[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread card

Muhammad Ali, Barack Obama, Baruch Spinoza, WTF?!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@... wrote:

 This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
 convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
 you may think : that's Muhammad Ali
 
  
 [https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
 2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
 
  On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
   My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
 happy.
   I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
 far,
   only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
   discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
   philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
 seem
   to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
   meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
 sip
   at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
   purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
 inhibitions.
   My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
   lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
   them as a drug, or a means to an end.
  
   The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
 and
   Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
 Chinatowns)
   and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
 they
   don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
 that
   in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
   tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
   Done.
  
   Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
   typing on his laptop.
 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread doctordumbass
When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the scene, 
however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the other chair!) :-) 
Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, no wind, but a steady 
watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It sounds like an active and 
fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely snapshot of it.

I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late last 
year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as planned, and 
the first few months have been full of sloughing off the remnants of scheduling 
from our long time careers.

Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took a 
little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, but I 
cannot really complain at all.

As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to country, 
and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew of two, in a 34 
foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same places I had been. So 
about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. We sail in about 10 days, and 
I am really looking forward to it. Down the West Coast, Catalina Island, Cabo 
San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San Diego. 

From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am sure 
it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is *not* on 
the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

...I am sitting here in my beautiful house that my husband and I built, it is 
blowing and raining outside, I hear the wind in the chimney, the slash of water 
against the windows and I sense the presence of the man I love most in the 
world sitting behind me. On the couch next to him is my beloved dog Jesse who 
survived life-threatening paralysis thanks to a successful $13,000 back 
surgery. That is how precious she is to me. She follows me everywhere, looks 
for any opportunity to do something for me, brings me my horse brushes, carries 
my gloves, picks up a pen I have dropped. She radiates devotion and real dog 
love in my direction every waking moment. She sleeps under my side of the bed 
to stay as close to me as possible.
 
 I have just finished a dinner that my husband cooked for me consisting of 
 fresh asparagus, new potatoes and organic farm raised lamb we buy from a good 
 friend of ours down the road, who was a member of the Canadian Equestrian 
 team and who now, at the age of 70, has retired her fabulous imported German 
 dressage horse in order to raise sheep because she loves living on the land 
 and having animals to feed and to nurture although she eventually has them 
 slaughtered for their meat.
 
 I have put to bed six wonderful horses who rely on me to feed and house and 
 keep them safe and secure. They are in their stalls now munching on green hay 
 with clean pine shavings to lie on and I have secured the barn doors against 
 the wind we are forecast to have tonight. I feel good about the fact that I 
 can provide an environment of safety and routine for them. And I look forward 
 to smelling their clean scent of horsiness in the morning as I walk into the 
 barn at 7am precisely to start a new round of feeding, cleaning and 
 exercising them.
 
 I run a business that I love. I take a few moments at the end of each day to 
 assess how I did on this day and think ahead to tomorrow to determine how I 
 can do it better. I love the women I employ and I enjoy the challenges 
 dealing with the public and figuring out how to serve their needs the best I 
 can. 
 
 So, while I am not in Paris in some chic cafe watching the clientele savour 
 their wine and I do not have the privilege of walking the scenic Parisian 
 streets to return to my French apartment I am sitting here looking forward to 
 tomorrow, hearing the wind and the rain, feeling my dog and my husband, still 
 tasting the lamb, knowing the horses are settled and happy and that I live in 
 one of the most beautiful islands on the planet. Would I like to be in Paris? 
 Sure. Is there still life worth living elsewhere? I already answered that.
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the 
 scene, however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the other 
 chair!) :-) Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, no wind, 
 but a steady watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It sounds like an 
 active and fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely snapshot of it.
 
 I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late 
 last year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as 
 planned, and the first few months have been full of sloughing off the 
 remnants of scheduling from our long time careers.
 
 Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took a 
 little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, but I 
 cannot really complain at all.
 
 As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to country, 
 and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew of two, in a 
 34 foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same places I had been. 
 So about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. We sail in about 10 
 days, and I am really looking forward to it. Down the West Coast, Catalina 
 Island, Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San Diego. 
 
 From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
 Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am sure 
 it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is *not* on 
 the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...


Nice for you both, wish you a pleasant trip ! As you know Maharishi blessed 
Catalina Island I believe in 1965, pictures here:
http://www.maharishiphotos.com/mmyhlcl.html



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Share Long
Carde, who is WTF?  And please don't ask me to google (-:





 From: card cardemais...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 2:14 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 

  

Muhammad Ali, Barack Obama, Baruch Spinoza, WTF?!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@... wrote:

 This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
 convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
 you may think : that's Muhammad Ali
 
 
 [https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
 2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
 
  On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
   My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
 happy.
   I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
 far,
   only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
   discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
   philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
 seem
   to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
   meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
 sip
   at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
   purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
 inhibitions.
   My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
   lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
   them as a drug, or a means to an end.
  
   The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
 and
   Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
 Chinatowns)
   and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
 they
   don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
 that
   in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
   tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
   Done.
  
   Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
   typing on his laptop.
 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
 



 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Share Long
Wonderful photos, Nablusoss, thanks for posting.  Doc, hope you and wife have 
an incredible cruise.  It sounds lucious.  





 From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 6:17 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... no_reply@... wrote:

 When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the 
 scene, however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the other 
 chair!) :-) Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, no wind, 
 but a steady watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It sounds like an 
 active and fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely snapshot of it.
 
 I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late 
 last year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as 
 planned, and the first few months have been full of sloughing off the 
 remnants of scheduling from our long time careers.
 
 Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took a 
 little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, but I 
 cannot really complain at all. 
 
 As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to country, 
 and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew of two, in a 
 34 foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same places I had been. 
 So about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. We sail in about 10 
 days, and I am really looking forward to it. Down the West Coast, Catalina 
 Island, Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San Diego. 
 
 From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
 Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am sure 
 it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is *not* on 
 the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...

Nice for you both, wish you a pleasant trip ! As you know Maharishi blessed 
Catalina Island I believe in 1965, pictures here:
http://www.maharishiphotos.com/mmyhlcl.html


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Share Long
Drunk on what life has to offer 

she totters a little, stumbles and 

falls into a pile of leftover autumn leaves




 From: merudanda no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Tuesday, March 19, 2013 7:38 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 

  
yeah:
Repetition Is The Mother Of Retention

but OTHO  if this motherly-retained-repetition is so beautiful illustrated and 
described as these American-in Paris-posting i do not mind - do you?


And if sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a ditch, 
in the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again, drunkenness 
already diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the star, the bird, the 
clock, everything that is flying, everything that is groaning, 
everything that is rolling, everything that is singing, everything that 
is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave, star, bird, clock 
will answer you: It is time to be drunk! -
( by Charles Baudelaire-translated by Louis Simpson -  See more at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf



by Charles Baudelaire 
translated by Louis Simpson - See more at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf)See more 
at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf) It is 
time to be drunk! 
--drunk of life
Get drunk on what life has to offer 
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@... wrote:

 This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
 convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
 you may think : that's Muhammad Ali
 
 
 [https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
 2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
 
  On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
   My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
 happy.
   I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
 far,
   only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
   discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
   philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
 seem
   to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
   meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
 sip
   at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
   purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
 inhibitions.
   My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
   lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
   them as a drug, or a means to an end.
  
   The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
 and
   Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
 Chinatowns)
   and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
 they
   don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
 that
   in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
   tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
   Done.
  
   Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
   typing on his laptop.
 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
 


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Alex Stanley


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Carde, who is WTF?  And please don't ask me to google (-:
 

WTF is the abbreviation for What The Fuck



[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread card
That's, of course, William T. Faulkner! ;D


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Carde, who is WTF?  And please don't ask me to google (-:
 
 
 
 
 
  From: card cardemaister@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 2:14 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
  
 
   
 
 Muhammad Ali, Barack Obama, Baruch Spinoza, WTF?!
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@ wrote:
 
  This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
  convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
  you may think : that's Muhammad Ali
  
  
  [https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
  2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
  
   On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
  happy.
I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
  far,
only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
  seem
to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
  sip
at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
  inhibitions.
My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
them as a drug, or a means to an end.
   
The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
  and
Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
  Chinatowns)
and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
  they
don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
  that
in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
Done.
   
Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
typing on his laptop.
  
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the 
  scene, however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the other 
  chair!) :-) Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, no wind, 
  but a steady watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It sounds like an 
  active and fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely snapshot of it.
  
  I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late 
  last year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as 
  planned, and the first few months have been full of sloughing off the 
  remnants of scheduling from our long time careers.
  
  Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took a 
  little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, but I 
  cannot really complain at all.
  
  As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to 
  country, and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew of 
  two, in a 34 foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same places 
  I had been. So about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. We sail in 
  about 10 days, and I am really looking forward to it. Down the West Coast, 
  Catalina Island, Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San Diego. 
  
  From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
  Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am 
  sure it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is 
  *not* on the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...

Congratulations on your retirement from you job but not from life! And how 
adventurous and brave your wife must be to have sailed around the world with 
just one other person. You might just love the cruise you will be taking; you 
certainly will have all the amenities. Watch that wife of yours though, she 
might just want to commandeer the wheel house if it gets a little slow on 
board. 

I booked a three day short trip on a cruise line down to Nassau from Cape 
Canaveral for my husband and I a few years ago just curious to see how we would 
like it. It doesn't seem like my kind of thing but I wanted to give it a try. 
Dennis was digging in his heels convinced he would hate it but in the end he 
liked it more than I did! What we really want to do is a river cruise in Europe 
or I would love a very small archeological or historical cruise somewhere in 
the Greek Islands or other ancient cultural area.

I am sure you will enjoy your time on the ship, you will be travelling down a 
beautiful part of the coast. Leave your computer at home though!
 
 
 Nice for you both, wish you a pleasant trip ! As you know Maharishi blessed 
 Catalina Island I believe in 1965, pictures here:
 http://www.maharishiphotos.com/mmyhlcl.html





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00 to dearest wTf

2013-03-20 Thread Share Long
Wilbur Farnsworpy Tigglewud, 

no monogrammed hankies for him,meets love of his life at kleenex display (-:





 From: card cardemais...@yahoo.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 7:46 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 

  
That's, of course, William T. Faulkner! ;D

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote:

 Carde, who is WTF?  And please don't ask me to google (-:
 
 
 
 
 
  From: card cardemaister@...
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
 Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 2:14 AM
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 
 
   
 
 Muhammad Ali, Barack Obama, Baruch Spinoza, WTF?!
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@ wrote:
 
  This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
  convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
  you may think : that's Muhammad Ali
  
  
  [https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
  2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
  
   On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
  happy.
I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
  far,
only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
  seem
to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
  sip
at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
  inhibitions.
My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
them as a drug, or a means to an end.
   
The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
  and
Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
  Chinatowns)
and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
  they
don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
  that
in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
Done.
   
Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
typing on his laptop.
  
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
  
 



 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Richard J. Williams


  Fuck 'em. How are *they* spending their ordinary 
  here-and-now days and nights? What can *they* 
  find to write about them?
 
Ann: 
 God Barry. Your gloating is misplaced 

Barry reminds me of my uncle who had been every place 
you could think of, and had owned every car you saw on 
the road; if you paid a dollar for something, he had 
got his for fifty cents. Go figure. 

One day I was riding in my uncle's and car I saw a 
barber shop in a strip mall - my uncle said Oh yeah 
I've been going there for twenty years. 

Next day, I drove over to the barber shop we'd seen 
and told the barber that my uncle sent me - the barber 
said Joe who? LoL!

No matter where you are or have been, Barry has either 
been there or has been to a neater place and done more 
neat things than you have. 

Barry's life is so unique and his experiences are so 
magical that he's *enlightened* every day - he's really 
on to something this time, and you're not doing anything
but reading his messages. LoL!

Barry saw a movie last night; Barry walked his dogs on 
the street; Barry went to a cafe and typed; Barry knows 
so-and-so. Barry is sixty and got a job! LoL!



[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Richard J. Williams


turquoiseb:
 What can *they* find to write about them?

So, you gave it all away. LoL!

George Strait - Give It Away:
http://youtu.be/qYNcR44qKds

Can't speak for them, but I'm probably going to the 
Fiesta in San Antonio, after I recover from attending 
the South x Southwest Music and Film Festival in 
Austin. LoL!

http://www.fiesta-sa.org/

http://sxsw.com/

Too bad you're going to miss George Strait's last 
concert at the Alamodome. Go figure.

The Cowboy Rides Away Tour:
http://www.georgestrait.com/



[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread doctordumbass
Thanks, and pictures are wonderful! I pretty much enjoy old photos and film, of 
anything - very magical.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
 
  When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the 
  scene, however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the other 
  chair!) :-) Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, no wind, 
  but a steady watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It sounds like an 
  active and fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely snapshot of it.
  
  I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late 
  last year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as 
  planned, and the first few months have been full of sloughing off the 
  remnants of scheduling from our long time careers.
  
  Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took a 
  little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, but I 
  cannot really complain at all.
  
  As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to 
  country, and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew of 
  two, in a 34 foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same places 
  I had been. So about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. We sail in 
  about 10 days, and I am really looking forward to it. Down the West Coast, 
  Catalina Island, Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San Diego. 
  
  From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
  Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am 
  sure it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is 
  *not* on the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...
 
 
 Nice for you both, wish you a pleasant trip ! As you know Maharishi blessed 
 Catalina Island I believe in 1965, pictures here:
 http://www.maharishiphotos.com/mmyhlcl.html





[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread navashok


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Richard J. Williams richard@... wrote:

snip

 No matter where you are or have been, Barry has either 
 been there or has been to a neater place and done more 
 neat things than you have. 
 
 Barry's life is so unique and his experiences are so 
 magical that he's *enlightened* every day - he's really 
 on to something this time, and you're not doing anything
 but reading his messages. LoL!
 
 Barry saw a movie last night; Barry walked his dogs on 
 the street; Barry went to a cafe and typed; Barry knows 
 so-and-so. Barry is sixty and got a job! LoL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGJpP7wVkVs
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/7336471/messege-to-uncle




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread seventhray27
I'll take a story like this any time, Ann.
Very nice.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 Funny you should ask. For a start, I am sitting here in my beautiful
house that my husband and I built, it is blowing and raining outside, I
hear the wind in the chimney, the slash of water against the windows and
I sense the presence of the man I love most in the world sitting behind
me. On the couch next to him is my beloved dog Jesse who survived
life-threatening paralysis thanks to a successful $13,000 back surgery.
That is how precious she is to me. She follows me everywhere, looks for
any opportunity to do something for me, brings me my horse brushes,
carries my gloves, picks up a pen I have dropped. She radiates devotion
and real dog love in my direction every waking moment. She sleeps under
my side of the bed to stay as close to me as possible.

 I have just finished a dinner that my husband cooked for me consisting
of fresh asparagus, new potatoes and organic farm raised lamb we buy
from a good friend of ours down the road, who was a member of the
Canadian Equestrian team and who now, at the age of 70, has retired her
fabulous imported German dressage horse in order to raise sheep because
she loves living on the land and having animals to feed and to nurture
although she eventually has them slaughtered for their meat.

 I have put to bed six wonderful horses who rely on me to feed and
house and keep them safe and secure. They are in their stalls now
munching on green hay with clean pine shavings to lie on and I have
secured the barn doors against the wind we are forecast to have tonight.
I feel good about the fact that I can provide an environment of safety
and routine for them. And I look forward to smelling their clean scent
of horsiness in the morning as I walk into the barn at 7am precisely to
start a new round of feeding, cleaning and exercising them.

 I run a business that I love. I take a few moments at the end of each
day to assess how I did on this day and think ahead to tomorrow to
determine how I can do it better. I love the women I employ and I enjoy
the challenges dealing with the public and figuring out how to serve
their needs the best I can.

 So, while I am not in Paris in some chic cafe watching the clientele
savour their wine and I do not have the privilege of walking the scenic
Parisian streets to return to my French apartment I am sitting here
looking forward to tomorrow, hearing the wind and the rain, feeling my
dog and my husband, still tasting the lamb, knowing the horses are
settled and happy and that I live in one of the most beautiful islands
on the planet. Would I like to be in Paris? Sure. Is there still life
worth living elsewhere? I already answered that.
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread doctordumbass


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ no_reply@ wrote:
  
   When I read your post, Ann, it brought me right into the coziness of the 
   scene, however awkward that may sound (pt, over here, behind the 
   other chair!) :-) Seriously, maybe because it is raining down here too, 
   no wind, but a steady watering, I can picture the scene clearly. It 
   sounds like an active and fulfilled life, and thank you for your lovely 
   snapshot of it.
   
   I am on the other side of the curve these days. I retired suddenly,  late 
   last year, because I discovered I could. My wife has also retired, as 
   planned, and the first few months have been full of sloughing off the 
   remnants of scheduling from our long time careers.
   
   Instead of packing twenty tasks into a day, I am down to one or two. Took 
   a little getting used to, re-establishing a much more leisurely rhythm, 
   but I cannot really complain at all.
   
   As a child, I sailed the oceans on passenger/cargo ships, country to 
   country, and my wife and I met after she had concluded sailing as a crew 
   of two, in a 34 foot boat, around the world, visiting some of the same 
   places I had been. So about three months ago, I booked a cruise for us. 
   We sail in about 10 days, and I am really looking forward to it. Down the 
   West Coast, Catalina Island, Cabo San Lucas, Puerto Vallarta and San 
   Diego. 
   
   From the description of the massive ship, it sounds like a combo floating 
   Vegas and Disneyland, though there are quiet places to go as well. I am 
   sure it will be an unforgettable experience, one way or another. PS It is 
   *not* on the now infamous Carnival Cruise lines...
 
 Congratulations on your retirement from you job but not from life! And how 
 adventurous and brave your wife must be to have sailed around the world with 
 just one other person. 

**Yes, it was the fulfillment of a vision she had been having since she was a 
child. Came with all the bells and whistles, including being boarded by 
pirates, shark scares, and visiting the coast and wildlife parks of Namibia by 
herself. She wrote so much of it down and I have been after her to publish it. 

You might just love the cruise you will be taking; you certainly will have all 
the amenities. Watch that wife of yours though, she might just want to 
commandeer the wheel house if it gets a little slow on board. 

**There will be so much to take in. I am taking lots of memory cards and 
batteries for my camera. Yes, my wife loves to explore and enjoy almost 
everything - we are well suited that way.
 
 I booked a three day short trip on a cruise line down to Nassau from Cape 
 Canaveral for my husband and I a few years ago just curious to see how we 
 would like it. It doesn't seem like my kind of thing but I wanted to give it 
 a try. Dennis was digging in his heels convinced he would hate it but in the 
 end he liked it more than I did! What we really want to do is a river cruise 
 in Europe or I would love a very small archeological or historical cruise 
 somewhere in the Greek Islands or other ancient cultural area.

**Yeah, my take too - I tried to find something that wouldn't be completely 
over the top, and not sure we will repeat the big ship experience, just because 
there is so much other stuff to do.
 
 I am sure you will enjoy your time on the ship, you will be travelling down a 
 beautiful part of the coast. Leave your computer at home though!

**Whether at the beach or otherwise, I have always enjoyed looking at the sea's 
horizon.  Internet minutes and cell phone use are prohibitive on board. So, I 
am taking my PC to download pics into, and perhaps keep a diary, but won't be 
online at all.


  
  Nice for you both, wish you a pleasant trip ! As you know Maharishi blessed 
  Catalina Island I believe in 1965, pictures here:
  http://www.maharishiphotos.com/mmyhlcl.html
 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Share Long
hey Richard, wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery from music festival (-:
Also want to thank you for recently expressing some support for something I 
said.  post 338386 if you're into archiving, etc.






 From: Richard J. Williams rich...@rwilliams.us
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, March 20, 2013 9:56 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00
 

  


turquoiseb:
 What can *they* find to write about them?

So, you gave it all away. LoL!

George Strait - Give It Away:
http://youtu.be/qYNcR44qKds

Can't speak for them, but I'm probably going to the 
Fiesta in San Antonio, after I recover from attending 
the South x Southwest Music and Film Festival in 
Austin. LoL!

http://www.fiesta-sa.org/

http://sxsw.com/

Too bad you're going to miss George Strait's last 
concert at the Alamodome. Go figure.

The Cowboy Rides Away Tour:
http://www.georgestrait.com/


 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Richard J. Williams


Share Long:
 ...wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery from music 
 festival (-:
 
'Old lions John Fogerty, Bobby Bare and the Zombies help 
close SXSW'
San Antonio Express-News:
http://tinyurl.com/c4o6tvt

John Fogerty, Live 2004 in Austin City Limits: 
'The Old Man down the Road'
http://youtu.be/4Lf0pQoRgFQ 

John Fogerty, Les Paul guitar, vocals
Bob Britt - electric  acoustic guitars, mandolin, lap steel 
and dobro
Billy Burnette - guitars and vocals
George Hawkins Jr  - bass and vocals
John Molo - drums


http://austincitylimits.com/

 
 turquoiseb:
  What can *they* find to write about them?
 
 So, you gave it all away. LoL!
 
 George Strait - Give It Away:
 http://youtu.be/qYNcR44qKds
 
 Can't speak for them, but I'm probably going to the 
 Fiesta in San Antonio, after I recover from attending 
 the South x Southwest Music and Film Festival in 
 Austin. LoL!
 
 http://www.fiesta-sa.org/
 
 http://sxsw.com/
 
 Too bad you're going to miss George Strait's last 
 concert at the Alamodome. Go figure.
 
 The Cowboy Rides Away Tour:
 http://www.georgestrait.com/





[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-20 Thread Richard J. Williams
  No matter where you are or have been, Barry has either 
  been there or has been to a neater place and done more 
  neat things than you have. 
  
  Barry's life is so unique and his experiences are so 
  magical that he's *enlightened* every day - he's really 
  on to something this time, and you're not doing anything
  but reading his messages. LoL!
  
  Barry saw a movie last night; Barry walked his dogs on 
  the street; Barry went to a cafe and typed; Barry knows 
  so-and-so. Barry is sixty and got a job! LoL!
 
navashok:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGJpP7wVkVs
 http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/7336471/messege-to-uncle

Just give it away.
There ain't nothin' in this house worth fightin' over.
Oh, an' we're both tired of fightin' anyway,
So just give it away. 

George Strait, Give It Away, Lyrics:
http://youtu.be/wawYxDJPt0w



[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread merudanda
This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not who
you may think : that's Muhammad Ali

 
[https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@... wrote:

 On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
  My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
happy.
  I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
far,
  only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
  discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
  philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they
seem
  to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
  meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just
sip
  at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
  purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
inhibitions.
  My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
  lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
  them as a drug, or a means to an end.
 
  The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here,
and
  Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
Chinatowns)
  and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
they
  don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see
that
  in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
  tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
  Done.
 
  Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
  typing on his laptop.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread merudanda
yeah:
Repetition Is The Mother Of Retention

but OTHO  if this motherly- retained-repetition is so beautiful
illustrated and described as these American-in Paris-posting i do not
mind - do you?
  [http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5469/6923691534_817081a038_q.jpg] 
[http://pcdn.500px.net/6720624/ec2a48d412666a3e3878c81e50222a753a83f057/\
3.jpg]
And if  sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a
ditch, in  the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again,
drunkenness already  diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the
star, the bird, the  clock, everything that is flying, everything that
is groaning,  everything that is rolling, everything that is singing,
everything that  is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave,
star, bird, clock  will answer you:  It is time to be  drunk!  - See
more at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpufAnd
if sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a ditch, in
the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again, drunkenness already
diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the star, the bird, the
clock, everything that is flying, everything that is groaning,
everything that is rolling, everything that is singing, everything that
is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave, star, bird, clock
will answer you:
  It is time to be drunk!
--drunk of life
Get drunk on what life has to offer
And if  sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a
ditch, in  the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again,
drunkenness already  diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the
star, the bird, the  clock, everything that is flying, everything that
is groaning,  everything that is rolling, everything that is singing,
everything that  is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave,
star, bird, clock  will answer you:  It is time to be  drunk!  - See
more at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf---
In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@... wrote:

 This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
 convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not
who
 you may think : that's Muhammad Ali



[https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
\
 2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
 
  On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
   My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
 happy.
   I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
 far,
   only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
   discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
   philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that
they
 seem
   to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
   meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They
just
 sip
   at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for
the
   purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
 inhibitions.
   My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions
to
   lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not
treat
   them as a drug, or a means to an end.
  
   The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans
here,
 and
   Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
 Chinatowns)
   and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
 they
   don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I
see
 that
   in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
   tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things
Are
   Done.
  
   Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table
and
   typing on his laptop.
 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread merudanda
yeah:
Repetition Is The Mother Of Retention

but OTHO  if this motherly- retained-repetition is so beautiful
illustrated and described as these American-in Paris-posting i do not
mind - do you?
  [http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5469/6923691534_817081a038_q.jpg] 
[http://pcdn.500px.net/6720624/ec2a48d412666a3e3878c81e50222a753a83f057/\
3.jpg]
And  if sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a
ditch,  in the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again,
drunkenness  already diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the
star, the bird,  the clock, everything that is flying, everything that
is groaning,  everything that is rolling, everything that is singing,
everything that  is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave,
star, bird, clock  will answer you: It is time to be drunk! -( by
Charles Baudelaire-translated by Louis Simpson -  See more at:
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf


by Charles Baudelaire http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/607
translated by Louis Simpson http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/86  -
See more at:
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf)See
more at: 
http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/16054#sthash.ThV46WsO.dpuf)
It is time to be drunk!
--drunk of life
Get drunk on what life has to offer
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, merudanda no_reply@... wrote:

 This quote by whom?I figured that if I said it often enough, I would
 convince the world that I really was the greatest - uuuhh -not
who
 you may think : that's Muhammad Ali



[https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-U9cQIXWo_g0/UEH0y3F3ZoI/zQA/\
\
 2od3drdo4K8/s253/12+-+1]

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote:
 
  On 03/19/2013 02:25 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
   My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as
 happy.
   I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so
 far,
   only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
   discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
   philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that
they
 seem
   to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
   meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They
just
 sip
   at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for
the
   purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their
 inhibitions.
   My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions
to
   lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not
treat
   them as a drug, or a means to an end.
  
   The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans
here,
 and
   Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris'
 Chinatowns)
   and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And
 they
   don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I
see
 that
   in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
   tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things
Are
   Done.
  
   Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table
and
   typing on his laptop.
 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPmllQDYRMI#t=85s
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 
 [https://fbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/188956_452369191\
 497990_730757480_n.jpg]
 Marek's recent post (forwarded by Curtis) was such a classic example of
 finding the extraordinary in the ordinary that it (and discovering that
 this cafe I'm sitting in has free WiFi) has tempted me to write
 something about *my* ordinary life. I'm currently in a very nice cafe in
 the Butte aux Cailles near where I work, a fun village within a city
 that is being referred to in tourist publications as the new
 Montmartre. It's a fun area, full of ordinary Parisians living their
 lives as if they were extraordinary.
 
 And why the fuck not? Believer or non-believer, so-called spiritual or
 non-spiritual, NONE of us knows fersure whether there is any life
 after this one, so why not enjoy this one as if it were the only one
 possible *to* enjoy? To do otherwise seems folly to me.
 
 It seems that way to a lot of Parisians as well. They might actually be
 Christians or of some other persuasion that believes that there is an
 afterlife, but that's...uh...after life. And the afterlife's very
 existence is a matter of belief, not fact. This life -- here and now --
 is fact. One can either use it or lose it.
 
 I consider myself fortunate these last few days since I arrived in Paris
 to be sharing them with folks who prefer to use them rather than lose
 them. At work, I'm surrounded by an American guy and a Brit guy in their
 fifties, and a couple of French interns who are in their early twenties.
 It makes for an interesting dynamic. The women are model-thin and
 lovely, but rather than fritter away *all* of their todays on
 frivolities, they enrolled in a university course to teach them about
 Information Architecture, and now they're working for one of the leading
 computer companies in the world, and digging it. Both are incredibly
 bright and motivated, and best of all, they laugh a lot. So do the two
 older guys, so I'm fortunate in my work crew.
 
 My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as happy.
 I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so far,
 only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
 discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
 philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they seem
 to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
 meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just sip
 at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
 purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their inhibitions.
 My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
 lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
 them as a drug, or a means to an end.
 
 The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here, and
 Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris' Chinatowns)
 and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And they
 don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see that
 in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
 tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
 Done.
 
 Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
 typing on his laptop. When I finish this post I'll close up the computer
 and join in some of the conversations, my French coming back to me far
 more rapidly than I imagined. Interestingly, I find myself *thinking* in
 French most of the time, and having to internally translate back to
 English. Go figure. That hasn't happened for me yet in Dutch.
 
 As for other differences between Paris and the Netherlands, I would have
 to say that the primary one that strikes me is a difference in the
 comfort that French people seem to have with their sexuality. In the
 Netherlands, people may be liberal, but they kinda pull it in. People
 rarely catch your eye and hold it flirtingly there; instead they tend to
 open up only after some period of getting to know you. Here, things
 are more open and immediate. Spring is not really here yet, but it's
 coming, and people can feel it, and seem to be already responding to the
 increased pheromone count in the air. As an example, this was the first
 poster I saw on my first walk around town.
 
   [http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8093/8572121285_a0c9152054.jpg]
 Anyway, I'm enjoying myself. Sorry to say that to those on this forum
 who were hoping that I wouldn't. And you *all* know that there are a few
 here who fall into that category. Fuck 'em. How are *they* spending
 their ordinary here-and-now days and nights? What can *they* find to
 write about them?

God Barry. Your gloating is misplaced. It is not an attractive characteristic 
coming from you or from anyone else. Your comments will become self fulfilling 
if you don't knock it off. NOBODY obsesses whether 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
(snip)
  Anyway, I'm enjoying myself. Sorry to say that to those on
  this forum who were hoping that I wouldn't. And you *all*
  know that there are a few here who fall into that category.
  Fuck 'em. How are *they* spending their ordinary here-and-
  now days and nights? What can *they* find to write about
  them?
 
 God Barry. Your gloating is misplaced. It is not an
 attractive characteristic coming from you or from anyone
 else. Your comments will become self fulfilling if you
 don't knock it off. NOBODY obsesses whether you are happy
 or unhappy, if you make a million dollars or get fired.
 Can't you just enjoy your new city and stop worrying about
 what others think? I would, in your situation, immerse
 myself in Paris and forget about those that don't like
 you.  You certainly carry FFL around with you wherever you
 go. Doesn't it get heavy after a while? But then, it is
 your second home.

What's so sad is that he couldn't be happy with what was
a really quite lovely post about his experiences in Paris
unless he concluded it with one of his paranoid attacks on
those he perceives to be his enemies.

It leads one to suspect that while he was writing all that
very nice stuff, the thought in the forefront of his mind
was not how much he was enjoying himself, but This'll
show 'em!




[FairfieldLife] Re: Free Man In Paris, v2.00

2013-03-19 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 
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 Marek's recent post (forwarded by Curtis) was such a classic example of
 finding the extraordinary in the ordinary that it (and discovering that
 this cafe I'm sitting in has free WiFi) has tempted me to write
 something about *my* ordinary life. I'm currently in a very nice cafe in
 the Butte aux Cailles near where I work, a fun village within a city
 that is being referred to in tourist publications as the new
 Montmartre. It's a fun area, full of ordinary Parisians living their
 lives as if they were extraordinary.
 
 And why the fuck not? Believer or non-believer, so-called spiritual or
 non-spiritual, NONE of us knows fersure whether there is any life
 after this one, so why not enjoy this one as if it were the only one
 possible *to* enjoy? To do otherwise seems folly to me.
 
 It seems that way to a lot of Parisians as well. They might actually be
 Christians or of some other persuasion that believes that there is an
 afterlife, but that's...uh...after life. And the afterlife's very
 existence is a matter of belief, not fact. This life -- here and now --
 is fact. One can either use it or lose it.
 
 I consider myself fortunate these last few days since I arrived in Paris
 to be sharing them with folks who prefer to use them rather than lose
 them. At work, I'm surrounded by an American guy and a Brit guy in their
 fifties, and a couple of French interns who are in their early twenties.
 It makes for an interesting dynamic. The women are model-thin and
 lovely, but rather than fritter away *all* of their todays on
 frivolities, they enrolled in a university course to teach them about
 Information Architecture, and now they're working for one of the leading
 computer companies in the world, and digging it. Both are incredibly
 bright and motivated, and best of all, they laugh a lot. So do the two
 older guys, so I'm fortunate in my work crew.
 
 My playtime crew is just as diverse, but on the whole just as happy.
 I've seen none of the classic Parisian depression on this trip so far,
 only joie de vivre. In this cafe there are tables of French people
 discussing art or sports or literature or TV personalities or
 philosophy, the common denominator amongst all of them is that they seem
 to all be having a good time. Being French, they don't overdrink,
 meaning that I cannot detect a drunk person in the joint. They just sip
 at their wines and their beers and enjoy them, not chug them for the
 purpose (like the Brits) of getting drunk and losing their inhibitions.
 My take on that is that the French simply have fewer inhibitions to
 lose, so they can enjoy their beverages for the taste, and not treat
 them as a drug, or a means to an end.
 
 The crowd is also ethnically diverse. There are North Africans here, and
 Chinese (Butte aux Cailles being next door to one of Paris' Chinatowns)
 and Vietnamese and Arabs and even a few French-bread French. And they
 don't seem to have any problem with all of them being French. I see that
 in the Netherlands as well, but here it's more laid back, as if
 tolerance were not just politically correct, but Just How Things Are
 Done.
 
 Me, right now I'm the guy in the corner sitting at a small table and
 typing on his laptop. When I finish this post I'll close up the computer
 and join in some of the conversations, my French coming back to me far
 more rapidly than I imagined. Interestingly, I find myself *thinking* in
 French most of the time, and having to internally translate back to
 English. Go figure. That hasn't happened for me yet in Dutch.
 
 As for other differences between Paris and the Netherlands, I would have
 to say that the primary one that strikes me is a difference in the
 comfort that French people seem to have with their sexuality. In the
 Netherlands, people may be liberal, but they kinda pull it in. People
 rarely catch your eye and hold it flirtingly there; instead they tend to
 open up only after some period of getting to know you. Here, things
 are more open and immediate. Spring is not really here yet, but it's
 coming, and people can feel it, and seem to be already responding to the
 increased pheromone count in the air. As an example, this was the first
 poster I saw on my first walk around town.
 
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 Anyway, I'm enjoying myself. Sorry to say that to those on this forum
 who were hoping that I wouldn't. And you *all* know that there are a few
 here who fall into that category. Fuck 'em. How are *they* spending
 their ordinary here-and-now days and nights? What can *they* find to
 write about them?

Funny you should ask. For a start, I am sitting here in my beautiful house that 
my husband and I built, it is blowing and raining outside, I hear the wind in 
the chimney, the slash of water against the windows