On Mon, Nov 30, 2009 at 5:45 PM, Srini RamaKrishnan <[email protected]>wrote:

> I have some thing in the way of personal experience here, and so I say
> - I agree.
>
> Cheeni
>


The article also does not mention a very major factor...the difficulties
that the children of the repats, born and raised in the US,face when trying
to adjust to a very different set of circumstances, a whole new culture,
that is often perceived as very restrictive, their inabliity to cope with
the huge extended families that were never in the picture in their "home"
country.

Sometimes it is the children's difficulties which determine the parents'
decision to move back. It's happened to several people I know.

I am at ease in the US and in India, and *as of now* the balance tilts in
favour of living in India....wonder what will happen if, God forbid, I lose
my spouse, and find myself completely alone in India....the quality of daily
life, I must say, is marginally better (for me) in the US.

Deepa.

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