so the neighbor's wife had come and described the "procedure" of how
the deed was done with the husband to the secretary. And the
Now mind you, this was a purely casual conversation, it did not imply
anything at all, neither from me, nor from her. There were no implicit
or explicit messages here. It was clearly understood from both
sides...
My point with this example is that, this hidden messages business i
have gotten only from indian women not from anybody else. Why is this
so? A conversation like the above, is in my opinion impossible to
make casually with an indian woman....
I agree with you....well, *I* think the reason is, sex is such a
repressed subject and activity in the Indian milieu, that all messages
have to be hidden and sent, and this gives rise, as in all occult
forms of communication, to signals beingmisinterpreted, and sometimes
interpreted where there are none. I find many Indian men and women
very insecure in their sexuality. There is such a mix of prudery and
voyeurism, with the moral tags also being attached (even to this
day)....a simple example which my son in law pointed out....courting
couples never hold hands because they are not married, and married
couples don't hold hands because they are!
Deepa.
On 3/10/07, ashok _ <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> The thing is - even if I enjoy the humour - I
> have to pretend I don't - because apparently that gives out crazy messages
> too.
>
This is very interesting.
because, yesterday, i was visiting a certain office in an official
capacity. I had to wait because there was somebody in with the person
i was to meet.
So i waited, and during that time i had a conversation with the
secretary parked outside. I have met the secretary about twice before
(note: secretary is kenyan and fairly attractive...) I dont know how
we got there, but at some point the conversation turned to the sexual
habits of *her* neighbour... apparently the neighbour's wife had a
problem, in that she insisted on having sex fully clothed, otherwise
she did not feel comfortable.
so the neighbor's wife had come and described the "procedure" of how
the deed was done with the husband to the secretary. And the
secretary now described the procedure to me.
Now mind you, this was a purely casual conversation, it did not imply
anything at all, neither from me, nor from her. There were no implicit
or explicit messages here. It was clearly understood from both
sides...
My point with this example is that, this hidden messages business i
have gotten only from indian women not from anybody else. Why is this
so? A conversation like the above, is in my opinion impossible to
make casually with an indian woman....
