[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-05 Thread martyboi
Ok, If I might chime in. I once had a parakeet that lived 15 years. That's a very long time for a parakeet. Well, when he was about eight years of age, his partner died, and I could see him go into a huge depression. So, I decided to get him a new partner. My concern was that if I got him a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-04 Thread cardemaister
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: 60 is the new 40. Spread the word! And 40 is the new 20. So 60 yr olds with 20 yr old ergo, are with people their own age.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-04 Thread curtisdeltablues
I'm afraid 40 is the just the new 30. And that is with fierce exercise programs. I think 80 is the new 20 to tell you the truth. Some of that youthful, free spirited who gives a F attitude comes back at the end. Judging by the college age kids of woman I have dated I think 20 is the new 15.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Vaj
On Oct 3, 2007, at 12:10 AM, new.morning wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: My partner has always interestingly 'pined: 'Men who search after younger women are looking for a mate their own emotional age.' In other words you're attracted to someone

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: My partner has always interestingly 'pined: 'Men who search after younger

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Oct 3, 2007, at 12:10 AM, new.morning wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: My partner has always interestingly 'pined: 'Men who search after younger women are looking for a mate

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Vaj
On Oct 3, 2007, at 10:56 AM, new.morning wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Oct 3, 2007, at 12:10 AM, new.morning wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: My partner has always interestingly 'pined: 'Men who

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread new . morning
Any 55 year old hetro man who does not find at least some 25 year old women attractive, has a stick so far up his butt, it must be painful even walking to the domes. And vice versa for all age, gender, and gender preference combinations. And heaven forbid someone should actually seek to

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: My

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Vaj
On Oct 3, 2007, at 11:10 AM, new.morning wrote: Any 55 year old hetro man who does not find at least some 25 year old women attractive, has a stick so far up his butt, it must be painful even walking to the domes. Well you can find them attractive, but it doesn't mean you'd want to enter

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Duveyoung
new.morning wrote: snip Edg said, if I understood him, that a 40 yer old has nothing to offer a 25 year old, And vice versa. Holy horse shit man! What a odd view of life. Edg: I don't think I said that, and I sure don't believe that. Adults with kids? -- win/win. All the generations at a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Oct 3, 2007, at 11:10 AM, new.morning wrote: snip And as a side note, one quality that I find more abundant in 25 year old women, than many older women (and I am sure the same is true of men) -- and there are

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread curtisdeltablues
Y'all need to read up on the Crone. Hers is a much more powerful, much more profound energy than most men can deal with. It's no wonder your friend finds her terrifying. That's why the patriarchal culture repressed and demeaned her; but lately she's being reclaimed. 60 is the new 40.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Vaj
On Oct 3, 2007, at 12:26 PM, authfriend wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Oct 3, 2007, at 11:10 AM, new.morning wrote: snip And as a side note, one quality that I find more abundant in 25 year old women, than many older women (and I am sure

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread cardemaister
snip And as a side note, one quality that I find more abundant in 25 year old women, than many older women (and I am sure the same is true of men) -- and there are exceptions, is what I term shakti. This may be a different thing than the shakit talked about here. But there is

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Marek Reavis
Comment below: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: new.morning wrote: snip Edg said, if I understood him, that a 40 yer old has nothing to offer a 25 year old, And vice versa. Holy horse shit man! What a odd view of life. Edg: I don't think I said

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread John
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Any 55 year old hetro man who does not find at least some 25 year old women attractive, has a stick so far up his butt, it must be painful even walking to the domes. And vice versa for all age, gender, and gender

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Jason Spock
You made a very important point maam Judy. During the Zero wave ie before the coming of Agriculture, Women had lot of power including the right to choose her own mate. The coming of the First wave ie Agriculture eroded her rights and relgated her place in society

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread curtisdeltablues
During the Zero wave ie before the coming of Agriculture, Women had lot of power including the right to choose her own mate. Let me guess, this was discussed on the pre-agricultural The View TV show, which, if I remember correctly, was still hosted by Barbara Walters back then. --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Jason Spock
In pre-agricultural, hunter-gatherer societies life was so tough and every member of the tribe was valuable. You cannot afford to suppress or Oppress anybody in those circumstances. You are busy most of the time trying to find food. Food was scarce. curtisdeltablues [EMAIL

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Duveyoung
Marek, Bingo. I like your ideas, and yes, I think I've had some pretty hard knocks that have gotten me into an overly sensitive stance. My sister being marauded was but one exampleand other events have hardened me, because they happened right in front of me, and I failed to protect my loved

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Any 55 year old hetro man who does not find at least some 25 year old women attractive, has a stick so far up his butt, it must be painful even walking to the domes. Congratulations, new. I got about 20 words into

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Marek Reavis
Edg, I've defended individuals charged with crimes that are despicable beyond measure, and done so zealously and to the very best of my abilities. But if the victim in the crime alleged had been a loved one of mine I would naturally feel what you describe (below). That, too, is human nature.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 60 is the new 40. Spread the word! And 40 is the new 20. So 60 yr olds with 20 yr old ergo, are with people their own age.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Oct 3, 2007, at 7:36 PM, new.morning wrote: [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: 60 is the new 40. Spread the word! And 40 is the new 20. So 60 yr olds with 20 yr old ergo, are with people their own age. No, because going on your logic, 20 would be the new...what? 12? See you in the slammer.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-03 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Oct 3, 2007, at 7:36 PM, new.morning wrote: curtisdeltablues@ wrote: 60 is the new 40. Spread the word! And 40 is the new 20. So 60 yr olds with 20 yr old ergo, are with people their own age. No,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Marauding Men and the Myth of an Independent Woman

2007-10-02 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: My partner has always interestingly 'pined: 'Men who search after younger women are looking for a mate their own emotional age.' In other words