You know, you and Bailey know how to 'talk' to each other. You know him
better than anybody... The situation you're in is all of our worst
nightmares... No matter what, Bailey feels your love and your concern...
He knows that you've always done right by him. The gifts the two of you
have given to each other over these years are what he knows and feels.
There's no such thing as 'handling' such a terrible decision...We make these
sorts of decisions from our hearts not our minds... and your heart is big
enough to do the right thing. You can't possibly make a 'bad'
decision--what you feel in your heart is right is the only 'good' decision.
Here's hoping things go better than you're worried about... Give the little
guy a big hug from all of us... We're all thinking about him--and you!
Chris
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Belinda
Sent: Friday, May 05, 2006 4:54 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: Was appropriate calorie in take for a kitty - NowBailey's
Diagnosis
Thank you Wendy, it's been so hard these last months seeing him this
way, he in better health is such a bouncy happy-go-lucky boy, gets along
with everyone. It's been hard watching him not feel well for so long
and not being able to figure out why. If nothing else we may finally
understand what has been causing him to feel so rotten for so long. I
just pray it is treatable.
I can't tell you how many times on the cancer lists I'm on that someones
furchild was having surgery that started out optimistically and once the
vet had their fur child open realized just how bad things really were
and then with moms/dads input decided not to wake their furchild up. I
don't know if I could handle a decision like that, that's why if things
are really that bad I hope Bailey takes the decision out of my hands ...
like Buddie did.
I'm one of those people who has a very hard time losing control and
showing my emotions so I keep everything bottled up and don't deal with
it, in a way its not good because I distance myself so it won't hurt as
bad. And the look on Bailey's face whenever he sees me just tears my
heart out, but I keep telling myself when he gets better he will forgive
me and forget all the hard times. But if he doesn't get better it will
be hard to deal with ...
--
Belinda
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