Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread Charles Haynes
On 8/5/07, Suresh Ramasubramanian [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 If someone was asked who Charles Haynes was, in India, they'd reply
 Christian.

Really? Fascinating. Are they really so ready to pigeonhole people
based on nothing more than their name, or their physical appearance?
They are *that* simplistic, or there are so few people here who
obviously break that pattern? People really assume that I'm Christian?
I may need to take steps to make it more obvious that I am not. Maybe
carry around Betrand Russell or something.

 They wouldnt think Jew unless it was totally obvious, with a name like 
 Moses
 Rabbinowitz

Moishe Rabinowitz. Moses is a Christian name :).

 Practicing, non practicing, actively pagan etc still wouldnt matter.

Eh? I don't understand this part. You're saying that people will
assume, based on name alone, what religion someone - even a foreigner
- is, and it doesn't matter what religion they actually profess or
practice? That seems so foreign to me.

Now I might assume a *cultural* background based on a name, but I
certainly wouldn't assume anything about a person's religious beliefs
based solely on their name. (Though if I run into someone named Joi
Wolfwomyn I probably will make some assumptions not only about their
religious beliefs, but also their probable sexual orientation, and
political beliefs.)

 ps: Given the indian diaspora you'd probably have to move to antarctica or
 outer space to avoid meeting another Indian, or a sizeable community of
 them ..

Surely, but outside of India it is relatively easy to avoid being a
part of such community. For example, it would be easy for me to raise
my family here while not being a part of traditional American culture,
the presence of Americans in Bangalore notwithstanding.

Similarly in America, it would be easy for people raised as Hindus to
raise children outside of traditional Hindu culture if they so
desired. Would such children be considered Hindu by Indians? What if
the parents changed their names and the children spoke only colloquial
American English, complete with California accents?

Are they Hindu?

What is the essence of Hinduism? How is it acquired or lost? Is it
purely based on who you are descended from? Is there a cultural
element? A religious requirement? If you run through the combinations,
who is Hindu?

Not born of Hindu parents, culturally non-hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(an outsider)

Not born of Hindu parents, cuturally non-hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(a foreign born convert)

Not born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(An indian born child of non-indan born parents, raised in Hindu
society, but not a practicing hindu. [is this possible?])

Not born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(Indian born child of foreign parents, raised in Hindu society,
follows Hindu religious practice)

Born of Hindu parents, culturally non-hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(Assimilated american children of assmilated Indian-born parents)

Born of Hindu parents, cuturally non-hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(Religious american born children of assimilated indian-born parents)

Born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(Madhu, e.g.)

Born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, religiously practicing hindu? (Hindu)

-- Charles



Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian

Charles Haynes [05/08/07 14:49 +0530]:

I may need to take steps to make it more obvious that I am not. Maybe
carry around Betrand Russell or something.


ah, another christian

this, from a place where a lot of the christians, especially those from my
father's generation or from smaller towns, got their names courtesy a
pastor who poked around the local graveyard for dead brits and used their
names .. so you have fine old names like o'neill shahapurkar (first name
from some dead irishman's grave, and the second name + suffix kar standard
maharashtrian practice that makes up surnames based on the town your
ancestors came from)


Eh? I don't understand this part. You're saying that people will
assume, based on name alone, what religion someone - even a foreigner
- is, and it doesn't matter what religion they actually profess or
practice? That seems so foreign to me.


Well, it is based on standard indian well, observation, with hindus called
udhay and suresh, muslims called asif and yusuf ..


based solely on their name. (Though if I run into someone named Joi
Wolfwomyn I probably will make some assumptions not only about their
religious beliefs, but also their probable sexual orientation, and
political beliefs.)


the only Joi I've run into is surnamed Ito, and he is a fun guy to meet for
all that he is a compulsive blogger 


Surely, but outside of India it is relatively easy to avoid being a
part of such community. For example, it would be easy for me to raise
my family here while not being a part of traditional American culture,
the presence of Americans in Bangalore notwithstanding.


Not so easy for an indian outside india, I assure you - if only because
other indians actively seek you out and drag you kicking and screaming if
necessary into the local community


Not born of Hindu parents, culturally non-hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(an outsider)


still an outsider, and probably a hare krishna or random other guru camp
follower


Not born of Hindu parents, cuturally non-hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(a foreign born convert)


ditto ++


Not born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(An indian born child of non-indan born parents, raised in Hindu
society, but not a practicing hindu. [is this possible?])


well he could be a sikh, or a jain or something (quite likely a sikh) -
those religions are nominally separate from hinduism though rooted in it


Not born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(Indian born child of foreign parents, raised in Hindu society,
follows Hindu religious practice)


very rare indeed


Born of Hindu parents, culturally non-hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(Assimilated american children of assmilated Indian-born parents)


hindu, to the max. even if he converts, whereupon his relatives regard him
as a potential prodigal son to welcome back into the fold sooner or later


Born of Hindu parents, cuturally non-hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(Religious american born children of assimilated indian-born parents)


hindu


Born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, no hindu religious practices?
(Madhu, e.g.)


hindu. all of us fake hindusout here on silk.. madhu, me, udhay etc -
still hindu. and at least some of us are brahmins - supposed to be
priests and saddled with extra rituals as a result, nominally at least. 


Born of Hindu parents, culturally hindu, religiously practicing hindu?
(Hindu)


yup



Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread Divya Sampath
--- Madhu Menon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 There are also the Hinduism is a way of life
 people who tell me that I 
 can be a Hindu despite my atheism, but I've never
 been able to get a 
 straight answer from anyone about what exactly that
 way of life entails. 
 I begin to wonder whether merely breathing is
 sufficient.

Pretty single-minded, aren't they? I did get something
approaching an answer from one of the 'way of life'
folks - if you are aware of Hindu beliefs, and
practice dharma and ahimsa, you are a Hindu. Even if
you are an atheist.

So what does that make people who don't practice
dharma or ahimsa, and are still self-identified
Hindus? You guessed it: misguided, but still Hindus.
Apparently to him, you can't not be Hindu if you're
Indian, and anyone else who wants to join in is
welcome too. Huh. 

cheers,
Divya



Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread Shyam Visweswaran

--- Madhu Menon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 There are also the Hinduism is a way of life
 people who tell me that I 
 can be a Hindu despite my atheism, but I've
 never been able to get a 
 straight answer from anyone about what exactly
 that way of life entails. 

Atheism and religious membership need not be
mutually exclusive. It depends on how atheism is
defined; a common definition is non-belief in a
personal god. The Advaita vedanta school of
Hinduism, IMO, for all practical purposes
espouses athesim. So does Zen Buddhism. So, an
Advitan could be considered as both a hindu and
an atheist.

shyam



  

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Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread Deepa Mohan
 --- Madhu Menon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  There are also the Hinduism is a way of life
  people


I find it sometimes nice that Hinduism seems so all-embracing and
sometimes stifling...I too am working out whether I am really a Hindu
or not. But going by the responses on this thread, unless I actively
embaras Islam (as the conversion certificate of a friend said) rind
called myself Salima Bano or something like that, I guess I am a Hindu
for a lifetime...and even then, am likely to be regarded as a straying
Hindu for the rest of my life.

This feeling is further reinforced by the fact that many Christian
families who converted any time between a few to a few hundred years
ago, still mainitaining their Hindu names and some of the religious
customs too...many Indian Christian weddings include the thali or
mangal sutra' amongst the wedding ceremonies, apart from the wedding
ring.

Deepa.


On 8/5/07, Shyam Visweswaran [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- Madhu Menon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  There are also the Hinduism is a way of life
  people who tell me that I
  can be a Hindu despite my atheism, but I've
  never been able to get a
  straight answer from anyone about what exactly
  that way of life entails.

 Atheism and religious membership need not be
 mutually exclusive. It depends on how atheism is
 defined; a common definition is non-belief in a
 personal god. The Advaita vedanta school of
 Hinduism, IMO, for all practical purposes
 espouses athesim. So does Zen Buddhism. So, an
 Advitan could be considered as both a hindu and
 an atheist.

 shyam



   
 
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Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry
Hinduism was never one religion, and the collection of people who were called 
Hindus were never dogmatic about the identity of God, and never had a book 
that identified God for them.

Hindus were never (IMO) required to identify themselves as a religion and name 
their God until they were challenged by newer faiths like Christianity and 
Islam. I believe there was a reverse process of classifying Hindus as being 
different - pagans or kafirs whose Gods were false. 

Hinduism, which is possibly a collection of animistic beliefs refined by some 
nifty life-theories, is non-unified in nature  and does not commit itself to 
either rejecting God or accepting and identifying God as one defined entity. 
It allows laxity that is a threat to the disciplined dogma of Christianity 
and Islam. 

Hinduism allows for, and explains (in great detail) the means to achieve 
happiness and life without guilt for the worst offender, and a denier of God. 
To a person who has been taught that this is just plain wrong, Hindu belief 
is a problem. But to others, who get no joy from whatever  they  are taught 
to believe, Hindu laxity offers freedom of thought that might have been 
considered impossible in organized religion.

I believe that Hinduism has brought a degree of morality among Hindus by 
collecting up folklore over the centuries that define what is right and what 
is wrong. However some of the stuff that is said to be right is not right. 
But then again all Hindu knowledge is offered as is in a take it or leave 
it  manner. if you don't like it you can dump it. God will not, and cannot 
punish you for being yourself.

shiv



 I find it sometimes nice that Hinduism seems so all-embracing and
 sometimes stifling...I too am working out whether I am really a Hindu
 or not. 



Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread Srini Ramakrishnan
On 8/5/07, Kiran Jonnalagadda [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Viewing the computer for long hours has proven to cause impotency,
 says Pramila Nesargi, chairperson of the Karnataka State Women's
 Commission.

We are a transition generation; the husbands want to be like their
fathers, the wives thankfully don't have to take it like their mothers
- they are financially free. Stress, lack of time at home, yada yada
yada is just icing on the cake.

The next generation will IMO handle this much better.

Cheeni



Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread ashok _
On 8/5/07, Srini Ramakrishnan  wrote:

 The next generation will IMO handle this much better.


The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally
figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man
anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save
money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10
years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their
kids will actually listen to them.



Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread ashok _
On 8/5/07, Suresh Ramasubramanian  wrote:

 Not so easy for an indian outside india, I assure you - if only because
 other indians actively seek you out and drag you kicking and screaming if
 necessary into the local community


i had this neigbour for a while, a kenyan-born indian. he had this
thing going with a
black kenyan girl. his family cut him off (financially), and then cut
him of socially.
the guy retaliated by becoming a born-again christian,and moving into
a flat (next door) with the girl in question.

one day he calls me for dinner and amid his preaching i noticed that
he was forcing himself to eat a fillet of beef (he looked like he was
about to throw up), it wasnt that the beef was bad, (i was eating the
other fillet) but he was trying to make himself to do something out of
the ordinary.

the kenyan girl left him after a while, and the guy had no choice then
but to rever back
to his family - he had no social network, nor a stable financial
outlook (to buy into a new social network), he did have his born again
church (an avenue to build new social contacts...) but the sacrifices
(eating beef for example) required were too alien for him.
he went back to his family.



Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread Eugen Leitl
On Sun, Aug 05, 2007 at 10:41:34PM +0300, ashok _ wrote:

 The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally
 figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man

Notice the birth rate in Europe. Demographics is hitting us hard, and birth
rate has been going down hereabouts for some 100+ odd years. You definitely do 
not want to do it overnight. 

 anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save
 money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10
 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their
 kids will actually listen to them.

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Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The rising divorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread Radhika, Y.
Parents slaving for their daughter's wedding...which might end in a
divorce!!! someone very wise said: forget about the wedding, it is the
marriage that is more important. We Indians are highly goal focused rather
than process oreinted-I suspect that old fashioned contempt for dating also
has to do with intolerance for ambiguity and low risk tolerance ather than
mere morality. Of course, this is easier to say in hindsight, but as a
divorced woman in the early 90s when it was less
prevalent/fashionable/acceptable to admit one's immaturity or flawed
decision-making, I can truly say that the women who did not meet THE ONE
before they hit 30 were blessed whether they knew it or not. And not just
for financial reasons.

2007/8/5, ashok _ [EMAIL PROTECTED]:

 On 8/5/07, Srini Ramakrishnan  wrote:
 
  The next generation will IMO handle this much better.
 

 The next generation will probably decide to be single. Women will finally
 figure out (just like they have done in europe) that they dont need a man
 anymore. I have a couple of cousins who are slaving like fools to save
 money for their daughters marriage (their daughters are less than 10
 years old now...)... in some misplaced belief that 15 years hence, their
 kids will actually listen to them.




Re: [silk] Rapture

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry
On Sunday 05 Aug 2007 2:49 pm, Charles Haynes wrote:

 Really? Fascinating. Are they really so ready to pigeonhole people
 based on nothing more than their name, or their physical appearance?
 They are *that* simplistic,

Yes they are simplistic and ready to pigeonhole people _IF_ they are aware 
enough to be able to differentiate between non-Hindu and Hindu. There are 
probably humongous numbers of Hindus who cannot tell the difference. I 
actually did a little poll of people whom I thought were largely uneducated - 
and asked them who they were. Very few were able to call themselves Hindu, 
although they did identify themselves as worshippers of Hindu Gods. They 
were, however able to differentiate themselves from Muslims and those who 
pray to Christ. One of the people I polled was only able to describe 
himself and his people as people (janagalu - in Kannada)

 Eh? I don't understand this part. You're saying that people will
 assume, based on name alone, 

Yes- subject to awareness that differences in religion exist. I believe that 
the awareness Christianity and Islam brought to Hindus is that religion too, 
and God/s worshipped can be a basis for differentiation, in addition to 
status, caste, language, sexual color etc which were known methods of 
differentiation in India in the pre-Christian era. (my views)


 Similarly in America, it would be easy for people raised as Hindus to
 raise children outside of traditional Hindu culture if they so
 desired. Would such children be considered Hindu by Indians? What if
 the parents changed their names and the children spoke only colloquial
 American English, complete with California accents?

 Are they Hindu?

Hindus rarely move abroad in isolation. They take at least a wife, or they 
return for a wife. In turn they produce Hindu children. Hindus (and Sikhs, and 
Jains) who move abroad take with them a cultural photograph of life as they 
knew it when they left and take greater pains than the average Hindu in India 
to preserve what they recall as their culture. Their attitudes, social 
mores and fervor remain stuck in a time warp while the culture in India moves 
on. Interviews with grown up children of Indian Americans who are sent to 
India to soak up Indian culture testify to this fact. Girls get sent to India 
with the advice that In India girls wear modest clothes and do not wantonly 
mix with boys. The Indian American girl comes to India expecting that and is 
surprised to find that her parents got it all wrong, and were referring to 30 
years ago.

In my mother's generation it was important for a young lady to learn Carnatic 
classical music or dance. For me, living in India, it is no longer considered 
necessary for a girl of my daughter's generation to do that. However, for my 
brother's  children, born in the US, it has been made necessary for them to 
retain Hindu culture by training girls in classical music and dance. The 
result is that you get to hear of Indian college girls studying engineering, 
while it is the Indian-American girls who are doing their Arangetram. The 
(Arangetram being a kind of formalized first public performance of dance 
indicating that the girl is now a fully trained bharatanatyam dancer.)

 What is the essence of Hinduism? How is it acquired or lost? Is it
 purely based on who you are descended from? Is there a cultural
 element? A religious requirement? If you run through the combinations,
 who is Hindu?

Nobody has answered this question in an uncontroversial way. IOW the last word 
has yet to be written on this. I try to reach some conclusions by saying what 
I think and seeing if that pings someone into responding.

shiv




Re: [silk] Organizing a conference like TED in India

2007-08-05 Thread Kiran Jonnalagadda
I wasn't being flippant when I mentioned Barcamp Bangalore earlier in  
this thread. The event has evolved significantly in its four  
iterations, turning into an incubator of sorts -- we're going to have  
two spin-off events later this year, focusing on e-governance and  
startups, in addition to Barcamp Bangalore 5.


As far as I can tell, there's no other place like Barcamp Bangalore  
in India to test a new idea for an event.



On 02-Aug-07, at 4:18 PM, Mahesh Murthy wrote:


Who would we like to have as speakers? What would set this apart?

There's a Demo-like thing called Proto that happens every 6 months and
another on Innovation that's happening in Blr soon



-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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On Behalf

Of sriram balasubramaniam
Sent: 02 August 2007 15:43
To: silklist@lists.hserus.net
Subject: [silk] Organizing a conference like TED in India

I'm a huge fan of the TED conferences. (www.ted.com)
I've been thinking of an event similar to TED that could be held in  
India. I
contacted Udhay about this, since a guy who collects people is  
probably the

most suited for this endeavor. Here are some thoughts:

The conference lasts for 3 days
All the Silksters meet in India.
We invite 20 to 30 speakers from our networks
Focus on folks from technology, life sciences, arts, music...
Gives speakers and silksters to interact and discuss issues of  
interest

Open only to silksters
Sponsors fund the event, and pony up $$$ for speaker travel and stay

In other words, a closed conference for Silksters. We could think  
of an
invite-only list too, like TED, and charge a nominal fee to cover  
costs.

Udhay felt that this could be a good addition to FOU camp.
Thoughts?

Sriram







Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkers net] Bangalore: The risingdivorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry
On Sunday 05 Aug 2007 11:42 pm, Srini Ramakrishnan wrote:
 We are a transition generation; the husbands want to be like their
 fathers, the wives thankfully don't have to take it like their mothers
 - they are financially free. Stress, lack of time at home, yada yada
 yada is just icing on the cake.

 The next generation will IMO handle this much better.

With respect you represent a very small subset of Indians. If the report is 
accurate, this disease of separation and stress affects an unusually large 
percentage of this subset.

I suspect that this problem will get handled in a typically Indian way, with 
girls or boys who want a stable marriage opting out of marrying partners who 
are seen to be well off but in jobs with a reputation for long hours. 
Increasingly there will be marriages of desperation because there is social 
(family) pressure) to marry and the wealthy boy will marry girl from poor 
family because both families cut corners and ignore obvious 
incompatibilities. But the marriage may last for economic reasons with the 
girl becoming the typical Indian woman who swallows a lot of crap for the 
sake of husband and family.

We might possibly end up with a new stereotype in 25 years - the unmarried, 
divorced wealthy bachelor/spinster creating a new niche for himself or 
herself in Indian society.

Alternatively, Indians may just start asking for more free time and rights, as 
predicted by this Homer cartoon on Youtube

Homer goes to India
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_P_BpGncKQ

shiv




Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkers net] Bangalore: The risingdivorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry


 Homer goes to India
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_P_BpGncKQ

 shiv

Whooops - sorry wrong cartoon
This one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9_iQim8Mtw



Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkersnet] Bangalore: The risingdivorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
On 8/6/2007 8:32 AM, shiv sastry wrote:
 Homer goes to India
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_P_BpGncKQ

 shiv
 
 Whooops - sorry wrong cartoon
 This one
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9_iQim8Mtw
 

Kiss Kiss Bang Bangalore.  yup .. good one that.



[silk] It'd have been cheaper to buy him a couple of dulcolax pills ..

2007-08-05 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/6932216.stm

Indian suspect in banana ordeal

An Indian suspect was forced by police to eat 50 bananas as a laxative,
to retrieve a necklace he was accused of stealing and swallowing.

When the bananas failed to produce the desired effect, police fed Sheikh
Mohsin rice, chicken and local bread.

Finally the necklace, which appeared on an X-ray taken on the suspect,
was excreted and retrieved.

Mr Mohsin will appear in court on Monday in the eastern city of
Calcutta, and could face a prison sentence.

Police say he snatched a gold necklace worth £550 ($1,100) from a woman
as she shopped for toys on Saturday.

When cornered by police, he swallowed the necklace.

The suspect was fed 50 bananas on doctor's advice, after the X-ray dealt
a blow to his denials.

But only after a further meal did he yield the necklace, Calcutta police
deputy commissioner Gyanwant Singh told AFP news agency.

A sweeper was paid to retrieve the exhibit from the toilet. Mr Mohsin
was asked to wash it.



[silk] Brother, can you spare...

2007-08-05 Thread Udhay Shankar N

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2007/07/27/DIME.TMP

'I didn't eat and I didn't sleep'

Coin dealer flies dime worth $1.9 million to NYC

John Feigenbaum flew out of San Jose this week in first class, with 
flip-flops on his feet, a T-shirt on his back and a dime worth $1.9 
million in his pocket.


It was the most expensive dime ever to pass through San Jose. That's 
because it is the most expensive dime in the history of dimes.


All the way across the country I didn't sleep,'' Feigenbaum said. I 
didn't eat and I didn't sleep. You wouldn't, either.''


Feigenbaum is a rare coin dealer, and the dime he was carrying across 
the country, from San Jose to New York, is an 1894-S dime, one of 
only nine known to exist, and one of only 24 known to be coined that 
year in San Francisco.


It was his job to pick up the dime from the seller's vault, in 
Oakland, and deliver the dime to the buyer's vault, in midtown Manhattan.


The person who bought the dime does not want the world to know who he 
is. The person who sold the dime is Oakland businessman Daniel 
Rosenthal, who was unavailable for comment, perhaps because a person 
newly in possession of $1.9 million has got better things to do than 
answer a lot of questions.


But the dime's cross-country trip was the stuff of intrigue, of that 
there is no mistake. The logistics of moving a $1.9 million dime 
across the country turn out to be at least as staggering as the 
notion of paying $1.9 million for a dime.


It was on Monday afternoon that Feigenbaum, a 38-year-old coin dealer 
from Virginia Beach, donned his best grubby clothes to meet the 
seller's representative at an Oakland bank vault. Feigenbaum was 
slumming it so as not to attract attention, he said.


There's no reason to dress up in a suit and make a big production,'' 
he said. You don't want to stand out.''


Feigenbaum put the dime, encased in a 3-inch-square block of plastic, 
in his pocket and, accompanied by a security guard, drove in an 
ordinary sedan directly to San Jose airport to catch the red-eye to Newark.


The overnight flight, he said, was the only way to make sure the dime 
would be in New York by the time the buyer's bank opened in the 
morning. People who pay $1.9 million for dimes do not like to be kept 
waiting for them.


Feigenbaum had purchased a coach ticket, to avoid suspicion, but 
found himself upgraded to first class. That was a worry, because 
people in flip-flops, T-shirts and grubby jeans do not regularly ride 
in first class. But it would have been more suspicious to decline a 
free upgrade. So Feigenbaum forced himself to sit in first class, 
where he found himself to be the only passenger in flip-flops.


He was too nervous to sleep, he said. He did not watch the in-flight 
movie, which was Firehouse Dog.'' He turned down a Reuben sandwich 
and sensibly declined all offers of alcoholic beverages.


Shortly after boarding the plane, he transferred the dime from his 
pants pocket to his briefcase.


I was worried that the dime might fall out of my pocket while I was 
sitting down,'' Feigenbaum said.


All across the country, Feigenbaum kept checking to make sure the 
dime was safe by reaching into his briefcase to feel for it. 
Feigenbaum did not actually take the dime out of his briefcase, as it 
is suspicious to stare at dimes.


He does recall fishing around --somewhere over the Rockies, over the 
Midwest, and over the Alleghenies -- for the dime. For the rest of 
the flight, he kept his flip-flopped foot planted on the briefcase 
and his eyes wide open.


At Newark airport, he was met by another security guard in another 
ordinary sedan. The two men drove to Manhattan, arriving an hour 
before the opening of the buyer's bank vault.


The buyer was waiting at the curb for Feigenbaum, however. With an 
hour to kill, the two men went into a nearby Starbucks. Neither man 
dared to take out the dime and look at it. They sipped their 
beverages and stared at their watches.


At 9 a.m., the vault opened. The two men and the guard went inside 
and, for the first time, the buyer got to hold his dime.


The buyer spent about half an hour looking at it, Feigenbaum said, 
which worked out to 15 minutes for heads and 15 minutes for tails. He 
told Feigenbaum he had bought it strictly as an investment and did 
not intend to spend it, as there is no longer anything to buy in New 
York for 10 cents.


Perhaps, though, the dime is again fated to be locked away in a bank 
vault as a penalty for being ugly. The coin is known as a 
Barber-style dime, bearing a ghastly likeness of Madam Liberty on the 
front and a boring wreath of corn and wheat and the words one dime 
on the back.


The $1.9 million dime was produced at the stately Old Mint on Fifth 
Street, next to the doughnut place. It's a long-shuttered stone 
building whose front steps are primarily used these days by homeless 
people on their lunch break. (The building is set to become a museum 
soon, 

Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkers net] Bangalore: The risingdivorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry
On Monday 06 Aug 2007 2:06 am, Radhika, Y. wrote:
 We Indians are highly goal focused rather
 than process oreinted-I suspect that old fashioned contempt for dating also
 has to do with intolerance for ambiguity and low risk tolerance ather than
 mere morality

Control of male and female sexuality is important for the preservation of 
family wealth. When wealth becomes relatively assured, such control of 
sexuality becomes redundant. 

But, as Eugen has pointed out, birth rates have fallen in such societies for 
various reasons. I am guessing that birth rates will fall among the subset of 
Indians who belong to the IT sector but continue to remain high among others.

In other words, the IT sector is likely to become synonymous with long hours, 
high salary, no family - unless something changes.

shiv



Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkers net] Bangalore: The risingdivorce rate in the IT sector

2007-08-05 Thread Udhay Shankar N

shiv sastry wrote [at 09:09 AM 8/6/2007] :

In other words, the IT sector is likely to become synonymous with 
long hours,

high salary, no family - unless something changes.


As the IT worker demographics change (as the typical IT worker 
becomes 30+ instead of 25- like today) the desire for the mythical 
construct called  a life will increase. I'm already seeing this 
happening with an increasing number of people, myself included.


Udhay
--
((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com)) ((www.digeratus.com))




Re: [silk] Fwd: [jivika] Fwd: [indiathinkers net] Bangalore: Therisingdivorce rate in the IT sec tor

2007-08-05 Thread shiv sastry
On Monday 06 Aug 2007 9:15 am, Udhay Shankar N wrote:
 As the IT worker demographics change (as the typical IT worker
 becomes 30+ instead of 25- like today) the desire for the mythical
 construct called  a life will increase.


Absolutely.

One mythical construct that the IT sector started out with was the premise 
of indestructibility and immortality - both of which occur in large doses 
among youth.

With family often guiding career choices, and family support to young IT 
professionals who work long hours, young IT professionals offer everything 
that the Indian family desires. Financial security and elevated status for 
parents, and a high ranking in the marriage market.

But as these people grow older the cares of life kick in. The need for time 
with children, the need to control hypertension, diabetes, and the wearing 
out of the novelty and excitement (and status) of foreign travel.

The solution seems fairly simple. More time off. But more time off makes 
someone else more efficient and cheaper. That someone else is often someone 
younger, unmarried, with family support. 

Culturally Indians, (Hindus in particular) do not have a concept of getting 
even one day off a week. Hindus do not close shops on any day, and do not 
give maidservants a day off, and we (non-shopowning non maidservants) will 
ourselves work all days without a break. Traditional Hindu lifestyles did 
however allow for unscheduled breaks like family functions and festivals. But 
while the IT professional may work weekends, he does not get informal time 
off for a million festivals.

The system must change.

shiv




[silk] Global Warming Alarmists?

2007-08-05 Thread Gautam John
Newsweek Disgrace: 'Global-Warming Deniers: A Well-Funded Machine'
By Noel Sheppard | August 5, 2007 - 13:43 ET

Manmade global warming alarmism took a disgraceful turn for the worse
this weekend when Newsweek published a lengthy cover-story repeatedly
calling skeptics deniers that are funded by oil companies and other
industries with a vested interest in obfuscating the truth.

In fact, the piece several times suggested that publishing articles
skeptical of man's role in climate change is akin to misleading
Americans about the dangers of smoking.

Despicably titled Global-Warming Deniers: A Well-Funded Machine, the
article painted a picture of an evil cabal whose goal is to thwart
science at the detriment of the environment and the benefit of their
wallets.

Worse still, the piece's many authors painted every skeptical
scientific report they referred to as being part of this cabal while
including absolutely no historical temperature data to prove that
today's global temperatures are in any way abnormal.

Maybe most disingenuous, there wasn't one word given to how much money
corporations and entities with a vested interest in advancing the
alarmism are spending, or who they are. Yet, in the very first
paragraph, one of the main participants in this evil cabal was
identified (emphasis added throughout):

As [Sen. Barbara Boxer (D-California)] left a meeting with the
head of the international climate panel, however, a staffer had some
news for her. A conservative think tank long funded by ExxonMobil, she
told Boxer, had offered scientists $10,000 to write articles
undercutting the new [IPCC] report and the computer-based climate
models it is based on. I realized, says Boxer, there was a movement
behind this that just wasn't giving up.

But that was just the beginning:

Since the late 1980s, this well-coordinated, well-funded campaign
by contrarian scientists, free-market think tanks and industry has
created a paralyzing fog of doubt around climate change. Through
advertisements, op-eds, lobbying and media attention, greenhouse
doubters (they hate being called deniers) argued first that the world
is not warming; measurements indicating otherwise are flawed, they
said. Then they claimed that any warming is natural, not caused by
human activities. Now they contend that the looming warming will be
minuscule and harmless. They patterned what they did after the
tobacco industry, says former senator Tim Wirth, who spearheaded
environmental issues as an under secretary of State in the Clinton
administration. Both figured, sow enough doubt, call the science
uncertain and in dispute. That's had a huge impact on both the public
and Congress.

How utterly disgraceful. So, scientists all around the world who have
devoted their lives and their careers to studying and writing about
climate and related issues who don't feel man can or is impacting such
are akin to folks who misled the public about the potential dangers of
cigarette smoking.

How disgusting. Frankly, these journalists should be asked by every
skeptical scientist on the planet for an immediate apology.

Sadly, as one won't likely be forthcoming, these folks were just
getting warmed up with their disgraceful accusations:

As soon as the scientific community began to come together on the
science of climate change, the pushback began, says historian Naomi
Oreskes of the University of California, San Diego. Individual
companies and industry associations-representing petroleum, steel,
autos and utilities, for instance-formed lobbying groups with names
like the Global Climate Coalition and the Information Council on the
Environment. ICE's game plan called for enlisting greenhouse doubters
to reposition global warming as theory rather than fact, and to sow
doubt about climate research just as cigarette makers had about
smoking research.

Disgusting. But it gets worse as the authors then began to personally
attack prominent skeptics:

In what would become a key tactic of the denial machine-think
tanks linking up with like-minded, contrarian researchers-the report
was endorsed in a letter to President George H.W. Bush by MIT
meteorologist Richard Lindzen. Lindzen, whose parents had fled
Hitler's Germany, is described by old friends as the kind of man who,
if you're in the minority, opts to be with you. I thought it was
important to make it clear that the science was at an early and
primitive stage and that there was little basis for consensus and much
reason for skepticism, he told Scientific American magazine. I did
feel a moral obligation.

[...]

Groups that opposed greenhouse curbs ramped up. They settled on
the 'science isn't there' argument because they didn't believe they'd
be able to convince the public to do nothing if climate change were
real, says David Goldston, who served as Republican chief of staff
for the House of Representatives science committee until 2006.
Industry found a friend in Patrick Michaels, a climatologist at the