Ex. 1 I don't think the ovation was because he cheated on his wife. It was because,
like Huggy said, "They are kids and they think of him as a basketball player."
Now I can fully understand why having Kobe even appear on that show after
what had just happened and him getting a standing "O" would make you
sick.... It does me too, but for me it is because Kobe is a role model and he
did something very "unrolemodel like."
Ex. 2 I think the blame gets thrown around by everyone depending on who you
talk to... I see your point, but consider this one.
Would a wife that continually belittles her husband and doesn't even care to
have sex with him have *any* accountabillity in the affair?
Do women that, for what ever reason, "want what they can't have" and go after
another woman's husband have *anything* do with the affair?
OR.... when a man cheats he is the sole guilty party because the actions of
women do not matter and the man is the only one who can be assigned guilt?
On Thursday, September 25, 2003, at 11:46 AM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
In a message dated 9/25/2003 6:36:57 AM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
>1how the media and most people glamorize unmoralistic men who cheat on
>their wives
I don't think that they do.� I guess I would need some convincing of
that.
example 1��� kobe bryant�� at an award show after he admitted to adultery� he got a standing ovation.� the media is trying to crucify the victim.
example 2�� in almost every case of adultery with the husband being the cheater� who gets the blame?� the other woman�� she had to have seduced him etc.
i think it all ties in to the fact that everyone has to shift responsibility to other people
i was watching big brother 4 last night and the jury got to see the final twos comments about them which were all nasty and horrible. when they asked these girls about that they replied they were just mad because they were jealous and they shifted the blame back on them________________________________
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