g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-19 Thread david_russell_watson
--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, coolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there, i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth: won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married?

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-18 Thread Sumeet Mehra
Salil! Why are you replying instead of Utkarsh. Maybe he has more or something else to say. And again dont talk about boyfriends. Huhhow long does one person stay in one's life? How long is there steady thing in the relation. There is no steady relation between gays. The season may change

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-18 Thread Sumeet Mehra
Hi Simp!To have a platonic love, one needs to have that level of mind andthat too from both ends. Its about divine love. Where love is only at the giving end. There are no bounds to love, be it distance, non visiblity, no hear and say... then too,the unboundless love survives. Regards,

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-18 Thread Sumeet Mehra
Thanks Abbey!Truth has many facets. Its like blind men trying to identify what an elephant would be like. We all have our vision, our thinkings.Yet we all are far away from the truth. Everyone here is in a search of truth of their life.You said you don not agree with me totally. Because we

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-17 Thread Salil
SumeetPeople like Utkarsh and I have the courage to accept ourselves as gay and fight against a society that insists that we should make efforts to act like straight men. The reason Utkarsh doesn't want to marry is not because he cannot make it with females, but because he doesn't WANT

g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-17 Thread utkarsh
Dear Sumeet, Going through your mail I don't what did I feel more - frustration or anger and a little bit of surprise. If you think destroying someone's life, living a lie, denying what you are even to yourself is a fight, then I am glad I am not a fighter. You said - You dont want to marry

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-17 Thread simp ray
Hello to everybody participating in this exchange of ideas, I am sorry because this mail will not be able to clarify anything. I have been following this discussion closely and I fail to understand one thing. Can't a gay man love a woman? Why is everyone inclined towards associating love

g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-16 Thread Rajeev
Hi there, I was just holding back the thought of gay guys getting married to heterosexual girls and couple of things popped up in my mind. Firstly how will the poor girl's reaction be on finding, that her husband don't only like her but not even her kind Secondly I wonder, do these

Re: g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-16 Thread Sumeet Mehra
Hi Utkarsh!Well said. But hey buddy, can you tell me definition of strength and courage. You dont want to marry because you think you cant make it with females.In life many people make small and big achievements. Can you tell me what are achievements? To achieve something uncommon or

g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-13 Thread david_russell_watson
--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, coolclump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi there, i've always been a silent spectator of this grp. after reading ur reaction for gays marrying straight women, i've a humble comment/doubt to put forth: won't it be selfish of us(gays) if we deny getting married?