I thought this was so great I thought it needed to be emphasized.
Anna wrote (paraphrased):
Followers feel the confidence that the gentle, generous, experienced leader
conveys to her.
The most gentle of leaders make the follower relax.
The core of anticipation: a follower that tries to meet the expectation of the
leader.
Followers are very sensitive to the feelings conveyed. A follower can sense
your impatience, your
horror of her anticipation.
A sensitive follower will sense you questioning her talent. And the result will
be worse. How can you expect a follower to relax when she has sensed she does
not have the leaders' confidence and she cannot count on his gentle generosity?
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Excellent, Anna. Thank you for the clarity.
J
TangoMoments.com
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