Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-17 Thread Pranav Lal
Hi all, My two scents worth on this subject. Warning, I could be talking through my hat. 1. Get hold of a lawyer . It's always handy to have one around to ensure a strong legal position. 2. Contact law enforcement. 3. It is counterproductive to make snap judgments before knowing all the facts. It

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-17 Thread Farhana Banu
dear all, he's got opportunities to go to hyderabad as he got an interview call from an NGO and the interview is supposed to be on monday if he goes there. his dad told him not to go for any interviews or any competative exam as he has applied for SBI PO. He can escape but he has his two younger

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-15 Thread Farhana Banu
dear preeti mam and access indians, I agree that we are the ones to carve our future and it works out only when we are strong. In this case, my friend is warned to think not just for himself but for every member of his family or else, the family members would be murdered. He wants to study more

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-15 Thread Preeti Monga
Yes, every situation needs to be dealt with and sometimes, it is that you need to wait for the right time. But only once the right time is there, he should make his move. Fear should not stop him. I know it is hard but life is that way anyway? Only some people seem to have things run smoothly

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-15 Thread Farhana Banu
thanks so much mam for your advice. no burden is heavier than we can deal with. I wish my friend the best of life's choices thanks On 5/15/14, Preeti Monga preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in wrote: Yes, every situation needs to be dealt with and sometimes, it is that you need to wait for the

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-15 Thread rama anjaneyulu
hey guys, just i want the candidate name and his contact details, let me try my level best to come accress that situation. On 5/15/14, Farhana Banu melodyforthehe...@gmail.com wrote: thanks so much mam for your advice. no burden is heavier than we can deal with. I wish my friend the best of

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-14 Thread bhawani shankar verma
primarily they require help to get their friend out from the house, not for marrige. this time marrige is a secondary issue. - Original Message - From: Eyeway Helpdesk helpd...@eyeway.org To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled.

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-14 Thread Vamshi. G
Marriage is the primary issue. If not for the marriage, they wouldn't have locked him. He wants to come out to marry the girl of his choice. On 5/14/14, bhawani shankar verma bsvermad...@gmail.com wrote: primarily they require help to get their friend out from the house, not for marrige.

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-14 Thread bhawani shankar verma
at this time the person has to come out from his house. later they can marry. - Original Message - From: Vamshi. G gvamsh...@gmail.com To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerningthe disabled. accessindia@accessindia.org.in Sent: Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-14 Thread Amar Jain
I see it as a ppurely a personal issue. How much that person himself is assertive of his rights, what position he is in, economically and otherwise in terms of awareness and knowledge, are crutial factors to tackle this issue. While marrying a girl of your choice may be equally important, but

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-14 Thread Preeti Monga
Relationship with your own families can never actually break. It is only that family members try to control you if you see closely. Then once you have taken the steps that you want to, or the steps that you think are correct for yourself, the controlling family also falls into place! So that

[AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Farhana Banu
dear friends, unfortunately few of our visually impaired people are going through physical torture and mental anguish too when they are not understood by their family. since few days one of my friends is suffering this badly and they are not letting him go out of his home. He loves a girl and

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Kasia
Why he's wanting help? If he is a legal, he can just move out of the house and if he is capable of managing himself and his love? Ask him to take his decision after thinking of his future. -Original Message- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Neredimalli Annavaram
Dear Farhana , If is the resident of Hyderabad, Kurnool, Vijayawada or Kakinada by any chance, please let me know so that we can act immediately. Since he's house arrested, as we understand from your mail, I don't think our usual advices would be of any use. The only option would be for

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread akshun mahajan
i agreed with Neredimalli sir, actions r more effective than words. but should have guts. as i read your mail. he is not that much stronger that is why he was beaten by the family. On 5/13/14, Neredimalli Annavaram annavara...@hotmail.com wrote: Dear Farhana , If is the resident of

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Neredimalli Annavaram
Dear Akshun, I am in full agreement with you in supposing that unless the victim under question is brave enough to stand for his decision, none of us can really be of much use. I was only pointing out that since the boy seems to have been caught up in four walls, some of us may intervene and

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread avinash shahi
If both he and his beloved are committed to tie the knod. Then one can approach police and inform them about the harassment meeted out to your friend. Better to inform police before hand so that legal proceedings can be innitiated against his family. And marrige can be solemnised in the Court. On

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread akshun mahajan
dear avinash we can not straight away suggest for police. first of all we have to see his financial condition because to get married is easy but afterwards he is not financial strong how would he manage. we have to see if he is working or student. we have to see what is the point of view of the

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread avinash shahi
I wrote if both are committed to tie the knod. Of course their financial health is important to drive their marrital journey but since E-mail by farzana informed us that her friend is being kept inside the house and being beaten by his family members, therefore I suggested Police should be

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread akshun mahajan
yes u r right, i request Farhana to share some more info about that guy. On 5/13/14, avinash shahi shahi88avin...@gmail.com wrote: I wrote if both are committed to tie the knod. Of course their financial health is important to drive their marrital journey but since E-mail by farzana informed

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread akshun mahajan
we can hold discussion on radioudaan and try to get experts opinion over that. their experience can help us. On 5/13/14, akshun mahajan akshunmahajan...@gmail.com wrote: yes u r right, i request Farhana to share some more info about that guy. On 5/13/14, avinash shahi

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Minal
Without knowing some needed information how can we suggest them, i mean, what they r doing? Y his family torturing him? Because if it is problem of only arrange marriage then they can make it love come arrange marriage? Minal singhvi Station director of radio udaan Www.radioudaan.com

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Eyeway Helpdesk
Voice Vision - NGO in Mumbai may be of some help. Ms. Shushmitha heads the organization. She runs a matrimonial project for people with disabilities. On her website one can register himself/herself in order to look for a partner. For your friend's case, you can discuss the case with her. I

Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot.

2014-05-13 Thread Farhana Banu
thanks every one thanks so much for your help and suggestions. Sure we will do the required. On 5/14/14, Eyeway Helpdesk helpd...@eyeway.org wrote: Voice Vision - NGO in Mumbai may be of some help. Ms. Shushmitha heads the organization. She runs a matrimonial project for people witthanks once