Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread MaryChristine
yeah, i figured that you weren't making a black-and-white statement,
but too many people DO: assuming that sanctuaries, big or small,
SHOULD be open at all hours of the day, and that both the cats and the
humans should welcome strange people showing up at all hours of the
day!

i'd still like to come up with a checklist for what a sanctuary
setting should be--and folks, it's NOT always gonna be what a home
will be! michael and tad and gary have homelike settings, but not
every decent place does, and there are often choices that are made
that we might not make for our personal cats. until, however, you're
willing to open your life to these "undesirables," you're not there,
having to make those choices.

i'd like there to be a checklist that's realistic, and then a group of
folks who are willing to visit the places in their area where people
can't always get to themselves, to do a home visit. i don't think it's
always possible for people to visit a facility themselves, even if
that's what they'd prefer--i know that physically and financially, i
couldn't make a trip out to say, michael's--but i would trust susan's
judgment, or yours, belinda..

too many places cropping up in the past year or so calling themselves
"sanctuaries," when no one has ever heard of them. makes me nervous.
(micheal, i know you're not new, just choosing to be less public,
which is a very reasonable response considering what has happened to
so many good places.)

just me, being objective as usual.

MC

-- 
Spay & Neuter Your Neighbors!
Maybe That'll Make The Difference

MaryChristine
Special-Needs Coordinator, Purebred Cat Breed Rescue (www.purebredcats.org)
Member, SCAT (Special-Cat Action Team)

___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread Belinda Sauro

   MC,
 That is what I mean, I wouldn't need the actual street address until I 
was sure I wanted to take the kitty there.  General address to start is 
fine.  But for me personally I would have to take the cat there and look 
at the place.  I have only given cats up one time when my neighbor 
across the street moved and left 3 cats behind.  I called around to all 
of the local shelters and sanctuaries and found one 80 miles away that 
could take them.


I took them there, had a look around and gave them a $100.00 donation to 
take the cats, I know they thought I was the one dumping them but that 
didn't matter, I knew they were going to a place I felt comfortable 
with.  They let me know that they had all 3 been adopted with in a 
month, they were all young, 10 months and under.  Nice neighbor, their 
Momma didn't fare as well, I found her dead on the side of the road a 
couple of months or so before they disappeared into the night.  They 
kept the other kitties inside until they disappeared because I didn't 
see them until they had moved.


Believe me I wanted to keep them but I already had 7 of my own and 
realistically that just wasn't doable.  The youngest one was only 10 or 
12 weeks or so old.


--

Belinda
happiness is being owned by cats ...

http://bemikitties.com

http://BelindaSauro.com


___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread Tad Burnett

Hi Jeni
  That sounds like me... The kittens had a good life here although
it was not a long life... Midnight, a cat from your area that we were 
working
on transportation for, is still doing fine and she is going on 2 years 
here

  Yes... my vet is my one good reference but he is in the best position
to know how my guys live and are cared for and treated here and it is
important to have a vet that cares.

Tad


JENI RECA wrote:


you could ask for two references, two people that know them and can just tell 
you a little about them, you can ask about their pet history and verify it with 
the references.  A vet reference is great, unless it's their first time owning 
a cat.  Someone did adopt two kittens from me on this list, they gave me a vet 
name and number and just talking with them and getting a good feeling about it, 
I knew the cats were going to be fine.  They were too far to check out the 
living arrangements, but they kept in touch with me and sent me pictures.  good 
luck!jeni

 


Date: Thu, 30 Jul 2009 21:40:41 -0400
From: tadburn...@vermontel.net
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

Check with his vet
Anyone adopting an FeLV+ cat had best be on a first name
basis with a vet
Will the adopter allow you or someone you know to see how the
cats will be living ???
And are they willing to answer all your questions ???

Yes... I have adopted maybe 20 FeLV+ cats from this list in the
past 6 years but none in the last couple years I think
I am getting old and slowing down after my heart attack a year
ago.
Tad


Cindy Jackson wrote:

   


How can you make sure that someone who wants to adopt your cat is legitimate?
Has anyone ever offered to adopt your cat here on felvtalk or have you found 
someone here that you called to ask if they could adopt your cat? If so, how 
did you make sure they are reputable?









___

Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org





 


___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
   



_
Windows Live™ Hotmail®: Celebrate the moment with your favorite sports pics. 
Check it out.
http://www.windowslive.com/Online/Hotmail/Campaign/QuickAdd?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_QA_HM_sports_photos_072009&cat=sports
___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org



 



___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread MaryChristine
belinda, they NEVER gave out the address for angel wings, and i only
know of one person who was ever actually AT one of their (many)
locations; at the same time, every sanctuary setting i know of does
not give out their street address UNTIL and UNLESS someone has a
reason to have it. ie, when reyna and the place decide that they will
work together, he will give it to her. the reasons are two-fold: one,
once an address is out there, cats are dumped on the place constantly.
and when they are dumped, the people who dump them rarely have the
guts to tell you they're doing so--so in the north, you find dead cats
in carriers in the winter, or housecats attacked by wildlife, or
killed on the road.

the other reason is that, in most sanctuary settings, the humans also
live there, and they are NOT like shelters that have regular office
hours where people can drop in any time. most times there are outside
jobs, family times, etc. that the folks at the sanctuary have a right
to have respected. at cat tail farms, we NEVER turned away anyone who
had a real reason to come out, even if just to visit, but it had to be
around OUR schedule of feeding, cleaning, vet visits, and what little
semblance of lives that caring for 500+ cats allowed us.

MC

On Fri, Jul 31, 2009 at 1:29 AM, Belinda Sauro wrote:
>  No Address no cat ...
>
> --
>
> Belinda
> happiness is being owned by cats ...
>
> http://bemikitties.com
>
> http://BelindaSauro.com
>
>
> ___
> Felvtalk mailing list
> Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
>



-- 
Spay & Neuter Your Neighbors!
Maybe That'll Make The Difference

MaryChristine
Special-Needs Coordinator, Purebred Cat Breed Rescue (www.purebredcats.org)
Member, SCAT (Special-Cat Action Team)

___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] Adoption of cats

2009-07-31 Thread MaryChristine
go to almost any petfinder site or rescue and download THEIR
application--then use it as a guideline.

there's forms for foster and adoption apps on the www.purebredcats.org
website, too.

MC
-- 
Spay & Neuter Your Neighbors!
Maybe That'll Make The Difference

MaryChristine
Special-Needs Coordinator, Purebred Cat Breed Rescue (www.purebredcats.org)
Member, SCAT (Special-Cat Action Team)

___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread JENI RECA

you could ask for two references, two people that know them and can just tell 
you a little about them, you can ask about their pet history and verify it with 
the references.  A vet reference is great, unless it's their first time owning 
a cat.  Someone did adopt two kittens from me on this list, they gave me a vet 
name and number and just talking with them and getting a good feeling about it, 
I knew the cats were going to be fine.  They were too far to check out the 
living arrangements, but they kept in touch with me and sent me pictures.  good 
luck!jeni

> Date: Thu, 30 Jul 2009 21:40:41 -0400
> From: tadburn...@vermontel.net
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)
> 
> Check with his vet
> Anyone adopting an FeLV+ cat had best be on a first name
> basis with a vet
> Will the adopter allow you or someone you know to see how the
> cats will be living ???
> And are they willing to answer all your questions ???
> 
> Yes... I have adopted maybe 20 FeLV+ cats from this list in the
> past 6 years but none in the last couple years I think
> I am getting old and slowing down after my heart attack a year
> ago.
> Tad
> 
> 
> Cindy Jackson wrote:
> 
> >How can you make sure that someone who wants to adopt your cat is legitimate?
> >Has anyone ever offered to adopt your cat here on felvtalk or have you found 
> >someone here that you called to ask if they could adopt your cat? If so, how 
> >did you make sure they are reputable?
> > 
> > 
> > 
> >
> >
> > 
> >
> >
> >  
> >___
> >Felvtalk mailing list
> >Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> >http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
> >
> >
> >
> >  
> >
> 
> ___
> Felvtalk mailing list
> Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org

_
Windows Live™ Hotmail®: Celebrate the moment with your favorite sports pics. 
Check it out.
http://www.windowslive.com/Online/Hotmail/Campaign/QuickAdd?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_QA_HM_sports_photos_072009&cat=sports
___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread Susan Hoffman

In Reyna's situation, if she was able to bring the cat herself, Michael would 
gladly give her the address.  But she isn't able to bring the cat from LA to 
Reno.  So I'm working on transport.

In a sanctuary situation (as opposed to a citizen non-rescuer adopter), you 
have to be careful about giving out your address.  Too many sanctuaries have 
cats dumped at their door once the address is too public.  So the physical 
address is on a need to know basis.

--- On Thu, 7/30/09, Belinda Sauro  wrote:

> From: Belinda Sauro 
> Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)
> To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> Date: Thursday, July 30, 2009, 10:30 PM
>    Anyone who wouldn't
> let you come over and see that cat is a big red flag for
> me.  You can't do that without an address.
> 
> -- 
> Belinda
> happiness is being owned by cats ...
> 
> http://bemikitties.com
> 
> http://BelindaSauro.com
> 
> 
> ___
> Felvtalk mailing list
> Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
> http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org
> 

___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

2009-07-31 Thread Chris
Agreed--when I was looking for a home for Romeo, I was referred to someone
who apparently takes all the FELV cats from rescues in my area.  BUT he
never gives his address and they are perfectly content to meet him in a
parking lot somewhere and give him cats.  He may have been wonderful but I
found his unwillingness to let me do a home visit too frightening.  The joke
is that I found his address (from his phone #) in about 30 seconds--but that
wasn't the point.  Then I had someone who called me about all this
experience she had.  I asked for a vet ref and she willingly gave it to
me--though in retrospect, I suspect she figured I'd never check.  Well the
story her vet told me was awful and needless to say I was s glad I did
that check.  

I've worked on placing animals long distance for the Shelter I volunteer for
and its not easy.  But there's an application form, vet check and always
someone local who can check things out before AND after the placement.
There's also an adoption contract that says that if for any reason and at
any time, if the adopter cannot keep the animal, they MUST contact us first
and give us an opportunity to plan for that animal.  

We also always do follow ups==pictures, conversations, etc. You can tell a
lot from those about how things are going.  

Christiane Biagi
Cell:  914-720-6888
ti...@mindspring.com 
Volunteer-St. Bernard Parish Animal Shelter
http://www.flickr.com/photos/sbpshelter/sets/72157603921945483/ 

-Original Message-
From: felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org
[mailto:felvtalk-boun...@felineleukemia.org] On Behalf Of Belinda Sauro
Sent: Friday, July 31, 2009 1:30 AM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] (no subject)

Anyone who wouldn't let you come over and see that cat is a big red 
flag for me.  You can't do that without an address.

-- 

Belinda
happiness is being owned by cats ...

http://bemikitties.com

http://BelindaSauro.com


___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org


Re: [Felvtalk] Adoption of cats

2009-07-31 Thread Lorrie
On 07-30, Cindy Jackson wrote:
> 
> How can you make sure that someone who wants to adopt your cat is
> legitimate? Has anyone ever offered to adopt your cat here on
> felvtalk or have you found someone here that you called to ask if
> they could adopt your cat? If so, how did you make sure they are
> reputable? ? ? ?

It's not easy, but here are some tips..

If you are doing this via computer, use e-mail for the first
interview. If the e-mail exchanges are good, I ask for a phone
number. If the person can't respond with a complete e-mail
sentence stop right there.

If you get a phone number for the person call them at that
number early in the screening process. If the number can't be
verified as valid, go no further.

When you call the potential adopters ask them to tell you about
themselves and the home they have to offer. 

Ask if they've had cats or a cat before, and what happened to the
cat. A really good indiction of commitment is if the people tell 
you they nursed a senior cat through the end of it's life. A bad
indication is someone who says their cats keep getting run over,
their dog kills them, or they don't have a clue why their cats keep
disappearing!

Always ask a nominal adoption fee.  But feel free to waive it if 
you feel really good about the people or ask them to donate to a 
rescue group instead.  The willingness to pay a small fee is just 
one indicator of commitment.

When you choose a family after the initial interview, go to their
house and look around carefully. Are there other animals - how do
they interact?  Are there young children - how do they react to the
cat? Is this house and family suitable?  Look around and make a bit
of a judgment call on whether or not this family can afford your cat.
Not everyone should own a pet if they can't afford the vet bills
involved.

If you feel this is not the family for your pet, be gracious in
saying, I'm sorry I do not think my cat would be suited to your
family.  Then try again..

Once you find the family, let them know that you will be popping by
some time in the next 2 weeks to see how the cat is doing. If he is
well adjusting then you know your job is done and if not, then make
it clear that you reserve the right to pull the pet back out and try
again.

Leave the family your contact information so they can reach you if
they decide they do not want the pet. Also leave them the information
on the pet's vet of the past and a medical history.

This looks like a lot to do, but it's for the protection of your cat.

Lorrie


___
Felvtalk mailing list
Felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
http://felineleukemia.org/mailman/listinfo/felvtalk_felineleukemia.org