On Mon, Jun 13, 2011 at 12:29 PM, Shoba Narayan <[email protected]> wrote: >> From: Udhay Shankar N <[email protected]>
>> internal dialogue. What is the acceptable level of trade-off? How does >> one define "acceptable", anyway? >> So, how does everybody else deal with this? > After much soul-searching and profound thinking, I have found that the > only acceptable level of trade-off is what your spouse/significant > other/kids allow you to get away with. Is the relationship reflexive? I.E. is their only acceptable tradeoff what you allow them to get away with? If so, turn the question around - how much is acceptable (by you) for them? If not, why does someone else decide what's acceptable both for you and for them? -- Charles
