Ruth,
I wasn't directing my comments at you specifically. And I understand that a lot 
of people had their feelings hurt. And you have a right to feel hurt. There 
were a number of mean things said over the past gew days. 
I have had a few instances where someone had responded to me in what I felt was 
an insulting and demeaning manner (as well as being technically incorrect) and 
I responded with a somewhat angry response. I was sorry the moment I sent it. 
Fortunately a few times Mike caught and held my post. (Thanks Mike) 
But if I had proven my point at the expense of another's face I would have 
found no pleasure in it. In fact I would have felt ashamed. 
I would rather back  off and appear wrong than prove myself right that way. I 
hope we all strive for that. 
 -  Steve N