Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Rajesh Mehar
Hey Biju,

Thanks. I thought about all the stuff that I've done in my life. And more
than playing with a rock band, more than being in an FM radio station for 5
years, more than being a 'learning consultant', I feel like my role as a
parent gives me the most satisfaction. I work from home, so I can afford to
take on quite a bit of the parenting responsibilities.

As side effects, I've become a better cook, I've been running regularly for
about 3 years now, and I my commute consists of ambling over to the study
from the living room. So, no complaints. And the sanity reserves are high.


On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 11:01 AM, Biju Chacko biju.cha...@gmail.com wrote:

 Welcome Rajesh!

 It's nice to see that you identify yourself first as a parent. Too
 many of us think their identity is their jobs, which is sadly limiting
 and so transitory. I think I'll do the same.

 Hi, I'm Biju C and I'm father to two boys, 7 and 4 respectively. Is
 there a 12-step programme to restore my sanity after such trauma?

 :-)

 -- b

 On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 10:19 AM, Rajesh Mehar rajeshme...@gmail.com
 wrote:
  Hi all,
 
  My name is Rajesh Mehar, Uday just added me to this list. I'm a parent
 of a
  three year old, and I live on a relatively quiet street in Jayanagar,
  Bangalore. I was born in and grew up in Bangalore and other than for a
  one-year-stint in Mumbai, I've lived here all my life. Happy to join the
  fun.




Re: [silk] Bangalore silkmeet

2014-08-07 Thread Naresh
Me too

Naresh Narasimhan
Sent from my Phone

 On 06-Aug-2014, at 10:06 pm, Thejaswi Udupa thejaswi.ud...@gmail.com wrote:
 
 On Wed, Aug 6, 2014 at 7:55 PM, Udhay Shankar N ud...@pobox.com wrote:
 
 Show of hands?
 
 
 *shows upraised hand*



Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Alok G. Singh
Hey Rajesh. Small world. Do share your gourmand adventures. There are a
fair number here.

-- 
Alok

Mix's Law:
There is nothing more permanent than a temporary building.
There is nothing more permanent than a temporary tax.



Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread gabin kattukaran
Hi Rajesh,
Welcome on board.

On 7 August 2014 11:57, Rajesh Mehar rajeshme...@gmail.com wrote:
 Thanks. I thought about all the stuff that I've done in my life.

I'm with you and Biju on this. I like to think that everything else
that I do is so that I can have a better life with my wife and three
boys. And this, more than anything else constrains almost all the
decisions I take.

 As side effects, I've become a better cook, I've been running regularly for
 about 3 years now, and I my commute consists of ambling over to the study
 from the living room. So, no complaints. And the sanity reserves are high.

I have had similar experiences with cooking. Though I have spend
considerably more time on my commute.

Cheers,

-gabin



-- 

They pay me to think... As long as I keep my mouth shut.



Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Deepa Mohan
Hmm...hi again, Rajesh. I want to ask a TDQ...Thread Drift Questionhow
many people had a blog on LiveJournal? I know of Udhay, Anjana, Derek,
Vinit, Charles, Debbie, Nishant,  Kiran-Jace, Suraj, Kalyan,  Rajesh (whom
I met because of LJ, in fact; I met him as a talented musician, as he
didn't have kids or the parent identity then.) I was quite a late adopter,
but I enjoyed the then-vibrant LJ interactions very much. It's now
moribund, but I still post there regularly as a matter of
writing-something-regularly-discipline.

 Cheers, Deepa.




On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 12:47 PM, gabin kattukaran gkattuka...@gmail.com
wrote:

 Hi Rajesh,
 Welcome on board.

 On 7 August 2014 11:57, Rajesh Mehar rajeshme...@gmail.com wrote:
  Thanks. I thought about all the stuff that I've done in my life.

 I'm with you and Biju on this. I like to think that everything else
 that I do is so that I can have a better life with my wife and three
 boys. And this, more than anything else constrains almost all the
 decisions I take.

  As side effects, I've become a better cook, I've been running regularly
 for
  about 3 years now, and I my commute consists of ambling over to the study
  from the living room. So, no complaints. And the sanity reserves are
 high.

 I have had similar experiences with cooking. Though I have spend
 considerably more time on my commute.

 Cheers,

 -gabin



 --

 They pay me to think... As long as I keep my mouth shut.




Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Thejaswi Udupa
On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 4:00 PM, Deepa Mohan mohande...@gmail.com wrote:

 I met him as a talented musician, as he
 didn't have kids or the parent identity then.)


I dare say most people did. I probably display my vintage by saying I've
seen a band called 'Roadcrew' live. :D


Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Udhay Shankar N
On Tue, Nov 29, 2011 at 12:30 AM, Thaths tha...@gmail.com wrote:

For the third year in a row, I am turning to silk listers for book
 recommendation this holiday season.


​Something I came across that may be of interest (I have not read any of
these books myself yet)

http://www.timeoutbengaluru.net/books/features/turn-new-leaf-non-fiction​

​Udhay​

-- 

((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com)) ((www.digeratus.com))


Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Mohit
On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 6:14 PM, Udhay Shankar N ud...@pobox.com wrote:

 ​Something I came across that may be of interest (I have not read any of
 these books myself yet)

 http://www.timeoutbengaluru.net/books/features/turn-new-leaf-non-fiction​


​I recently decided to not read any book​ not older than 5 years (with the
exceptions being crime thrillers  books by friends). It has stood me in
good stead so far! :)

Regards,
Mohit


Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Aditya Kapil
I can vouch for Mohit's recommendations. He recently gave me an excellent
book by Neil Gaiman which I'm still reading, very slowly, relishing every
page.
Adit.
On 7 Aug 2014 18:20, Mohit mohitmo...@gmail.com wrote:

 On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 6:14 PM, Udhay Shankar N ud...@pobox.com wrote:

  ​Something I came across that may be of interest (I have not read any of
  these books myself yet)
 
  http://www.timeoutbengaluru.net/books/features/turn-new-leaf-non-fiction
 ​
 

 ​I recently decided to not read any book​ not older than 5 years (with the
 exceptions being crime thrillers  books by friends). It has stood me in
 good stead so far! :)

 Regards,
 Mohit



Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Udhay Shankar N
On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 6:29 PM, Aditya Kapil blue...@gmail.com wrote:

I can vouch for Mohit's recommendations. He recently gave me an excellent
 book by Neil Gaiman which I'm still reading, very slowly, relishing every
 page.



​On that note here's Patrick Rothfuss (who is also recommended reading)
with a review of Gaiman's _Coraline_:

https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61530172​

​Udhay

-- 

((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com)) ((www.digeratus.com))


Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread John Sundman
I've been hacking my way through William T. Vollman's Argall.  It's not an 
easy read, but I'm enjoying it very much.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/300738.Argall

Last year I read most of the novels of Flann O'Brian. I recommend them highly, 
especially At Swim Two Birds.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1003981.The_Complete_Novels

I'm also reading a few other books in parallel, including Midnight Rising by 
Tony Horwitz:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/10900047-midnight-rising

Of course I recommend my own hackertastic novels, most of which are available 
for free download here:

http://blog.unglue.it/2014/04/30/thanks-for-ungluing-launches/  

Here's a brief note about my newest book Biodigital, which isn't yet available 
for free, but which is available cheap:

http://go-to-hellman.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-future-of-book-is-unfinished-john.html

jrs



On Aug 7, 2014, at 8:59 AM, Aditya Kapil wrote:

 I can vouch for Mohit's recommendations. He recently gave me an excellent
 book by Neil Gaiman which I'm still reading, very slowly, relishing every
 page.
 Adit.
 On 7 Aug 2014 18:20, Mohit mohitmo...@gmail.com wrote:
 
 On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 6:14 PM, Udhay Shankar N ud...@pobox.com wrote:
 
 ​Something I came across that may be of interest (I have not read any of
 these books myself yet)
 
 http://www.timeoutbengaluru.net/books/features/turn-new-leaf-non-fiction
 ​
 
 
 ​I recently decided to not read any book​ not older than 5 years (with the
 exceptions being crime thrillers  books by friends). It has stood me in
 good stead so far! :)
 
 Regards,
 Mohit
 




Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Mohit
On Thu, Aug 7, 2014 at 6:29 PM, Aditya Kapil blue...@gmail.com wrote:

 He recently gave me an excellent
 book by Neil Gaiman which I'm still reading, very slowly, relishing every
 page.


​If you finish it fast, you'll be rewarded with beers at my place ;)

Regards,
Mohit
*(M) *+91 9989 420 582


Re: [silk] Recommended Reading

2014-08-07 Thread Mohit
And apologies: but the rule is to avoid reading books YOUNGER than 5 years (I 
sent back  read my earlier post, and wasn't sure it was clear enough)

Sorry again.

Regards,
Mohit


Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Bruce Metcalf

Hi, I'm Biju C and I'm father to two boys, 7 and 4 respectively. Is
there a 12-step programme to restore my sanity after such trauma?


Yes; it's called grandparenthood. There are many opportunities for  
fun, from feeding the grandchildren sugar just before bedtime to  
giving them drums.


It was one of my father's great regrets that I never had children so  
that he could exact his well-deserved revenge for my childhood.


Cheers,
Bruce



Re: [silk] Introduction

2014-08-07 Thread Mohit
On Fri, Aug 8, 2014 at 9:19 AM, Bruce Metcalf bruce.metc...@figzu.com
wrote:

 Yes; it's called grandparenthood. There are many opportunities for fun,
 from feeding the grandchildren sugar just before bedtime to giving them
 drums.


​It's something to look forward to, for sure.​

Now I just need to think how to convince the kids that they should think of
getting kids of their own, before all the live your dreams; don't settle
down too early crap I've been feeding them ;)

Regards,
Mohit
*(M) *+91 9989 420 582