Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-07 Thread It's just a ride
On Sun, Sep 6, 2009 at 11:41 PM, Rick Archerr...@searchsummit.com wrote:


 You visit the wrong satsang groups.


I fear that's true.  Could you kindly direct me to the right satsang
group in FF, Rick?


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-07 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of It's just a ride
Sent: Monday, September 07, 2009 10:15 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
On Sun, Sep 6, 2009 at 11:41 PM, Rick Archerr...@searchsummit.com
mailto:rick%40searchsummit.com  wrote:


 You visit the wrong satsang groups.


I fear that's true. Could you kindly direct me to the right satsang
group in FF, Rick?
Keep in mind that I was speaking somewhat tongue in cheek. Wrong and
right out of context sounds too preachy. Anyway, I happen to like the one
I've been going to for years every Wednesday night. It's at 304 W Kirkwood
Ave., in the condo building just East of Sidha Insurance, top floor, 1st
apartment on the Left. Starts at 8pm but people come and go at their
convenience.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:44 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
If, for example, they announce with absolute
certainty *exactly* what it IS that they've found,
or what it means, I grow wary. I'd like to see
the telegram they got from God that makes them
so certain. :-)
 
I would grow wary too. Seems to me that the only thing of which one can be
certain is that one exists. The awakened people I know are certain about
that, but not about much else. 


Another thing I see as a red flag in some who
claim that they have found is that they assume
that they have nothing more to ever find again,
that they're there, and that there is no more 
seeking to do. I find that very, very sad. 
 
I would too. I don't personally know anyone who thinks that way. Many who
awaken express that they're in kindergarten - just getting started - not
finished.

I think that to some extent the finding thang
is an extension of the seeking thang. That is,
a lot of people paid their dues for a long, long
time in traditions that left them as seekers,
without them ever finding what was promised.
That can tend to make people a little anxious,
and after 20 or 30 years make them almost 
*desperate* to find something -- anything --
to prove to themselves that all these years
and decades spent seeking were not in vain,
were not wasted.
 
Could be, but many are genuinely finding what they were seeking, and
therefore no longer have a sense of seeking. There is still plenty of
clarity and knowledge to gain, but doing so is sort of a natural unfolding
on a fulfilled foundation. No longer a desperate search based on emptiness
or craving.

So they let their standards slip. They have a 
realization or awakening, and because they've
waited so long for something to happen -- for
*anything* to happen -- they make more of the
experience than perhaps they should. They have
a flash of 24/7 witnessing and think they're
enlightened. They see rosy auras and think
they're in GC. 
 
You may have met many such people. I have too. But there others around who's
awakening is abiding or permanent. 

I have only met two or three individuals on this
planet whom I suspect of being fully enlightened.
Every one of them could not *wait* to wake up 
each morning and see what new things it had to
teach them, what more they could learn that day,
and how much they might be changed at the end, 
of that day. That, to me, is finding something
and treating it correctly, as just one more step
along a never-ending path. Saying that one has e 
reached the end of seeking -- to me -- just indi-
cates that the person saying it has grown tired 
or lazy or complacent
 
Remind me who's saying that. Not the people I'm referring to.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 3:16 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
 I think that folks in Fairfield lose sight of the 
fact that this is not exactly normal, everyday shit.
Take a walk down Main Street of most towns in the US
and you're not likely to run into anyone who thinks
-- and says -- that he or she is enlightened. From
what I hear on this forum, take a walk down Main 
Street in Fairfield and you could run into half a 
dozen of them. 
 
Fairfield is an unusual place. I doubt there is such a high concentration of
awakened people in any town. But I distinguish between awakened and
enlightened. Awakened is just a significant milestone. Enlightened, in
my lexicon, is the Big Kahuna. A rare attainment indeed. Very few people
around here are comfortable using that term and I'm suspicious of those few
who do.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Friday, September 04, 2009 2:39 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 Hopefully I'll have time tonight to chime in on this thread, 
 as it interests me a lot and I appreciate the stuff folks have 
 been writing.

I know you're a busy guy, Rick, but I hope you do
get a chance to chime in. Yours is almost always
a measured, intelligent voice in the midst of all
this chaos, and I'd love to hear your take on the
issues of Buddhism (or other teachers, period) and
how they're treated in Fairfield, awakening (or
what passes for it), and whether the awakened
do justice to the term or more closely resemble
the cast of Night Of The Living Dead. :-)
Thanks for the compliment. Buddhism doesn't have much of a presence here. I
seem to recall that a Buddhist monk came to town a few years ago - Doug
Hamilton may know - and what probably happened is that a crowd of
independent-minded folks went to see him, treated him with due respect, and
benefitted from the encounter. That's what usually happens when spiritual
teachers come here. What also happens is that the hard-core TMO types stay
on campus, some of them wishing they could go too. If a teacher is prominent
enough, an official notice is sometimes issued to faculty and staff that
they shouldn't attend. Those who do attend may find themselves in hot water
with the powers that be. But the number of independent-minded people in FF
may well exceed the fundamentalists. If you don't live on campus, your
impression of FF would be that it is an open-minded, eclectic spiritual
community full of interesting, creative people.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Vaj
Sent: Friday, September 04, 2009 10:08 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
In terms of Dzogchen View, it's pretty simple, instead of View - Path -
Fruit, you take the Fruit, a realization, hopefully the real deal, and apply
it as your Path. But really, that's a pathless Path since it really is
'already there', 'gone to the other side'. Nonetheless there are techniques
for pathless paths--but they only work if one can take Fruition as the
Path. This may seem paradoxical, esp. to people attached to the idea of
having gone beyond a path. The fact is if one is established in rigpa or
Brahman and has truly overthrown duality, a number signs will spontaneously
arise. For some reason, I have yet to see these signs in any of the satsang
groups I've visited. No jnana. Little accomplishment. A lotta talk. Most IME
haven't passed beyond the stage of talking about experiences.
 
You visit the wrong satsang groups.


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Sal Sunshine
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 2:57 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
On Sep 3, 2009, at 1:19 PM, Rick Archer wrote:



 I don't think it's possible on FFL to mention the topic of seekers becoming
finders without it pushing someone's buttons.
 
There's some justification for that, in that many who reported great
experiences or Awakening did so to bolster their egos or attract followers.
Also, some folks' definition of enlightenment is rather exalted and would
exclude all stages of awakening other than the final one. Also, there's a
tendency to dismiss claims of awakening in those whose personalities we may
not like, or who appear so ordinary.
 
Rick, my comment had nothing to do with liking or not liking
some of these-called awakened.  Except for one or two people,
one of whom I am friends with, the other who is Michael Goodman (enough
said, I trust) I don't know for sure who the others are...but I'll bet I
could guess by the way some of them act.
Funny you should mention ordinariness.  The highest 
complement someone who's Jewish can give someone
else is to simply refer to them as a mensch, which 
basically translates into human being.  How much 
more ordinary can you get than that?  It basically means
that someone is a good guy, or gal.  No superlatives, no
attempt to exalt anyone or try to proclaim anyone's 
superiority (while at the same time subtly putting down others,
all while claiming to be humble.)  I don't see a whole lot of
menschnessamongst those making these claims...just another
way to convince others that while these exalted souls might
*look* angry, stressed-out, seem to have difficulty forming friendships and
have almost non-existant relationships (sometimes) with their children, and
generally like they're not having too
much fun in life...that it's all good, that's just their outward 
manifestation, that they really are special and it's your
problem if you can't see that...you're not evolved enough.
And if their  kids wind up messed-up or on drugs,
well, they're not evolved enough either.
Am I missing something?
Sal
 
I don't know Sal. I just know that there are many people in FF who have
undergone awakenings. I don't think any of them are final. Everyone still
has growing to do. But many are abiding (to use Adyashanti's term) or
permanent (so far). Just because one has woken up spiritually doesn't mean
that one doesn't still have a lot of personality quirks to work out, and it
may take years to do that. I'm not talking about saints. And I'm not talking
about people to whom I would apply the term enlightened. I'll reserve that
term for those who have worked out all those quirks. Like Barry, I only know
of a few of those, and even those undoubtedly have growth yet to undergo.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-06 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Sal Sunshine
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 4:45 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
I guess it never ceases to amaze me how perfectly
rational people can claim to believe is some mystical
state of mind that has no criterion by which to
identify it, and nobody who's in it ever does anything
to benefit anyone else, and if they do it's usually by accident.
I don't see how believing in that is any different than
believing there's a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
 
Such terminology is way to absolutist and general for me. I can think of
numerous exceptions to it, and what we're discussing here has nothing to do
with belief for those experiencing it, only for those attempting to evaluate
others' subjective state, which a futile endeavor.
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-04 Thread Vaj


On Sep 3, 2009, at 6:14 PM, j_alexander_stanley wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote:

 I have only met two or three individuals on this
 planet whom I suspect of being fully enlightened.
 Every one of them could not *wait* to wake up
 each morning and see what new things it had to
 teach them, what more they could learn that day,
 and how much they might be changed at the end,
 of that day. That, to me, is finding something
 and treating it correctly, as just one more step
 along a never-ending path. Saying that one has e
 reached the end of seeking -- to me -- just indi-
 cates that the person saying it has grown tired
 or lazy or complacent.

The way I see it, before awakening, there is seeking toward a  
particular end point. After awakening, it's a free-fall into endless  
finding, and it's all pretty much automatic. Because it's a  
completely different dynamic than pre-awakening seeking, I wouldn't  
label the post-awakening embrace of endless finding as a  
continuation of seeking.



In terms of Dzogchen View, it's pretty simple, instead of View - Path  
- Fruit, you take the Fruit, a realization, hopefully the real deal,  
and apply it as your Path. But really, that's a pathless Path since  
it really is 'already there', 'gone to the other side'. Nonetheless  
there are techniques for pathless paths--but they only work if one  
can take Fruition as the Path. This may seem paradoxical, esp. to  
people attached to the idea of having gone beyond a path. The fact is  
if one is established in rigpa or Brahman and has truly overthrown  
duality, a number signs will spontaneously arise. For some reason, I  
have yet to see these signs in any of the satsang groups I've visited.  
No jnana. Little accomplishment. A lotta talk. Most IME haven't passed  
beyond the stage of talking about experiences.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Vaj


On Sep 3, 2009, at 9:08 AM, dhamiltony2k5 wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajradh...@... wrote:


 On Sep 2, 2009, at 8:46 PM, jpgillam wrote:

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj wrote:
  
  
   On Sep 2, 2009, at 9:45 AM, jpgillam wrote:
  
What does it say that there are no
Buddhist or zen groups on the list below?
  
   [snip]
  
   Hordes of TMers have taken up Buddhist or other kinds of Hindu
   meditation.
 
  So why are there not scads of Buddhist groups
  on Doug's list? I don't expect zen zealots to
  relocate to Fairfield, Iowa, but I would expect
  a few former TMers who live there to form zen groups.


 I can't say such groups do not exist. They might. But I suspect  
FF is
 seen as a Hindu style New Age town, based on the what I get from  
posts
 on FF spiritual teachers. If they are there, I'd expect them to  
keep a

 low profile or be occasional visitors.


Yes, that is fairly true. When i've seen it in FF it is fairly  
clandestine. For instance, the Weds group meditation i go to that  
is effectively transcendental vipasannaic has a lot of people who  
also go to the dome, so it is kept under wraps mostly to protect  
those folks.


That's strange to me. I realize the need to conform by being a dome  
goer but at the same time, it's pretty dishonest to the goal of  
collective dome meditation to be using another technique or a  
variation on the technique you're supposed to be doing as 'the same  
thing, together'.





Figure also that the TM movement is culturally so pre-disposed  
against what they see as buddhist meditations. A profound pre- 
disposition that is defined from the Transcendental Meditation  
second lecture that is always given to people as they would start TM.


Yeah TM teachers are infamous for spreading disinformation when they  
aren't really even taught much about meditation in the first place. I  
think at one time they could get away with that, but now a more savvy  
public sees through the clearly clueless kind of statements they  
make. But there is also a sucker born every minute.


That preparatory lecture is a complete argument against buddistic  
type meditations both in theory and with scientific charts from the  
old days of TM. That argument was an integral part of presenting  
TM. It was always hard-hitting.


Less so today, as it's simply ignorance and dishonesty they're  
spreading. If you want to teach people meditation, starting out by  
lying to them and just not really knowing much about different styles  
of meditation isn't going to help your cause in the long run. This is  
esp. the case since research in Buddhist meditation has surpassed TM  
research in both number and quality.


When HH the Dalai Lama streamed a live video conference on the latest  
meditation research a couple of years ago, millions of people signed  
in to watch across the planet.


So figure the TM culture is not very flexible on this point. To the  
TM culture, buddhism would equal the wrong way. That is from way  
back in TM culture. There just is not a lot of reception or even  
respect towards Buddhism within Transcendental Meditation. Hence  
buddhism has never really taken hold in FF. The bookstores do have  
books on it.


Well unfortunately, I'm sure the TM org still tries to tell people  
that the Surangama sutra, a Buddhist sutra, is one of the best  
descriptions of TM!




RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of It's just a ride
Sent: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 11:56 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
On Wed, Sep 2, 2009 at 11:46 PM, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com
mailto:rick%40searchsummit.com  wrote:



 Coincidentally, there was a guy at our Wednesday Night Satsang tonight who
identified himself as a Buddhist, and seemed to be really into it.


How did the Buddhist react to the pontifications of HH TT?
No one was pontificating. It was a packed room and everyone took turns in a
very lively discussion that went on 'till 11pm.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 8:31 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
We're back to my earlier advice -- GO PUBLIC. Take
it to the newspapers. Take it to the TV stations.
Let the cat out of the bag. TELL the greater public
what the TMO does to its members on a regular basis.
That's what I did when I was booted out. I started FFL using my real name.
In fact, I was booted out for sending out organizational emails for the
local Amma group using my real name. I should have known that would catch up
with me, but I would have done it anyway, because I don't like sneaking
around. Not that I haven't done it, but I don't like it. 
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Sep 3, 2009, at 9:58 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:

 Fair enough. I accept that your snark was intended
 as a snarky joke; I probably reacted to it because we
 hold different assumptions about a couple of concepts.

No, Barry,  You reacted that way because you're an
unenlightened boor who wouldn't know awakening
if it introduced itself.  :)  Didn't you hear Alex?  There
are people here in FF who have actually woken up!
Imagine that.  Not to mention all the thousands who
presumably wake  up every day...that is, unless they
don't go to sleep.

This whole conversation reeks of more elitism than
any proposed CAFO ever could.

Sal



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Sep 3, 2009, at 11:49 AM, j_alexander_stanley wrote:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@...  
wrote:


On Sep 3, 2009, at 9:58 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:


Fair enough. I accept that your snark was intended
as a snarky joke; I probably reacted to it because we
hold different assumptions about a couple of concepts.


No, Barry,  You reacted that way because you're an
unenlightened boor who wouldn't know awakening
if it introduced itself.  :)  Didn't you hear Alex?  There
are people here in FF who have actually woken up!
Imagine that.  Not to mention all the thousands who
presumably wake  up every day...that is, unless they
don't go to sleep.

This whole conversation reeks of more elitism than
any proposed CAFO ever could.


I don't think it's possible on FFL to mention the topic of seekers  
becoming finders without it pushing someone's buttons.


Great way of dismissing the inherent elitism in your
comments, Ale.
Sal



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of j_alexander_stanley
Sent: Thursday, September 03, 2009 11:49 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
 I don't think it's possible on FFL to mention the topic of seekers becoming
finders without it pushing someone's buttons.
 
There's some justification for that, in that many who reported great
experiences or Awakening did so to bolster their egos or attract followers.
Also, some folks' definition of enlightenment is rather exalted and would
exclude all stages of awakening other than the final one. Also, there's a
tendency to dismiss claims of awakening in those whose personalities we may
not like, or who appear so ordinary.
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Sep 3, 2009, at 1:19 PM, Rick Archer wrote:

 I don't think it's possible on FFL to mention the topic of seekers  
becoming finders without it pushing someone's buttons.


There's some justification for that, in that many who reported great  
experiences or Awakening did so to bolster their egos or attract  
followers. Also, some folks' definition of enlightenment is rather  
exalted and would exclude all stages of awakening other than the  
final one. Also, there's a tendency to dismiss claims of awakening  
in those whose personalities we may not like, or who appear so  
ordinary.


Rick, my comment had nothing to do with liking or not liking
some of these-called awakened.  Except for one or two people,
one of whom I am friends with, the other who is Michael Goodman  
(enough said, I trust) I don't know for sure who the others are...but  
I'll bet I could guess by the way some of them act.

Funny you should mention ordinariness.  The highest
complement someone who's Jewish can give someone
else is to simply refer to them as a mensch, which
basically translates into human being.  How much
more ordinary can you get than that?  It basically means
that someone is a good guy, or gal.  No superlatives, no
attempt to exalt anyone or try to proclaim anyone's
superiority (while at the same time subtly putting down others,
all while claiming to be humble.)  I don't see a whole lot of  
menschnessamongst those making these claims...just another

way to convince others that while these exalted souls might
*look* angry, stressed-out, seem to have difficulty forming  
friendships and have almost non-existant relationships (sometimes)  
with their children, and generally like they're not having too

much fun in life...that it's all good, that's just their outward
manifestation, that they really are special and it's your
problem if you can't see that...you're not evolved enough.
And if their  kids wind up messed-up or on drugs,
well, they're not evolved enough either.
Am I missing something?
Sal



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Rick Archer
Hopefully I'll have time tonight to chime in on this thread, as it interests
me a lot and I appreciate the stuff folks have been writing.


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Bhairitu
Sal Sunshine wrote:
 On Sep 3, 2009, at 1:19 PM, Rick Archer wrote:

  I don't think it's possible on FFL to mention the topic of seekers 
 becoming finders without it pushing someone's buttons.

 There's some justification for that, in that many who reported great 
 experiences or Awakening did so to bolster their egos or attract 
 followers. Also, some folks' definition of enlightenment is rather 
 exalted and would exclude all stages of awakening other than the 
 final one. Also, there's a tendency to dismiss claims of awakening in 
 those whose personalities we may not like, or who appear so ordinary.

 Rick, my comment had nothing to do with liking or not liking
 some of these-called awakened.  Except for one or two people,
 one of whom I am friends with, the other who is Michael Goodman 
 (enough said, I trust) I don't know for sure who the others are...but 
 I'll bet I could guess by the way some of them act.
 Funny you should mention ordinariness.  The highest
 complement someone who's Jewish can give someone
 else is to simply refer to them as a mensch, which
 basically translates into human being.  How much
 more ordinary can you get than that?  It basically means
 that someone is a good guy, or gal.  No superlatives, no
 attempt to exalt anyone or try to proclaim anyone's
 superiority (while at the same time subtly putting down others,
 all while claiming to be humble.)  I don't see a whole lot of 
 menschnessamongst those making these claims...just another
 way to convince others that while these exalted souls might
 *look* angry, stressed-out, seem to have difficulty forming 
 friendships and have almost non-existant relationships (sometimes) 
 with their children, and generally like they're not having too
 much fun in life...that it's all good, that's just their outward
 manifestation, that they really are special and it's your
 problem if you can't see that...you're not evolved enough.
 And if their  kids wind up messed-up or on drugs,
 well, they're not evolved enough either.
 Am I missing something?
 Sal



You will know you are on the road to enlightenment when you are no 
longer concerned about it.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-03 Thread Sal Sunshine


On Sep 3, 2009, at 3:15 PM, TurquoiseB wrote:

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@...  
wrote:


Rick, my comment had nothing to do with liking or not liking
some of these-called awakened.  Except for one or two people,
one of whom I am friends with, the other who is Michael Goodman
(enough said, I trust) I don't know for sure who the others
are...but I'll bet I could guess by the way some of them act.
Funny you should mention ordinariness.  The highest
complement someone who's Jewish can give someone
else is to simply refer to them as a mensch, which
basically translates into human being.  How much
more ordinary can you get than that?  It basically means
that someone is a good guy, or gal.  No superlatives, no
attempt to exalt anyone or try to proclaim anyone's
superiority (while at the same time subtly putting down others,
all while claiming to be humble.)  I don't see a whole lot of
menschnessamongst those making these claims...just another
way to convince others that while these exalted souls might
*look* angry, stressed-out, seem to have difficulty forming
friendships and have almost non-existant relationships (sometimes)
with their children, and generally like they're not having too
much fun in life...that it's all good, that's just their outward
manifestation, that they really are special and it's your
problem if you can't see that...you're not evolved enough.
And if their  kids wind up messed-up or on drugs,
well, they're not evolved enough either.
Am I missing something?
Sal


Wow.

Bravo. Deep bow.

You should rant more often. :-)

Really, you should. This is a *great* rant, one that
just *nails* the issue. It's a very *real* perception
of what it's like to live in a small town in which a
lot of people are claiming to be special.

I think that folks in Fairfield lose sight of the
fact that this is not exactly normal, everyday shit.
Take a walk down Main Street of most towns in the US
and you're not likely to run into anyone who thinks
-- and says -- that he or she is enlightened. From
what I hear on this forum, take a walk down Main
Street in Fairfield and you could run into half a
dozen of them.

So I think it's good to get a first-hand perspective
on how these special people handle themselves. Do
they walk their talk?

I've run into a few of these special people myself.
Not in Fairfield, but in my travels. Sadly, most do
not impress. As a good friend of mine said about one
of these special people, someone we both know well
and love, The thing about W___ is that he never
fails to disappoint.

We'd love to believe he was enlightened. It's just
that he doesn't let us. He keeps doing really dumb
shit like you describe above.


Well, at least he does something. :)
I guess it never ceases to amaze me how perfectly
rational people can claim to believe is some mystical
state of mind that has no criterion by which to
identify it, and nobody who's in it ever does anything
to benefit anyone else, and if they do it's usually by accident.
I don't see how believing in that is any different than
believing there's a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
Or believing in the Pleidians.  Not to mention that several
of the early enlightened ones have since been shown
to be serious weirdos.

Sal



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of jpgillam
Sent: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 8:46 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
What does it say that there are no 
Buddhist or zen groups on the list below? 

For what it's worth, Adyashanti is very popular here. He grew up in the
Zen tradition, although I think his teaching transcends isms, so you
really couldn't call him a Buddhist.  


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Vaj


On Sep 2, 2009, at 9:45 AM, jpgillam wrote:


What does it say that there are no
Buddhist or zen groups on the list below?



Too many sleepers I guess. If I was showed a meditation center (the  
dome in this case) or the place in Vedic city, and saw most of the  
people actually sleeping instead of meditating I seriously doubt I'd  
be interested. It turns out half of people practicing TM are actually  
transcendentally, uh, sleeping. It may just be that New Age cities  
are too narcissistic for an Awakening School (Buddhism). Wrong  
spiritual supermarket for the product?


Hordes of TMers have taken up Buddhist or other kinds of Hindu  
meditation. I suspect the trend will continue and people will  
continue to leave as they mature.


Of course it could also simply be that Doug is a neo-Hindu and not  
interested in awakening schools. For most TMers and satsangeroo's the  
mental plane is where it's at. And talking about it, of course.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Vaj


On Sep 2, 2009, at 12:00 PM, WillyTex wrote:


  What does it say that there are no
  Buddhist or zen groups on the list below?

Vaj wrote:
 It may just be that New Age cities are too
 narcissistic for an Awakening School (Buddhism).

So, what does it say that the historical Buddha
was a Hindu?


That he was familiar with authentic Hinduism first hand, as well as  
Shaivism, etc.

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of nablusoss1008
Sent: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 1:05 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , jpgillam jpgil...@... wrote:

 What does it say that there are no 
 Buddhist or zen groups on the list below? 

Because it's stale, outdated religions with no substance and
meditation-techniques that doesn't work ?
But wouldn't such a thing appeal to the FF vampires?


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Sep 2, 2009, at 7:46 PM, jpgillam wrote:


So why are there not scads of Buddhist groups
on Doug's list? I don't expect zen zealots to
relocate to Fairfield, Iowa, but I would expect
a few former TMers who live there to form zen groups.


I hear they keep trying to, but they're too
unattached to actually form any.

Sal



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Vaj


On Sep 2, 2009, at 8:46 PM, jpgillam wrote:


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj wrote:


 On Sep 2, 2009, at 9:45 AM, jpgillam wrote:

  What does it say that there are no
  Buddhist or zen groups on the list below?

 [snip]

 Hordes of TMers have taken up Buddhist or other kinds of Hindu
 meditation.

So why are there not scads of Buddhist groups
on Doug's list? I don't expect zen zealots to
relocate to Fairfield, Iowa, but I would expect
a few former TMers who live there to form zen groups.



I can't say such groups do not exist. They might. But I suspect FF is  
seen as a Hindu style New Age town, based on the what I get from posts  
on FF spiritual teachers. If they are there, I'd expect them to keep a  
low profile or be occasional visitors.


If I was a Buddhist, FF would not be where I would choose to live. FF  
is a primary TM capital still. A Buddhist, esp. a lay person, would  
want a retreat center designed as a laboratory for the changes in  
consciousness s/he would want to explore. Imagine a very specialized  
Forest Academy and you'll get what I mean. And of course part of  
leaving the past behind would mean leaving any attachment to places  
like a primarily Hindu-Vedic FF. You'd move where there are resources.  
Where could you find something as obscure as a dark retreat cabin or a  
sealed cave with attendants? I doubt you'd find them in FF, let alone  
someone qualified to teach you. How about a sealed three-year, three  
month retreat center? Again: rare birds.


I can only guess based on what I've heard here. I was under the  
impression that some Buddhist teachers had visited or perhaps still do  
visit FF, but that there were no hardcore groups there. Just my  
impression. It could be a completely false perception. I haven't lived  
in FF since the 80's! But it's still a neat place to peep in on.



.02 USD




RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread gullible fool

 
For what it's worth, Adyashanti is very popular here. He grew up in the Zen 
tradition, although I think his teaching transcends isms, so you really 
couldn't call him a Buddhist.  
 
Adya is in a whole 'nother class in that he actively bridges people to 
awakening. Only a handful of teachers are both able to and wish to work with 
others in that way and Adya is one of the best at it.
 
Love will swallow you, eat you up completely, until there is no `you,' only 
love. 
 
- Amma  

--- On Wed, 9/2/09, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com wrote:


From: Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice 
Groups
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, September 2, 2009, 11:07 AM















From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On 
Behalf Of jpgillam
Sent: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 8:46 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups
 



What does it say that there are no 
Buddhist or zen groups on the list below? 

For what it's worth, Adyashanti is very popular here. He grew up in the Zen 
tradition, although I think his teaching transcends isms, so you really 
couldn't call him a Buddhist.  





  

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Vaj
Sent: Wednesday, September 02, 2009 8:12 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
 
On Sep 2, 2009, at 8:46 PM, jpgillam wrote:



--- In  mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com
FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj wrote:

 
 On Sep 2, 2009, at 9:45 AM, jpgillam wrote:
 
  What does it say that there are no
  Buddhist or zen groups on the list below?
 
 [snip]
 
 Hordes of TMers have taken up Buddhist or other kinds of Hindu 
 meditation. 

So why are there not scads of Buddhist groups 
on Doug's list? I don't expect zen zealots to 
relocate to Fairfield, Iowa, but I would expect 
a few former TMers who live there to form zen groups.
 
 
I can't say such groups do not exist. They might. But I suspect FF is seen
as a Hindu style New Age town, based on the what I get from posts on FF
spiritual teachers. If they are there, I'd expect them to keep a low profile
or be occasional visitors. 
 
If I was a Buddhist, FF would not be where I would choose to live. FF is a
primary TM capital still. A Buddhist, esp. a lay person, would want a
retreat center designed as a laboratory for the changes in consciousness
s/he would want to explore. Imagine a very specialized Forest Academy and
you'll get what I mean. And of course part of leaving the past behind would
mean leaving any attachment to places like a primarily Hindu-Vedic FF. You'd
move where there are resources. Where could you find something as obscure as
a dark retreat cabin or a sealed cave with attendants? I doubt you'd find
them in FF, let alone someone qualified to teach you. How about a sealed
three-year, three month retreat center? Again: rare birds.
 
I can only guess based on what I've heard here. I was under the impression
that some Buddhist teachers had visited or perhaps still do visit FF, but
that there were no hardcore groups there. Just my impression. It could be a
completely false perception. I haven't lived in FF since the 80's! But it's
still a neat place to peep in on.
 
Coincidentally, there was a guy at our Wednesday Night Satsang tonight who
identified himself as a Buddhist, and seemed to be really into it.
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-02 Thread It's just a ride
On Wed, Sep 2, 2009 at 11:46 PM, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com wrote:



 Coincidentally, there was a guy at our Wednesday Night Satsang tonight who 
 identified himself as a Buddhist, and seemed to be really into it.


How did the Buddhist react to the pontifications of HH TT?


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-01 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of nablusoss1008
Sent: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 1:07 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , dhamiltony2k5
dhamiltony...@... wrote:

 Spiritual Practice Groups of Fairfield

 
 The long-time Fairfield meditating community today is its
 own center for spiritual practice. The breadth of spiritual practice
 groups in Fairfield is now a unique feature of the town in the 21st
 Century.

In other words, a chaos and missmash of spiritual practise, as it turns
out; mostly spiritual vampires.

No wonder strong forces are working for moving MUM to India.
Tell that to the folks who are still pumping millions into building new
buildings on campus, and to the parents who wouldn't be too crazy about
sending their kids to India.
 


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-01 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of nablusoss1008
Sent: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 4:47 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 
 In other words, a chaos and missmash of spiritual practise, as it turns
 out; mostly spiritual vampires.
 
 No wonder strong forces are working for moving MUM to India.

Tell that to the folks who are still pumping millions into building new
 buildings on campus, and to the parents who wouldn't be too crazy about
 sending their kids to India.

Wealthy people can spend millions on a dead-end road without feeling any
pain.

And, if their kids went to India to study they would live in Palaces like
the Rajas of Old, with the comforts of Royalty.
Really? And these Palaces are already there or would they manifest magically
as the students arrived?

Without having to be exposed to the hangers-on, the spiritual vampires, the
lazy lot, the spiritually confused, the many fools of Fairfield and the
rumormongers like yourself.
Actually, there are many people in FF - hundreds - who have shifted or
experienced permanent spiritual awakenings which meet the criteria of MMY's
CC, GC, UC, BC, although many of those people find fresh terminology after
having arrived at the territory to which MMY's roadmap referred. Some of the
these people are still in the TMO. Many have moved on. Few, if any, look
back on the TMO with regret or resentment, but many have found that some of
the teachers in Doug's list, and other sources of inspiration and wisdom,
have provided a valuable perspective or boost that the TMO wasn't able to
provide, at least for them. Since you haven't been to FF in decades, you
don't really know what you're talking about, but I doubt you'd know what you
were talking about even if you came.
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-01 Thread It's just a ride
On Tue, Sep 1, 2009 at 5:10 PM, Rick Archerr...@searchsummit.com wrote:
 Actually, there are many people in FF - hundreds - who have shifted or
 experienced permanent spiritual awakenings which meet the criteria of
MMY's
 CC, GC, UC, BC, although many of those people find fresh terminology after
 having arrived at the territory to which MMY's roadmap referred. Some of
the
 these people are still in the TMO.

Then why, pray tell, do those people in the TMO act like God's gifts to
asshole-ism?  Don't tell me that you can't tell the state of someone from
their actions.  This group seems to have an unwritten charter rule that it's
all about judging other people and flaming people you disagree with because
the way the write, their sentiment, their views are proof that they are in a
lesser level of evolution than thou art.

Who's this Doug you talk about?  I have filters on many non-contributors to
the discussion on FFL.  Are you talking Doug the sidhi administrator in the
Mens Dome?


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice Groups

2009-09-01 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of It's just a ride
Sent: Tuesday, September 01, 2009 8:29 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Directory of Active FF Spiritual Practice
Groups
 
  On Tue, Sep 1, 2009 at 5:10 PM, Rick Archerr...@searchsummit.com wrote:
 Actually, there are many people in FF - hundreds - who have shifted or
 experienced permanent spiritual awakenings which meet the criteria of
MMY's
 CC, GC, UC, BC, although many of those people find fresh terminology after
 having arrived at the territory to which MMY's roadmap referred. Some of
the
 these people are still in the TMO. 

Then why, pray tell, do those people in the TMO act like God's gifts to
asshole-ism?  Don't tell me that you can't tell the state of someone from
their actions.  
 
I can guess, and form my own opinion, but I can't tell with certainty.
 
This group seems to have an unwritten charter rule that it's all about
judging other people and flaming people you disagree with because the way
the write, their sentiment, their views are proof that they are in a lesser
level of evolution than thou art.
 
There are people like that in every spiritual group, but that's not who I
was referring to. I was referring to people in FF who've had genuine,
significant, permanent spiritual awakenings. Many of them are very private
about it. They aren't judging others or lording it over them. They may or
may not still be in the TMO. Often, but not necessarily, such awakenings
occur after people distance themselves from the TMO (or are distanced) and
their newfound perspective allows them to shed assumptions that have
encumbered them for decades.

Who's this Doug you talk about?  I have filters on many non-contributors to
the discussion on FFL.  Are you talking Doug the sidhi administrator in the
Mens Dome?

No, Doug Hamilton, who posts a directory of active FF spiritual practice
groups each month. His doing so started this thread.