[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-28 Thread Robert
(snip) Anglachel said it far better than I ever could. Please go back and read what I posted from her blog again, more carefully this time. (snip) I sometimes wonder here whether I am speakiing with a person, or a computer, because the answers here, sound like they are pre-programmed and I

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-28 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: (snip) Anglachel said it far better than I ever could. Please go back and read what I posted from her blog again, more carefully this time. (snip) I sometimes wonder here whether I am speakiing with a person, or a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread Robert
(snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than offering benefit is a tactic that may intimidate some, and perhaps win some over who would rather be part of the pack that attacks than one who is attacked, but mostly it engenders resentment. (snip) The

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: (snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than offering benefit is a tactic that may intimidate some, and perhaps win some over who would rather be part of the pack that attacks than

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert babajii_99@ wrote: (snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than offering benefit is a tactic that may intimidate some, and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert babajii_99@ wrote: (snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than offering benefit is a tactic that may intimidate some, and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread Robert
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert babajii_99@ wrote: (snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than offering benefit is a tactic that may intimidate some, and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert babajii_99@ wrote: (snip) Using shame (shame of being female, shame of being racist) rather than

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread Robert
(snip) There was no insight there, Robert. It was a random thought that had no connection to the points Anglachel was making. (snip) Then please educate me, and many other's what the hell you are talking about... What are the policies that Senator Obama supports that are against women. I

[FairfieldLife] Re: Using shame vs. offering benefit

2008-09-27 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: (snip) There was no insight there, Robert. It was a random thought that had no connection to the points Anglachel was making. (snip) Then please educate me, and many other's what the hell you are talking about...