrea Bilcliff
Sent: Monday, 24 October 2005
11:09 AM
To: Ozmidwifery
Cc: Maternity Coalition Midwives
Subject: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong'
gender







Sorry for cross posting...





I have aclient who is due to give birth soonand
shereally wants a baby of a particular genderbut the ultrasound has
shown the baby to be the opposite.This ismuchmore than being
a little disappointed and it doesnot appear to have eased over the course
of the pregnancy. 











She has expressed concerns about how this may potentially
affect her labour. She alsoexpresses enormous guilt over having these
feelings when she already has healthy children, including one of this gender.
She is also concerned about the effects her feelings/thoughts are having and
will have on her baby's development.











Assuming the ultrasound is correct, has anyone had
experience of this either as a mother or care provider? Any words of wisdom?











Thanks,





Andrea Bilcliff










RE: [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

2005-10-23 Thread Nicole Carver



Hi Jenny,
Is it that intervention is more common in 
the management of these women, particularly if ART has resulted in a multiple 
pregnancy? Intervention can interfere with the initiation of lactation for a 
number of reasons, as you would be aware. 
Nicole.

  -Original Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]On Behalf Of Jenny 
  CameronSent: Monday, October 24, 2005 12:08 PMTo: 
  ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
  after ART 
  
  Hi all
  
  Does anyone have information on the effect on human lactation of assisted 
  reproductive technology? I am noticing a lot of poor lactation among women who 
  have had a baby by ART. A lot of women seem to be on Domperidone these days at 
  the best of times?? Anyone else experiencing these phenomena? It does make 
  sense that if the woman's hormonal milieau is such that reproduction needs 
  hormonal assistance then lactation is likely to also??? Cheers
  
  Jenny
  
  Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
  1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717
  
  
  


Re: [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

2005-10-23 Thread Jenny Cameron



Thanks Nicole. This is longer term lactation 
failure. ie week 4 after birth and still only 20 mls per feed or _expression_, if 
that! Very odd. 

Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717



  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Nicole 
  Carver 
  To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 
  
  Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 12:42 
  PM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
  after ART
  
  Hi Jenny,
  Is it that intervention is more common in 
  the management of these women, particularly if ART has resulted in a multiple 
  pregnancy? Intervention can interfere with the initiation of lactation for a 
  number of reasons, as you would be aware. 
  Nicole.
  
-Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]On Behalf Of Jenny 
CameronSent: Monday, October 24, 2005 12:08 PMTo: 
ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
after ART 

Hi all

Does anyone have information on the effect on human lactation of 
assisted reproductive technology? I am noticing a lot of poor lactation 
among women who have had a baby by ART. A lot of women seem to be on 
Domperidone these days at the best of times?? Anyone else experiencing these 
phenomena? It does make sense that if the woman's hormonal milieau is such 
that reproduction needs hormonal assistance then lactation is likely to 
also??? Cheers

Jenny

Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717



  
  

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

2005-10-23 Thread Belinda
I wonder if this woman has had reasonable breast growth as a teenager, 
if she was particularly skinny, dieted heaps etc or some sort of breast 
trauma?

Belinda

Jenny Cameron wrote:

Thanks Nicole. This is longer term lactation failure. ie week 4 after 
birth and still only 20 mls per feed or expression, if that! Very odd.
 
Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACM

President NT branch ACMI
PO Box 1465
Howard Springs NT 0835
08 8983 1926
0419 528 717
 
 


- Original Message -
*From:* Nicole Carver mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
*To:* ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
mailto:ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
*Sent:* Monday, October 24, 2005 12:42 PM
*Subject:* RE: [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

Hi Jenny,
Is it that intervention is more common in the management of these
women, particularly if ART has resulted in a multiple pregnancy?
Intervention can interfere with the initiation of lactation for a
number of reasons, as you would be aware.
Nicole.

-Original Message-
*From:* [EMAIL PROTECTED]
mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of
*Jenny Cameron
*Sent:* Monday, October 24, 2005 12:08 PM
*To:* ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
*Subject:* [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

Hi all
 
Does anyone have information on the effect on human lactation

of assisted reproductive technology? I am noticing a lot of
poor lactation among women who have had a baby by ART. A lot
of women seem to be on Domperidone these days at the best of
times?? Anyone else experiencing these phenomena? It does make
sense that if the woman's hormonal milieau is such that
reproduction needs hormonal assistance then lactation is
likely to also??? Cheers
 
Jenny
 
Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACM

President NT branch ACMI
PO Box 1465
Howard Springs NT 0835
08 8983 1926
0419 528 717
 
 



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RE: [ozmidwifery] Lactation after ART

2005-10-23 Thread Nicole Carver



So if the management of these women have 
been the same, do we look to a hormonal cause? Perhaps related to why ART became 
necessary in the first place. I wonder if there is still a hyperstimulation of 
the ovaries. Are these women ovulating/menstruating? I will sit back and watch 
this thread with interest.
Nicole.

  -Original Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]On Behalf Of Jenny 
  CameronSent: Monday, October 24, 2005 1:35 PMTo: 
  ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
  after ART
  Thanks Nicole. This is longer term 
  lactation failure. ie week 4 after birth and still only 20 mls per feed or 
  _expression_, if that! Very odd. 
  
  Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
  1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717
  
  
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Nicole Carver 
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au 

Sent: Monday, October 24, 2005 12:42 
PM
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
after ART

Hi Jenny,
Is it that intervention is more common 
in the management of these women, particularly if ART has resulted in a 
multiple pregnancy? Intervention can interfere with the initiation of 
lactation for a number of reasons, as you would be aware. 
Nicole.

  -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]On Behalf Of Jenny 
  CameronSent: Monday, October 24, 2005 12:08 PMTo: 
  ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.auSubject: [ozmidwifery] Lactation 
  after ART 
  
  Hi all
  
  Does anyone have information on the effect on human lactation of 
  assisted reproductive technology? I am noticing a lot of poor lactation 
  among women who have had a baby by ART. A lot of women seem to be on 
  Domperidone these days at the best of times?? Anyone else experiencing 
  these phenomena? It does make sense that if the woman's hormonal milieau 
  is such that reproduction needs hormonal assistance then lactation is 
  likely to also??? Cheers
  
  Jenny
  
  Jennifer Cameron FRCNA FACMPresident NT branch ACMIPO Box 
  1465Howard Springs NT 083508 8983 19260419 528 717
  
  
  



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RE: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong' gender

2005-10-23 Thread Barbara Stokes









Dear Andrea,

Over my 30+ years of a midwife, I remember
2 births that were influenced by the ultrasound reports.

The first was mother to be of her 5th
boy, turned out to be a girl so result was happiness all round!

The second event was a mother having 2nd
baby, first was a boy and ultrasound said this one would be a girl. Over the labour, mother and support
people talked about the nursery being newly painted pink, girls names chosen, grandma had jewellery engraved with this
name etc. Baby was a boy!

The atmosphere in the birth room was one
of shock, mum took a couple of hours to just hold her
new baby! I felt incredibly sad for
this baby and family but the next day all (at least on the surface!) seemed ok. I think the baby was being bottle fed, though
this was decided before the birth.

Barbara Stokes



-Original
Message-
From:
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Andrea Bilcliff
Sent: Monday, 24 October 2005
11:09 AM
To: Ozmidwifery
Cc: Maternity Coalition Midwives
Subject: [ozmidwifery] The 'wrong'
gender





Sorry for cross posting...





I have aclient who is due to
give birth soonand shereally wants a baby of a particular
genderbut the ultrasound has shown the baby to be the opposite.This
ismuchmore than being a little disappointed and it doesnot
appear to have eased over the course of the pregnancy. 











She has expressed concerns about how
this may potentially affect her labour. She alsoexpresses enormous guilt
over having these feelings when she already has healthy children, including one
of this gender. She is also concerned about the effects her feelings/thoughts
are having and will have on her baby's development.











Assuming the ultrasound is correct,
has anyone had experience of this either as a mother or care provider? Any
words of wisdom?











Thanks,





Andrea Bilcliff










[ozmidwifery] wrong gender

2005-10-23 Thread Robyn Dempsey



Andrea,

This year I've had one woman who dearly wanted a 
girl. The ultrasound was inconclusive, and she spent many hours agonizing over 
the gender of this baby. Finally shehad some NET work doneby her 
chiropractor which helped resolve the issue. Rather than saying, 'its a this, 
deal with it', getting counseling, or looking for tools to help deal with the 
feelings of guilt, loss, grief, love and anger can often be of great use to the 
woman.

Robyn Dempsey