Hey Dianne,

Thanks for the vote of confidence in me.  But, when someone sends me an 
unprovoked email telling me I'm an asshole and a troll, well let's just say I'd 
rather have no contact with her.  However, I promise to not let her narcissism 
interfere with my participation in this forum.  Frankly I'm surprised she's 
still allowed to be a part of what was once a wonderful group of people.  From 
now on I'll just grit my teeth...  I learned a long time ago when to shut up... 
 I just wish she would learn to STFU.   

Ruth
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Dianne France 
  To: silver-list 
  Sent: Monday, April 27, 2009 2:36 PM
  Subject: RE: CS>Invitation


  Ruth & Indi
   
  I have not followed all of the threads but believe both of you to be valuable 
to this list.  I don't always agree with points of view but have learned a few 
things from both of you.  I hope you can see your way clear to let things 
settle.
   
  Dianne  
   

   

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  From: [email protected]
  To: [email protected]
  Subject: Re: CS>Invitation
  Date: Mon, 27 Apr 2009 10:36:49 -0500


  The weekend is over and I'm back, but nowhere near finished wading through 
all the posts from the weekend.  I wonder if it were actually counted up who 
would have the most posts.  Maybe I should say the most snide, rude, 
smart-assed posts that dare to disagree with your POV and 'in my opinion' 
hiding tactic and all those 'last words on this thread' and the syrupy little 
smiley's and the failure to accept responsibility for what gets started when 
'you' tire of the topic and all the negativity regarding others' POV's not to 
mention the unsolicited nasty little personal email you send when you are 
called out for your childish peevishness/pettiness.  I for one do not care to 
personally exchange anything with you and surely not emails.  This list has 
seriously gone downhill with your arrival.

  Ruth

    ----- Original Message ----- 
    From: Indi 
    To: [email protected] 
    Sent: Monday, April 27, 2009 10:21 AM
    Subject: CS>Invitation


    Okay, for those of you who simply cannot bear to stop blaming me 
    for all your bad feelings, I implore you to please stop spamming the list
    with how much you hate me for being a person with an opinion which differs
    from yours. Instead, kindly send your hate mail or arguments to me directly.
    I welcome discussion and debate, but I am sick to death of being wrongly
    blamed for this idiotic snit which has arisen from the childish inability of
    a few list members to tolerate any opinion which differs from their own.
    For the last freaking time, all I did was share a story and answer a
    question, and ever since then, the list has been dominated by a few people
    having a tantrum because they didn't like the answer.
    Please grow up and stop the whining!
    I am not the cause of this nonsense, I have been the victim of it.

    Sincerely, 
    -- 
    indi