[QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread Jim Lubin


Today, May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent
quadriplegic due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened
so it has now been half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore
shoulder. Thinking I just slept in a wrong position I went to work. After
about 30 minutes the pain in my shoulder increased and I started feeling
dizzy. I tried to stand up but could not. Someone helped me lay down. In
a short amount of time I remember a paramedic asking me my age, I tried
to answer but could not talk. I found out I had stopped breathing. The
next memory I have is waking up in the hospital unable to move or speak.

Transverse Myelitis is an inflammatory attack in the spinal cord. It is
an auto immune disorder where a persons own immune system mistakenly
attacks and destroys myelin, the insulating material that surrounds
nerves. There is no known cause or cure. It can happen to anyone at any
age.
In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis Association has established the James
Timothy Lubin Fellowship in Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The purpose
of the Fellowship is to encourage the development of medical
specializations in TM, ADEM and NMO through a year of study under a
leading TM, ADEM or NMO specialist. If you think this is a worthy cause
and would like to make a tax deductible donation to support it, you can
do so using this link

http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation


Jim
Lubin

jlu...@eskimo.com
http://makoa.org/jim

disAbility Resources:
http://www.makoa.org







Re: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread wheelchair
Congrats Jim,
 
In the last 21 years you have made more world connections then most with  
your expertise and experiences in survival.  You have done so well.   And may 
you continue to lead and inform others.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 4:16:08 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
jlu...@eskimo.com writes:

Today,  May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent 
quadriplegic  due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened so it 
has now been  half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore shoulder. 
Thinking I just  slept in a wrong position I went to work. After about 30 
minutes the pain in  my shoulder increased and I started feeling dizzy. I tried 
to stand up but  could not. Someone helped me lay down. In a short amount of 
time I remember a  paramedic asking me my age, I tried to answer but could 
not talk. I found out  I had stopped breathing. The next memory I have is 
waking up in the hospital  unable to move or speak. 

Transverse Myelitis is an inflammatory attack  in the spinal cord. It is an 
auto immune disorder where a persons own immune  system mistakenly attacks 
and destroys myelin, the insulating material that  surrounds nerves. There 
is no known cause or cure. It can happen to anyone at  any age.

In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis Association has established  the James 
Timothy Lubin Fellowship in Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The  purpose of 
the Fellowship is to encourage the development of medical  specializations in 
TM, ADEM and NMO through a year of study under a leading  TM, ADEM or NMO 
specialist. If you think this is a worthy cause and would like  to make a tax 
deductible donation to support it, you can do so using this link  
_http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation_ 
(http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation) 


Jim  Lubin
jlu...@eskimo.com
_http://makoa.org/jim_ (http://makoa.org/jim)   
disAbility Resources: _http://www.makoa.org



_ (http://www.makoa.org/) 


RE: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread Steve Oldaker
Well stated, W.  Congratulations, Jim!

 

From: wheelch...@aol.com [mailto:wheelch...@aol.com] 
Sent: Monday, May 17, 2010 5:25 PM
To: jlu...@eskimo.com; quad-list@eskimo.com; tmic-l...@eskimo.com;
vent-us...@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

 

Congrats Jim,

 

In the last 21 years you have made more world connections then most with
your expertise and experiences in survival.  You have done so well.  And may
you continue to lead and inform others.

Best Wishes

 

In a message dated 5/17/2010 4:16:08 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
jlu...@eskimo.com writes:

Today, May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent
quadriplegic due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened so
it has now been half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore shoulder.
Thinking I just slept in a wrong position I went to work. After about 30
minutes the pain in my shoulder increased and I started feeling dizzy. I
tried to stand up but could not. Someone helped me lay down. In a short
amount of time I remember a paramedic asking me my age, I tried to answer
but could not talk. I found out I had stopped breathing. The next memory I
have is waking up in the hospital unable to move or speak. 

Transverse Myelitis is an inflammatory attack in the spinal cord. It is an
auto immune disorder where a persons own immune system mistakenly attacks
and destroys myelin, the insulating material that surrounds nerves. There is
no known cause or cure. It can happen to anyone at any age.

In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis Association has established the James
Timothy Lubin Fellowship in Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The purpose of
the Fellowship is to encourage the development of medical specializations in
TM, ADEM and NMO through a year of study under a leading TM, ADEM or NMO
specialist. If you think this is a worthy cause and would like to make a tax
deductible donation to support it, you can do so using this link
http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation





Jim Lubin   
jlu...@eskimo.com
http://makoa.org/jim 
disAbility Resources: http://www.makoa.org http://www.makoa.org/ 







Re: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread wheelchair
Hip, Hip Hooray.  Hip, Hip Hoorah!  AttaBoy.  Here,  Here!
 
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 4:40:00 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
steve.olda...@comcast.net writes:

 
Well  stated, W…  Congratulations, Jim! 
 
 
From:  wheelch...@aol.com [mailto:wheelch...@aol.com] 
Sent: Monday, May  17, 2010 5:25 PM
To: jlu...@eskimo.com; quad-list@eskimo.com;  tmic-l...@eskimo.com; 
vent-us...@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]  21st anniversary!

 
Congrats  Jim,
 

 
In  the last 21 years you have made more world connections then most with 
your  expertise and experiences in survival.  You have done so well.  And  
may you continue to lead and inform others.
 
Best  Wishes
 

 
 
In a  message dated 5/17/2010 4:16:08 P.M. Central Daylight Time, 
jlu...@eskimo.com  writes:

Today,  May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent 
quadriplegic  due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened so it 
has now  been half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore shoulder. 
Thinking I  just slept in a wrong position I went to work. After about 30 
minutes the  pain in my shoulder increased and I started feeling dizzy. I tried 
to stand  up but could not. Someone helped me lay down. In a short amount of 
time I  remember a paramedic asking me my age, I tried to answer but could 
not talk.  I found out I had stopped breathing. The next memory I have is 
waking up in  the hospital unable to move or speak. 

Transverse Myelitis is an  inflammatory attack in the spinal cord. It is an 
auto immune disorder where  a persons own immune system mistakenly attacks 
and destroys myelin, the  insulating material that surrounds nerves. There 
is no known cause or cure.  It can happen to anyone at any age.

In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis  Association has established the James 
Timothy Lubin Fellowship in Rare  Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The purpose of 
the Fellowship is to encourage  the development of medical specializations in 
TM, ADEM and NMO through a  year of study under a leading TM, ADEM or NMO 
specialist. If you think this  is a worthy cause and would like to make a tax 
deductible donation to  support it, you can do so using this link 
_http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation_ 
(http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation) 



Jim  Lubin
jlu...@eskimo.com
_http://makoa.org/jim_ (http://makoa.org/jim)  
disAbility  Resources: _http://www.makoa.org



_ (http://www.makoa.org/) 




Re: [QUAD-L] Health Aides, sicker then their clients........

2010-05-17 Thread Quadius
If you're paying $7200 a year for a husband and wife plus one child, that's
not bad.  Of course you always have to worry about what happens when you do
get really sick.  Are they actually going to cover it?  It's unbelievable
what these companies do to maintain their profit level.  Then again, that's
what corporations are supposed to do.  So what do we expect?

I'll never understand these people that yell with froth dripping from their
mouth, we don't want no government ran a insurance and keep your hands off
my Medicare!

Q

On Thu, May 6, 2010 at 7:46 PM, John S. alcibiat...@yahoo.com wrote:

  Why is it that nobody can believe the insurance companies make it a
 virtual impossibillity for so many people to even get health insurance? Do
 HIPPA laws even apply to these ne'er do wells of the extortion industry? if
 insurance companies lie to you, why can't you lie to them?
 On average, a couple will pay $2200 the first year for a child. This
 doesn't include mom and dad which cost $5000 or more. then there is the car.
 about $1000, house insurance, $850. Don't get excited, health insurance
 won't cover dentists or eye doctors.
 I guess what the pro-life republican senator said was true, People that
 can't afford healtth care shouldn't have children

 john

  --
 *From:* wheelch...@aol.com wheelch...@aol.com
 *To:* quad...@gmail.com
 *Cc:* quad-list@eskimo.com
 *Sent:* Tue, May 4, 2010 3:18:53 PM

 *Subject:* [QUAD-L] Health Aides, sicker then their clients

 My point... and hopefully its a good point is, Are you suffering or feel
 endangered, knowing that a nurse, doctor or home aide might be taking care
 of you and exposing you to an infection or cold  flu?  Bladder and UTI or
 Yeast Infections.  These are the very people who are taking care of you as
 Quads, while being sick themselves.  Years ago, I remember one aide who
 carried a bag with 12 different meds Rx, for themselves and not there
 clients. Who's taking care of who?

 Best Wishes

  In a message dated 5/4/2010 2:04:33 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
 quad...@gmail.com writes:

 it behooves most employers to consider subsidizing their employees health
 care.  If an employee is healthy and happy they tend to stay longer and are
 more productive.  In my case, I think it's imperative that I consider my
 family, who are my primary caregivers, health it has been almost as
 essential as mine.  If there is goes downhill, the mine is bound to follow
 shortly thereafter if I'm not able to find a suitable replacement.
 Just my two cents.
 Quadius.

 On Sat, May 1, 2010 at 8:57 PM, Eric W Rudd c5sc...@gmail.com wrote:

  ?? might've missed the point.  i pay my PCA  figure they can pay 4
 their own 'upkeep'
 Eric W Rudd
 c5sc...@gmail.com

 - Original Message -
 *From:* Quadius quad...@gmail.com
 *To:* andrea murray emma_wolf2...@yahoo.com
 *Cc:* QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com
 *Sent:* Saturday, May 01, 2010 5:03 PM
 *Subject:* Re: Fw: [QUAD-L] Health Aides, sicker then their
 clients

 amen.  I'm still trying to get some reasonable insurance for my brother
 and sister-in-law who take care of me.  I need to bite the big one and
 accept the fact that they need good insurance so they can continue to take
 care of me.  If they can't go to the doctor and things fester it's going to
 end up biting me in the rear later on.

 On Sat, May 1, 2010 at 2:09 PM, andrea murray emma_wolf2...@yahoo.comwrote:

   *Some of the Health care aids do not have health care inc. A lot of
 them can't afford going to doctor's. You might say they don't have to work
 for a health company that doesn't give health benefits. But try and find
 one!!! Thank God there are people out there that will work without
 benefit's. As a person with a disability I could not live without my aide's.
 I think of them as Gods Angels.*
 *WW*
 --- On *Fri, 4/30/10, wheelch...@aol.com wheelch...@aol.com* wrote:


 From: wheelch...@aol.com wheelch...@aol.com
 Subject: [QUAD-L] Health Aides, sicker then their clients
 To: QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com
 Date: Friday, April 30, 2010, 3:22 PM

  Is it me or have I noticed that in far too many cases with healthcareaids 
 and workers that they are often in worse health then the people who
 they take care of?  The also applies to Doctors, Nurses and home aids.  By
 Law, they don't have to disclose any health conditions or if they have or
 carry any infections while taking care of you.  Has anyone else noticed this
 too?

 On a side note, organ donors and receivers  More then 1/2 of our organ
 donations come from abroad. No, not women but rather from other
 countries.  Where has your organ come from?

 Best Wishes








[QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread ladynotes

I am a C-4 quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist says that my 
urethra is eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a urostomy. He 
performed a procedure called Urodynamic, which measures the amount of urine 
your bladder can hold. Mine is holding less than an ounce of urine. So now he 
wants to remove my bladder, and make me a new one using part of my small 
intestine. During this procedure, both ureters are relocated, a new bladder is 
made, and urine as directed from the body through a stoma in the abdomen, which 
connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to the hospital on 
Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for me to have this 
procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and disturbing my small 
intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup (which is a very terrible thing).
 
My dilemma is this: I have to choose between having this very invasive surgery, 
and all of that may come after it including infection from many sources, 
including the new bladder, ureter relocation, the stoma, and skin irritation 
from the adhesive for the bag, and not to mention the Crohn's flareup
 
Or.
 
I can wear incontinent briefs which I don't have anyone to change them, because 
there's just me and my 80 year old mother, living together. She won't be able 
to change them throughout the day. I have an aide comes in the morning and 
gives me a bed bath and get me in my wheelchair. The rest of the day, there's 
just me and my mom here until bedtime (around 9:00 PM) when my nighttime aide 
comes to put me to bed. My catheter bag is usually not emptied from morning to 
night. My mom cannot handle me to change briefs, and if they're left on, I 
would have all types of sores.
 
Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how is it working for you? I 
would love to hear what others have to say regarding my dilemma.
 
Naomi.
C-4 quadriplegic due to Transverse Myelitis
since July 2, 2005


Have a Blessed Day, Naomi


Re: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread wheelchair
I truly hope that the procedure works for you.  After many years of  using 
an indwelling your bladder is the size of a walnut, and that is not  
uncommon.  Based on the info you provided, I believe your faith in your  doctor 
is 
most important.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 6:31:56 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
ladyno...@aol.com writes:

I am a C-4 quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist  says that 
my urethra is eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a  urostomy. 
He performed a procedure called Urodynamic, which measures the  amount of 
urine your bladder can hold. Mine is holding less than an ounce of  urine. So 
now he wants to remove my bladder, and make me a new one using part  of my 
small intestine. During this procedure, both ureters are relocated, a  new 
bladder is made, and urine as directed from the body through a stoma in  the 
abdomen, which connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to  the 
hospital on Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for me to  
have this procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and disturbing my  
small intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup (which is a very terrible  
thing).
 
My dilemma is this: I have to choose between having this very  invasive 
surgery, and all of that may come after it including infection from  many 
sources, including the new bladder, ureter relocation, the stoma, and  skin 
irritation from the adhesive for the bag, and not to mention the Crohn's  
flareup
 
Or.
 
I can wear incontinent briefs which I don't have anyone to  change them, 
because there's just me and my 80 year old mother, living  together. She won't 
be able to change them throughout the day. I have an aide  comes in the 
morning and gives me a bed bath and get me in my wheelchair. The  rest of the 
day, there's just me and my mom here until bedtime (around 9:00  PM) when my 
nighttime aide comes to put me to bed. My catheter bag is usually  not 
emptied from morning to night. My mom cannot handle me to change briefs,  and 
if 
they're left on, I would have all types of  sores.
 
Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how is it  working for 
you? I would love to hear what others have to say regarding my  dilemma.
 
Naomi.
C-4 quadriplegic due to Transverse  Myelitis
since July 2, 2005

Have a Blessed Day,  Naomi



RE: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread Aaron Mann
If you go with briefs, is attendant care not an option?  Through
insurance/Medicare?

 

Aaron Mann

C4-5, 1988

 

From: ladyno...@aol.com [mailto:ladyno...@aol.com] 
Sent: Monday, May 17, 2010 6:31 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

 

I am a C-4 quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist says that my
urethra is eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a urostomy. He
performed a procedure called Urodynamic, which measures the amount of urine
your bladder can hold. Mine is holding less than an ounce of urine. So now
he wants to remove my bladder, and make me a new one using part of my small
intestine. During this procedure, both ureters are relocated, a new bladder
is made, and urine as directed from the body through a stoma in the abdomen,
which connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to the hospital
on Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for me to have this
procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and disturbing my small
intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup (which is a very terrible thing).

 

My dilemma is this: I have to choose between having this very invasive
surgery, and all of that may come after it including infection from many
sources, including the new bladder, ureter relocation, the stoma, and skin
irritation from the adhesive for the bag, and not to mention the Crohn's
flareup

 

Or.

 

I can wear incontinent briefs which I don't have anyone to change them,
because there's just me and my 80 year old mother, living together. She
won't be able to change them throughout the day. I have an aide comes in the
morning and gives me a bed bath and get me in my wheelchair. The rest of the
day, there's just me and my mom here until bedtime (around 9:00 PM) when my
nighttime aide comes to put me to bed. My catheter bag is usually not
emptied from morning to night. My mom cannot handle me to change briefs, and
if they're left on, I would have all types of sores.

 

Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how is it working for you?
I would love to hear what others have to say regarding my dilemma.

 

Naomi.

C-4 quadriplegic due to Transverse Myelitis

since July 2, 2005

Have a Blessed Day, Naomi



Re: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread Danny Hearn
Congrats, Jim-- you have accomplished a lot, 21 years is an amazing feat, 
especially when being full quad and or vent dependent..I'm  a c-6 and have arm 
movement---and you and a few others on here are an inspiration to me and others 
on and off this list  !  hang in there---we want to see you post many more 
anniversaries !    Dan H.**





From: Jim Lubin jlu...@eskimo.com
To: quad-list@eskimo.com; tmic-l...@eskimo.com; vent-us...@eskimo.com
Sent: Mon, May 17, 2010 4:13:51 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

Today, May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent 
quadriplegic due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened so it 
has now been half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore shoulder. 
Thinking I just slept in a wrong position I went to work. After about 30 
minutes the pain in my shoulder increased and I started feeling dizzy. I tried 
to stand up but could not. Someone helped me lay down. In a short amount of 
time I remember a paramedic asking me my age, I tried to answer but could not 
talk. I found out I had stopped breathing. The next memory I have is waking up 
in the hospital unable to move or speak. 

Transverse Myelitis is an inflammatory attack in the spinal cord. It is an auto 
immune disorder where a persons own immune system mistakenly attacks and 
destroys myelin, the insulating material that surrounds nerves. There is no 
known cause or cure. It can happen to anyone at any age.

In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis Association has established the James Timothy 
Lubin Fellowship in Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The purpose of the 
Fellowship is to encourage the development of medical specializations in TM, 
ADEM and NMO through a year of study under a leading TM, ADEM or NMO 
specialist. If you think this is a worthy cause and would like to make a tax 
deductible donation to support it, you can do so using this link 
http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation



Jim Lubin   
jlu...@eskimo.com
http://makoa.org/jim 
disAbility Resources: http://www.makoa.org

Re: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread Dan

Hi Naomi,

I'm a little confused, having an indwelling catheter for five years 
isn't that long. in any event, I certainly would get a second and 
third opinion before undergoing such drastic surgery. And even if 
your bladder has shrunk does it really matter?


As for your eroding urethra, I'm no doctor, but it seems there should 
be some easier way to fix it.


Dan


At 07:31 PM 5/17/2010, ladyno...@aol.com said something that elicited 
my response:


I am a C-4 quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist says 
that my urethra is eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a 
urostomy. He performed a procedure called Urodynamic, which measures 
the amount of urine your bladder can hold. Mine is holding less than 
an ounce of urine. So now he wants to remove my bladder, and make me 
a new one using part of my small intestine. During this procedure, 
both ureters are relocated, a new bladder is made, and urine as 
directed from the body through a stoma in the abdomen, which 
connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to the 
hospital on Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for 
me to have this procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and 
disturbing my small intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup 
(which is a very terrible thing).?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = 
urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office /


My dilemma is this: I have to choose between having this very 
invasive surgery, and all of that may come after it including 
infection from many sources, including the new bladder, ureter 
relocation, the stoma, and skin irritation from the adhesive for the 
bag, and not to mention the Crohn's flareup


Or.

I can wear incontinent briefs which I don't have anyone to change 
them, because there's just me and my 80 year old mother, living 
together. She won't be able to change them throughout the day. I 
have an aide comes in the morning and gives me a bed bath and get me 
in my wheelchair. The rest of the day, there's just me and my mom 
here until bedtime (around 9:00 PM) when my nighttime aide comes to 
put me to bed. My catheter bag is usually not emptied from morning 
to night. My mom cannot handle me to change briefs, and if they're 
left on, I would have all types of sores.


Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how is it working 
for you? I would love to hear what others have to say regarding my dilemma.


Naomi.
C-4 quadriplegic due to Transverse Myelitis
since July 2, 2005

Have a Blessed Day, Naomi


Re: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread hellodaveoc
really - a suprapubic is not an option?  i don't know much about them  but 
DO ask a few doctors before you decide.   It's tough second  guessing 
doctors BUT we MUST.   Some just operate in a fog.
AZDAVE
 
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 5:47:23 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time,  
d...@unh.edu writes:

Hi Naomi,

I'm a little confused, having  an indwelling catheter for five years isn't 
that long. in any event, I  certainly would get a second and third opinion 
before undergoing such drastic  surgery. And even if your bladder has shrunk 
does it really matter?

As  for your eroding urethra, I'm no doctor, but it seems there should be 
some  easier way to fix it.

Dan


At 07:31 PM 5/17/2010,  ladyno...@aol.com said something that elicited my 
response:


I am a C-4  quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist says that 
my urethra is  eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a urostomy. 
He performed a  procedure called Urodynamic, which measures the amount of 
urine your bladder  can hold. Mine is holding less than an ounce of urine. So 
now he wants to  remove my bladder, and make me a new one using part of my 
small intestine.  During this procedure, both ureters are relocated, a new 
bladder is made,  and urine as directed from the body through a stoma in the 
abdomen, which  connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to the 
hospital on  Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for me to 
have this  procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and disturbing my 
small  intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup (which is a very terrible  
thing).?xml:namespace prefix = o ns =  
urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office /

My dilemma is  this: I have to choose between having this very invasive 
surgery, and all of  that may come after it including infection from many 
sources, including the  new bladder, ureter relocation, the stoma, and skin 
irritation from the  adhesive for the bag, and not to mention the Crohn's  
flareup

Or.

I can wear incontinent briefs which I  don't have anyone to change them, 
because there's just me and my 80 year old  mother, living together. She won't 
be able to change them throughout the  day. I have an aide comes in the 
morning and gives me a bed bath and get me  in my wheelchair. The rest of the 
day, there's just me and my mom here until  bedtime (around 9:00 PM) when my 
nighttime aide comes to put me to bed. My  catheter bag is usually not 
emptied from morning to night. My mom cannot  handle me to change briefs, and 
if 
they're left on, I would have all types  of sores.

Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how  is it working for 
you? I would love to hear what others have to say  regarding my dilemma.

Naomi.
C-4 quadriplegic due to  Transverse Myelitis
since July 2, 2005

Have a Blessed Day,  Naomi



Re: [QUAD-L] My Dilemma

2010-05-17 Thread hellodaveoc
really - a suprapubic is not an option?  i don't know much about them  but 
DO ask a few doctors before you decide.   It's tough second  guessing 
doctors BUT we MUST.   Some just operate in a fog.
AZDAVE
 
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 5:47:23 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time,  
d...@unh.edu writes:

Hi Naomi,

I'm a little confused, having  an indwelling catheter for five years isn't 
that long. in any event, I  certainly would get a second and third opinion 
before undergoing such drastic  surgery. And even if your bladder has shrunk 
does it really matter?

As  for your eroding urethra, I'm no doctor, but it seems there should be 
some  easier way to fix it.

Dan


At 07:31 PM 5/17/2010,  ladyno...@aol.com said something that elicited my 
response:


I am a C-4  quad with an indwelling Foley catheter. My urologist says that 
my urethra is  eroding, and suggests I have a procedure called a urostomy. 
He performed a  procedure called Urodynamic, which measures the amount of 
urine your bladder  can hold. Mine is holding less than an ounce of urine. So 
now he wants to  remove my bladder, and make me a new one using part of my 
small intestine.  During this procedure, both ureters are relocated, a new 
bladder is made,  and urine as directed from the body through a stoma in the 
abdomen, which  connects to a bag that adheres to the skin. I am going to the 
hospital on  Tuesday to have an MRI, to make sure that it's safe for me to 
have this  procedure because I also have Crohn's disease and disturbing my 
small  intestine, may cause my Crohn's to flareup (which is a very terrible  
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My dilemma is  this: I have to choose between having this very invasive 
surgery, and all of  that may come after it including infection from many 
sources, including the  new bladder, ureter relocation, the stoma, and skin 
irritation from the  adhesive for the bag, and not to mention the Crohn's  
flareup

Or.

I can wear incontinent briefs which I  don't have anyone to change them, 
because there's just me and my 80 year old  mother, living together. She won't 
be able to change them throughout the  day. I have an aide comes in the 
morning and gives me a bed bath and get me  in my wheelchair. The rest of the 
day, there's just me and my mom here until  bedtime (around 9:00 PM) when my 
nighttime aide comes to put me to bed. My  catheter bag is usually not 
emptied from morning to night. My mom cannot  handle me to change briefs, and 
if 
they're left on, I would have all types  of sores.

Does anyone on this list have a urostomy? If so, how  is it working for 
you? I would love to hear what others have to say  regarding my dilemma.

Naomi.
C-4 quadriplegic due to  Transverse Myelitis
since July 2, 2005

Have a Blessed Day,  Naomi



Re: [QUAD-L] 21st anniversary!

2010-05-17 Thread hellodaveoc
Many cudos to you Jim.  I'm coming up on 43 years but my c3 incomplete  is 
child's play compared to your vent dependant life.  I can't even imagine  
what your life is like.  I don't post very often because my problems seem  so 
'superficial' to those of you who are REAL quads.  Although i'm in a  chair 
100% and have quad-gut issues, UTIs, messed up hands,.. I'm  just in awe 
of you guys who do so much with so little.  You guys are  truly amazing.
AZDAVE
 
 
 
In a message dated 5/17/2010 2:16:05 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time,  
jlu...@eskimo.com writes:

Today,  May 17th, makes 21 years since I became a ventilator dependent 
quadriplegic  due to acute transverse myelitis. I was 21 when it happened so it 
has now been  half my life. I woke up that morning with a sore shoulder. 
Thinking I just  slept in a wrong position I went to work. After about 30 
minutes the pain in  my shoulder increased and I started feeling dizzy. I tried 
to stand up but  could not. Someone helped me lay down. In a short amount of 
time I remember a  paramedic asking me my age, I tried to answer but could 
not talk. I found out  I had stopped breathing. The next memory I have is 
waking up in the hospital  unable to move or speak. 

Transverse Myelitis is an inflammatory attack  in the spinal cord. It is an 
auto immune disorder where a persons own immune  system mistakenly attacks 
and destroys myelin, the insulating material that  surrounds nerves. There 
is no known cause or cure. It can happen to anyone at  any age.

In 2008, the Transverse Myelitis Association has established  the James 
Timothy Lubin Fellowship in Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders. The  purpose of 
the Fellowship is to encourage the development of medical  specializations in 
TM, ADEM and NMO through a year of study under a leading  TM, ADEM or NMO 
specialist. If you think this is a worthy cause and would like  to make a tax 
deductible donation to support it, you can do so using this link  
_http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation_ 
(http://www.myelitis.org/fellowship-donation) 


Jim  Lubin
jlu...@eskimo.com
_http://makoa.org/jim_ (http://makoa.org/jim)   
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