> On Sep 23, 2015, at 12:38 PM, Kurt Zeilenga <[email protected]> wrote: > > >> On Sep 23, 2015, at 10:19 AM, Dave Cridland <[email protected] >> <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote: >> >> Oh, hmmm - is that saying you'd like both, but <private/> should be outbound >> only? > > yes, because one specifically telling my server how I want it to handle > stanzas I sent, the other is providing a hint to whatever entities might > handle the stanza.
also my request to tell my server not to carbon my messages to my other clients is private to me and my server. private because I might want to disclose that I’m carbon’ing to my communication partners. and if I’d to hint that they not copy, I’d add that too. — Kurt
