>> "Would you like to lead or follow?" > A perfectly reasonable question by the woman.
It is a perfectly reasonable question by a /man/. > A man who never learns to follow never learns the difference between > good leading and bad leading. > > There is no rule in Argentine Tango that the man has to be the leader? > > You will not get any respect because you THINK you are a leader. > In my opinion, you will get great respect when you learn to lead > WELL, and can also follow. That seems to miss the point. Man Following doesn't equal Man Following Woman. Man and woman alike learn from the good lead of a man. But to attribute this to the following, and hence to assume this works when the leader is instead a woman pretending to be a man, is to misunderstand. -- Chris _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list [email protected] http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l
