Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-05 Thread .
On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 12:36, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote:

 Yeah that too ... ! the thermal earmuff seems to be the current rage
 in Chennai (it appears to have replaced the monkey-cap) - a walk along
 the beach and looking at the dressed up people one would think it was
 vancouver not chennai. A madras mama in a thermal earmuff and a mini
 skirt would have surely made my day.

The chennai beach still looked the same the last I saw (last month to
be precise). Maybe I missed this interesting apparition you
describe...



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-05 Thread ashok _
On Thu, Jan 5, 2012 at 2:58 PM, . svaks...@gmail.com wrote:

 The chennai beach still looked the same the last I saw (last month to
 be precise). Maybe I missed this interesting apparition you
 describe...


you must observe closely -- this is the exact type i saw all over
elliots beach :

http://katieosterhage.wordpress.com/2011/01/09/merry-christmas-chennai-style/

though in tamil its become kattu patti (wind band )

apparently bangalore isnt immune either :

http://www.indiaoutsidemywindow.com/2011/12/earmuff-season-is-here.html



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-05 Thread ashok _
On Thu, Jan 5, 2012 at 10:34 PM, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote:
 The chennai beach still looked the same the last I saw (last month to
 be precise). Maybe I missed this interesting apparition you
 describe...


 you must observe closely -- this is the exact type i saw all over
 elliots beach :

 http://katieosterhage.wordpress.com/2011/01/09/merry-christmas-chennai-style/

 though in tamil its become kattu patti (wind band )


oh ...i misread -- that should be kadu patti  (ear band)



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-04 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian

Deepa Mohan [04/01/12 13:26 +0530]:

Why put a question mark at the end of that phrase Suresh? And surely, the


I don't often go out drinking and if I do, I don't pick a five star hotel
bar if I can help it.

There's also buying clothes for a trip to singapore or the states etc
type purchases, where you can leave all the salwar kameez, saris etc behind
with a clear conscience.



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-04 Thread ashok _
On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 11:03 AM, Suresh Ramasubramanian
sur...@hserus.net wrote:

 There's also buying clothes for a trip to singapore or the states etc
 type purchases, where you can leave all the salwar kameez, saris etc behind
 with a clear conscience.


perhaps that explains it, as they were also selling a lot of woolens
and heavy winter clothing.



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-04 Thread Thaths
On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 1:35 PM, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote:
 perhaps that explains it, as they were also selling a lot of woolens
 and heavy winter clothing.

That would be for the Madras mamas reeling under the Margazhi dew (pani).

Thaths
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Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-04 Thread ashok _
On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 3:29 PM, Thaths tha...@gmail.com wrote:
 On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 1:35 PM, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote:
 perhaps that explains it, as they were also selling a lot of woolens
 and heavy winter clothing.

 That would be for the Madras mamas reeling under the Margazhi dew (pani).


Yeah that too ... ! the thermal earmuff seems to be the current rage
in Chennai (it appears to have replaced the monkey-cap) - a walk along
the beach and looking at the dressed up people one would think it was
vancouver not chennai. A madras mama in a thermal earmuff and a mini
skirt would have surely made my day.



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-04 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Wednesday, January 4, 2012, ashok _ listmans...@gmail.com wrote

 A madras mama in a thermal earmuff and a mini
 skirt would have surely made my day.

A gem of alliteration...and a mind-boggling image.


Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-03 Thread ss
On Tuesday 03 Jan 2012 11:27:18 am . wrote:
  Here’s a new year’s resolution I’d
 like to see for 2012: Let government and law enforcement officials
 come out and say loud and clear, in each of our many languages, that
 the victims of sexual harassment and assault will not be blamed, no
 matter what clothes they were wearing or what time of day they were
 driving their vehicles. It is the police’s duty to protect law-abiding
 people from criminals, full stop. Officers who try to duck this
 responsibility by blaming short skirts and unladylike behaviour must
 be summarily removed from their positions, if India is ever to become
 a superpower.

several quibbles. 

1. India is not going to become a superpower if women start wearing more 
revealing dresses, so that was pointless rhetoric

2.  That Andhra police officer loudly proclaimed I am an idiot. Asking a 
person who loudly proclaims I am an idiot to stop being an idiot is what 
this article is about.

3. Even if all women were to stop dressing provocatively how would the 
police deal with a woman - say a hoooker who deliberately dresses 
provocatively to attract customers? Rape her? Or look away and blame her 
provcative dress if she were to get raped? This question is too difficult to 
answer for Idiots.

4. If Indians were actually honest with themselves and did a proper survey of 
what is happening in ths country you will find that a significant percentage of 
menfolk think that a woman should be covered up and at home serving her 
husband. She should wear jasmine in her hair and never drink. And I heard this 
from a self-proclaimed Hindutva group. 

There is an elite India that is out of touch with the majority. The article 
is from that elite for the elite. The probem is not that the police officer is 
a 
self advertised idiot. The whole goddam country thinks this way. 

Blaming the idiot police officer is ignoring the elephant in the room. We are 
pretending that India is something that it isn't and hoping that it will 
become something that it won't. The police will never enforce what they don't 
believe. 

shiv



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-03 Thread ashok _
On Tue, Jan 3, 2012 at 12:54 PM, ss cybers...@gmail.com wrote:
 4. If Indians were actually honest with themselves and did a proper survey of
 what is happening in ths country you will find that a significant percentage 
 of
 menfolk think that a woman should be covered up and at home serving her
 husband. She should wear jasmine in her hair and never drink. And I heard this
 from a self-proclaimed Hindutva group.

 There is an elite India that is out of touch with the majority. The article
 is from that elite for the elite. The probem is not that the police officer 
 is a
 self advertised idiot. The whole goddam country thinks this way.

 Blaming the idiot police officer is ignoring the elephant in the room. We are
 pretending that India is something that it isn't and hoping that it will
 become something that it won't. The police will never enforce what they don't
 believe.

I was recently in chennai and went to a big mall where I saw a lot of
really short skirts and such in store displays - and also on sale in
large numbers inside the stores. But -- I actually did not come across
a single person wearing these skirts. So my question is who actually
wears these clothes -- the large variety on sale indicates there are
buyers -- but where do they wear them to ... are there 'exclusive /
elite' places that one must go to see these elusive skirt wearers ?



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-03 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian

ashok _ [04/01/12 09:53 +0300]:

I was recently in chennai and went to a big mall where I saw a lot of
really short skirts and such in store displays - and also on sale in
large numbers inside the stores. But -- I actually did not come across
a single person wearing these skirts. So my question is who actually


bars at five star hotels? 



Re: [silk] Sexist cops destroying economy?

2012-01-03 Thread Deepa Mohan
On Wed, Jan 4, 2012 at 1:05 PM, Suresh Ramasubramanian sur...@hserus.netwrote:

 ashok _ [04/01/12 09:53 +0300]:

 I was recently in chennai and went to a big mall where I saw a lot of
 really short skirts and such in store displays - and also on sale in
 large numbers inside the stores. But -- I actually did not come across
 a single person wearing these skirts. So my question is who actually


 bars at five star hotels?


Why put a question mark at the end of that phrase Suresh? And surely, the
time when one goes to the bars is important...well, exclusive is always
elusive and vice versa...

I must say, I loved the very politically correct words, person wearing
these skirts