--- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], "yuli" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Shelley Luben mantan aktris porno mengaku bisa keluar dari dunia gelap bernama 'industri pornografi' dan memilih menjadi aktivis melawan ekploitasi seksual terhadap gadis-gadis muda Amerika Hidayatullah.com--Gadis cantik, bertubuh seksi dan mata yang membangkitkan gairah seakan-akan berkata "i want You". Itu kesan yang terlihat di setiap sampul film porno. Tapi, bisa jadi itulah tipuan terbesar sepanjang masa. Inilah kisah dan pengakuan Shelley Luben tentang masa buruk dan seluk beluk industri maksiat itu. Tulisan ini diturunkan sebagai pelajaran bagi kita semua. Terutama para aktivis yang "menurut mata" terhadap dampak industri pornografi. Percayalah, Aku tahu "Aku dulu pernah melakukannya sepanjang waktu dan aku melakukannnya karena. Nafsuku akan kekuasaan dan kecintaanku kepada uang. Aku tidak pernah menyukai seks. Bahkan Aku tidak menginginkannya dan faktanya aku lebih banyak minum Jack Daniels (jenis minuman alkohol import original. Sejenis Jhonny Walke yang juga masuk Indonesia, red) daripada bersama para pria yang dibayar seperti aku untuk "berpura-pura" di film. Ya Benar tidak ada diantara kami –gadis-gadis blonde yang menyukai being in porn movie. Kami benci disentuh oleh orang asing yang sama sekali tidak peduli dengan kami. Kami benci dianggap rendah oleh mereka, laki-laki dengan keringat dan bau busuknya. Beberapa diantara kami sering sampai muntah di kamar mandi saat break syuting. Sedangkan yang lainnya berusaha menenangkan diri dengan merokok Marlboro tanpa henti. Tapi porn industry (industri pornografi) ingin agar kamu selalu berpikir kalau kami artis porno sangat menyukai seks. Mereka ingin kamu percaya bahwa kami senang dilecehkan seperti binatang dalam berbagai jenis adegan di film. Kenyataannya, artis porno sering tidak tahu apa saja adegan yang akan mereka lakukan saat pertama kali datang ke lokasi syuting dan kami hanya diberi dua pilihan oleh produser: "Lakukan atau Pulang Tanpa Bayaran. Kerja atau tidak akan bisa kerja lagi." Iya memang benar kami punya pilihan. Beberapa diantara kami memang sangat memerlukan uang. Tapi kami dimanipulasi, dipaksa bahkan diancam. Beberapa diantara kami terjangkit AIDS karena profesi ini. Atau tertular herpes dan berbagai macam penyakit kelamin lain yang sukar disembuhkan. Salah seorang artis film porno setelah syuting dengan menahan sakit sepanjang hari setelah sampai dirumah menembak kepalanya dengan pistol. Kebanyakan dari artis porno mungkin berasal dari keluarga yang berantakan dan pernah mengalami pelecehan seksual dan perkosaan dari keluarga atau tetangganya sendiri. Saat kami kecil kami hanya ingin bermain dengan boneka, bukan mendapatkan trauma saat seorang laki-laki dewasa berada diatas tubuh kami. Jadi sejak kecil kami belajar bahwa seks bisa membuat kami berharga. Dan dengan semua pengalaman mengerikan itu kami menipu kalian di depan kamera padahal sebenarnya kami membenci di setiap menitnya. Karena trauma itu kebanyakan artis porno hidupnya tergantung kepada alkohol dan narkotika. Dan hidup kami juga selalu diliputi ketakutan akan terjangkit HIV atau penyakit kelamin lainnya seperti; Herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, dll. setiap hari menghantui kami. Menurut catatan Shelley dalam situs web nya. Sebelas bintang pornografi pornografi mati akibat HIV, bunuh diri, pembunuhan dan obat pada tahun 2007. Antara 2003 dan 2005, 976 orang pemain dilaporkan dengan 1.153 hasil positif STD. 66% dari pemain pornografi terkena Herpes, penyakit yang tak dapat disembuhkan. Memang setiap bulan kami diperiksa tapi kamu tahu, kalau hal tersebut tidak akan bisa mencegah kami tertular penyakit-penyakit mematikan itu. Selain penyakit, adegan syuting tidak kalah mengerikannya, banyak dari kami mengalami luka sobek atau luka pada organ tubuh bagian dalam kami. Diluar syuting kami sering berharap bisa menjalani hidup yang normal. Tapi sangat sulit menjalin hubungan yang normal dengan laki-laki `biasa', maka dari itu kebanyakan dari kami menikah dengan sutradara film porno atau menjalani hidup sebagai lesbian. Buat aku, momen yang tidak akan terlupakan adalah ketika tanpa sengaja anak perempuanku melihat ibunya yang telanjang sedang berciuman dengan gadis lain. Anakku pasti akan terus mengingatnya juga. Pada hari yang lain kami bisa berubah seperti zombie dengan botol bir di tangan kanan dan gelas wisky di tangan kiri. Kami tidak suka bersih-bersih jadi sering kali kami harus menyewa pembantu untuk membersihkan kotoran kami. Selain itu artis porno benci memasak sendiri. Biasanya kami memesan makanan yang kemudian kami muntahkan lagi karena kebanyakan dari kami menderita bulimia, semacam gejala lapar yang tidak pernah terpuaskan. Bagi artis porno yang memiliki anak, kami adalah ibu yang paling buruk. Kami menjerit dan bahkan memukul anak kami tanpa alasan. Seringkali saat kami begitu mabuknya sampai-sampai anak kami yang berumur 4 tahun yang menyeret kami dari lantai. Dan ketika ada tamu (kebanyakan karena alasan seks) kami harus mengunci anak kami terlebih dulu dikamar dan menyuruh mereka untuk diam. Kalau aku biasa membekali anak gadisku dengan pager dan kusuruh dia menungguku di taman sampai aku selesai dengan tamuku." Semua Tipuan... "Kalau kamu bisa melihat lebih dalam kehidupan artis film porno mungkin kamu akan kehilangan minat menonton film porno. Kenyataan sebenarnya kami artis film porno ingin mengakhiri semua rasa malu ini dan semua trauma dalam hidup kami. Tapi sayangnya kami tidak bisa melakukannya sendiri. Kami berharap kalian kaum pria membantu kami, memperjuangkan kebebasan dan kehormatan kami. Kami ingin kalian memeluk kami saat kami menghapus air mata dan menyembuhkan luka di hati kami. Kami berharap kalian mau berdoa untuk kami dan semoga Tuhan akan mendengar dan mengampuni semua kesalahan kami di masa lalu. Industri film porno tidak lebih dari "seks palsu" dan "tipuan kamera". Percayalah…….! [Kiriman Abidin MA diambil dari situs http://www.shelleylubben.com. Tulisan ini didedikasikan oleh Shelley untuk semua aktris pornografi yang terjangkit HIV, meninggal akibat overdosis atau bunuh diri/www.hidayatullah.com]http://hidayatullah.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=7633:surat-dari-bekas-artis-porno-&catid=74:cermin&Itemid=72 --- End forwarded message --- http://www.shelleylubben.com/index.php?truth=porn The Truth about Pornography Porn kills. Eleven porn stars died from HIV, suicide, homicide and drug related deaths in 2007. Four more died from other causes. HIV - Tom Howard - 2/27/07 and Joe Romero - 10/30/07 DRUGS - Haley Paige - 8/22/07, Chico Wang - 9/29/07, Danny Dukes - 12/30/07, Anna Nicole Smith - 2/8/07, Danny Roddick - 9/13/07, Brett Mycles - 2/25/07 SUICIDE - Kent North - 7/4/07 HOMICIDE - Vanessa Freeman murdered- 1/9/07, Zoey Zane murdered 11/24/07. OTHER - Cody Foster - 1/07, Lori Michaels - 5/07, Haus Weston - 11/07, Lynden Thomas - 2/07 Porn Stars who died in 2007 below. Run your mouse over their pictures to read causes of death. 66% of porn performers have Herpes, 12-28% have other STDS. http://www.courttv.com/talk/chat_transcripts/2001/0723mitchell.html 26 porn performers have committed suicide since 1990. http://www.shelleylubben.com/articles/Suicide_deaths.pdf 45 porn performers have died from drug overdose since 1990. http://www.shelleylubben.com/articles/PIFDrug_Related.pdf Out of about 90 HIV positive porn performers, about 25 are living. http://www.indopedia.org/List_of_HIV-positive_individuals.html Of approximately 1500 people tested between January 2003 and March 2005, approximately 8.4 percent had at least one disease. Nearly 48.1 percent tested positive for Chlamydia, and 23.6 percent for gonorrhea. During this period, approximately 976 individuals were reported with 1153 positive test results. Males comprised 33%, females 67%, whites 13%, African Americans 6.6%, Hispanics 2.4%, unknown race/ethnicity 76.6% and 40% were between 20 and 24 years of age. Of the 1153 positive test results 722 (62.6 %) were Chlamydia, 355 (30.8 %) were gonorrhea and 126 (10.9 %) were Chlamydia and gonorrhea co-infections. http://www.parthen-impact.com/ Porn is a lie and needs to be exposed. Former porn actress Shelley Lubben and former stripper Daphne Khoury testify at California State Capitol exposing the illegal activities of the porn industry: Pornography is big business. It is estimated that there are 4.2 million porn Web sites — 12 percent of the total amount of sites — allowing access to 72 million worldwide visitors monthly. One-quarter of total daily search engine requests, or 68 million, are for pornographic material, where 40 million Americans are regular visitors. Porn is the number one mental health issue in America. Men are losing their families and jobs. Wives are totally devastated their husbands are addicted to porn. Teenagers are learning sexuality from porn and practicing hardcore sex acts on each other. Porn stars are addicted to drugs and infected with sexually transmitted diseases. In 2007, there were ten deaths among porn industry workers directly related to AIDS, suicide, prostitution and drugs. 66% of porn stars are infected with Herpes although some porn stars blatantly admit it's more like 90%. Other porn stars admit that 90% of porn performers use drugs. Click here to read the very words of porn stars admitting to STDs, Drugs and more. ATTENTION ADULT FILM INDUSTRY WORKERS: Please read vital information for workers and employers in the adult film industry here. Know your rights and protect your life! Porn is Not Glamorous and destroys lives. Excerpt from Shelley's upcoming book: Many believe the widespread fairytale that women enjoy making porn movies but the truth is there are no happy endings for the women of porn. Women do NOT enjoy making porn movies and a closer behind-the-scenes look will show you several reasons why. In the world of hardcore sex, an average day on the set for a porn actress is a long and tedious process. Women are told to come in around 8 am for makeup but it's only to make sure porn actresses arrive on time to work. Porn stars have a nasty habit of arriving late because they're often hung over from drugs or alcohol from the night before. After make up, porn actresses usually wait around long hours until it's their turn to do their scene. Some scenes take an hour and some take several hours to film. It really depends if the male actor in the first scene could "perform" or not. It also depends if female actresses have to stop the clock because they can't handle the pain of a hardcore sex scene. While waiting around, jaded porn performers usually end up in the rest rooms with bottles of alcohol and lines of speed or outside in their cars for a heroin fix or gathered in the back yard with other actors to smoke marijuana. To add to the mind-numbing process, women are never able to experience sexual pleasure because of the continuous cutting during sex scenes. In the background the director constantly yells, "cut" and the flow of action is interrupted in order to get a better shot, adjust lighting or to wipe up bodily fluids. Repeatedly pornographers stop scenes and ask actors to "freeze" in position during very hardcore sex acts, which causes great physical and emotional pain for porn actresses. I speak from personal experience when I say to be in the middle of a hardcore sex act with several actors at the same time and told to "freeze" in position for several minutes while lighting or cameras are adjusted is extremely painful and degrading. It's also very humiliating when scenes are stopped in order to wipe up bodily fluids such as semen, feces and blood. Despite the fact women do not enjoy making porn movies, they continue to lie to their fans and proudly insist they enjoy making porn movies. Of course they do. They get paid hundreds and thousands of dollars to lie because this is their occupation. Porn stars are paid professional liars who know how to "act" and they do it well. In fact, because porn stars spend a great deal time in front of the camera and never step out of character, they usually have greater acting abilities than mainstream Hollywood actors. I used to brag endlessly to fans and pornographers about my extreme "Italian" sex drive and how I loved making porn movies. I would go on and on about how I needed more and more to fulfill my insatiable appetite. I lied 100% of the time to 100% of the people. Lying is the native language of porn stars because they can't afford to tell you the truth. Not only would it ruin the fantasy for their fans but more importantly, it would ruin the amount of their paychecks. Don't believe porn actresses when they proudly proclaim they enjoy making porn movies. They're ACTING. Tired of the lie? Please email [EMAIL PROTECTED] if you want help out of porn. Are you contributing to the abuse and destruction of women and men in the porn industry? Get help for porn addiction here. Pornography Statistics: According to comScore Media Metrix, there were 63.4 million unique visitors to adult websites in December of 2005, reaching 37.2% of the Internet audience. According to the Florida Family Association, PornCrawler, their specialized software program, identified 20 U.S. companies that accounted for more than 70 percent of 297 million porn links on the Internet. By the end of 2004, there were 420 million pages of pornography, and it is believed that the majority of these websites are owned by less than 50 companies (LaRue, Jan. "Obscenity and the First Amendment." Summit on Pornography. Rayburn House Office Building. Room 2322. May 19, 2005). The Internet pornography industry generates $12 billion dollars in annual revenue, larger than the combined annual revenues of ABC, NBC, and CBS (Family Safe Media, January 10, 2006, <http://www.familysafemedia.com/pornography_statistics.html>). The average age of first exposure to Internet porn is 11 (Family Safe Media, December 15, 2005, <http://www.familysafemedia.com/pornography_statistics.html>). The largest group of viewers of Internet porn is children between ages 12 and 17 (Family Safe Media, December 15, 2005, <http://www.familysafemedia.com/pornography_statistics.html>). According to comScore Media Metrix, 71.9 million people visited adult sites in August 2005, reaching 42.7 percent of the Internet audience. According to comScore Media Metrix, Internet users viewed over 15 billion pages of adult content in August 2005. According to comScore Media Metrix, Internet users spent an average of 14.6 minutes per day viewing adult content online. More than 32 million unique individuals visited a porn site in Sept. of 2003. Nearly 22.8 million of them were male (71 percent), while 9.4 million adult site visitors were female (29 percent) (Nielsen/Net Ratings, Sept. 2003). N2H2's database contained 14 million identified pages of pornography in 1998, so the growth to 260 million represents an almost 20-fold increase in just five years (N2H2, 9/23/03). The cybersex industry generates approximately $1 billion annually and is expected to grow to $5-7 billion over the next 5 years, barring unforeseen change (National Research Council Report, 2002). The total porn industry - estimates from $4 billion to $10 billion (National Research Council Report, 2002). Porn is not glamorous. Get the facts. Get help. More Links to Pornography Statistics: Best Pornography Statistics on the Web Blazing Grace Porn Statistics Recent Statistics on Internet Dangers References: http://www.nytimes.com/2001/05/20/magazine/20PORN.html?pagewanted=7 http://www.signonsandiego.com/news/metro/20041018-9999-lz1n18adult.html http://www.nationalcoalition.org/stat.asp This site is dedicated to all porn actors who caught HIV, died from drug overdose and committed suicide. Their voices will be heard now.
