Re: Four poisons

2003-09-05 Thread David Friedman
Dear Mike, I have found that it is very difficult not to appear cold and unfriendly if, when greeted by a female with a loving embrace, I proffer my hand instead. Nevertheless in view of the above quote I believe this would help if we would abide by it. I agree. I don't think too many people

Re: Four poisons

2003-08-25 Thread Don Calkins
I finally found this msg, which I tho't I had probably deleted. I just wasn't looking under the right subject. On 8/20/03 10:38 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 2.) I sensed a general tendency to want to hold women responsible for the sexual tone of an encounter. The second item bears a

Re: Four poisons

2003-08-21 Thread E Crowell
On 8/20/03 10:38 PM, Sheila Spatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 1.) I sensed a genuine frustration with not knowing how to handle a very difficult and provocative situation. 2.) I sensed a general tendency to want to hold women responsible for the sexual tone of an encounter. Dear Sheila, I

Re: Four poisons

2003-08-21 Thread Sheila Spatz
Hi Elainna, You are quite right!!!... The images prevalent in our current culture often amount to soft porn;sexual imagery, usually of women, inundate us. Its been years since I had tofend off a sexual advance, but I once subscribed to the belief that I wasresponsible for eliciting such unwanted