Re: [GO] BD Violets The Sick Mother

2004-11-10 Thread Ann Dowker
In message <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Barbara Dryden <> > >And also a representation - as you very rightly suggest - of maternal > >selflessness - Mum works herself to death? So inducing pangs of reader- > >guilt. > > Yes. I'd be glad if people could supply some examples here. I'm afraid my > memory s

Re: [GO] BD Violets The Sick Mother

2004-11-10 Thread Barbara Dryden
Diane wrote Lying around on sofas stops being heroic and self-sacrificing and becomes selfish and manipulative. Yes, but I think that's a fairly modern view. You could contrast 19th & 20th century attitudes here, perhaps. Yet we still have invalids sympathetically spoken of - by EBD, for instanc