g_b have you tried girls???

2005-10-06 Thread ammad hassan
hi
   what about girls you dont like girls, have you tried be with one, it look 
like to me that you never had any relation with girls, if not then you are dont 
know what out there and its not fair.

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Hi Guys

 

Now that the group is discussing on this is would like to share my thought and 
how it started with me 

 

I  am the first child to my parents  and when I was born my mother was 18 there 
were certain complications because of which I  grew up at my grand mothers 
place since I was three days old, I had a great childhood and was a pampered 
kid .

I have very clear memories of my childhood , there were quite a few servants to 
take care of me and to play with me . one of them was a guy who had a perfect 
toned body  was in his teens when I was 5 , I remember him taking me to the 
cellar and store rooms of the house and used to make me fondle his private 
parts   . With time I started liking it. I started taking time out to be close 
to him  and all this started. I was, actually I am still very fond of fit toned 
bodies and I used to look for servants who were young and had good bodies , I 
used to just like my hands all over there broad shoulders and at times would 
also rub across there private parts. I used to watch them taking a bath in the 
open and at times used to force the chosen  one to take me into the pond for a 
dip  and there I used to have my share of fun. Please note that non of them 
ever tried to force there will on me , I just did what I wanted  and never 
allowed them to dictate  By this time I was already 10.

It was this time when my parents brought me back  for schooling and I only 
visited my grand mother during school vacations. During which nothing used to 
happen.

 

 Actual Sex   happened with a school friend of mine when I reached my eight 
standard, and then there was no looking back.  We fell in love and moved to a 
different city   after our tenth standard . we stated together for a cool eight 
years  out of wich for six years we stated with each other in mumbai. 

 
So Guys I think an early brush with sexual experience attracted me toward men 
and I have no regrets.

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i think sexuality is not a choice
i was gay since very young, looked at some men when i
was a kid and got an erection, but at that small age,
i did not know that was an erection, just realised
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Re: g_b Lets Vote for the Fame Gurukul Jodee~

2005-10-06 Thread k k
i am not so keenly following the gurukul or for that matter any other musical 
competitions as there is less consideration of merit and more to the regional / 
linguistic biases or to other irrelevant things like looks/ personality. the 
only show which i could realy enjoy was the very first SA RE GA MA hosted by 
Sonu nigam. after that there is a downfall in every program. Sorry to be so 
pesimistic.but i could not resist myself from expressing my views on this.
 
-one music lover...

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Qazi doesnt sing well enough. Today he raped the
beautiful song by kumar ganjawla Bheegay hoont tere.
He doest look good. Actually looks like those ruffians
on the street. And his dance isnt so great(better than
the others). But only the whole, its a singing
competition primarily.
But public voted for Qazi. Its understood yaar. The
greatest movies of India were seen by our people after
Satyajit ray own the oscar. Somehow Indians are not
able to differentiate the diamond from the stone.
It was ridiculous to see Arijit go out againt Qazi.

Rex is cho chweethis actions on the stage is
great. Voice superb. Choice of songs suit his
temperament. Rendition excelent. and today he brought
tears by his song. He was a bit more then perfect.

Arpita is very good and matured too. But of late her
voice is quivering. She is too stressed out i think.
the othe girl rooprekha sings better but seems
lifeless. Personally i like Arpita...but yet rooprekha
sings better.

all said and done...Qazi winning by 40 lakh votes is a
shame. Even the judges decide every time to put him in
danger zone. But India thinks those judges are a bunch
of fools. What a pity.
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Re: g_b friend/mates wanted for September 22

2005-10-06 Thread Sweet Angel


Goodbye Raaj, it was nice having you here.
Although I doubt if anyone knew when you joined  anyone would be bothered when you are quitting.
BY the way, if you had read the mails more carefully, you would have also read the mails the Mods keeping sending about the GB digest etc.
Anyways since you have already made up your mind to quit this group then its no use giving you the details.
Ciao.
Thanks  Regards.


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Re: g_b Orientation is a biological trait

2005-10-06 Thread suhail khan



hi indian
i am sorry if you felt bad reading my explanations, i am not blaming anyone, whomsoever, especially i am not blaming god, as i dont have any problem being gay, and i respect almighty's decision because being a gay according to me is not the end of life, and there is much more in life. i just assert that like your looks,height and color, were already decided ,and so is the case with your sexual orientation, and like we dont have any answers except genetics for looks,height,color and etc same is the case with sexual orientation and that you cannot ask for an answer that "why i am gay". you are gay because you were meant to be gay like you were meant to have the color,the height,the looks that you have and it could not have been anything else, as your genes decide what you will look like ,how tall you will be and so on,so does some biological process determines that you will be a gay,and no one can remarkably change it, because all these things were destined and were meant to be
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Friends,Here we go again! Blaiming God, devil and then me!! The truth is that these are conjectures... Andfinally this is not a case of either or kind ofthing... Let me say other way round.Orientation is a biological trait. It is continuouswithout a boundary... There is no black and whiteclassification... There is some scientific evidencethat it is in our genes (although the evidence is notstrong enough). Even if this is the case environmentalfactors (including womb environment) does affect themanifestation of the biological potential. By the way being gay and being faminine are not thesame things.. I am GAY without having any reasonabletrace of being feminine...One cannot CHANGE the orientation.. Surely one cancontrol to a larger extent.. I can control myself notbe aroused by males but I
 am not sure how can I trainmyself to be excited by thinking about females!Regards...
		 
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Re: g_b check out the www.gaybombay.info site

2005-10-06 Thread suhail khan



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Re: g_b GB party at velocity-Bar Attendant Overcharges

2005-10-06 Thread DM
Hi Walnut,
 
If you notice such things happening please let us know immediately there and 
there. 
 
There are notices of various charges put up at Velocity at all times, you just 
have to show him the notice and ask him to take coupons accordingly. Mocktails 
and Juices both are available at Velocity so you do not have to stick to 
aerated waters only.
 
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This is not a complaint but still I would like to point out that during our 
last party at Velocity, the Bar Attendant had asked for 2 coupons for 1 Aerated 
Drink (that was unfair) and 1 Coupon for Mineral Water (which is fine). Kindly 
arrange for Fruit Juices as well... I cant sip 4 Aerated Drinks in one night 
(Just kidding). If I find the Bar Attendant, I will make him say Sorry to all 
those people from whom he took two coupons instead of one 

Do you ever notice such things?

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Re: g_b Lets Vote for ARPITA AS QUAZI HAS OVERDONE HIS DIALOGS

2005-10-06 Thread suhail khan
qazi is really no good singer, he is just paying attention to his clothes and 
style and no singing. also i dont find him attractive either ,from any angle. 
and also the competition is about singing and not looks so he should be send 
packing. though if he was even 1% attractive i would have voted for him, but he 
fails in that as well as he fails in his singing.

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I am actually fed up with QUAZI and his Dialogs this guy needs to understand 
that the competition is all about good singing then comes screen presence and 
style. 

The Judges and the participants have made it clear that quazi is not unto the 
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Re: g_b If you succeed in becoming a straight,please do write to me

2005-10-06 Thread james bond
all i wanna say is that if a straight man can't turn gay then how can a gay man 
turn straightall this crap 
about turning straight is nothing all it does is makes that person stay in 
denial of his preferences, which he may not be able to do his entire life




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g_b dubai crusing spots

2005-10-06 Thread kash ora
hi
burdubai creek side near makthoom bridge and  near shindaga tunnel side benches 
could be used to meet , by sitting there alone, looking into eyes of persons, 
identity could be made and .after making friendship anywhere could be /

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g_b The Gaybombay Party at Velocity on Friday, 07 October, 2005!!!!

2005-10-06 Thread DM





The Gaybombay Party at Velocity on Friday, 07 October, 2005
--
GB goes back to one of the very best, most popular and most happening discotheques in town. Located between Crossroads and Tardeo AC Market Velocity is HUGE and has the biggest dance floor in Mumbai. For those who'd rather chill there's also ample lounging space.
So come on over on Friday 07 October, 2005, and have the time of your life at Velocity.--Date: FRIDAY, 07 October, 2005.

Time: 9:00 pm - 1:00 am.

Venue: VELOCITY,Bluemoon Ent. Pvt. Ltd.,Film Center, 2nd. Floor,Tardeo, Haji Ali,Mumbai - 400034.Telephone: 23510302.-- How to get there:

The closest train station is Bombay Central.
If you're driving from the Mahalakshmi Temple or Peddar Road area make a right turn at the Haji Ali signal. If you're driving from the suburban, Worli or Mahalakshmi Station area make a left turn at the Haji Ali signal. Drive straight and past the Heera Panna shopping centre on your right; Velocity is just after Crossroads/McDonalds on the same side of the street. If you're driving from the Bombay Central, Ganga/Jamuna or Sardar Pao Bhaji area Velocity is on your left after Tardeo AC Market. Valet parking is available at the venue.-- What time do you expect the party to go on till?

The party will start at 9.00 PM and will go on until 1.00 AM. only.So, if you want to party more please do come early.-- How much do I pay?

The cover charge will be Rs. 400/- per head. But hey, guess what we have an early bird discount. If you come before 10 pm than you will pay Rs 350/- only.-- What do I expect for the amount I am paying?

You can expect:
a}Good music and a dance floor,b)4 small Drinks with mixers, or 4 Beer Pints, or 4 AeratedWaters/Mineral Water.c}Snacks like wafers and peanuts.-Extra drinks can be purchased at Rs 100/- for 1 small drink with mixer or one small beer pint or one mocktail or one juice or one bacardi breezer. Rs 50/- will get you either an aerated water or mineral water. Dinner will not be served.-- Some don'ts:

GB, as a support group, has created this comfort/safe space for gays.Many people at the party may be "newbies" (those still coming to terms with their sexuality and/or those who have mustered the courage to come to such a party for the first time). We request you to be sensitive to the comfort levels of others and to behave and dress accordingly.
No dark rooms and no sex on the premises; if found indulging in any "hanky panky" you shall be asked to leave the party.-- A special REQUEST:

During and after the party please DO NOT gather outside the venue. The management has requested us to ensure that, in the middle of the night, the peace of the neighbourhood is not disturbed.-- A few dos:

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Re: g_b Re: an early brush with sexual experience turned me gay

2005-10-06 Thread Just me
stud_ of bombay shared his experiences of early brush with sexual experiences 
with a guy. I wonder in how many cases this happens and guys turn gay. I mean 
it is a well known fact that some % of guys can become gay because of this 
(someone in their family doing crazy stuff when they are kids) but is it true 
for each gay person. I don't think so. I have gay friends from  various 
countries of the world(that's the advantage of living in US) and they had 
perfect childhood just like me or anyone else, and attraction for men came very 
naturally to them just like it came naturally to me. 
 
So my point is such instances should not be taken as a general rule that all 
gays had gone through such experiences in their childhood and that turned them 
gay. We already have such a low self esteem among lot of us and such stories 
does not help to boost your self esteem.
 
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Re: g_b Being gay without being deceitful

2005-10-06 Thread Just me



Geoffrey,
Thanks for sharing your story. I myself am very comfortable with my sexuality and has decided not to marry a woman and ruin her life just to please my parents. You story make me feel right on my decision and boost my confidence. Thanks for being brave and sharing the truth about your life with us. I hope other guys who are married and living a double life can share their experiences, not as how their life is miserable but share what are the facts of a double life so that gay guys can think twice before getting married and ruin another girl and her family's life. 

Cheers,
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I remember always being totally happy washing dishes for my mum, cooking, cleaning hanging out with the aunties rather than the uncles.I enjoyed undressing in the boys toilets at the beach but I had never heard of gay or homosex in the 50's and 60's.I mentioned the interest to the family physician who just said all you have to do is to find a good woman and marry her and all your problems will come right.Well I did and we will celebrate 40 years of marriage next year but the remission only lasted for the first 10 years after which a double life was the only practical option.I now know better. I realise what the fantasies meant as I was growing up as young as seven and eight years of age. I was screwed for many years by the God Hates Fags theology which caused me to study the socio historical origins of that theology and be able to
 expose it as a social construct and nothing to do with morality or faithfulness to my maker.My only regret is that my partner is married to a man who can't fulfil the till death do us part sexuality. Freedom has been offered and rejected.It is high time that we take notice of the differences in orientation and stop making young gay men and women hate the fact that they are constructed with a predominant same sex attraction over which they have no control and also stop forcing heterosexist alliances in the name of culture.Yet another heterosexual marriage of a gay man and a heterosexual woman will take place in another Indian State this month. I know because I am a guest.The real question for me is not why I'm gay but really why it is so difficult to accommodate my orientation into the social patterns of life without being deceitful or consigning a partner to a lifetime of frustration. I think I have made a reasonable start in the process of
 reconstruction.GeoffreyHIV/AIDS Policy ConsultantConvenor - Brimbank Community Initiatives IncSecretary - International Centre for Health Equity IncMember - Australasian Society for HIV Medicine IncMember - ILGA BrusselsP.O. Box 606 Sunshine 3020Victoria. Australia.Ph: 0418 328 278Ph/Fax : (61 3) 9449 1856or in IndiaMr GeoffreyMobile : (91) 9840 097 178 (SMS when not in India)"The new century is not going to be new at all if we offer only charity, that palliative to satisfy the conscience and keep the same old system of haves and have-nots quietly contained."
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g_b bouncing mails

2005-10-06 Thread asfan
dear moderators,
even tho' i empty my inbox at [EMAIL PROTECTED] regularly, i have been bouncing 
emails since the past few days.  inspite of trying to unbouce five or six times 
i have not been succesful.  i even tried unsubscribing so i could resubscribe, 
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i would appreciate it if you could help me.  i prefer rediff to yahoo.
thanking you vey much,
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good to see you writing ( even though it is a complaint)

i checked your bouncing status but there is no record of any recent mails 
bouncing from your emaial addy

wonder what could be the problem

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Re: g_b If you succeed in becoming a straight,please do write to me

2005-10-06 Thread walnut
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g_b Re: Being gay without being deceitful

2005-10-06 Thread Kennedy
Hello Geoffrey;  I sympathize with you and your situation, yes I too 
was raised in a homophobic culture and society, I married had three 
children, and finally divorced my wife, since Icould no longer stand 
her judgmental, cruel, and overbearing approach to me.  Not because 
I was intersted in men.  One day I just walked... I went through a 
lot of emotional turmoil in those days.  Now in this country 
(Canada) being gay is primarily and accepted thing, except for the 
right wing politicians and religons.  It is so much easier for 
people to live an authentic life style.  We now have teenagers who 
date same sex openly and it is accepted and increasing as each day 
goes by. We have young people proudly proclaim their bisexuality and 
openly experiment. Times have changed here, and they will change 
there too. The table have turned and my exwife and people like her 
have to eat crow now. It is actually illegal for people to speak of 
gay people in a derogatory capacity.  Also Geoffrey there is a thing 
called marriage of convenience, where nothing more is expected other 
than emotional and financial support of each other.  Times will 
change for you too.

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g_b RE: AIDS activists see red over universal symbol

2005-10-06 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Dear Friends,

Just because they are universal, they do not belong to anybody and yet to
everybody. So while one cannot be forced to accept it, a person or a group
for that matter, cannot force everyone else to reject it either. That in a
nutshell is the essence of a symbol. 

But a symbol means more than just that. It becomes an anchor around which a
whole set of action grows, activism develops, emotions are created,
resources mobilized, sometimes even lives sacrificed. All of these add to
the value; call it brand-equity if you wish, of symbols.

Much work has happened, which has added much of that value, at the cost of
much effort of millions, to the universal red ribbon symbol of HIV activism.
The unsubstantiated, if not illogical sentiment of one that it wants her to
commit suicide at seeing it [without any explanation as to why] is not
reason enough to reject that much work and efforts. Nor is it reason to
reject for that matter, the resources that have been mobilized and committed
around that symbol, which in turn provides succor and life support to many
suffering millions, or help save lives.

Therefore, no matter what the Bangalore convention adopts and feels, the red
ribbon is going to stay here for some time. We can choose to contribute
positively to it, or we can choose to engage it in an insane fight. The
choice is ours individually to make.

I have a small suggestion to make to the Bangalore convention wallas. The
major world conferences will continue to be organized around the symbol, and
major donors will continue to subscribe to it, so here is a dare. Please put
your money where your mouth is, and go out there and reject or refuse all
funding from those who subscribe to the symbol. More importantly don't apply
to major conferences for scholarships and support, nor attend them. If you
can do this you are people of conviction and my sincere respects are with
you, even if I disagree with you. If you cannot, then please know that by
opening your mouth on this non-issue you have actually successfully placed
your foot in it.

Best regards

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AIDS activists see red over universal symbol 

By Kestur G Vasuki, Bangalore: An AIDS convention in Bangalore has 
decided to abandon the red-ribbon symbol, saying it is 
discriminatory. 

Over a HIV-positive people across the country attended the two-day 
convention. 

The organisers of the convention claimed that the red ribbon the, 
symbol of AIDS and HIV, has created a negative impact about victims. 

We have decided in the convention to abandon the AIDS symbol, the 
red ribbon, which acts as a negative in our minds. If a HIV person 
sees the AIDS symbol red ribbon we feel like committing suicide, 
Veena Dhari, an organiser at the convention said. 

Veena Dhari, the first woman in the country to declare her self as a 
HIV Positive person, also said that the convention has decided to 
give impetus to the HIV/AIDS networking across the country. 

The second thing is the convention has passed a resolution to 
increase the HIV networking people across the country, she added. 

India accounts for about 5.1 million HIV-positive people, next only 
to South Africa. The northeast has been declared as one of India's 
high-risk zones with close to 100,000 people infected with HIV. 

In a recent report the U.S. Central Intelligence Agency said if the 
misinformation and stigma about the disease continues at the scale 
it is now, the number of Indians with HIV could quadruple by 2010

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Re: g_b there shud be a strong desire not to do something (if you dont want to be gay)

2005-10-06 Thread delhi guy
I will take this as an advise to quit smoking rather.
I guess it will help.
Somu


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ok guyz this shud solve ur problem.
  a. there shud be a strong desire not to do
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g_b It is genetic!!!

2005-10-06 Thread Kennedy
Where has every one been for the last ten years?  the majority of 
the scientific/medical/psychological world all agree that the 
biggest determining factor is that being gay or sexually attracted 
to men is genetic. and by the way that the majority of the 
population of the human race is bi sexual. It is there that choices 
are made as to whether one will act on their impulses or not, so 
haviing sex it a choice but who we are attracted to is not.

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g_b Freinds it took me 35 years to accept myself

2005-10-06 Thread delhi guy
Trying to become straight will not help anyone. I
could not accept my attraction to men since i was
brought up in a society where i learnt that getting
attracted to females is the only natural way. In my
deepest desire to become a straight person, i even got
married. But finally i had my first kiss from a man at
the age of 35. 
and go to
bed with a man. Do u think i had not tried to keep my
thoughts under control and become a straight person? 
Now i feel free as i have come out recently to my
sister. yet a long way to go. But guys, who can
accept themselves really fast and early in life will
be the winners. Give yrself a beautiful life.
accept yr sexuality. Dont think u are abnormals.
Nature has made us...we are the childern of nature
like any other living being.
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Re: g_b Being gay without being deceitful

2005-10-06 Thread delhi guy
Nice mail. Eye opener for many including 'Walnut'.
Somu


--- Geoffrey Heaviside [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
I remember always being totally happy washing dishes for my mum, cooking, 
cleaning hanging out with the aunties rather than the uncles. 

I enjoyed undressing in the boys toilets at the beach but I had never heard of 
gay or homosex in the 
50's and 60's. I mentioned the interest to the family physician who just said 
all you have  to do is to find a good woman and marry her and all your problems 
will come right. 


Well I did and we will celebrate 40 years of marriage next year but the 
remission only lasted for the first 10 years after which a double life was the 
only practical option. 

I now know better. I realise what the fantasies meant as I was growing up as 
young as seven and eight years of age. I was screwed for many years by the God 
Hates Fags theology which caused me to study the socio historical origins of 
that theology and be able to expose  it as a social construct and nothing to do 
with morality or faithfulness to my maker. 

My only regret is that my partner is married to a man who can't fulfil the till 
death do us part sexuality. Freedom has been offered and rejected. 

It is high time that we take notice of the differences in orientation and stop 
making young gay men and women hate the fact that they are constructed with a 
predominant same sex attraction over which they have no control and also stop 
forcing heterosexist alliances in the name of culture. 

Yet another heterosexual marriage of a gay man and a heterosexual woman will 
take place in another Indian State this month. I know because I am a guest. 

The real question for me is not why I'm gay but really why it is so difficult 
to accommodate my orientation into the social patterns of life without being 
deceitful or consigning a partner to a lifetime of frustration. I think I have 
made a reasonable start in the process of reconstruction. 



Geoffrey HIV/AIDS Policy Consultant Convenor - Brimbank Community Initiatives 
Inc Secretary - International Centre for Health Equity Inc Member - 
Australasian Society for HIV Medicine Inc Member - ILGA Brussels P.O. Box 606 
Sunshine 3020 Victoria. Australia. Ph: 0418 328 278 Ph/Fax : (61 3) 9449 1856 

or in India Mr Geoffrey 

Mobile : (91) 9840 097 178 
(SMS when not in India) 

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Re: g_b Re: an early brush with sexual experience turned me gay

2005-10-06 Thread JAD GRU
Hello,
 
I think I turned to like men when I was about 4 or 5 years old when an uncle of 
mine started giving me a peek at his private parts.  I was so curious about 
that hairy thing that was between his legs but nonetheless I felt so attracted 
to it and fantasized about touching it.


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Hi Guys

 

Now that the group is discussing on this is would like to share my thought and 
how it started with me 

 

I  am the first child to my parents  and when I was born my mother was 18 there 
were certain complications because of which I  grew up at my grand mothers 
place since I was three days old, I had a great childhood and was a pampered 
kid .

I have very clear memories of my childhood , there were quite a few servants to 
take care of me and to play with me . one of them was a guy who had a perfect 
toned body  was in his teens when I was 5 , I remember him taking me to the 
cellar and store rooms of the house and used to make me fondle his private 
parts   . With time I started liking it. I started taking time out to be close 
to him  and all this started. I was, actually I am still very fond of fit toned 
bodies and I used to look for servants who were young and had good bodies , I 
used to just like my hands all over there broad shoulders and at times would 
also rub across there private parts. I used to watch them taking a bath in the 
open and at times used to force the chosen  one to take me into the pond for a 
dip  and there I used to have my share of fun. Please note that non of them 
ever tried to force there will on me , I just did what I wanted  and never 
allowed them to dictate  By this time I was already 10.

It was this time when my parents brought me back  for schooling and I only 
visited my grand mother during school vacations. During which nothing used to 
happen.

 

 Actual Sex   happened with a school friend of mine when I reached my eight 
standard, and then there was no looking back.  We fell in love and moved to a 
different city   after our tenth standard . we stated together for a cool eight 
years  out of wich for six years we stated with each other in mumbai. 

 
So Guys I think an early brush with sexual experience attracted me toward men 
and I have no regrets.

dbf [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: i believe we are born gay
i think sexuality is not a choice
i was gay since very young, looked at some men when i
was a kid and got an erection, but at that small age,
i did not know that was an erection, just realised
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Re: g_b Wanted the name of the online store in Mumbai where one gets sexy underwear

2005-10-06 Thread Raj Kumar
Hi Guys,

For Sexy Funky Underwears you can shop online :

www.aztectshirts.com


But be careful, this guy ajay who handles all this
also tries to cheat.

I had ordered for a undies which was shown on the
online site, i got the order confirmation by email
that my order has been accepted for the same undie and
I have to make payment to the courier guy whn he
delivers the undie to me.

I took the delivery of the undie by paying the courier
guy, but whn i opened the box, i found that it was not
the same undie wot i had ordered, rather it was a
ordinary locally made stuff.

I tried to send several emails to this ajay, and also
tried calling him on his cell but got no response.

So pls b careful while dealing.

Bye 
Raj

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Hey guys,
 
Need your help. Sometime ago, one of you resourceful
guys had posted the name and address (link) of an
online store in Mumbai where one can buy sexy
underwear. Would that person be kind enough to please
let me know the name and link once again? I think, the
online stroe's name began with 'A' if I'm not wrong.
Please, it would be a great help.
 
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Amman






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Dear Rashmi,

Real Sacrifice is something on which one can write a thesis. But I 
shall say here what it has come to mean to many people I encounter, 
especially gay ones who have 'sacrificed' their happiness to please 
their parents, conform to society, and get married.

Sacrifice there is the resort of the coward, who does not have the 
courage to stand up for his beliefs, nor the honesty to face and 
acknowledge his own desires, but has ample meanness to cheat another 
individual in to a loveless marriage. Sacrifice is just a façade to 
justify, nay glorify, the spinelessness of individuals. Sacrifice is 
the misnomer given to the lack of guts to really sacrifice ones 
share of the family property, to sacrifice one's 'good name and 
reputation', to sacrifice the security of'acceptability', to 
sacrifice the fight to 'retain the right to equal treatment' no 
matter what etc etc etc.

Net net, don't bother! Why should you when they, who lay claim to 
being the biggest sacrificers, generally don't give much of a shit 
either. Its all for show.

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