One of the reasons I'm thankful for facebook's existance, is that it provides a 
glimpse at whatever Jim Wright is ranting about this time. 

Happy Gobbletov, everyone. 

Tuesday, November 26 at 3:04pm · Edited
As usual, I’ve got a bunch of friend requests that I’m delinquent on 
processing. 

Sorry about that. I’ll get on it right away. Or possibly later. Maybe tomorrow. 
OK, eventually.

By now, you’re all (or Y’all for the Southern Folk) are likely familiar with my 
basic friending policy, which can be summed up as: I check you out, and a) 
you’re a jerk: then you get to die friendless and alone in a ditch alongside 
the information superhighway, or b) Not a jerk: Welcome aboard. Mind the white 
cat, he smells weird and he bites, or c) Can’t determine jerk status: You’re 
banished to Social Media Limbo unless you make an effort to message me 
otherwise. 

What you’re all likely less familiar with is my related Unfriending policy, or 
as I call it: The Steel-Toed Boot of High Dudgeon, Woeful Sorrow, Shameful 
Banishment, and Die, Die, Die.

As I’ve said, I try to weed out the problems up front in the friending process. 
Unfortunately a few un-housebroken types do manage to slip past the gate and 
get into the party, where they usually proceed to claw at the furniture, bark 
furiously at the guests, and crap on the carpet – at which point I have to 
apply The Boot to their backsides. 

Here’s what leads to unfriending: You seemed like an okay person at first, but 
over time it’s become apparent that you’re a shameless practitioner of High 
Assholery. 

Want to stick around? Don’t do that.

Seems simple enough, right? 

Sure, but what exactly constitutes felony assholery? 

- Anal Leakage: Probably the quickest way to get booted is by engaging in 
verbal diarrhea. I can only take so much gibberish before I start twitching. 
Interaction with these people is the conversational equivalent of a pinball 
machine: flashing lights, frenetic noise, and random motion. They habitually 
barge into conversations sideways, while in the middle of a thought based on 
something they were randomly thinking about that has NOTHING whatsoever to do 
with the topic at hand and then they just expect me to figure out what they’re 
on about. I post, “Hey, check out this picture of my cat attacking the mailman 
with a chainsaw. Thought you all could use a chuckle – because really nothing 
more amusing than a homicidal house pet maiming a public employee, right? Who 
doesn’t love that? You’re welcome.” And then we’re all having a good time in 
the comments telling funny stories about murderous pets and the random mauling 
of mail carriers when, without warning, Verbal Diarrhea Guy up and soils 
himself in public with “Christmas Elves! Radon! Airplane! Louis and Clarke 
slathered in stripper saliva HAH HAH and what about the Trade Federation’s 
robot embargo of Naboo, how is that NOT totally a Monsanto metaphor?” There’s a 
noticeable pause in the conversation while everybody makes the WTF Face, and 
then this goes one of two ways, a) I ignore him hoping he’ll just shut up and 
take the hint – at which point he predictably misinterprets irritated silence 
for enthusiastic encouragement and advances to the next category of capital 
assholerly (see below), or b) against my better judgment I ask for 
clarification which is the Facebook equivalent of waving mockingly at that one 
scowling chimp on Monkey Island who’s been throwing handfuls of his own 
excrement at the other primates all day and who will eventually be tranq’d by 
the zoo staff in the middle of the night and sold to a lab for medical 
experimentation - and nobody will care.

- Obsessive Compulsive Conversational Disorder: This guy, we all know this guy. 
He SEEMS perfectly normal, until you accidently unleash his pet bugaboo. I post 
something like “Hey, check out this picture of my cat attacking the mailman 
with a chainsaw…” and we’re all having a good time telling funny stories about 
chainsaws and homicidal postal workers when, without warning, this guy suddenly 
becomes the conversational equivalent of a hyperactive incontinent 
golden-retriever leaping up on people and spraying warm yellow puppy urine in 
all directions. “MailMAN? MAN? I’m sorely disappointed that your domesticated 
but independent feline-American 4-footed housemate would continue to perpetuate 
sexual stereotypes by attacking a mailMAN instead of a Gender-Neutral Bi-Pedal 
Postal Delivery Engineer…” And they obsessively continue to comment over and 
over, “I didn’t mean to kill the conversation, sorry, but I just can’t let this 
go. It’s important to take a stand against feline sex bias in the field of old 
fashioned hand delivered paper media…” And then they start emailing you. I once 
made an offhand comment about the Occupy Movement and one of these people made 
more than an hundred comments, each more insane and irrational than the last, 
just on and on and on. I unfriended her. So she spammed my message queue. So I 
blocked her and reported her for harassment (fat lotta good that did, 
Facebook). So she then switched to spamming two of my email accounts. Do you 
know it’s been almost two years, the Occupy Movement is essentially defunct 
having imploded into a ball of apathy and personal hygiene issues, and I STILL 
get daily messages from this insane woman?

- Joeblivious: There’s one of these people in every crowd. I don’t know what 
the equivalent is with women, but with men, it’s the sports guy. Doesn't matter 
what it is. Doesn’t matter what the conversation is about. Doesn’t matter 
what’s happening. It’s always the same with this jackass. “Jesus 
Hannibal-The-Cannibal Christ! Cats have taken up power-tools and are grinding 
people into kittychow! They’ve already slaughtered the mailmen and they’re 
coming for us next! Run! Run for your lives, Everybody!” and there’s this guy, 
totally obvious, “Heeeey, who saw the game last night? How about those 
Porkbellies? Man, when Ironballs Garfailowitz blew out a roller-skate but STILL 
managed to spike the boomerang over the net past the catchers’ racket there in 
that last lap for a double-birdie, EPIC, I just KNEW the porkbellies were going 
to go all the way!” Here on my facebook page, Joeblivious is the politics guy. 
No matter what I post, it’s always got to be tied to politics. “Hey, look, 
here’s a picture of a bunny with a pancake on its head!” and Joeblvious 
responds with “Reminds me of that time Dick Cheney killed all those orphans at 
the church pancake breakfast.” Look, folks, not everything has to be about Dick 
Cheney. As The Freud once famously observed, “Sometimes it’s just a goddamned 
bunny with a pancake on its head!”

- Inviters and crusaders: The staggering number of Facebook foofery I get 
invited to just boggles my mind. And, yeah, okay, maybe I get the part where 
you invited me to some political rally or to go naked hot-tubbing, but for the 
love of Cannibal Flesh Eating Jesus, Folks, why would you keep inviting me to 
your kid’s various activities? Do you really want me showing up at your 
offspring’s fifth grade graduation bar mitzvah rodeo? You really want ME around 
young impressionable children? ME? Really? I use a LOT of foul language, the 
only party stories I tell all involve alcohol and strippers in foreign ports, 
and the only balloon animals I know how to make all end up looking like dicks. 
I question the sanity of ANYBODY who would invite me to their family 
gatherings, including my OWN family. Also, please stop asking me to pledge my 
undying loyalty to whatever cause is popular right now. Frankly, folks, I don’t 
care how many “likes” you get, I’m not going to pledge my immortal soul against 
buying shit on Black Friday. I hate crowds and shopping in general, but if I 
see a good deal on chainsaw-powered cat boomerangs, you can bet your 
Gender-Neutral Postal Delivery Engineer I’ll be right down there at Wal-Mart 
sucker punching your grandma in the kidneys to get the last one. 

I’ve also got issues with people who engage in felony ellipsis abuse (USE A 
PERIOD TO END A SENTENCE GODDAMNIT!!!), however I don’t want to sound like I’m 
obsessing about it (SWEET CANNIBAL JESUS WITH A CHAINSAW, MAKE THE ELLIPSIS 
ABUSE STOP!! MAKE IT STOP!)

But anyway, like I was saying, I’ll get to those friend requests in just a 
minute.

In the meantime, here, have a balloon-animal…

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