Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-19 Thread sandra
You put a smile on my face because so much you have said I can relate to over the last 5 years here in Spain regarding the 5 strays that I have added to my house hold. its so nice to know you are not the only fool around. good luck to both of you Sandra and Tabbs from Spain who has just

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-18 Thread Kerry Roach
Hi Nina, I have read some post about Starman and he sounds like a great kitty...Remember that I didn't find out about Bandy being FIV+ until last summer and he has lived with my others since 2001...they are all neg...So I would have to agree with what Tonya said about giving him a chance...Maybe

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-18 Thread sandra
don't worry about the bite, I have had a few of them in the last 4 years with the boys that where intact, they seem a little more unpredictable, but after beening neutered do settle down, and I have never been bitten since they have had the chop. good luck and I am so happy that he is in good

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-18 Thread Nina
Thanks Sandra, Bites and scratches come with the territory. I'm usually pretty smug about the fact that I'm good at reading them well enough to avoid dog and cat bites, (I'm a dog trainer and work with some problem dog children too). I just wasn't paying enough attention. Star has his

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-18 Thread Lernermichelle
Yes, that definitely describes Charlie. But he is also very meek-- he's this HUGE cat and one time a little twerpy pipsqueak kitten who was about 3 months old and very small ran over and hit him on the head and he actually cowered. He is the biggest pacifist I know. The woman who adopted

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)-- Bandy

2006-01-18 Thread Lernermichelle
Kerry, is Bandy FeLV+ too? Patches, who is FeLV+, tested FIV+ at her last vet visit as well. Hideyo said it could be a false positive. Michelle In a message dated 1/18/2006 9:52:43 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Hi Nina, I have read some post about Starman

Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
Hello everyone, I'm so sad and I'm reaching out to you guys for comfort and ideas about what to do for my new charge, Starman. I know I've mentioned him to some of you already, (we were calling him Manix, because he has a nub of a tail). The first time I saw him was a couple of months ago,

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, you should definitely post on the 2 yahoo FIV lists. I found a home for Charlie, from the shelter, that way (though we had to drive him to VA from MA!) Michelle

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread FORGETMENOTPETS
Nina, where are you and starman located at? Karen see our available orphans at:http://members.petfinder.org/~TX418/index.htmlKaren 817-453-4888

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
Thanks Michelle. I'll look up the FIV lists. It's encouraging to hear that you found someone a home that way. I'd be willing to do whatever I had to to transport him to the right home. I thought I'd try the feral cat group you posted about before too. I want to get pictures of him before I

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
I'm in Oxnard CA. It's north of Los Angeles and south of Santa Barbara. Nina [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, where are you and starman located at? Karen see our available orphans at: http://members.petfinder.org/~TX418/index.html Karen 817-453-4888

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread wendy
Nina, I definitely hear defeat in your voice, so before you make any decisions about Starman, you might want to give yourself some time to recoup. Your outlook on this whole situation will affect the decisions you make, so time is going to be your ally in this situation. You have a perfectly

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Lernermichelle
I know. I hate that Quincy is confined that way in my house. But I do not know what else to do. I do not want to mix my positives and him, but even if I did he can not be around other cats. The reason I have him is that my friend rescued him but he bit a hole through one of her cat's tail

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Kat
Nina, Get some Collidal Silver to put in his water to help him get over his URI. I usually use 20 ppm strength, and just add a dropperful to the water dish each time I change the water. Once he is not sounding so congested, have him neutered. Being that he is an older Tom, it may take 6 weeks

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread sandra
My feline family sadly has been reduced from 6 to 4, due too OUR RED BOY rocky developing FELV back in the summer. He was our first stray to turn up on our door step, AND WAS WITH US FOR 4 YEARS, Chang was the last to be welcomed to our Villa, where upon he was only with us for 18 months,

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
Kat, Thanks for the suggestions regarding Starman. I do have some CS somewhere in the house, I'll have to look for it. I got it a while ago and chickened out in trying it. I'm already adding RR and BioPlasma to his water, should I put all three in there, or just the CS? When I met Star I

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
Thanks Sandra for sharing the stories about your fur friends and the encouraging words for me and Star. I'm already feeling a bit better about the whole thing. Star is not felv pos, he's FIV, you know the cat HIV. You sound like our kind of people. It's always nice to meet others that

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Marylyn
Subject: Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long) Kat, Thanks for the suggestions regarding Starman. I do have some CS somewhere in the house, I'll have to look for it. I got it a while ago and chickened out in trying it. I'm already adding RR and BioPlasma to his water, should I put all three

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread catatonya
Nina,As soon as you said 'big intact male' I KNEW he was going to be fiv positive. Since you asked for opinions I'm going to give you mine. I hope you don't take offense.We had a stray cat living around our lake house that we visit on weekends only. He looked horrible. His ears were all

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread catatonya
Michelle,I have often wondered about Charlie and couldn't remember what had happened. You had been through so much I was afraid to ask. Wasn't he the coolest? FIV cats (males anyway) are. Our felv cats are special of course, but I've never met an fiv cat that wasn't just a laid back lover.

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread catatonya
Kat knows more about cs than I do, but I recall when I was on the holisticat list there were varying opinions about it. Some even said it was dangerous. I don't remember enough about it to say much besides I remember choosing not to use it even though I know a lot of people do.Also, if you can

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Sherry DeHaan
Tonya I agree with you about FIV+ cats being just the biggest sweetest critters.The sanctuary I volunteer at has about 50 fiv+.I have one I am fostering and I am bringing another beautiful guy home this Thursday.They are just the sweetest. sherrycatatonya [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Nina,As

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread Nina
Hey gang, Thanks for all the encouragement about Starman. I have heard everything you're saying about FIV kitties before. I'm just so paranoid about subjecting any of my guys to the remotest possibility of danger. You guys know how darn protective I am. I would be hesitant to introduce

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread catatonya
And Nina,Is this the guy you posted about on AC? I was given the same website about not 'interfering' with ferals because they have their own purpose. It's interesting. But if Starman is throwing himself at your window and crying for you I think it's because he is meant to be with YOU.I

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread TenHouseCats
definite GLOW for your big galoot!

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread janine paton
I always thought those big FIV cats are just the sweetest - just never heard anyone come out and say that! Lucky person who gets found by one of those cats - my big, scary looking guy was the best cat I've ever lived with. My husband went from calling him a monster - this was fear I think for

Re: Bad news about Starman - OT (long)

2006-01-17 Thread catatonya
Hey Nina,The last feral I brought in. Calico, female, Mama Kitty, not positive anything Anyway, if I pet her too much, and sometimes when I pick her up she will bite me. She loves to snuggle and have me pet her, BUT sometimes she just kind of freaks out. I have to remember