Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide
Yes that's very true. It might be a good idea to try to get some pro bono legal help in order to make sure you don't have a squatter situation. On Tuesday, June 16, 2015, diannal...@aol.com wrote: one more bit advice that i forgot in my reply, write a CONTRACT or you might get stuck with a squatter who dooes the very least!! -Original Message- From: Danny Hearn ddh...@sbcglobal.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','ddh...@sbcglobal.net'); To: diannal767 diannal...@aol.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','diannal...@aol.com');; lwillis82153 lwillis82...@gmail.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','lwillis82...@gmail.com');; memyself memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net');; quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); Sent: Tue, Jun 16, 2015 11:34 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide True, Like Dianna and others said, It depends on whom you hire and what they are willing to do as a live in caregiver.In my area sleeping rooms alone go for an average of $100-$150 each week, So you figure that person can save at least $600 per month on rent, Plus they will not need to pay utility bills if you do, so they save that way also,After figuring that stuff in, then you need to write a list of all you want done and see how much cash they want on top of the free live in home, Like Dianna said if they just want pay under the table, they usually take a bit less, but you need to work out a monthly pay for them that you can both be happy with. Good luck, let us know how it works out when you get it all set up down the road. Dan H.*** On Tuesday, June 16, 2015 10:02 AM, diannal...@aol.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','diannal...@aol.com'); diannal...@aol.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','diannal...@aol.com'); wrote: no one can answer this question. it has a realm of questions in itself and the individual your hiring. will they have a $400.00 car paymnt, insurance, other expenses such as clothing. are you paying them under the table or will they need to pay taxes? i'm going to chime in at $2,000 a month. now anyone NEEDING a place to stay just might be the one you can't depend on. could also depend on where you live. dianna -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net'); [mailto:memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net');] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly. -Original Message- From: Larry Willis lwillis82...@gmail.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','lwillis82...@gmail.com'); To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); Sent: Mon, Jun 15, 2015 4:24 pm Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Don't know. But I do know it's considerably more than I could possibly afford. Don't want to be a downer, but there is no easy answer to quad life, unless you are wealthy. Would all the quad millionaires please raise your hand! Not all at once now! Might overload the net! Larry Willis Retired and proud of it Begin forwarded message: *Resent-From:* quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); *From:* Gail Overton ga...@pennwell.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','ga...@pennwell.com'); *Date:* June 15, 2015 at 12:33:56 PM EDT *To:* memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net'); memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net');, quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); quad-list@eskimo.com javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','quad-list@eskimo.com'); *Subject:* *RE: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide* I'd like to know as well, having been paying $13 an hour for caregivers but thinking of moving back home and hiring live-in help. Will not ask them to pay room and board and will buy all groceries, but would be curious to know what someone would need to be paid monthly if housing and meals are taken care of. ROGER -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net javascript:_e(%7B%7D,'cvml','memys...@cox.net'); [mailto:memys...@cox.net javascript:_e
Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide
no one can answer this question. it has a realm of questions in itself and the individual your hiring. will they have a $400.00 car paymnt, insurance, other expenses such as clothing. are you paying them under the table or will they need to pay taxes? i'm going to chime in at $2,000 a month. now anyone NEEDING a place to stay just might be the one you can't depend on. could also depend on where you live. dianna -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly. -Original Message- From: Larry Willis lwillis82...@gmail.com To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, Jun 15, 2015 4:24 pm Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Don't know. But I do know it's considerably more than I could possibly afford. Don't want to be a downer, but there is no easy answer to quad life, unless you are wealthy. Would all the quad millionaires please raise your hand! Not all at once now! Might overload the net! Larry Willis Retired and proud of it Begin forwarded message: Resent-From:quad-list@eskimo.com From: Gail Overtonga...@pennwell.com Date: June 15, 2015 at 12:33:56 PM EDT To:memys...@cox.netmemys...@cox.net,quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com Subject:RE: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide I'd like to know as well, having been paying $13 an hour for caregivers but thinking of moving back home and hiring live-in help. Will not ask them to pay room and board and will buy all groceries, but would be curious to know what someone would need to be paid monthly if housing and meals are taken care of. ROGER -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly.
Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide
True, Like Dianna and others said, It depends on whom you hire and what they are willing to do as a live in caregiver.In my area sleeping rooms alone go for an average of $100-$150 each week, So you figure that person can save at least $600 per month on rent, Plus they will not need to pay utility bills if you do, so they save that way also,After figuring that stuff in, then you need to write a list of all you want done and see how much cash they want on top of the free live in home, Like Dianna said if they just want pay under the table, they usually take a bit less, but you need to work out a monthly pay for them that you can both be happy with. Good luck, let us know how it works out when you get it all set up down the road. Dan H.*** On Tuesday, June 16, 2015 10:02 AM, diannal...@aol.com diannal...@aol.com wrote: no one can answer this question. it has a realm of questions in itself and the individual your hiring. will they have a $400.00 car paymnt, insurance, other expenses such as clothing. are you paying them under the table or will they need to pay taxes? i'm going to chime in at $2,000 a month. now anyone NEEDING a place to stay just might be the one you can't depend on. could also depend on where you live.dianna -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly. -Original Message- From: Larry Willis lwillis82...@gmail.com To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, Jun 15, 2015 4:24 pm Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Don't know. But I do know it's considerably more than I could possibly afford. Don't want to be a downer, but there is no easy answer to quad life, unless you are wealthy. Would all the quad millionaires please raise your hand! Not all at once now! Might overload the net! Larry Willis Retired and proud of it Begin forwarded message: Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com From: Gail Overton ga...@pennwell.com Date: June 15, 2015 at 12:33:56 PM EDT To: memys...@cox.net memys...@cox.net, quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide I'd like to know as well, having been paying $13 an hour for caregivers but thinking of moving back home and hiring live-in help. Will not ask them to pay room and board and will buy all groceries, but would be curious to know what someone would need to be paid monthly if housing and meals are taken care of. ROGER -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly.
Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide
one more bit advice that i forgot in my reply, write a CONTRACT or you might get stuck with a squatter who dooes the very least!! -Original Message- From: Danny Hearn ddh...@sbcglobal.net To: diannal767 diannal...@aol.com; lwillis82153 lwillis82...@gmail.com; memyself memys...@cox.net; quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Tue, Jun 16, 2015 11:34 am Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide True, Like Dianna and others said, It depends on whom you hire and what they are willing to do as a live in caregiver.In my area sleeping rooms alone go for an average of $100-$150 each week, So you figure that person can save at least $600 per month on rent, Plus they will not need to pay utility bills if you do, so they save that way also,After figuring that stuff in, then you need to write a list of all you want done and see how much cash they want on top of the free live in home, Like Dianna said if they just want pay under the table, they usually take a bit less, but you need to work out a monthly pay for them that you can both be happy with. Good luck, let us know how it works out when you get it all set up down the road. Dan H.*** On Tuesday, June 16, 2015 10:02 AM, diannal...@aol.com diannal...@aol.com wrote: no one can answer this question. it has a realm of questions in itself and the individual your hiring. will they have a $400.00 car paymnt, insurance, other expenses such as clothing. are you paying them under the table or will they need to pay taxes? i'm going to chime in at $2,000 a month. now anyone NEEDING a place to stay just might be the one you can't depend on. could also depend on where you live. dianna -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly. -Original Message- From: Larry Willis lwillis82...@gmail.com To: quad-list quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Mon, Jun 15, 2015 4:24 pm Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Don't know. But I do know it's considerably more than I could possibly afford. Don't want to be a downer, but there is no easy answer to quad life, unless you are wealthy. Would all the quad millionaires please raise your hand! Not all at once now! Might overload the net! Larry Willis Retired and proud of it Begin forwarded message: Resent-From: quad-list@eskimo.com From: Gail Overtonga...@pennwell.com Date: June 15, 2015 at 12:33:56 PM EDT To:memys...@cox.net memys...@cox.net,quad-list@eskimo.com quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide I'd like to know as well, having been paying $13 an hour for caregivers but thinking of moving back home and hiring live-in help. Will not ask them to pay room and board and will buy all groceries, but would be curious to know what someone would need to be paid monthly if housing and meals are taken care of. ROGER
RE: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide
I'd like to know as well, having been paying $13 an hour for caregivers but thinking of moving back home and hiring live-in help. Will not ask them to pay room and board and will buy all groceries, but would be curious to know what someone would need to be paid monthly if housing and meals are taken care of. ROGER -Original Message- From: memys...@cox.net [mailto:memys...@cox.net] Sent: Monday, June 15, 2015 9:25 AM To: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] Live in Aide Those with live-in attendants, other than room and board, how much do you pay them? And what is asking too much for them to do? If they work weekdays, when food shopping, is asking them to get groceries for weekend too much? Or when making dinner, adding more for a live-in failmy member too much? As far as cleaning, what's too much? Keeping cupboards and frig cleaned out? Wiping floors off, Things have changed over the years, I need more, but can't afford to pay more. But I've ask for so little over the years, asking for more now is like askig for a lot more, even though it still seems less than other quads probably ask for. I'd like to find out what others pay for live-in help. Not hourly, just monthly.
