Hi Janet...my daughter is now 47 and just begining the perimenopause...I am 
66 and about 4 years into full menopause.
We have such different body types...she has her fathers genes in abundance 
for sure.

She has about 10 pounds that wont go away  and I think that has something to 
do with nature and balancing the Estrogen Levels ...as they begin to 
dwindle...the extra weight holds some Estrogen and that is probably helpful to 
the 
heart.
 
I would like to see more women happy with the fullness of their crone year 
figures.
I love the "Dove" commercials...all women  all sizes.
Women are begining to accept that curves are a good thing:)
After 50...unless one is a really tiny person...the body will probably hold 
onto an extra 20 pounds or so...and that is not so bad.
 
Strangely enough   people still think that we put weight on because of large 
amounts of calories.
Not many people eat the way hugely obese people do...they have a 
sickness...it begins in the brain...and without major help...they are doomed to 
their 
prisons of flesh.
 
I spent most of my life hungry...as a child because there was very little 
food to be had and then after the birth of my first child at 18..my husband 
insisted that I "diet" to regain my prebirth weight.
I did...and I destroyed my metabolism.
In the 60's doctors were handing out the Rainbows like candy  and thats what 
I did...amphetamines.
So , in effect, I have "dieted" my way into obesity.

It is only in the past 4 years or so that I am trying to regulate my weight 
by eating properly.
If I could add exercise...simple daily walks to the agenda...I think I would 
have the weight problem licked...but my knees and ankles are not able to do 
the job so I am twisting and turning to find ways to get back to a healthier 
weight.
I will keep trying till I do it   or till I die. This time it is for me..not 
for the approval of my family.

What I am saying is...be happy with yourself.
We talked about food combining and types of diets etc  here.
Someone mentioned the book  "Eat Right 4 Your Type"..a great place to start.
Someone who is type O would do well to look into the Hellers books on 
Carbohydrate Addiction...and of course...buying Organically whenever 
possible...lots 
of fresh garlic...virgin olive oil...raw almonds...those kinds of things will 
help to make a healthier you.(and Me) 
 
Have you read any of Dr. Christiane Northrups books?
Her book on Menopause is excellent...every woman should have it.
 
The ball is really in our court as most doctors know next to nothing about 
the way a womans body works...so we have to figure it out for ourselves.  V.



In a message dated 4/13/2007 12:04:44 PM Eastern Daylight Time, 
[email protected] writes:

There is some thought that during perimenopause, which can last more 
than ten years, yikes! The body puts on fat to depot the hormones we are 
producing allowing for a slow release. After menopause, supposedly, it 
is much easier to take off the weight. I am just waiting to be period 
free for a year, its been a few months with much fluctuating for over 
five years. Hopefully the weight will come off easily as it used to in 
my younger years. I am 53.

Janet

[email protected] wrote:
> In a message dated 4/6/2007 5:04:00 PM Eastern Daylight Time, 
> [email protected] writes:
> 
> Altho the Carb Addictive diet worked for me years ago...it no longer does.
> I am guessing hormones and menopause...





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