On Mon, Oct 24, 2011 at 5:09 PM, Chandrachoodan Gopalakrishnan < [email protected]> wrote: \
> Um, This argument doesn't quite ring true Venkat. > I landed in Bristol with no existing friends circle there. I built one up. > All of us do that: be they work friends, blog friends, silk friends, family > friends, uni friends or whatever. I went to Dubai and did the same thing. > How does it matter which city you chose to live, if you don't take the > effort to make friends? How did you/he make friends when you moved out of > Bangalore/Mumbai to California? You do the same thing when you get back. > I disagree CCG. I lived in Chennai (our second stint there) for 4.5 years. I would invite people over, go to their homes, meet them...but never got to make any close friends....it was not for want of trying. I just did not get to meet the people "right" for us. It does happen, it' happened to me. So...let's not have the "only youreelf to blame" record playing, please!
