I do not agree about the queen thing, but for everything else, you are right. I keep telling her that I don't care about the random mistakes, so there is no need for her preoccupation, it's the systematic ones that bother me . . .
----- Original Message ----- From: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > As followers we love to dance with GENTLEmen that are as gentle as they > can possibly be. > What is encouraging for a follower? It is to feel the confidence that the > gentle > generous experienced leader conveys to her. The most gentle of leaders > make the > follower relax. > The most gentle of leaders will give the follower the feeling that she is > a queen. Una reina. > Does a queen have to bother about a mistake? The generous leader will tell > her with a gentle smile: > it is all in the leader's responsibilty. > What is the core of anticipation? It is a follower that tries to meet the > expectation of the > leader. > This is very common for beginners but not only for beginners. > Followers are very sensitive to the feelings conveyed. A follower can > sense your impatience, your > horror of her anticipation. A sensitive follower will sense you > questioning her talent. > And the result will be worse. How can you expect a follower to relax when > she has > sensed she does not have the leaders' confidence and she cannot count on > his gentle generosity? > > It might take time for a follower to come to understand she is not there > to meet the expectation of an impatient leader ;) > But to enjoy dancing. _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
